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FamilyRe: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 6:37pm On Dec 21, 2015
naijachic:
@op, did the hospital check her full blood count? When my baby had a similar issue, it was discovered that she had a severe throat infection (inflamed tonsils), probably picked up from creche. Once she was treated for that, she gradually stopped the vomiting and now she eats very well.
yes they did a full blood work and they also looked in her throat, no inflamed tonsils. I treated malaria and dewormed her so her malaria tests and stool test came back clean.

the strange thing is that before all these she ate a lot and she was very chubby, my sisters used to call her mama peace, lol. now she's so skinny. when I use her picture as my dp my relatives asks me if shes sick. but apart from the weight loss it has had no effect on her, she's still playful and very active.
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 6:32pm On Dec 21, 2015
deeptesting:
OP there is nothing wrong with your daughter,my daughter was doing same when she was that age and it gave me a lot of concern but the family doctor simply advised that we feed her little by little at intervals and also ensure she takes a lot of liquid.. She is 6yrs now and still does not like food..In fact, if she does something wrong just tell her you will give her large portion of food, hmmmmmm, she will start crying.. The mere sight of food scares her up till now.

Once there is food on the dining table she will either excuse her self to wee or just escape for from the scene...See i never see this kind thing before ooo.. She likes meat, Custard, Bread, Gizzard etc.. I ensure these things are available.
looool she actually cries when you tell her you will give her food? that's funny. grin
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 6:29pm On Dec 21, 2015
bennyrazz:
@op, do it the old school way cheesy force-feed her or get someone to do it. The food should be pap or cerelac or something liquid. You put her on your laps, use two fingers to close her nose, make sure she starts breathing with her mouth, then you pour the content in her mouth. If she wanna breath, she has to swallow the content in her mouth. She will struggle with you o but you have to hold her tight. When she swallows the content in her mouth. Release hand from nose, blow her fresh air. Continue till you finish feeding
cheesy those are methods that have proven to be effective for stubborn children
WHAT!!!! I hope you are kidding... tongue
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 6:25pm On Dec 21, 2015
Phema:
I so feel you OP. My son did same thing to me for 7 days last week and i was miserable. Good thing, he was drinking lots of water/liquid.

What did i do? I was feeding him very often, like every 1 hr, in very tiny bits. A bit of banana, a bit of mashed cooked yam/plantain, a spoonful of beans, over cooked noodles, amala and ewedu soup, amala and ogbono soup etc. Just about anything she can easily swallow without having to chew much. Lots of drinks, natural juices (orange, pineapple). A lot of work and food wastage, but i didn't mind. As long as he had just a lil something in his stomach. Turns out it was just a phase. He is eating much better now.

Yours might be more difficult cos of the creche thingy. Can she skip creche for now? Stay at home with someone who can patiently feed her often no matter how small?

It might just be a phase since her tests came out clear. She might also be bored of the usual cereal and pap you've been feeding her with.

Goodluck and don't freak out.
thanks a lot this is a really helpful suggestion. for this week my sister in law has agreed to take her while am at work and I hope when she sees her own(my sister in-law's) kids eat she might be tempted to eat too.

I have considered her being bored of pap and cereal but then what do I feed her? she doesn't eat enough of real foods.
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 12:57pm On Dec 21, 2015
menix:
Pls take her to another hospital.
Have u given her multivites/drug to induce hungerhuh

Pls just 3dayz my niece exhibited such the parents were mad but it was caused by malaria, which after the treatment she started eating..

I will advise, u take her to another hospital nd possibly request for an older doctor..

Jehova Rapha will heal her today, Amen.
maybe I will do just that, Although the hospital I went to is a big children's clinic and I met a senior doctor there, that is why I posted this on family and not health section. I need experienced parents to advise me.

I did give her cyprigold, its a multivitamin that stimulates appetite, it didn't help, instead it makes her oversleep. someone said its a phase and it will pass. I have never seen such a thing before and its scary.
FamilyHelp!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by sinie(op): 11:50am On Dec 21, 2015
Good Morning my fellow naira landers!

I am worried sick about my daughter, she is 16 months old and about 3 weeks back I noticed that when feeding her she holds the food in her mouth and just refuses to swallow for like 3-5mins. I asked her crèche and they said she does that in the crèche too, I had to beg them to exercise patience with her because it can discourage them from feeding her, feeding her now takes about 1hour at least.

