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Awww.  Your girl broke up with you for a girl huh? 

Probably cos he f**ks like one! Lwkmd!

Disappointment

For me the only attraction marriage holds is kids! I love kids and I want to have several of my own! In a culture where single mothers are frowned at not to mention the cost of raising them in a dying economy, I need a man for that! Otherwise marriage holds no attraction for me AT ALL!

Jealous much?smh!

Desperation is in style
.Thanks a lot!

We ve nt met bt ave been tailkng with him for over 6mnths now and it seems almost like we know each other well. Its an oppotunity to meets him. But I can't help but be hesistant or cautious.

I met a mexican online and he is inviting me to a trip to india for his birthday\ something, a party though. Should I go?

It was a horrible sight at a tunnel at Upper Iweka area of Onitsha, the commercial city of Anambra state, as more than 20 corpses and carcasses suspected to have been murdered by ritualists and armed robbers were recovered by a government task force.

 Saturday Sun gathered that a joint team of soldiers and members of Anambra State task force on crime prevention had stormed a concrete tunnel located at the foot of an MTN mast, within the popular Upper Iweka axis, where they discovered the corpses.

 Also found inside the tunnel, it was gathered, were human parts, arms and ammunition, gallons of raw acid (both empty and filled up ones), food items and mattresses believed to be owned by a gang of criminals operating within the Upper Iweka axis and terrorising travelers who arrived Onitsha late or too early.

 As at the time of filing this report yesterday, more corpses were being removed from the tunnel, as members of the task force combed the surrounding bush.   
The discovery of these corpses, it was observed, followed an alarm raised by a lady, who was being raped by hoodlums inside the tunnel at 6am yesterday morning.  
According to the source, “the hoodlums had abducted the lady traveller, dragged her into the tunnel, dispossessed her of all personal belongings, stripped her and raped her in turns.

Her scream attracted passers-by, who attracted members of the government task force on crime control.  
“As the rapists sighted the task force men approaching the tunnel, they abandoned their victim, jumped into a surrounding bush and dispersed, while the police took the victim to a hospital, where she allegedly died.”
  Saturday Sun gathered that members of the task force gave the hoodlums a hot chase and succeeded in arresting one of them at Ochanja market. He was handed over to the police.  
The source further disclosed that a team of soldiers on patrol arrived and assisted the task force in recovering the corpses and arms in the tunnel.
 
Among the bodies found, was a decomposing one, suspected to be a corps member, who adorned his uniform. Another corps was in military uniform. Chairman of the Anambra State Task Force, Mr. Onuoha, confirmed the incident and described it as unfortunate. He called on security agencies to brace up the challenges of ensuring security.

Onuoha said that feelers have revealed that Upper Iweka is the most dangerous part of Onitsha. He said that the area had become a death trap, especially for travellers who are coming into the city late or early.
 When contacted, the area commander in charge of Onitsha, Mr. Larry Osita, said that the area has been known for crime. He said also that there is a high level of jungle justice in the area, as residents kill suspected armed robbers and dumped them inside the tunnel without letting the police know.

He however promised to call our reporter back when he must have contacted the Divisional Police Officer in charge of the area. He did not call back at the time of filling this report.

Baba banky don't you think u r been too. Liberal with the word "inteligence".
Pls pple is he sinile? I mean comparing his son with the great MKO

