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Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

This is exactly my problem too. Once I'm stressed or have something worrying my mind that I need to find solutions to, I ghost everything. I simply withdraw from anything emotional and just want to find solutions to the problem.

When I do this, my ex always feels very sad that I can't tell her what my problems are and how we could fix it together. Honestly, I wish I could tell her but I can't. I just want to be on my own and fix it.

I read somewhere that it's your brain's coping mechanism and somewhat reflection of how your childhood was. Something like people like this were often alone and most times, try to find solutions to things themselves and they grew up with that.

Princeton92:
Abeg is there a lady who will run away with my pregnancy

Come make we start business

You're a hopeless man.

Taylor92:
Insecurity everywhere


Who dey prison no know wetin God do for am

May you be the next convict. Amen.

Habanero05:
What does it take to be happy for me? What does it take to congratulate me instead of tearing me down? Citizen of the most poorest country in the world . No wonder none of you can afford to eat two meals a day not to talk of buying an iPhone

Lol. You reek of low self esteem, boy. 😂😂

TheBillyonaire:
\What do we call poverty of information? Cos even if you can not afford these schools, at least you should know these schools/.
You have no one to tell you cos any attempt to tell it makes one seem boastful.

Lol. An average private school charges 1m for nursery 1? Are you crazy or something?

Behave yourself young man.

chinchum:
About #500,000 should cater for the list.

It won't. Things are expensive now and the father of that house wants additional cash of 150k, while the mother wants a lot of tubers of yam. You'll need close to 1m to get these

TheBillyonaire:
The OP can as well as stay single. That list is cheaper than nursery one school fee per session in an average private school.

What? Lol. What nursery one school charges close to 1m per session. Don't be unwise please.

sonnie10:
Take it to animal shelter

Animal shelter? Who are these people? Lmao... In Nigeria? Animal shelter??

Dididrumz:
That's a rot.

Rot ko, rotten ni. That's a local dog with confused genetics.

Reduce her sugar intake and pray that's not ADHD - not like ADHD is a curse or a death sentence though.

It's just not easy handling kids with ADHD. They play too much and forget things easily as well.

Oyindamolah:


Lust is a continual problem for men. Guys are visual by default.

I have been a photographer since I was 16 and since my whole mindset is entangled in what is visual, it’s an effort to detach myself. Seeing is what I do. I consider it a blessing to be acutely aware of any tendency to look at anything or anyone. But it doesn’t make it much easier to avoid temptation.

The natural mindset is to look because you are presumably looking for a mate and when you find one, you are going to like looking at her for a long time.

As a Christian, you should trust God for your choice and not be looking around. Turn this over to Him and focus your attention elsewhere. Ask Him to give you self-control.

Wetin carry your photography skill come here? Is it a means to advertise your skill?

Besides, looking at a woman isn't bad. Humans can't resist beauty and good food.

Please guys, I ordered for an item from AliExpress since last year December, till now, I haven't gotten a call from the post office about the arrival of the item. The tracking shows that it's at the linehual office since the 19th of January.

I went to the post office in February but was told it hasn't arrived yet. I even sent mail to Nigeria post office, yet no reply till now. I don't even know how to trace this one now.

Folawealth090:
U can't think maybe it colorado u taking and u think u be able to live nicely and press your weed when u japa the cops will be after u

In US of A, no. No cop will be after you. Weed is legal there. A small amount though.

AntiWailer:
That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self.

How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills?

Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man.

So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ?

When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person

Lolzzz... Madam, I don't have time to start dragging things with you. How your comprehension skills led you to arriving at me having ego is simply unbelievable.

Take final steps and those final steps also include talking to her? What don't you smoke, tell me? Could it be that he's already arrived at his final resolve after countless times of talking to her? Do you see that talking to her over and over again is a waste of time.

Please reply me and help me doubt that you're unintelligent. I really want to doubt that your intelligence is below par.

AntiWailer:
Calm down. Sit her down and talk to her.

Let her know how frustrated you are about this, Give instances and what your expectations were.

