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@ op! When you are given your letter of offer of appointment you will be required to be certified medically fit! Now you have to use a hospital approved by the organisation. The doctor is the one who signs all yóur tests you are supposed to take. And yes HIV test is included! When the test results come back based on the results he will sign your certificate of fitness! Now that's what you ll submit NOT the test result! No doctor will certify you unfit because you have HIV esp when its not yet AIDs! ( Drs in the house pls back me up)your uncle does not have to know becos the truth is its not rili his business. Just go for the tests and get your medical fitness certificate! You already have yôur letter of appointment you just need to submit that b4 u ll be paid dats all! Wish u the best of luck!

When I wake up, wake up in the morning
I see your lovely face
Your cheeks like butter, honey
From Attica
You take my breath away
Your pretty, little fingers, so tender
Like petals from the morning bloom
Your laughter, a joy to remember
Heaven has blessed me with you
The very day you came to me

My whole life became brand new eh eh
Because of you eh eh eh

Oh baby, oh baby,
I see me in your eyes
Oh baby, oh baby,
I see love in your smile
You tell me kuchi kuchi ahhh
I understand
You tell me kuchi kuchi ahhh

Every time I listen to this song tears come to my eyes! The love of a mother for her child what can compare to it? Jodie really did magic with this song. Am not a mother yet but I can't wait to experience the emotions she sang about! Nigeria music is really making its mark!

@op. One thing we girls should learn is that when it comes to men there are really 2 categories; the jerks and the saints! Now there is no complicated man, sensitive, hard to understand or even shy! So we should not bother stressing our head over them cos they are all so typical! Ok just work with me here.
What do you think about a guy who is always busy he can't make time to call or see you, oven text or ping u! He s not a very busy man, he s just an asshole who thinks he is too good for you
What do you call a guy who is dating you, sleeping with you but can't tell you he loves you( even when you say it first) he is not a sensitive guy that finds it difficult to open up his heart, he is just a jerk who wan chop clean mouth, and thinks you are so foolish u ll fall for anything.
What do you call a guy who is dating you and claims to love you bt can't put up ur pix as his dp with a simple sentence to let the world know u r his! He is nt shy, he just probably sleeps with a lot of his bbm friends( or at least asking them out)
What do u call a guy who u r dating and u call late at night and he can't say baby how are u? Or I love u? Well he s nt really tired from work, he probably has a girl lying by his side.
Now in ur case its simple, d guy doesn't like u, nt really. If u ask him out he ll date u, yeah bt cos he's flattered. See it does their ego good when a girl it tripping but the truth is if he feel d same way he won't wait for u to come ask him,even if nah brad pitt! If u date him u ll be making a big mistake cos before the relationship is thru he ll take your self respect and dance alanta on it! Ur choice!

Hello everyone, nice points of view here! As for me if I see he has made up his mind to leave me, if its my fault I don't think I ll kneel to beg! Cry maybe! But beg, while kneeling? Nahh don't think so. It will only make me look pathetic, and if he is leaving me I might as well leave with
My pride intact! But that doesn't mean I can't kneel for my man. If am wrong and I see he is deeply hurt(not angry, cos there is nothing really u can tell an angry man) I ll do anything to make it up to him if it means getting down on My knees.
Ave had such an experience, I was dating dis guy and we were always having problems,an issue he alwayz had with me was my pride, he always complained dat I was full of myself, I on my part always told him if he wanted a simpering fool to date it def wasn't me. Anyway he caught me red handed with someone else after I told a lie and gone out! When I got home I was expecting him to flare up, I was ready to fight back, its my life and I don't see any ring on My finger, then I saw his face, the tears in his eyes! I don't even know when I got down on My knees begging him! It was a humiliating experience I must tell u and I never want to experience it again!

Oyinhoney: thanx u guyz i tried all of dat but it aint workin n no his not my first bf its jus dat.his kinda different from all the other guyz ive dated in d past.he wants to get really know me n i really wanna know him.so basically wen we talk he'll b like hey watz up? n i b like nothin from then we jus kinda keep quiet not know wat to say its like he knows wat he can say to make r convo more interestin but its also like a lil punishment 4 me too.for not really sayin much..

Maybe you guyz have nothing in common that's why the relationship is so boring. Cos that's all there is to it, nt some delimma, nt a problem at a all, nt even an issue. Just a so very boring relationship! *yawns*
Well if u can't TALK u can DO other things... U know *winks*

Hahaha!! eekwa! Come to my town and talk like this and you will be tied up and sacrificed to the ALUSI UMUOSU.
Even the mighty Anunmili Okodu tried to oppose and abolish it but he met a stiff resistance in all the ancient institution in my town including Umuofia,the Ezeani,Umudibia,Umuokpu,all the Ozo group and numerious more !! The thing is this: you,as an outsider wont be able to identify an osu but the indigins can tell one from the dark!! Buh I do agree they have fine chics shaa!!

Are you serious? That's strange oh,if I may ask what town is dat cos I would not want to marry into such a place and be discriminated! Am from anambra state myself but ave NEVER heard of osu discrimination! In fact my grandfather was the igwe of my town and my elder sister( a princess of the land) married an Osu and it wasn't a big deal at all, in fact it was not even a topic for discussion!!!

ChinenyeN:
What's funny is that there is even nothing to talk about, concerning this Osu topic. People are raising dust for no reason.

I totally agree with you chinenye! Really its nt a big deal at all anymore! Infact when you come to villages you don't even know those that are osu s anymore except maybe from their names! ( Names like nwosu) bt those that their families changed names a long time ago u can't even tell cos there is absolutely no discrimination anymore! So a big yes, I ll marry the one I love, osu or not!