After about 2 weeks of this habit gradually getting worse, she just stopped eating completely. when I try to force feed her she vomits everything she took in. I tried feeding her normal adult food(rice, beans, yam) she just takes 2 or 3 spoons and runs away ( her usual food is pap and cereals).

I treated her for malaria and dewormed her, still this condition persisted. I even gave her cyprigold but no improvement instead it got worse.

on Friday I took her to the hospital, the pediatrician sent us for abdominopelvic scan, chest x-ray, blood, stool and urine screening. the results came back this morning all clear. the doctor is as confused as I am.

Through out sat and Sunday I spent the whole day with her, she didn't eat once. the ones I forced her to eat she vomited. she just drinks little sips of juice, chews little pieces of wafers and banana. when I put meat or fish in her mouth she carries it in her mouth till she sleeps, I have to open her mouth and remove them so it doesn't choke her in her sleep. as for rice or other foods, when she sees u carrying a plate she runs away.

for almost a week now she has eaten nothing! am scared, I don't know how long she can continue on little or no sustenance. the doctors are not worried because she is still hyperactive but her weight is dropping and its scaring me.

please Mother's in the house have any of you ever experienced anything remotely like this? how did it turn out and what can be the cause and what can I do? the doctors have checked her and no health issue. help please!!!
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 8 by sinie: 7:38pm On Jun 26, 2015
ElCapt:
Hey.

Congrats!

The timing of your delivery and program start date isn't going to work well, not to even talk of the season.

I'd advice you wait ma and apply as against fall 2016 or beyond.

But you can do it if you want to. I have heard of people who did although only few months into pregnancy before travelling.

Is your husband going for a certain program too?
thanks smiley
ElCapt:
Hey.

Congrats!

The timing of your delivery and program start date isn't going to work well, not to even talk of the season.

I'd advice you wait ma and apply as against fall 2016 or beyond.

But you can do it if you want to. I have heard of people who did although only few months into pregnancy before travelling.

Is your husband going for a certain program too?
thanks
my husband is not going for a program, he just wanted to accompany me to help with our daughter. he feels that since he's already going he can also take care of the baby too while i school. am the bookish type and he's really encouraging me to further and is willing to do everything to lessen the stress on me. he works in a bank but has always wanted to quit his bank job and start a buisness; he feels now is the time to go and when we come back we can start the busness. my fear now is getting a Visa for us all in my condition, and postponing it will just make me loose interest in the whole thing.
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 8 by sinie:
good day all.
I want apply to do my masters in Canada against the January admissions. the plan was to go with my husband and 1 year old daughter, however I just found out I am pregnant again and am confused. After much deliberation my hubby and I decided to go on with the travel plans but I need advice from you guys;
1. will I still be given Visa to travel despite my condition, from my calculation I will be due February or march and I intend to start the program Jan
2. will it be better for me to apply to go and give birth in Canada and from there change my Visa to study Visa after the delivery ( I know its possible in the USA but not sure if it is in Canada)
personally I will prefer to go ahead with my study visa application not hiding the fact am pregnant. please I need urgent advice on how to go about this as I am running out of time.

