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me drive slow? i dnt do the grandma driving styles, i b fast rider so u berra hurry up! and dnt burn the food ooo

gabrywyl:
U done with exams sis?

not even close!

ewooo, u r still warming the oven? while i'm almost there me no like waiting oo

Gabby, Seun has no power over Ebony, she is unstoppable carry on baby na him go tire

huh? did i just say that? hope i dnt get ma own pink slip 

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=259410.msg3716555#msg3716555 date=1239420154]You're invited to come and taste some of my delicacies I cooked today [/quote]i wouldn't miss it ooo

on ma way already!

davidylan:
The homosexual lobby is growing in power and influence . . . Anderson Cooper,

huh? i thought he was . . . .

David why are you all surprised? the end time is near and many things are bound to happen! IMO, this is just the beginning. tomorrow now one person will wake up from their sleep and realize that it is right, {privilege, liberty, freedom, natural right or whatever adjective they deem appropriate to use} to  marry their dogs!

Same to you too, how is your day going

@ ChuckWoody here it is



[flash=425,344]http://www.Youtube.com/v/ggWMWgRkK_4&hl[/flash]

rofl 

heheheeee Ebony chai

no mind the guys they wouldn't understand it cox it relates to them

i do waxing then maintain it with tweezers

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=260478.msg3716235#msg3716235 date=1239407905]Mommy, I love you so much [/quote]Ebony, they said Dad and you r dropping line 4 mom rofl

Itohan123:
She is from ghana and her name is something with 0b0shie


can anyone please tell me if this is a Hausa name? I can use google to find a translation if I can determine her cultural group/language group.

you said she is from ghana and her name is something with oboshie and you are asking whether it is either hausa or yourba?

couldn't it be that her 0b0shie is Ghanaian name? since she is from ghana? or is there any link between ghana names and H or Y names??

i kinda agree with debosky, if saying "hi honey, or whatever  I'm sorry" will make things move forward i wouldn't mind. even if i know or i think i didn't do anything that offended him.  maybe after saying "baby I'm really sorry for whatever  be it that offended you" will make him open up.
maybe that word sorry was all he needed to hear in order to open up or cool down.  therefore, i agree with debosky, you don't always have to know the reason behind everything before you say you are sorry (at least if the person in question is your significant other), you can always find out the reason afterward (IMHO)

@ post

male child are very important for ONLY one reason i think. and the reason is lineage continuation and it is only a male child who can be able to continue the family lineage . when the female marries, she leaves her fathers house and takes on her husband's last name and when there is no male in the family to continue on with the family name, the family line is closed.

at least, where i am from, i know of a family that their lineage has completely closed. the woman had 3 females, no male. the husband died, the first daughter also died and one of the daughters married remaining the mom and one daughter, later old age got up with the mom she also died. and the remaining daughter married out. the family house and name closed. grasses grew everywhere, the house went down and that was the end of that family. the daughters never came back. their family name erased, if only the family had a male child the family lineage would have continued.

think 4 a sec cox i think u know the answer to this.

tope2000:
Its both but nowadays it is mostly contract

exactly!

@ Ebony

my bad, didn't know u said no Heimlich Maneuver!

netotse:
*wondering where the world is going to*

y cant y'all be discussing lipstick colour and the likes?

there is a board for that!

my dear anything is possible and that is very possible. so be more careful. if they have anything to say to you request that they say it to you here. you got to set the boundaries

@ hawua

if you are going to give him/her eba/garri make sure that it is super soft and make the balls into little bitty and cover it with plenty soups, also make sure the soup is not spicy. no fish bone. as for the rice, make it super soft also, you don't necessarily have to grind the rice with your teeth cox then you have eaten the whole thing with your mouth LOL. so just make sure that it is super soft and the stew no spicy/ if needed dont put too much

@ sistawoman

there is nothing to be afraid or scared about. yea, when you had the sex talk with her you probably touched on the body changes too but not as in dept as you would have liked. you probably talked about sex in general like, what is sex, how to avoid getting pregnant, contraception, etc. but not about body changes like breast budding, hair, size, shape etc. Your daughter needs to understand the physical changes that will occur in her body during puberty. talk to her about:

   * Body Fat Increases

like how Her body will begin to build up fat in the stomach, buttocks and legs. tell her that this is normal and that it gives her body the curvier shape of a woman!. Also touch on the body self esteem issue. you know most gals these days are deceived into believing that skinny is the new black. talk to her about liking her body, self image. it is very crucial at this early stage so as to build up her self esteem. the early the better.