@ op. What do you mean igbo girls too like money! Who no like better thing! Abi you want to tell me you don't like money too? Igbo people are one of the most hard working people in this country, so if they work hard to earn their money(anyway they earn it) wetin concern you for inside! Anuofia!!!

'Rolling my eyes!'

Quote from: ucheike on Yesterday at 08:43:44 AM

Did he die of AIDS

Here is a question for you! Do you have to be a jerk

Na wah oh! Why are you so bitter! I don't think all nl guys are irresponsible, u just happened to fall into the wrong hands! The proper thing for you to do( if u really care like you claim to) is to expose this person and everyone will thank you! Not the completely unnecessary generalization ppl tend to do on NL!I have bros and relatives on this forum! I even dated a guy here once and he was really sweet to me! And BTW just cos a guy is active on NL doesn't make he silly, afterall the fact U are active doesn't make u jobless does it? So why sud dat apply to guys!
Anyway if you like laugh for all the languages, no come here spoil pple mind abeg! Before youturn an interesting forum into a distasteful and unpleasant experience!smh vigorously!

Lolll! Very funny stories
I have a boss that's always asking me for my BB everyday to check her email! Its so annoying cos at times when am chatting and she takes the phone when I get a reply she won't even give me the phone to read the message she ll be doing as if the phone is her own! In my mind I ll be like 'hellooo! How much is a BB?' And she does this EVRYDAY *whew*
Then I hate when ave just finishe a night shift and the person coming to relieve me comes late! After waiting the person will jusy come smiling sheepishly apologizing! I have a colleague that ALWAYZ does that! Once I see she is the one to relive me am always soooo pissed! A particular day (on a sat) she came 2hrs late! I just left without waiting for her! Unfortunately for me a superior came around that morning and met nobody on call! Hmmmm all hell was let loose! But the good thing was all of us got the query! Plus me plus the b****h plus the seniors( that was supposed to be around bt wasn't )in fact they went round all the units and those that were not on their duty post all got queried
*smiling*

Secondly from what you said its obvious you are still a student. You still depend on your parents for money. Don't tell me after your parent suffer and give money you give it out to a guy that terrible oh! If you don't have what to use the money for am sure your parents will find something useful for it! Its a different thing if you are earning the money yourself, but don't think your parents sent you to school to go and be spending money on a guy instead of focusing on your studies. Na wah for you oh!!!

Jeez I never dated a guy that depended on me for money. But if I know he needs it and I have I won't wait for him to ask me cos most guys will be embarrassed to! But asking me for money to buy shoe? Is he ok? Na u born am? You don't have to be diplomatic about it! Its not your responsibility! Just tell him off and warn him seriously else he ll think he can play you for a fool!

My sister had a visitor(male) and as she was walking him home my 2 plus old niece asked! ' Who is dat man with ur sister, I answered he is her friend! Then she said ' is she sleeping with him?' I looked at her stunned for a while before I realized she meant will she spend d night out? I could only laugh and say ' no she is coming back' lol

@ op, your mother trying to find a wife for you is not completely a bad idea! You already said you have a lot of friends but have not made up your mind which to settle with! Just see it as the way you won't mind meeting a girl through a friend, as long as she understands if you don't like her she ll back off! You might be surprised through your mom you can meet an ideal woman! I had an ex who to me had a terrible attitude and I used to wonder how he could live in the same house with a woman. He left me for a girl his mother introduced to him! Today though they are not married she is heavily pregnant for him and been a dutiful lil wife to him( something I would NEVER had done). The fact is moms know their sons more than their GF claim to and In a lot of instances a mother knows the kind of girl that will make their sons happy! Don't completely dismiss the idea, just keep an open mind about it and make her understand that she should not force anyone youdont like on you! Shikena!

I prayed about it and God said you are the one for me! And I was like 'God did not tell me oh'

Hmmm funny story!
I went home with a guy, he started putting the moves on me and I was like sorry I can't Bleep you joor! Before I knew it he was totally naked, when he saw I was serious about him taking me home he started forming sleep and from there really slept off! The funny thing was his d**k refused to sleep, he was sprawled out on the bed and the thing was juts standing pointing to the sky! I couldn't resist snapping it! I had no intention of using it for anything at the point it was just really funny! But my sister that knows the guy, they work in the same office, and she really hates him saw the pix in my phone and took it! She then spread it round the whole office! It was so humiliating, till today the guy doesn't speak with me! Lol

There is every likelihood of this happening! Micro organisms keeps mutating and various strains emerging, predominantly due to misuse of antibiotics! These new strains emerges as defence mechanism to make them resistant to drugs!
Now ave always heard of HIV 1 and 11 but am not an experts on RVD(retro viral disease)! However the issue of it originating from Africa is not incomprehensible! When you visit these Donor agencies that help people living with HIV\AIDs your hearts bleeds! Now these organizations operate in such a way that after a while( maybe 5 or 6yrs) depending on the contract, they close down! Eventually plans are made to open a new one, maybe the same organization or another doing essentially the same thing! The time span it will take them to reopen what happens to their patients? These people are left with No drugs! And the effectiveness of this therapy depends on consistency of the medication More often than not when the patients is placed on these drugs you find out that they become resistant to then and then you have to change the therapy!
The disadvantage of this is the development of these new strains that now become stronger in combating these drugs! They may not be common ( as they are emerging) but I don't doubt their existence at all! And infact more of these are yet to be discovered!

If you have reached the stage in your relationship where you are thinking of proposing, and she is still thinking of cheating on you( not to talk of actually doing it)! Quietly go home and erase every trace of her from your life and heart! Cos this one go kill you befor your time! Delete her number from your phone but before you do text her ' Anuofia' Lol!