thanks my good people
HealthRe: My One Month Child Fell, Please Advise by sinie: 3:06pm On Dec 17, 2014
I Used to fall asleep all the time while carrying my newborn. She slept all day and stayed awake all night, I was completely exhausted and dozed off several times while carrying her, my mom advised me to make sure I position myself on the bed properly so that should she fall, she will fall onto the bed and not on the floor. @ Op in case of next time...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 6:53am On Jun 28, 2014
Hmmm. Long time no see everyone, how are babies kicking, we thank God for keeping us this far in our journey!!!
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 10:21am On Jan 07, 2014
Thanks u alll ooooo for rejoicing me with me, am rili glad to be a member of this family, ur good wishes and encouragemnts kept me going, I think its just beginning to dawn on me now that there is another human being growing inside me. I don't joke with my folic acid again oh. Lol.
@ princesca ur are a living miracle. God bless u n ur family and may his wonders continue to shower on u amen.
@ sexysisis, u are very welcome here and believe me u won't regret joining. No one is here to judge, we are all her as sisters going thru one of the most miraculous experience on earth and u are one of us. Soon u go be sexymama then u will know u made d best decision in keeping d baby. God is ur strenght.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 4:32pm On Jan 06, 2014
Singing *this kind God oh, I never see ur type oh, this kind God oh, blessed be ur holy name*
My dear sisters I must confess that this has been the scariest and yet happiest day of my life. I must have said all the prayers I knew as I sat waiting for my turn to go for the scan; when I went in the consultant ( I had to go to a diff place this time around and everyone assured me dis was d best place in town) was a bit standoffish and didn't want to ans my ques, so I lay quetly and watched monitor like a hawk for any signs of heart beat. After a while he asked me whem my last MP was I told him, then he asked me how I knew I was preggy I told him I did a PT. Then he said I sud go and ease my self and comeback dat he will do a vaginal scan.
I cud nt hold it anymore. I burst into tears, I told him to just tell me, dat my baby was not ok? He was shocked he said noooo, dat he cud nt detect a heartbeat thru a pevic scan cud be cos its still too early daats why he wants to do a vag scan. I den told him abt my last scan and d result. He was very sypathetic and said d doc was wrong to conclude dat my baby was dead without been absolutely sure, he then told me nt to worry dat I sud go and ease myself and come back
Anyway to cut a long story short he did a vag scan and there it was my tiny tiny baby, swimming peacefully. I cud nt believe it, my baby was there and it was all right. I was overhwelmed , I started crying again. Lol.
I can't even begin to describe my happiness. Indeed God is faithful. Thank u all dat remembered me in ur prayers and encouraged me, God will give u ur own miracle too IJN. Amen...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 3:59pm On Jan 04, 2014
@ SD and all am fine thanks for ur concern. My hussy and I decided to wait 2 complete weeks before we rescan. So by Monday I will be going for anoda scan, I know the convenant I have with my God this year so I know it will be good news. I have decided to accept my fate with total submission to God's will whatever the outcome.
Happy and a prosperous new year to you all and wellcome to all the newbies in the house.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 6:34am On Dec 30, 2013
queen_labisi: Congrats to all d new mommas... Rukemi don born Oooooo,tank God, so happy 4u... Compliments of the season to you all, u shall all carry to term nd deliver like d hebrew women in jesus name.
Amen ooooo. Congrats @ Rukemi
@ chestnut; don't worry dear, you still have enough time for the baby to turn back, and he will IJN
@ hummingbird; kpele the lord is your muscle, soon it will be all over
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 8:07am On Dec 27, 2013
@ fnor congrats dear! Thank God for everything oh, I can't believe ur doc waited da long b4 talking of inducing. How did hent think to take u to the theatre immediately the labor was going too long, so if ur dad and bro had left him he wud have given oxytocin @ dat stage. Na wah oh, God help us!!!! God's hands was rili in the birth of ur son. Pls try and rest now, recovering from CS is not easy bt in no time @ all d pain will disappear. Congrats once a gain and may God bless u n ur son
@ Halimat, ur baby is sooooooo cute. Congreats dear
HWA to all those celebrating this sizn
