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Hanks0000:
Yeah. Growing up in an abusive family doesn't leave you traumatised.
I have taken several tests from several websites, I haven't met a psychiatrist yet cause it means I'm ready to take the necessary steps to become mentally well again, which I am so not ready for..
I'm in my mid 20s sir and I know me better than anyone except God tho.

Oh... Abusive family. Well that settles it! Then again, you don't have to it make part of you anymore. The trauma you developed was your body's way of handling all those hurts, pains and abuse that were meted to you. Now I believe the abuse went on for so long that you lost yourself but it doesn't have to be like that anymore. If you've left the environment, you can start healing. You can start rewiring your neuro-pathways. Consciously form a new way of seeing yourself by projecting new images in your head and negating the bad ones.

I'm .... but I've being through some bad shiit myself, maybe even worse, I remembered being depressed, wishing to be loved and
most times, not wanting to continue anymore. Hahaha. I'm not there yet and I'm also not giving up.

Just try to keep your circle right and filled with positive energy. You'll be fine.

HRSweetness:
LOL. Yes, that "Conversationalist". You keep referring to our conversation like some yapping sound that bore you, when in reality, you found it more entertaining than anything you've seen on Netflix.

Nah... I was actually entertained. As a matter of fact, the conversation was unique and that in itself made it intriguing.

I just want you to know that Ozark, Breaking bad and The Walking dead are on Netflix. What could beat those?

iamL:
I won't call it crazy or wild but stupid.

Turned down marriage proposals because of him. Not that we were even dating we were just getting to know each other and he was my kind of man.

So were you his kind of woman? Meaning, did you guys ended up together?

Hanks0000:
Childhood trauma deposited so much into my life..
My mentality and reservations about love and emotion is different..
I'm philophobic, introverted, shy, sociopath, I even sound like a girl (puberphinia <not part of my truama tho>. To summarise it all, I have CPTSD.

So yeah, I know what traumatised means.

I'm tall, good looking and a bit muscular, in fact many girls like me but I'm too scared to try relationship....

This is a screenshot of what a lady sent to me...

Lol. All these descriptions doesn't mean you're suffering from any trauma. As a matter of fact, I believe you're just plagued. Plagued by your fears but not traumatized.

Besides, I don't think you were diagnosed by a therapist so how can you say that about yourself. Futhermore, it might be you just have a very poor image about yourself which made you have low self esteem, which lead to you feeling so antisocial and always out of place in any social gathering. Like you just want the gathering to end so you can just run home.

I perceive you're in your late teens or early twenties and that is normal for a phelgmatic.

HRSweetness:
"Conversationalist". Someone who is good at making conversation.

Oh, that 'conversationalist' was what you meant? I had figured you meant something else when you guys were on about LinkedIn and Twitter.

Hanks0000:
Never been in a relationship.. ah.
I'm in my mid 20's but I'm too scared to even try .. I'm traumatised.

Traumatized? Do you even know what that means?

How can you be traumatized when you haven't tried something out? Do you mean you have phobia for relationships or what exactly?

HRSweetness:
Hahahaha. Awww.

Who/what is a conversationalist?? Couple of pages back, and you two were going back and forth with one of you springing up the 'conversationalist' word.

What does it mean?

opalu:
I think the Private Sector in Nigeria is very indolent and insolent. Infact there is a huge vacuum created by this inactivity of the Private Sector. The only people representing the Private sector are Banks that oppress the masses and Oil companies that are owned by Cronies of Government officials.

Everyone is waiting for FG to do what private sectors of other countries do. We are waiting for FG that is Rotten from the top to convert fuel cars to electric cars or to gas cars. FG or their cronies cannot solve any of our problems. See the mess they have done to DISCOS which they gave their friends. Now they have huge gbese on their heads as we speak

Yen yen yen..... Like the government made the environment comfortable for the private sectors. See, they're happily doing what they're doing and not complaining.

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debsjoat:
Your contribution is baseless. Are you saying the sorosoke youths are doing the wrong thing by questioning the leaders they elected! The so called leaders must be held accountable.
BTW, stop miss-yarning. SOROSOKE and Binance are not even a correlating compound.

Use your sense abeg!!!!!

Don't mind that stupid fool.

Jerryherd:




Some Naija youth are actually very useless, especially the soro soke , ENDSARS woke generation... If you confront them they shift the blame to Buhari and Tinubu

Many people worldwide Cashout Stolen CredtCcardss with BTC however the difference between a US , UK , Russian , Ukrainian Indian Carderr and foolish Nigerian youth is common sense,

.

