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0k did i miss much? i am back wow you have all gotten deep now, very interesting.I like!

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lol lets not make this tedious now lol Shakespeare too lol , i respect that man.
Anyway it's not about all the things like writing books, going to school etc, that i would say is wrong. We are talking the very essence of our lives and existence and the relationship between the sexes


hurray hurray the bang. right on the money Donzman.

Donzman:
Women are way more influential than they think even way back from the biblical era but what do they know?

this is what i said on the last page, we have more power than we know, i think its been dulled out by feminist noise. If only we re- new our minds to see we have more power than we allow ourselves to feel, we should harness this. All this aggressor stance being adopted is so not necessary . I know my strength and i don't need to stand nose to nose with a man to show it, i bask in my femininity and command respect in a quiet way

what's funny is we women cry for more emotional men, blah blah , yet when we get it, we cry to our family and friends that we want strong leading men,besides while the feminist are breaking down the gender structures in the work place etc, do they ask or wonder who the men go home to? all broken and forced to assume an unnatural role. Answer is another woman like them lol . There is more , so much more to this interesting topic so i leave it here.

You made me laugh Donzman.
I know i must sound strange to some women, but it is not strange, many women are now running back to traditional values , because the rights they fight for in the work place etc are not so pretty anymore. Check this out. My sister and her husband were doing modern family , she is feminist . She had their baby . they had a crazy idea to have him stay home because she earns a whole heap more than him, she went straight to work after my nephew was born. She had a break down from stress and depression because she felt guilty and sad that she should be home with her baby. It's not worth it sometimes. Let men play their role, that is how mama did it

if it is true then good, too many people are dying, don't care , just get healing all those dying brothers and sisters ASAP

thank you we actually chatted before meeting lol (on the feminism topic)

lol Donzman you want people to recognise? be careful before your head goes as entertainment for our feminists

i like how we all have our own opinions. I stick with mine.What i will give to look into the the lives of people, not everyone writing long thesis on the subject of feminism are actually practicing what they preach.

WesleyanA:
maybe the definition of "family" is about to change

husbands and wives were "partners" i thought. not employer and employee

skinny men shouldn't plan to get married then. do they still qualify to be the "head"

who said employer and employess weren't partners ? . you kidding? do we want o get into socio - economic?

what is the thing about skinny men? what has that got to do with anything? lets get things into perspective.

for a second i thought this was a joke, then i got reading ,
i feel so ashamed right now. I am edo(bini) and i have not heard of uneme before. Gamine please whenever you see this, i will like to ask you some questions, hope you don't mind. Thanks

lol

wesleyana
smile!
thanks for this link, i didn't expect to see anything new, i already know what feminism entails. I think it is highly misguided notion that the sexes can and should be equal, even without the presence of political policies covering or protecting these so called rights, i still find that inequality will rear its head in relationships between men and women whether married or otherwise. Anyone under the illusion that there is equality is highly delusional and anyone trying to force an unnatural equality(as i see it) is flogging a very dead horse.  No i do not believe many(some may get it right ) women who say they are feminist actually function in the home situation to their natural capacity. It is all hard work and unnecessary headache as far as i am concerned

this is what i read on that link you kindly posted, i picked this bit, because the thing was too long

Feminism stands for full equality and choices for ALL women.  While some individuals sometimes might be misguided about how to accomplish that (or are falling into, as we all can at times, an egocentric perspective regarding what's good for their own individual circumstances), those who are anti-feminist are not moved at all by the purpose of full freedoms and choices and empowerment of ALL women, whether single or married, mother or childless, young or old, lesbian or straight, employed outside the home or not, believer or nonbeliever, member of one's own culture or country or not,   That makes all the difference, and it's also the way you can tell the difference

I highlighted the bit where it says full equality and i am sorry to say, that is not a natural expectation, it can be achieved to an extent but at what cost?

you people are so funny

who's feeding you anything by force? I just don't care for your false propaganda. You're giving a word a definition that is totally wrong. You should expect to be corrected by others.