@ tybaby4real, its amasing how ignorant some pple can be. Pls keep giving out gifts to the little children, maybe dats how God wants to use to bless u and d devil is trying to take it away.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 6:37pm On Dec 25, 2013
@ chiangel welcome to the forum, I hope it will be as helpful and supportive to you as it has being to me.
Thanks all for ur encouraging words u r all truly amasing.
I keep posting comments and they keep disappearing, I don't know if its just on my end. Must be network though
@ fnor any news? You remain in my prayers dear
No one is giving us an xmas baby?
@ FG take am easy pls oooo. And tell ur DH to give u a massage this nite. An order fron this forum. Lol
Merry xmas everyone
NB: in case my past comments rili didn't upload, I just mentioned my DH and I have decided to wait a week and run d scan again,
*looking up to Jesus, the Authour and finisher of my fate*
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 9:43am On Dec 25, 2013
Merry xmas everyone, have a very wonderful celebration. Thank u all for ur encouraging words and prayers, it has brightened my mood this season and I want to make the best of the first xmas my husband and I are spending as a couple. By God's grace we'll wait a wek and run the scan again. I believe my heavely father for good news.
So how's all d mommas and baby. Anybody giving us an xmas baby?
@ fnor how r u doing? U r in my prayers, God that has seen you to this far will see you to the end IJN.
Felix navidad everyone.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 9:50pm On Dec 23, 2013
Thank you all for ur support, you won't believe the strenght I have gained by just reading your comments. I believe that I do nt serve a God dat gives dead babies. àll is well IJN. Amen. Thank you dear sisters....
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2013
Thank you SD. I rili appreciate your prayers and encouraging words. I have faith in the God I serve and right now I can only say let his will be done.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 3:18pm On Dec 23, 2013
hello mothers and expectant mothers in the house. i need serious advice and prayers. i went for an ultrasound today (if you remember i had mentioned i was 7weeks and 2 days pregnant and i had cramps). anyway when i went to the hospital to complain about the cramps, the doctor said it was normal and i sud take paracetamol if it was too bad but i insisted on going for a scan. the result of the scan was missed abortion and that i sud rescan in a weeks time to ascertain viability. when i took the result to the doctor he said the baby was dead in my womb and recommended an immediate evacuation, today if possible. My husband insisted on a second opinion so when we went to another doctor he said that it doesn't mean the baby was dead, that it could be that it was still too early to detect life. that i should rescan in another 2weeks.
Right now am so confused, nothing in my career as a pharmacist had prepared me for this. if rili the baby is dead in my womb it cant be good to leave it for another 2 weeks. but going for a D n C now is risky since there is a slight chance the baby is still viable. i want to believe God that nothing is wrong with my baby, i want to speak life to the baby in my womb. Right now am scared my dear sisters, please join me in prayers.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2013
@ Fnor; Good luck dear,you're in our prayers...
HealthRe: Her Bosom Secretes Milk But She's Not Pregnant by sinie: 6:59pm On Dec 20, 2013
Sarah a: thanks so much you just gave me hope when I thought I may not be able to bear my own kid. Funny enough , I went to the hospital today was given appointment to meet with doctor Tomorw.
Uwc. You can still go ahead and see the doc tomorrow just to put ur mind completely at ease. Good luck.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 5:33pm On Dec 20, 2013
baybiemee: am 34 weeks today, Yipeeee grin counting down, pls pray for my baby to turn ooo, she is still breech. sad
your baby will turn IJN, CS is not your portion IJN. Amen
HealthRe: Her Bosom Secretes Milk But She's Not Pregnant by sinie: 5:30pm On Dec 20, 2013
mimee9: I once had that problem,I have never aborted in my life...is not infection,I been to so many doctors and gynaecologists,they problem is excess prolactine,,the treatment is parlodel tablets,it worked
i had that problem too most of my adult life. not milk per se but a kind of watery discharge. i got tired of hearing people tell me it was because i had done an abortion in the past. one of my ex even went as far as telling his mom about my breast discharge and the woman told him he should break up with me that i have done an abortion in the past. i am a pharmacist so i knew it was because of excess secretion of prolactin. i didn't go on bromocriptine though because i wasn't bothered by it and any BF that didn't like it, well that's his prob, i am the way i am.

