Simp spotted.

A woman is biting you and you are coming to Twitter to cry.

Simps will tolerate anything just to please and keep a woman.

See the fool saying he loves her and can't leave her.

Hopefully she will bite your carotid artery and you will bleed to death and rid the world of one simp.

Simp spotted.

A man who isn't in charge of his wife is a simp, period. Imagine a grown man with a penis coming to Nairaland to ask if he should report his wife to the police.

This is why I always tell men to train their women to fear and respect them, the way you'd train a kid or a dog.

A woman who fears and respects you will never do anything that will annoy you, let alone something that will make you react the way you are doing. If your wife respects you she won't act annoyingly jealous like she does, because she knows you aren't okay with it.

I'm not a supporter of marriage because it's hard to get out of, especially when you already have kids. I'd have advised this simp to dump this woman, but he is already married to her.

Hey simp, you've fuçked up already. A woman who has lost respect for you will find it hard to respect you unless you withdraw your attention when she messes up and condition her using this as punishment. No need for physical abuse. But as a married man how will you leave her and ignore her calls and texts for days and make her crave your attention when you sleep in the same room with her everyday?

Your case is a lost one.

It's not mysogyny. It's just that most of the posts from women are lies that don't bear any similarity to reality.

When making comments on social media, women tend to make logical statements. Statements like: "I want a man that will love me and treat me with respect and care." This is a perfectly rational statement. I mean, who doesn't want to be cared for right? But reality has proven time and time again that women despise such men but get addicted to the men that treat them in the opposite way.

Like I've said before, women are cursed with a desire for things that hurt them and a hatred for things that are good for them.

So when a woman makes a perfectly rational comment about her wants and needs, which are the opposite of what her behavior in the real world indicates, men who have experienced female behavior in the real world know that she is talking rubbish and then don't like her post.

The problem is that women are addicted to uncertainty and they are obsessed with men that don't want to commit to them. When a woman isn't sure of your love for her, she tries all she can to get you to love her. And when she is certain you love her and want to commit, she subconsciously begins to despise you.

As a man, when you understand the psychology of women, at first you will feel liberated, but then you will begin to feel pity for these women. Imagine liking things that are bad for you and hating things that are good for you. This is the natural predicament of women.

Normally you'd think that women want men that are willing to be committed to them, but the opposite is the case. When you willingly offer your unconditional love and commitment to a woman she will begin to lose attraction for you, and subconsciously despise you because she is a flawed creature with so many insecurities and can't even love her own self. When she knows you love her, she'll think less of you because in her mind only a lesser person can love her. It sounds counterintuitive but it's the truth. It blew my mind when I realized it.

The men women want are those that don't want to commit to them. It's almost as if the chase for that commitment is like a drug to them and they need it. The more a man treats a woman like a sex object without commiting to her, the more she becomes attracted to him.

But nature created a loophole to all this: Aging. Women when they reach their late 20s and 30s they realize that even though they are addicted to these men that don't want to commit to them, they have to find someone to marry because age isn't on their side. That's when they find the men who offer their commitment and love for free and they marry them.. but, they engage in extramarital affairs with these other men and in most cases have kids for them.

Such is life folks.

A man who is in charge of his woman doesn't need to tell her what to do and what not to do. She will know when not to cross a line that the man won't tolerate.

Women are just like children and men are like fathers. It's a man's choice to be a strict father that his children will fear and respect, or a lenient father that his children will not fear and respect. Same is applicable to a man and his dog.

As a man you condition your wife by punishing her when she does wrong, and you punish her by withdrawing your attention. Withdrawing attention works better than any form of punishment because your attention is what women crave the most. You can scold her or go phsycial once in a while if need be, but trust me, witholding attention works best. Just ignore her for few days until she comes begging for your attention and apologizes for her wrong. Women know when they've done something their partner won't like. This method of conditioning guarantees that she'll never repeat that wrong.

So to your question. A woman that's been trained to respect and fear her man will never act any role that she knows her man won't be comfortable with. The man doesn't need to tell her.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Truth be told this mindset is very sick.Wherever you got it from it won't help you in the long run.I don't have time to go deeper and argue with you but then not all women are the same so don't think this sick mindset can apply to someone like me it cannot like cococandy said sensible girls will leave such men "with the speed of light" and she is not lying.This is very sick don't go about misleading men and teaching them nonsense like as if you know more about women than women themselves this is not in anyway generally true and you know nothing about women don't mislead people

This isn't a mindset, it's fact and I got it from experience and from studying narcissistic abuse.

Women don't know shit about themselves. They are just creatures that act on biological impulses. It's like asking a lion to explain why it chases antelopes and bites them at their necks in order to kill them. A lion operates on biological impulse, so do women.

Google the term: Trauma bonding. Women by and large become addicted to men who abuse them the same way people get addicted to harmful drugs. Abusing women emotionally keeps them hooked to you. Yes it sounds immoral and evil, but it works. And I'll go with what works.

cigwe:
Please how do I become harsh person
As in people make jest of me because am too gentle
someone should recommend me a book to read to become that bad person they prefer me to be

Start with the book: "No more Mr nice guy" by Robert Glover.

Abundance mindset is the number one weapon in a man's arsenal if he is to navigate this warzone of male-female relationships. And it is indeed a warzone but sadly, nature only equips women for the war. Men have to acquire their weaponry through experience or learning, while women are naturally manipulators and button pushers.

With an abundance mindset a man will not waste his valuable resources of time, commitment and money on women just for sex.

