₦airaland Forum

safarigirl:
you are one of the men she speaks of.

You have judged her without even having a conversation. Not every pretty girl is a slay queen, as you already admitted "she is not that hot"...there are no pictures here to prove that she likes expensive things. She looks like any other working lady, but you tag her a 'slay queen', because you think that is what they look like.


You need to bother to get to know someone before you make judgments on their character, you cannot judge a person you have never had a conversation with

Oh great! I really wanted someone to quote me and you did.

Sit now and allow me lecture you.

1. A man has a natural ability to spot slay Queens. Yes! We too have evolved minds.

2. Can't you see the adornment she has all over her head. That's a slay queen Barbie material. You don't take that type to momma

Could tell you more. You just need to quote me again

Prettiepearlz:
Lol, you're funny oooooo.
Wow, my friends don reach nairaland. It is with this that I know that some nairalanders will do anything to post online. Faseblex get your facts right, they wedded in Osogbo and not Lagos.

Oh, so you are a friend to them?? Wow! So you'd be in a better position to tel me how much the father collected as dowry.

So tell me.. How much did he collect??

Tell it to my ear, don't allow anyone hear.

delishpot:
Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting?

sshalom:
Good advice but will they hear and hearken?

professorfal:
if na me keep this kind hair my mama go say i don dey copy the madman next street.

Na true. Me too self.

My momcy go talk say i resemble ghanians.

Stevengerd:
Can U Pls Shed More Light?

Stegomiah:
ARROGANCE

Not sure people still remember the name of 2007 BBN winner

He better be careful, pride goes before a fall
And in this country there are many haters and enemies who can't wait to pull one down

If he keeps on pursuing his passion, he will succeed there
#teamefenation

Oh my... You just forgot me right?? Anyways, lemme be a gentle man and 'formally' ask for your number.

Gosh, this is weird.

Grace87:
In all of this story, you chose not to understand or hear what I said? what is a platonic relationship?

...yet you quote me?? You've not had sex with him, you love home, he loves you... Oh blah blah.

If you haven't had sex with him and he's married, why can't you just go? Leave him the hell alone and go. Go find your man as he ain't yours. He's taken.

Smellymouth:
Guy go and make money joor...

When you have the money, fear nor go make dem ask for money...

And who says??

tiwiex:
Dowry or Bride Price? Usually a common mistake. The father gets a bride price. Dowry is actually brought by the woman or her family.

Grace87:
Here’s My story.

I have met this handsome Igbo guy in Varsity (University of Johannesburg), he is doing his PhD in Computer Science and in doing my Masters in Biochemistry. He is 35, I’m 27… We’ve been friends for a while, then decided to take our friendship to the next level, 3 months later into our relationship I found out that during festive holidays (Christmas) he went home and got married. I found out, as I have friends living and married in Lagos, Nigeria and when I was excited to let them know I’ve found a good Nigerian man (sent them our pictures) they were shocked, to recognize him…that’s when they told me he just got married and that they go to the same church (Christ Embassy) with the wife.

When I confronted him about it, he told me not to worry about it because he doesn’t love the wife and that he only married her because he’s turning 40 soon, and his parents are pressuring him. He also said that he only sees her once or twice a year. And that she doesn’t like to come to SA and doesn’t even want to migrate here. I’m so confused, because I don’t know what to make of it, he treats me like a queen and gives me so much love…we do so many things together, go to church together (Christ Embassy) we study together and go on holidays and so forth.

Now what puzzles me, is that in most cases we hear that they date South African woman, marry them to get citizenship but he has his own papers (Study Visa) which now the regulations have changed in terms of applying for permanent residence, he stands 80% chance to get a permanent visa by himself. And also, his wife can also get a spousal accompany visa as well, which would make life much easier for him (What could be the reason to marry someone, an leave them to go live in another country) I don’t think he is using me for sexual pleasures, as our relationship is platonic and he has never asked to have sex with me.

PS: He says he loves me and I love him too!

What do I do now? What could he be looking to get out of this relationship?

SirMichael1:
You know something about women?? They love drama. That's why most watch telemundos and stuffs like that. You find a girl in a relationship (courtship, not yet married) with an abusive partner, yet they wouldn't wanna leave because they love him and think overtime he will change or maybe because he has enough money to take care of her.

If you ask me, I'd say most rich guys are found of beating their partners because they grew up in a home where anything they do goes free and it became part of them to the extent that they do things without fear or think of repercussions thereafter. But some women too are so stubborn to listen to advice. If he can beat you while dating, can he not kill you in marriage? Ask Mercy Aigbe and Tonto Dikeh

Do not marry a guy who feels his ways are the best. Those types don't ever listen to advice.

You know you're a stubborn lady and yet you're dating a stubborn guy. He gets annoyed and lays hands on you. Stubborn you lifts hands and lay on him too. He carry bottle knack your head wella and use 'pestle' break your skull but you don't wanna leave because you're stubborn and pride won't make you. You wanna come out of the relationship dauntless and having that feeling that you came out victorious and your friends be praising you. It is well o

hardbody:
Your point (If I am getting it now) is, don't do it until you are married?

Ok ooo

Testing in za oza room is critical for the long term sustainability of that institution, if you think i am lying, go to the Customary court at Ejigbo and see what the lay judges spend days ruling on.

hardbody:
Don't sleep in a hotel
Don't sleep in his house


Where the thing go happen na? For office? Abi under water?

I tire oooo

coolestchris:
[color=Red]I will fvck till she begs never to sex me in her life again [/color]

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DoPeRoSa:
Hahahahahahahahahaha. Chai, see as your mind bend fa

coolestchris:
[color=Red]Okay Mr wise energy user, hope your energy is bringing millions [/color]

[color=Red]watch out for my new song titled "cucumber"[/color]