my only fear was that it will affect my fertility when i will start ttc but it didn't. am a newly wed and i didn't have problem getting pregnant @ all. your GF can go for test if she's scared but really its nothing to worry about
LiteratureRe: Sinie's Series by sinie(op): 4:15pm On Dec 20, 2013
I got back to the hostel determined to put the whole thing out of my mind. Emily was still not talking to me but that was alright, I wasn’t even in the mood for small talk. I looked round the tiny part of the room that was our makeshift kitchen, the pots were empty. I rolled my eyes, today was supposed to be Emily’s day to cook. I guess I can’t just ask her now why she didn’t cook, if she wants to pout like a baby let her. I picked up my purse and strolled out; I will go to the nearest cafeteria and eat. As I stepped into the restaurant I saw a classmate of mine, IJ, sitting in a corner, I smiled and walked up to her and joined her table
“How far” she greeted me, smiling up at me, finally!!! A friendly face I thought to myself
“Fine oh, am hungry, what are you eating?” I asked her
“Rice nah what else” she replied, she made it no secret that she eats nothing but rice outside
“I think I will eat rice too” I said sitting beside her as I signaled to the waitress. We chatted a little about class work as the waitress served our food and we descended on it
“Did you hear what happened?” she asked me midway through the meal
“What happened?” I asked not really interested in whatever piece of gossip she had to tell me but since I had no choice I feigned interest
“Somebody died yesterday night, right here on campus?”
“Are you serious? What happened? Was it cultists?
“Her sister said she went out to read in the night and did not come back, this morning when they went to look for her, they saw her close to that big dogoyaro tree behind the anatomy lab, dead. I heard she was raped”
“what?? I pass that road everyday when am coming back from night class, me and my roommate passed it last night sef,”
“Are you serious? Did you see her? Did you see anything?” suddenly I froze. It couldn’t be her could it? The girl that screamed; she couldn’t be the one that ended up dead.
“No I didn’t see anything” I told IJ. The lie came automatically now
“hmmm you get mind oh, I didn’t know people took that road at night. It’s too dark and lonely, anything can happen there oh and no one will even hear you scream” I was silent. The food tasted sour in my mouth; just like that my appetite was gone. “It’s too bad, I pity her sister, to lose a sibling like that, God what she must be going through”
“Yes” I murmured
“Are you okay?” IJ asked me
I shrugged “I just feel bad, this type of bad news, it has spoiled my mood”
“eiya sorry oh, the world we live in is a wicked place”
“Yes” I murmured again
It was no use, I couldn’t eat anymore. I stood up to leave “are you going?” IJ asked me
“Yea lemme go and do my assignment”
“ok, see you”
“yea bye” I replied walking away quickly. I didn’t want to believe it was the same girl. I refused to believe it was the same girl....
*********
I looked around me, I could barely make out the bushes all around me, I could not believe I had ventured on this dark road again, alone this time, after what happened here last night. At the back of my mind I was telling myself that this was a bad idea; I was getting closer to the spot where we found her last night. My heart was racing somehow I knew someone was there. As I rounded the corner I wasn’t sure if I should be scared or relived, because true to my suspicions, there she was sitting at exactly the same spot we saw her the night before.
“you’re okay, it wasn’t you” I said to her.
“It wasn’t me what?” she replied. Her voice was very low and calm almost like a sweet melody, I looked at my arms wondering why such a cool voice would give me goose bumps
“it wasn’t you that died here last night” I said, she tilted her head to one side and raised an eyebrow, still sitting in the ground. “what are you doing here, these roads are not safe” I told her
“I was waiting for you” she said
“Why? I don’t know you” I said to her
‘I want to show you something” she said to me, then she smiled.
The first thing I felt was weakness, my legs felt like water, they could no longer hold me, I crumbled to the ground. Intense pain seared through me, I could feel the fear overwhelm me, I opened my mouth and screamed so loud. I heard footsteps, it sounded like they were running away from me. I tried to look around me but I couldn’t, I felt paralyzed. I felt warm liquid seep between my thighs, I felt no shame as I realized I had just peed on my pants the pain and fear was too much for me to feel shame. I looked around me everywhere was so dark I couldn’t make out anything.
“Blood of Jesus cover me, Blood of Jesus protect me”, I kept murmuring. Then I heard it the footsteps were coming back. I didn’t know if I should be scared or relived. It might be help I thought to myself. The three men stood looming over me, “how did you wake up and run away” one said to me. “That’s very naughty of you”
“You idiot you let her escape, you know she knows who we are, she will recognize us” another one said
“What should we do with her?”
“We have to kill her”
“Here?”
“Why not, take you do it” he said handing him a knife