The article does not ring true

I want to beleive that this story is fictious because its too outrageous to be true. I mean, op you sound like a rational person so i dont know what you were expecting. You said yourslef that the girl is known for her dealings with Abuja big boys. Of course she wanted money. Girl like her wont settle for anything less, naturally she ll feel betrayed if she discovers you deceived her. You know i always tell my male freinds, you cannot eat your cake and have it, you dont expect to make a runs babe fall for you when you have nothing. If you want to go for a classy girl then dont expect to lay back fold hands and do nothing, she ll dump you so fast your head will spin, its what you put in you get, if you had gone to pick her up epecting to see a hot chick but instead saw one mgbeke, maybe the pixs you saw were properly cropped and edited and the clothes she used for them were borrowed, then its ok if you take her to amala joint and expect her to clean your house and the rest. But you said it yourself she s a hot chick, that was probably the first time of her been in such a place, of course she ll be thoroughly dissappointed, i mean we all want to move forward not backwards. How can she go from Abuja big boys to lagos tout. She ll probably be wondering the kind of dirty girls you ve brought home on that same bed u expect her to sleep in(i know i would). The onyl reason she s attracted to you is your status you should be grateful for that, not scorn her for it. You said there are girls that will love you even if you actually as poor as you pretended to be,ask yourself what class of girls? Cos beleive me if you see a classy beautiful girl with a pauper then there s more to than meets d eye. Its not just about been provided for its about been with someone who is presentable. Even if you dont trip her and splash with money at least have the decency to clean your house properly and take care of yourself in prepartion for her visit. If this story is true i can only conclude that you dont respect her and you dont even like her much if not you wont give her the impression that she s not important enough for you to prepare properly for her visit. She evn helped you clean, beleive me if she s a saint. If it were me, i spend the night in a hotel and i wont come into your home until you clean it properly. Call me a snub and i ll call you a pig,

Maybe he s just waiting 4 d orange 2 ripen b4 he plucks it. If i may ask have u grown anything on ur chest? Just curious

I use brown contacts instead of glasses, am short sighted.
And my hair, i always fix weave on or braid.
Plus i fix my toe nails.
BTW they r artificial nt fake, trust me all d stuff i fix is original.

Lacks charisma

A friend of mine just lost her dad. he was shot in the forehead right in front of her. he died in her arms, bathing her with his blood. its been a week now still she cant sleep, she cant eat. the tears have dried up but she has this blank look on her face. i dont know how to help her. we had a friend who lost her dad about two years back, a year later she went completely crazy, right there under our noses. i still cant forgive myself, the signs were there but we were so carried away with our own lives that we didnt realise what was happening until she started screaming on the top of her voice and tearing her clothes off. i dont want to make the same mistake, i really want to help her but i dont know how to get through to her. i need some advise please.

we met at a wedding party, i was bored and went outside to get some air. he was playing tennis at cot so i went over to watch the game. i was so impressed by how well he played i didnt even know when i started cheering. anyway after the game he walked up to me and thanked me for boosting his morals. then he asked me to walk his to the bar to get a drink. after that we sat and talked for a while, then i dragged him to the party and flirted outrageously, we danced for a while and i even stole a kiss on the dance floor. i was just having fun i knew he was shy but he wouldnt admit it. anyway when i had enough i left before he had a chance to ask me for my number. but he got my hotel room number and came to see me first thing the next morning before i could leave town. i was flettered. its a year now and still counting

Ujujoan:
Lmao

Guys sef

@ Sinie how u dey?

I'm fine dear

iyatrustee:
let her run as fast as her legs can take her. how would her bringing the money becme a requirement or he breaks up with her? if he needs help and she can help him, there is nothing bad about that but for him to blackmail her,

Well in his defence, he thinks she's not being helpful! He says he wants a woman who will be willing to help him when he is in need and if she's not willing to do it now, what's to say that she will do it in future

A friend of mine has been dating this guy for some years now and recently they've been talking about settling down and getting married. The problem is that the guy is not financially capable of funding a wedding not to talk of starting a family. However, he has plans to invest in a business but does not have the money as it is capital intensive in nature.

Now he insists my friend must help him get the capital as a show of love else he won't go ahead with the wedding plansand he's giving her an ultimatum - If she doesn't try to get the money, he'll break up with her!

My friend could get the money if she tried but she thinks it's not her place to do so. She also concerned about his ability to go an extra mile in getting what he wants. He appears to be someone who relies on luck and miracles to make it in life!