Hear her out too and try to work things out. As for sex drive, it is normal ladies lose their sex drive because of several factors. Just sit her down and hear her out.

Let divorce be last option, suicide is not an option at all.

I don't know why I always get really angry when I see 'Calm down, sit down and talk to her'. Like what do you think he's been doing? He doesn't talk to her?

You ladies always think calming down, sitting you lots down and talking to y'all always results in meaningful endings and a change of heart.

Nackzy:
OP pls what's the Make of your Oven and how much does it go for thanks

I'm not the OP but I checked on Jumia for the price and it is 75k.

BRATISLAVA:
When people eat what they shouldn't, why won't there be bird flu? Regular chickens have diseases, then why eat parts that aren't flesh?

The legs are filthy and fleshless.

Please check the meaning of Bird flu and how it can be transmitted. Stop arguing in ignorance.

Bird flu is not an epidemic disease to humans. Infact, humans rarely get bird flu. It's for birds. Now tell me how eating the legs of a chicken will cause bird flu to other birds? Or is it humans you want to talk about? I'm waiting.

BRATISLAVA:
Little wonder that's the origin of bird flu.

Stop this nonsense! Eating the legs of chicken isn't the origin of bird flu.

Do you even know what bird flu is? Stop capping.

bigtt76:
Nice one but always stuff the chicken with either mashed potatoe mixed with spices and line the oven tray with baking sheet and foil then slice onions, fresh pepper and tomatoes to provide moisture to the chicken when roasting. It will come out better.

Huh? Are you sure you understand what you're saying? Slice onions, fresh pepper and tomatos into the oven? Do you know what will happen to those? Huh? In the oven?

Reggaemich:
Here is your answer

Other recent winners include: Michael B. Jordan

He is a black man

Even Idris Elba too. That person is funny

We'll soon start paying WhatsApp subscription.

Eyinju112:
1.I married her because of the pregnancy, it’s you I love.

2.Where were you when I was marrying that woman..

3. I couldn’t tell you because I love you and I don’t wanna lose you

Hahahaha. Does it work though?

genius43:
Update your device.

You have a lot of updates to catch up on.

Good day bro. Please what is the best screen protector to use for my RN10pro? This one I have covers the camera and reduces picture quality, also, the feel is that great.

fergie001:
He isn't.

He is bro

donpata:
Nice drink. I wish I can always have this "kunun Aya". The major problem with it though is that you need stable power to store it and keep it refrigerated. Just one to three hours of warm temperatures and it turns to "draw soup". Well done op

You know this!!! The life span of it is so small that once e tay small, you go just dey vex.

gloryhomemaker:
Tiger nuts drink is a refreshing drink full of many health benefits, it is widely enjoyed by all.

It's a great benefit to men if you know what I mean

This video shows how to make it by yourself the healthy way without any added artificial sugar.

Ingredients:

1. Fresh Tiger nuts
2. Coconuts
3. Dates
4. Ginger
5. Drinking water


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDV858DSAX4

I'm in love with your blender. What's the product please and how much did you get it?

Fedrick100:
I don’t even know how to reduce love,i have tried reducing the love i have for my girlfriend but it’s not working

Tell me how i fit reduce the love

Simple: Reduce your investment in the relationship. Your time, your finance, everything. Just reduce them.

Lol. Muslim-Muslim ticket. I can't wait to watch Tinubu in pains.

These extremists would do worse if they have power to themselves and Christians would suffer. Christians use your head. It's time to liberate yourself from the shackles of these Muslims and break free.


Vote Peter Obi come 2023. That's our chance to lead this country with all fairness.

ubee:
I'm trying to wrap my head around this your story.

You mean as a primary school pupil, your mother had already handed over responsibility of cooking some less complex meals to you and your siblings?

Was she the type that was mostly not at home due to nature of her work?

In primary school i couldn't even wash my pants, let alone cook for myself.

If my memory is right, i think it was at my SS1 that i started getting the freedom to try stuff for myself in the kitchen.

Dude, you're a guy and more so, culture plays a major role in determining when a person begins kitchen work.