With an abundance mindset you know that not every girl will allow you fuçk her, but there will be many that will and many that have. So if after making your motive known to a girl, which you should do early on, and she begins to form and expects you to pay for pussy, pledge commitment or shower her with love and all the romantic nonsense, you leave the bitçh and find some other pussy to smash. This singular act of not giving a fuçk about these foolish expectations and moving on to another pussy, actually makes her pussy wet for you.

But only high value men have abundance mentality. To be a high value man you need to be in good physical shape, dress good, maintain frame, be confident and give off a sexual vibe. High value men don't invest in women. They don't pay for pussy and they don't commit to one woman.

I actually thought you were trolling but I checked your profile and realized you weren't.

Well, guess what? This girl will not want to have anything to do with you because if you are acting this way online, I'm sure you'll won't have the frame or confidence to actually engage her in a conversation in real life. What's worse is that you will want to please her and do her bidding at any cost

Funny enough this same girl is posting heart emojis memes paying compliments on the page of an attractive dude who looks well put together, and she is constantly being ignored by him.

What you simps don't understand is that women think hierarchically. They view life as a pyramid and they only pick men from the pool at the top of the pyramid. As a guy all you need to do to get the best women, like the type you are salivating over is to reach the top of the pyramid, and the only way to do that is to work on yourself. Improve yourself physically, mentally, financially and socially an you'll find yourself edging closer to the top.

But the funny thing is that when you are at the top and getting women becomes easy, you see women for what they are: sentient flesh with holes for your pleasure, and you'll stop taking them seriously.

There is a very high probability that she isn't a virgin. Some girls have standards for men that they allow to have sex with them. Probably in your case you have not attained that standard yet.

This girl you claim is a virgin is probably being fuçked by a guy that meets her standard.

Trust women at your own peril. There was a guy here on Nairaland that claimed his girlfriend is a virgin. She always refused him sex everytime he tried to make a move claiming to not be ready. This happened for months. Some bad guy on Nairaland made a bet that he'd fuçk this girl in less than two weeks, that the guy should just give him the girlfriend's number. Guess what? The bad guy fuçked this so called virgin in less than two weeks and what's worse is that she wasn't even a virgin when he fuçked her. The girl was a pro in bed. Lying and being manipulative is second nature to women.

Leave that lying slut and find someone else. This is a win win situation for you because you will stop wasting your time with a girl that doesn't want you to fuçk her, and by letting her know you aren't interested in just being her smooch and kiss buddy and walking away, you'd look more attractive to her and then she might even allow you fuçk her.

Tell her you want your dick in her pussy. If she refuses, you leave her. There are too many fishes in the pond. Sex is cheap these days.

cococandy:
Toxic, sensible girls leave such gas lighters with the speed of light.

Not to mention you will forever be playing games until you don’t even know who you’re anymore

The bolded isn't true. Men with Narcissistic personality disorder tend to use gaslighting the most. Majority of women find it hard to leave these Narcissistic 'toxic" men. Even after leaving them they always come back. Google the term trauma bond and enlighten yourself.

From experience and research, I've discovered that imprinted deep within the genetic code of a woman, is a desire to be emotionally abused. Women can not become emotionally attached to a man who doesn't in one way or the other emotionally abuse them. Whether it's gaslighting, silent treatment, guilt tripping, stone walling, fault finding, negging or other forms of emotional abuse. Women want it!!. Failure to this and women will lose interest in you. It seems counterintuitive but most universal truths are counterintuitive.

The logical part of a woman's brain drives her to think that she wants a man that treats her right. But the basal emotional side wants the opposite. And women are controlled by their emotional side, not the logical side.

Some men are naturally narcisstics, so being abusive is who they are. For other men, being abusive won't make them lose themselves per se. With time they'll be gradually conditioned to act in that way on impulse towards women.

Bunch of people wasting their time responding to a guy pretending to be a female. Someone even sent a message on whatsapp.

The person on OP's profile is a popular Instagram Slayqueen.

This is why most times I don't even criticize scammers because the people they scam deserve to be scammed due to their stupidity and ignorance.

Salex007:


Am helpless with the number 3 and I think that's how I am towards almost everybody because I don't just like trouble and argument.

Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.

Jasbi:


Lol I've never even had sex with her throughout the relationship

And you are proud of this? You dated a girl twice and you didn't have sex with her and you are here writing about your love and obsession for her.

You Simps sha.

Scarcity mentality is your problem. You've put this girl on such a high pedestal that you think no other girl can match. But guess what? This girl you think is so special, isn't special. There are many other girls like her, and lots of other better ones.

Go out and meet other women. Make new female friends. Have sex with new women. After a while you'll have so much abundance of girls that you won't have time to think about lost pussy.

The sad part of this is that the girl in question isn't even thinking about you let alone obsessed with you. She's probably being fuçked by some guy who doesn't even care about her while you are here making posts about her. This life no balance sha.

Simp spotted.

This girl had a boyfriend, but you were in love with her. You spent on her and helped her get a job yet she couldn't date you, she even suggested her friend for you. So why the fuçk are you still friends with this girl?

This girl doesn't give a fuçk about you, she just wants validation from you and wants you to keep spending on her. She probably doesn't have any one to take her out and spend on her on the 1st so she's using style to book you.

I'm actually concerned with how quickly you rush to reply this girl's messages. It's as if you are waiting every second for her to text so you will reply. You say she isn't your girlfriend so why the fuçk are you investing so much of your time on her?

Sending good morning messages around 6am, double texting and explaining your decisions to a girl, especially one you aren't even dating is simp behavior.

Stop simping and cut that girl from your life.