As much as she loves and cares for him, she's not willing to be blackmailed into taking care of a man!

I dont' know guys, what are your views

i dont care if he just came back from london or if he s threathned, or scared. he s a preist for God's sake. how can he be aware of such horrible crimes going on behind his church and keep mute. he even supplies them with water. he should be charged with aiding and abetting, or something like that. there is no excuse for such nonchalance. the catholic church is very powerful esp in igbolands, if he couldnt go thru d police he should have sought aid from the church. i refuse 2 beleive there was nothing he could have done, its not as if they are a group of school boys playing cult. its kidnappers for god's sakes. they kill people, they wreck the lives of families. right now in abia state, they are peoples worst nightmare. he had absolutely no reason 2 keep silent. even if he was killed for speaking out, doesnt the church teach about matarrys. i mean how does he sleep at night, how does he even stand ih church and preach 2 the same people beem terrorised?

u beat him up? ah babe. u r my role model

maybe she doesnt understand sex. talk 2 her tell her what pleases u as a guy and how fustrated she makes u. maybe u guys can watch a couple of porn together and try some of the things u see,

3 kids in four years    

How is that even possible 

@ Poster, I think you are wicked and inconsiderate! Do you know what it takes to carry a pregnany for nine months and pass through the pains of labour And she did it 3 times within a space of four years And all you can talk about is intimacy   Gosh!

You'd be blind not to know the reason behind her frigidness. She ACHES for God's sakes . . .  And you are going on about how you've been getting it on with other women? You feel guilty? That's not good enough!

If you know you love that woman, I suggest you put aside your selfish lust for once, pay attention to her and to her needs, do everything you can to ensure she regains her health back, try as much as you can to help with the kids . . .  and I bet you, you'll get your se.x life with her back in no time!

its ok 2 be quiet. not every one is a parrot. however maybe u should go 4 talkative girls, trust me they will appreciate u

@ poster
I like ur post. ur question is how? not should i? because even considering marriage is suicide. U have to make ur girl understand. its a risk u cant afford 2 take. if u ve ever seen sicklers having crisis u ll understand. it kills everything, ur luv, ur spirit, ur joy , and the worst is living with the guilt that u brought this upon ur own child. its a pity bt shes still very young. u both are. beleive me if u love her the best thing u can do 4 her right now is to walk away

A ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now and so far everything has been going smothly. Then about 2 wks ago he started working on this project that kept him very busy.So now he NEVER calls me anymore. At first i tried 2 be undrestanding and took it upon myself 2 do the calling bt am abt 2 give up. I mean i cant understand how busy a guy can be that he cant even call his Gf, even when i call sometimes he doesnt pick and never returns the call. When i complain he tells me he is busy and cant handle a woman in his life right now, that i should plz hang on and give him time. Am scared 2 loose him bt at the same time i cant be patient. I really am abt 2 give up. I mean what if he's trying 2 end it and is just using that as a ploy. I know he's busy bt can u be rili tooo busy 2 call someone u claim 2 care abt? or am i been inconsiderate? i rili need some advice,

A ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now and so far everything has been going smothly. Then about 2 wks ago he started working on this project that kept him very busy.So now he NEVER calls me anymore. At first i tried 2 be undrestanding and took it upon myself 2 do the calling bt am abt 2 give up. I mean i cant understand how busy a guy can be that he cant even call his Gf, even when i call sometimes he doesnt pick and never returns the call. When i complain he tells me he is busy and cant handle a woman in his life right now, that i should plz hang on and give him time. Am scared 2 loose him bt at the same time i cant be patient. I really am abt 2 give up. I mean what if he's trying 2 end it and is just using that as a ploy. I know he's busy bt can u be rili tooo busy 2 call someone u claim 2 care abt? or am i been inconsiderate? i rili need some advice,

i just want a guy that will truly appreciate me. be faithful and honest 2 me, is that too much 2 ask?