You are a fool and very stupid for this boldened statement you made. What does speaking out have to do with defrauding people, you cunt! I don't support fraud but how different is fraud from curruption and stealing of public funds? Will you say the generation of our parents are thieves and corrupt? Arent these vices a thing of character and morality? Did defrauding people start with our generation? Endsars has brought much more and even revealing that the youths can be united towards a common goal.

Jerryherd:




Dead on Arrival... Politicians must spend and we must chop part of our money

Even US didn't limit what Joe Biden and Trump can spend, as long as it's from legitimate owners



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Here's goes one of your post showing how defunct you are of character, you corrupt and ill mannered piece of shït!

Medianna:
Would have love to,
But I'm not really the chatting type

Hahaha... Nicely done, perfectly curved. Ciao

Medianna:
People are seeing the future here and you're busy hating them here, my brother you better join the moving train

You sound mature. I will love to PM you. You cool with that?

SimpleGuy001:
Please I need help on this too, this is God sent to me. Please I’m a first class student serving at a private university and I don’t want to work there anymore.

I talked to my LGI that they overwork me and I need time for other commitments but he refused to change me, I’m thinking of giving him money every month so I can just be coming for thumbprinting. Or I should ask for rejection letter from my ppa (worked there for two months though). Please which would you advise, I need help desperately

Be careful when asking for rejection letter bro. Yes, be careful. Why? Because asking to not work again is an offence in NYSC. If your employer reports you to NYSC, you'll likely face a query and you know what a query means, right?

So when asking for rejection, you have to make sure that you and your employer are on the same page. I usually advice them back then about this and even encourage them to inform the employer that they'll get a replacement for that employer so that he/she (employer) can let them go. That way, everyone wins. So no bad blood.

Bruno531:
If they come for inspection nko. They issued me query last week because my lgi went for inspection in my PPA and I was not around, the lgi called me to come over to her office and collect my query

Lol. This info is for people doing their PPA in a city and not in a small town or village.

LGIs for small towns and villages no get work to do na. They're idle so they have time to inspect. Use your head with the information given.

OlawaleBammie:
Ahahahaha

And dat is the reason u can not smell heaven, just stop goin to church

Hahahahahahahaha... God should just forgive me because if not, na wahala. The info I gave people during NYSC was mad! Sometimes I even get scared that they don't implicate me. Lol.

TruthUntold:
And if by village people chance, they come to do inspection fa?

Inspection?? Lol. Which inspection NYSC dey do? Lol. Nothing like inspection. Na formalities.

victoria3135:
please i have a question, if someone has already started working at their ppa for 2 months can they change?
and not on the basis of relocation to another state, i just don't want to work here anymore, how do i go about it?

As an ex-CLO, it's easy. Collect a rejection letter from your current PPA, then go to the new PPA you want to change to and ask them to give you a letter of acceptance. Now take all these to your local government and they should change it. Most times, they'll want to keep asking you to come back the next day or the day after the next. But it isn't really stressful though.


NYSC is shít in my opinion. Changing of PPA is not even important. If I was in your shoe, I'll ask for rejection letter from this current PPA, keep it with me and make a stamp that looks exactly like the PPA's own. Then proceed to make a letter headed document which looks exactly like their own. Now I am my own PPA and my own boss. I sign at month end and whenever is necessary. My PPA think I've changed PPA and NYSC thinks I'm still in my PPA but I'm my boss. Hahaha... I gave people this info that year for cool cash oh.

LeyeWrites:
If you change your job everytime because you don't like it, guess what that makes you.

What? I don't know.

Totilopussylick:
And women with their fish brain Fell for it always

Not as if he raped them OOO

According to the story


Why

Why

I really want to know why he was arrested though. Are the woman daughters underage? If it is consensual, then why arrest him?

HenryDion:
If I'm the girl I'll ignore you. Look at the epistle you dumped on her. Even my final exams wasn't this complicated.

Hahahaha... Sincerely. I couldn't finish it.

MarquisKelvin:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will explain things to me

You're trying to be rational with a person who enjoys telemundos? Lol. Never ever try to go the emotional route with ladies. You'll never understand them because you apply logic. All ladies are materialistic and never care about whatever you plan for the future, for the future isn't certain. Since the present is, she thinks, "why will I settle for what he may never be and leave what is?".

Leave that cuñt and hustle bro. Make cash and get a young and pretty lady.

Lordedifice1:
Good afternoon nairalannders
I was the guy who posted a thread about my girlfriend says no sex this year. But now she officially broke up with me yesterday but i am not depressed or feeling pained at all,after a year and eleven months of relationship she called it off Feb 14th will make it 2years. even though I slept with her 22times and i also have her nudes up to 60nudes and 10 sex videos.mind you i took her virginity away i loved her so much so i wasn't a player i never cheated on her i was real to her we quarrel even when she's wrong i will tell her sorry for peace to reign. But she said of all a sudden she tired of me.