Thiefofheart
smile! oh darling flase propaganda!! who? where? how? all i did was post my own little opinion on a topic and you took it as your responsibility to be rude and just call what i and 2cent say ''clueless'' lol and you still can't seem to understand that we will all have our own views, i do not follow a crowd sweetie. I suggest you dont either, find your own self , you probably think it is cool to say you have feminist views, well all i can say to that is live a little, get some years under you then we can discuss in a few years just where feministic views got you( dont worry i have been there too, i used to think abit like that when i did not have the responsibility of a family resting on my shoulders). I will always accept correction(in my real life), but not on a public forum when the person on the other end could still be in nappies.
lol. Again engage me with discuss, try not to be so brash and defensive, aint we doing it for sisterhood?

you got me laughing 2cents with the last one.
So there are feminist on the board lol. Well can i ask a question? how many are over 25yrs and have been married or married here please? please answer because it leads to my point and next question. Thanks lol

smile!
Your opinon, that's just what this is, and on the other hand we have those who have opposing views to yours, i do not think this topic is about one person or one voice, that is the beauty of a public forum. you have spoken i guess in your mind we all have to observe silence now.

Anyway staying on topic, to anyone who cares to read without feeding me their opinion by force this is what i agree with

1) High divorce rates

2) Single parent homes

Hard enough expecting your china to be safe with a bull around ''china shop ring a bell?''

do you write songs for any already established artiste? if you don't then it might be the way to go, get your name out there
Wishing you the best, do not give up

Sometimes yes, blame the parents, because they are in control of what gets eaten in their house. Now What the kids shove into their mouths in school or while out playing is another matter. I do think that if you teach them how to eat healthily, then it stays with them.

We can not blame some parents with children who have chemical in-balances in their brains, some kids have conditions that make them over eat, or just not burn off fat. Can not blame the parents here.(govt should assist parents here)

I say if a kid is obese at the age of 7 or 8 without any medical abnormality, then the parents need sorting out, that is just ridiculous.
Those above the age of 14 will go eat all the fries burgers, chocolate, etc just like their Friends are doing and this we can't blame on the parents.

I do not agree with govt telling us what to eat by forcing a change in our shopping habits, i do not because of principle. People have a choice.

sharetroll what do you mean sorry i didn't get that?

ThiefOfHearts:
From your comment, i believe you don't.

and you are? ,  are you the nairaland postometer? are you the resident  post analyser?
sorry i said tell me where you disagree and i will oblige you with a mature discussion on this topic. One off comments like the above are easy but not the way to go 

Thank you all . It's been great being here.
Muah! Muah! all round guys

Thiefofheart

maybe you can try discussing why you think my opinion is wrong, instead of taking an attitude that your opinion must reign supreme. You gave yours , i give mine, you want to discuss, i am open to that, just be more articulate. By the way i know the meaning of the word
sorry i didnt impress you this time around,, i'll sure try again, just let me know how

2cents
thumbs up my brother

@ toshmann, i think TOH has already answered for me but feminists are not men haters. Get your facts rights. Feminists do fall in love, give birth, build their families.

haha yes they do all the above then it all falls apart because they want to swap roles with men.

My view on this is , NO TO FEMINISM.
I do not like the idea, do not buy it , do not agree with it. It causes  too many unnecessary problems in marriages. If only Feminist would have the good sense to choose a husband that is submissive or docile to cope with their their ideas on family life then we won't have a problem. Instead they get married and give the poor man grief for life. No way thanks but no thanks, i strongly believe we all have natural given roles i.e among the sexes and these should not be interfered with. Too often we think we are smarter or more intelligent than nature, its hilarious . Women, we cause our own problems sometimes.A little education and we begin to develop feminist ways.
Love , care, respect and companionship are what matter , women have very unique position in this life, if only we could tap into the naturally given power we possess. I take pride in being a woman '' non feminist''  

HMM, I don tire!
ONLY GOD WILL JUDGE! _{Praise him in all things anyway}

Ferlie:
yOU TALK THIS KAIN THIN - IF YOU WAKE UP and find say your mouth don twist go one side - no say na your own fault o - how u go talk this kain thin?

my brother i lie? abeg no vex. My mouth no go twist oo. God knows my heart
All i am saying is even the bible tells us to check all these people who come in God's name, abi?wolves in sheep's clothing?

it has been nice talking to you. i better go and eat now, i will see you around , This forum is funny