“No way, you do it” the other one said. They stood staring at each other.
“We were not supposed to kill anyone am not a killer”
“We can’t let her go she knows who we are now”
“Someone is coming” the third guy said so far he hadn’t said a word, he was probably keeping an eye out “let’s hide her fast” he said again
I felt them lift me up the ground, I opened my mouth to scream but one of them pressed his hands over my mouth to keep me from screaming. I couldn’t breathe, he was suffocating me.
I started struggling with my whole might, I felt someone shaking me calling my name, with a strangled cry I tore my eyes open, Emily was standing above me shaking me
“wake up sinie, please wake up”.
I sat up and looked around me, it was a dream. I had such a vivid dream in the middle of the day
“are you okay” Emily asked me
“yes am fine it was just a dream”.
My bed was soaked not just with sweat, but also urine, I had peed my bed in real life too.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 3:06pm On Dec 20, 2013
Thanks dearies for the warm welcome
@ fnor wishing u a very smooth delivery. how exciting it must be for you, soon you'll get to hold your precious baby in your arms. Congrats dear.
@ Udoka thanks, i will try to get on the vitamins, hope it wont cause the nausea/vomiting ave so far avoided. BTW congratulations. i followed you on TTC (hope you are the same Udoka), wow, what a miracle. Thank the good lord for his loving mercies. so how's it being a mum? Fantastic right?lol
@simababe. so sorry dear for the morning sickness. i cant imagine how you must be feeling. hope you get better soon. so we are going to be birthmates(if there's anything like that lol). yay!!! grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sinie: 6:53pm On Dec 19, 2013
Hello people, ave being follwing this thread for a while and longing for a time when I will be an expectant mother too. Am 7wks pregnant, am grateful to God cos I had no difficilty getting pregnant @ all. So far its been smooth. No nausea or vomitting, I only have to deal with the occasional emotional outburst and sore moods. I do have stomach cramps much like menstral pains but am told that's just my uterus expanding in preparation for the baby. The crapms get worse after sex and it has rili made me wary of sex, something my brand new DH is not finding funny @ all but hey!!! That's the price we gotta pay. Lol I haven't started the routine drugs, I tried taking folic Acid but hated the smell so I stoped. I will see a doctor by next week when am 8 weeks.
Once again is rili great to join this thread...
LiteratureRe: Sinie's Series by sinie(op): 3:45pm On Nov 17, 2013
I approached cautiously flashing my light to the spot we left her, I was not so surprised to see she was gone, i wasn't really expecting her to still be there but just wanted to know for sure; for the sake of my sanity. I sighed and turned back, trudging back exhaustion suddenly weighing me down. It was kind of silly of me to go back anyway cos I wasn't exactly sure what I would have done if I had met her still lying on the ground.
The next day I had a morning lecture so i woke early. Emlily completely ignored me as if somehow it was my fault that she was subjected to that last night, i wondered if she knew i had gone out again last night. I decided to give her some space hoping she will get over it. I got dressed and went to class, Tunde was waiting for me outside the class , he was my, classmate my boyfriend and my best friend.
"hi babe". He greeted me squeezing my hand. My heart warmed at the sight of him, he always had that effect on me. When we just met my friends had told me it was not wise to date a classmate, but his persistence and sweet smile won me over and i haven't regretted it.
"are you okay? You look exhausted, what time did you sleep last night?"
I opened my mouth to tell him what had happened but something held me back. Suddenly in the light of day everything that had happened seemed ridiculous, so i just shrugged and said "am okay, i just need to rest"
"come on let us go and sit down" he said still holding my hand as he guided me into the class room. I allowed myself to be led vowing to foget the whole thing. We sat and he put his arms around me i rested my head in his shoulders, the course we had that morning was by a professor who was always late but was always unforgiving if anyone entered the class after him. I closed my eyes hoping to catch a few minutes if sleep before the lecturer came.
"i spoke with my sister last night"
"bola?
"yea, she said i should say hi to you"
"hmmm " i replied. Bola was his elder sister, they were really close, at first she did not really warm up to me, there was always something distant about her. The last time we saw her she was telling us how she forgot her diary in a cab she had entered, i was surprised that people still kept diaries, she had been more concerned about a stranger reading what she had written about in the diary than the money she had forgotten in it.
"what did you write in it? i had asked
"personal stuff" she had said in a dismissing manner clearly not wanting to talk about it.
"she found the diary" Tunde was saying now
"she did? How?"
"some guy picked it up and kept it, he saw her phone number in it and decided to call her, she's so lucky, some people won't even bother to do that"