*How Breasts begin to enlarge,

you know In most girls, puberty is more commonly recognized by breast growth. When her breasts start to develop, tell her that she may notice small, tender lumps under one or both nipples that will get bigger over the next few years. When the breasts first begin to develop, tell her it is not unusual for one breast to be larger than the other. and , as they develop, they will most likely even out before they reach their final shape and size. As her breasts develop, you know she may need a bra. Some girls feel that wearing a bra for the first time is exciting, it is the first step toward becoming a woman! However, some girls feel embarrassed, especially if they are among the first of their friends to need a bra. Be supportive and sensitive to her needs and reactions.

* Body hair

tell her that soft hair will start to grow in her pubic area. and that the hair will eventually become thick and very curly. tell her she also may notice hair under her arms and on her legs. Many girls will question whether or not they should shave this hair. There is no medical reason to shave; it is simply a personal choice. If she decides to shave, be sure to teach her to use warm water and soap, and a clean razor made for women. It is a good idea for her to use her own personal razor or electric shaver and not share one with family members or friends.

*Height and weight

tell her how her arms, legs, hands, and feet may grow faster than the rest of her body. Until the rest of her body catches up, she may feel more clumsy than usual. Typically, a growth spurt precedes the onset of menstruation (her "period".

*Menstruation

Many concerns about puberty center on menstruation. Spend time helping your daughter prepare for her first period. There is no reason for a girl to be surprised by her menarche (first onset of her period), not knowing what is happening or why. Remember, menstruation may begin sooner than you expect. Certainly, once your daughter's breast development has started, the two of you should fully discuss the topic of menstruation. you can go more in dept with the biology on menstruation like why it is needed, what to expect etc. if you want.

* Hips

tell her that her hips will get wider and her waist will get smaller. and that this physical change also contributes to the curvier shape of a woman.

* Skin and hair

inform her that her skin may become more oily, and she will notice that she sweats more. and this is because her glands are growing, too. It is important to teach her to shower or bathe every day to keep her skin clean, and to use a deodorant or antiperspirant to keep odor and wetness under control. Despite her best efforts to keep her face clean, she still may develop pimples or acne. This is normal because her hormone levels are high. Almost all teenagers develop acne at one time or another. Whether her case is mild or severe, there are ways to keep acne under control. Talk to her doctor about treatment options for acne.

but most important on my list and personally for me is for you to teach to love and accept herself. self esteem and self worth are very important issues so don't forget to bring up the discussion.

ebony

yay!!!

thanks baby

i got it yay!

@ Ebony I'm really sorry for you lost, my sympathies

yea, when a baby start choking, i think that is a mothers worst nightmare, cox at that moment you head will start spinning, confused on what to do next.

here is usually what i do

when a baby start choking

Give him/her five back blows with the heel of the hand. Lay the baby on top of your arm, with her head lower than her chest. Support baby’s head with your hand around the jaw and under the chest. Rest your arm on your thigh. Give five blows rapidly between the shoulder blades with the heel of your hand. Then turn the baby over.

Turn baby over between your hands. Place your free hand on baby’s back, and sandwich the child between your hands and arms. One hand holds the chest, neck and jaw while the other hand holds the back, neck and head with her face up. Rest this arm on your thigh so her head is lower than her chest.

Chest thrusts. Push on the chest five times with your fingertips on her breastbone. Your fingertips should be one finger-width below an imaginary line between your baby’s nipples. Your hand should come in from the side so that your fingertips run up and down the breastbone.

i also want you to watch this video from the American Heart Association, just to demonstrate more on what i said


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFRuiayTt_c[/flash]

does anyone know how to put youtube video on here?

well i think some folks see her as a fashion icon because looking back at the previous first ladies excluding Jackie O, she is the more polished one, at least she changes things up and not always dwelling in pant and suit or skit and blouse suit. she is much younger and since many women can relate to her in terms of her age and dress sense they elevated her to fashion icon status. and she is not afraid to at least take a chance with her dressings.

however, IMO, sometimes i like what she wears and sometimes i don't. just like everyone she has her hits and misses. as for being fashion icon, I'm still yet to see that, maybe it is just too early to rush to conclusion she still has more years to showcase her wardrobe . so there is still room for evaluation.

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=259791.msg3708965#msg3708965 date=1239237118]sissy, welcome back. . . .

Don't mind me, but I odn't quite agree with your post. . . .which doesn't really matter

But like I said before, what is the point of communicating when your partner is not living up to his/her (should I say) expectations?
I think communication is(are) the corners of your wall. . . .there's a ground that all stands on. . . .that, I may not know[/quote]how u dey baby

how then would one know the person is not living up to their expectations (external or internal) when the relationship lacks communication? i mean maybe there could be some problems that's prevents them from living up to their expectations and i think it is through communication that you can really get in the person. honestly, i think frequently poor communication is the cause of relationship problems.