But i am thinking now all this video and photos i have in my possession i could use against her but i said NO
But the only thing I learnt is that no matter how you do love in a relationship never send nudes to who you love in case you guys path ways. Now i i told her that i deleted it when we were still together but i deleted it but i backed my phone so i restored my back up files i found the nudes back.
If we fall in love lets fall with sense.
Anyways I knew from on set that we won't last after she gain admission into the university i noticed some kind of stupid attitude. So when she called the relationship off i have been minding my business and i very cool because I know that i didn't lose rather she lost. I am not in anyway bragging about this.
I just want to update you guys and also learn from real stories that happened.this is what happened. Mind you I am living fine as though nothing happened i am not a redpiller neither a SIMP but a real Guy who nothing can bring him down no Matter what that thing is.
I have been this kind of person that nothing moves me again whether bad or good.


Now what should I do with this nudes guys?

Guy, delete the nudes! Don't be tempted by stupidity and yield. She's your ex and that's history. Now what you should make history, are the nudes. You sound like an secondary school student. Be wise son.

Highorbit7O16:
Na lie! It can't be HD

Lol. 2 years and now is way different oh. Gadgets (phones, TVs, pc, etc) you'll get for 50k then, you'll get it for 75k now. Phones are even the worst! The fall of naira doesn't help at all.

4teenblaq:
I don't know if mine is small or medium

Last time I measured it(erect) is around 4.8 to 5.0 length..

Circum. Is around 4.1 to 4.3

Is this in inches or cm??

Benrosaria:
Cause even studying medical science as a course isn’t to help the populace but to make money from ignorants.

If everyone was a doctor would you have been one.

Being a doctor isn’t going to school but self consciousness


Hahahahaha don’t think you should be the one laughing at this joke cause when drugs get expensive disease gets deadlier and Nigerians can’t even afford public health

Make money from ignorants? You're kidding me. I'm hoping you don't take drugs when you're sick, neither do you take injections for your ailments.

If it was all self consciousness, then they'll be no medical doctors, just therapist but the problem is, there is and they all went to medical school, to read and KNOW. You see that?? To read and KNOW, not to become self aware or self conscious or whatever.

HIV was deadlier, not it's drug is free. COVID-19 put the world to a still for close to a year but look at the vaccine? Free!! So I believe the right phrase is, when disease get deadlier, cures become necessary and solutions become free. Dhuuur!

Benrosaria:
If you need to be taken serious then you need to understand how terrible it is for a white man to bring disease to us.

Your remedy is you.


Your body is :
self healing
Self cleansing
Self protecting


I would urge you change your plan completely

The plans

Eat as aspected on daily and your meals should slightly cooked with adequate amount of onions garlics and spicy meals too

Take fruits regularly

Don’t smoke weed but get it soaked up in water or add up to your meals

Exercises every morning and evening, your exercise could be walking long distances. Cause you got much stress from work which is both mental and physical stress

Drink a lot of water

In months your body will shed off dead cells that can’t combat with the disease bringing the growth of stronger cells.

That’s how we heal in our body

Hahaha... Never ever aspire to become a doctor, else the number of death on your hand will be way more than the number of lives you'll save.

Psychokinetic:
Till one day you find yourself alone, depressed and a truckload of venereal diseases. And then you start to doubt your sexuality and think you’re better off getting yanshed by men.

So what are you advising? GFs??

MufasaLion:
Till you contract incurable diseases and infections. I don't pity some of you. Always patronizing cheap and dirty whöres.

Hahaha... I'm not a partisan to patronising whorès, but what I won't accept is that only prostitutes carry incurable diseases. As a matter of fact, most prostitutes know how to take care of themselves and rarely have those diseases but you see those babes, gfs, you call your love or nonsense, those are the ones that will give you infections and still blame you for infecting them because they don't even know they have these diseases!

Bítches aren't saints. They'll cheat for the right amount and then give you the product of that cheating: STI.

Nyascobar1414:
Diastemma occurs only in carnivores not in omnivores...


Biology naa

I too know. If I say, "the population of Nigeria is dense". What will be your understanding of the word dense in that sentence?

It carries two meaning: Very much or Low intelligence.

Diastema occurs in humans too. That's called the gap-tooth, or open teeth or whatever you know it as.

Nothing! No fucking shīt! I'm as tough as they come.

badboyTee:
My cute face oo and my stature I don't need to talk to girls girls come to me

Dude, that girl is obviously curving you.