"did he read the diary?"
"she said he didn't"
"wow she's really lucky"
"that's what i told her, and the money is still intact, to tell you the truth am a bit surprised we still have people like that in this town, everybody these days is desperate. The last thing they will do is go out of their way to offer help to a stranger. Did i tell you about the day i was going home one woman's wallet fell from her bike?"
"nope"
"am telling you oh" Tunde continued " she was elderly oh at least like that kind sixty years old, her wallet fell from her bike and the contents scattered, i think she had just coming from ATM cos mint money plenty just fell and scattered, her card fell off too, see people diving for the money, picking it and running off, before her bike turned and came back they've picked everything including her ATM card"
"are you serious?"
"am telling you, the woman was just lamenting, even money to pay the bike man she did not have any left, i had to give her the small money i had on me oh,"
"jezzzz " i said embarrassed by what i had just heard
"Nigerians eh, we just have zero compassion for strangers, no
respect for human life at all, you can see someone dying on the street and you just walk past and continue you life as if nothing happened, business as usual, it's appalling."
I felt a sudden rise in my heart rate, "why do you say that?" i asked him
"it's true nah", he said
"what has people dying on the street got to do with picking wallets"
Tunde had a confused look on his face now, "am just talking generally about helping people"
"you talking too much this morning, i have a headache" i snapped at him.
"am sorry babe, oya rest small before the guy comes" he said squeezing my shoulders, i lay my had back on him but i wasn't resting, i was worried, it really was just terrible of us to have left the girl there, what if something terrible had happened to her and we could have helped but we didn't, we just ran off and left her there. I felt so guilty, i wanted to tell Tunde but ibwas scared he will be shame of me, he expected better from me. I shook my head and decided not to tell him.
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LiteratureRe: Sinie's Series by sinie(op): 3:40pm On Nov 17, 2013
Thanks u guys it's good to be back cheesy grin
LiteratureRe: Sinie's Series by sinie(op): 11:43am On Nov 11, 2013
It was 2 am; my friend Emily and I were walking back to the hostel after hours of night reading, it was really dark and we had no torch light but we were quite used to the route so we just strolled home, I was so exhausted and I could not wait to get home, suddenly we saw her she was sprawled on the ground. We almost stepped on her because it was too dark to see.
“Oh my god, what is this” I asked Emily “Is it”huh? I reached down to touch her
“She’s dead, oh my god sinie she’s dead” Emily said; she was freaking out on me.
I shook the girl again, “hello are you okay”?
“She’s dead. Jesus sinie she’s dead” Emily said again she was crying now.
“Stop it”!! I snapped at her. To my surprise i was calm, my mind was blank but Emily’s reaction was not helping me. “We have to help her” I told her
“How”?
“We have to take her to the clinic”.
We lifted her, she was very heavy. I held her arms under her armpit and Emily held her legs, we stumbled towards the clinic; suddenly she wriggled in our hands
“Wait”!!! I told Emily, “she coming awake”. The girls opened her eyes and stared at us, and then she opened her mouth and gave the loudest scream I have ever heard. Emily and I looked at each other and then we turned and ran. I really can’t remember what I was thinking then. I supposed we should have stayed and made sure she was okay, but imagine someone you thought was dead suddenly waking up and giving off probably the loudest scream you have ever heard. It was too much for me, I ran so fast I didn’t even know how I got to the room. We were trembling when we got to our hostel, out of breath. I collapsed on my bunk; Emily climbed on her own bed, on top of me. We were bunkies. We tried to catch our breath. Then I said to her
“Should we have stayed back to help her?
“I don’t know” she said, “please sinie I don’t want to even think about it, can we just drop it”.
I lay very still on my bed as the questions tormented me? Why was she lying on the ground by 2 am in the night? And most importantly why did she scream. I felt so guilty that we just ran off and left her lying there; she was a human being for God’s sake. What kind of persons are we to just leave her there, I climbed down from my bed and looked at Emily; she was already sleeping off. I quietly tiptoed out of the room and headed back to the girl.
LiteratureRe: Sinie's Series by sinie(op): 11:42am On Nov 11, 2013
hello people, its me back again with a new story for my sinie's series. yes i haven't forgotten all about it, just really busy trying to finish my second novel. Anyway here's the first draft of the second story in this series i have titled HAUNTED. enjoy grin
PoliticsRe: Clara Chime Tells NHRC To Withdraw Report | Sahara Reporters by sinie: 8:55am On Nov 10, 2013
Trust FFK to be the one lawyer in the entire nation to represent a lunatic. Smh!!!

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