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i really hate it when some pple bring their religious belief into certain things that just require simple common sense. yea, the woman shouldn't deny her husband intimacy because the bible says so, really? i also thought the same bible said "thou shall not commit adultery" ? if this happened in the 18th century when at least there was not any recorded cases of Hiv/aids and other deadly diseases as it is today then i would have had the guts to swallow the thought of someone implying that wife shouldn't deny his husband intimacy.  But today, where aids and the likes, makes pple lives miserable all due to reckless, someone would still say "the bible says you shouldn't deny your husband intimacy" give me a break, i guess that's probably why many folks today especially women die with such painful diseases all in the name of love. if the so called husband, fully knows he used condom throughout his sexual prowls and knows his is very clean, i think he should have been the one to initiate the testing, or at least agree to it to show his innocence. and remember using condom doesn't necessarily equal being safe 100%, the condom could still break and leak. but instead he is there showing his egoism and still expects the wife to just give in like that, in these days and times? i'm really happy that this woman has the courage to at least say something some women in her situation wouldn't have the gut to utter and i pray and hope that she sticks to it. nonsense

and to all those implying otherwise, i really want to ask you one question and hope you answer it in all honesty

if it was the woman who cheated on her husband claiming "she and her tiger used condom" and her husband demanded a test or else no intimacy would you still imply the same " thoughts" in this case?

angel72:
if i would have one i would take it away immediately with a tweezer, never will my man see one on me, would be very ashamed

isn't she ashamed having them? [/b]Isn't she taking them away? [b]It's not very hygienic, the girl should take better care of herself,

listen miss, you are making this sound as if she is walking around with poos in her face. like i said before having hairs around the nipple is not ABNORMAL, some women just happen to have an overabundance of hair growth caused by hormones known as androgens, which may be overproduced by the ovaries or the adrenal gland. Sometimes in these cases, the period becomes abnormal, too thats why i was asking the poster whether she has irregular periods

so please don't make her feel like a shit and thank your god you don't hairs around there. being ashamed, embarrassed or anything as such is not going to help anything, it is not going to make the hairs stop growing even after plucking them out. remember the amount of hair every girl/lady has on their body varies

IMHO, i think trust is one of the core aspects of a relationship/marriage and any relation without trust is already a failure, that being said i wouldn't get all fussed up if my husband rides with his mistress in his car. i have to trust and believe that he will use his best judgment. why this isn't always the case, I'm not the paranoid type and i wouldn't take any action till i have a solid evidence that something is fishy.

nope, not weird at all, loving someone is not the same as "being in love with the person" there is a big difference

gene is a neat black gal

@ dayokanu

i dont really think anyone here is or was implying banning the use of computer in the house, however we were or are just saying there should be some restriction on the use of it especially since the gal in question is young and using the net for dating sites

age is just a number, some folks marry som1 16 or more yrs older than them and still be in love, so i dnt really think age should be the ultimate determining factor for a couple though i still wouldnt marry som1 who is 5 yrs older than me. just personal preference though.

honestly, my first reaction would be REALLY? as in suprised

she is a college freshman prolly want to be a model

i will kindly take my leave thank god it was revealed before and not after the wedding sef

OgidiBoy:
that's just nasty, it reminds me of 70's porn clips

oh yea, let the confession begin!

t12:
n how does it feels like, a mouthful of what u just ate, sounds delicious?

amosexy:
The father is not back from work. All i know is by tomorrow that internet has to be restricted. Thx guys.9t

yes, no two ways about it. stick with the restriction

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=249630.msg3687035#msg3687035 date=1238808835]that so true. no computer for kids. i wonder if sistahwoman is able to curb where her kids are doing online (with her gift of computer).[/quote]some kids are actually responsible with computers even those who have it in their room. i just think it is a matter of parental supervision cox where ever the computer is in the house, some kids will always find a way around to manipulate and misuse  it.

@ ebony

i'm .

very disgraceful

women *_{shaking head}* wondering when some of them will learn to respect themselves

that's always the problem with some "moms" they never believe you till it hits them how can her mom think such a thing, when you are actually helping her. just baffling

stick with the restriction, what about her father?

the hair wasn't even braiding, just common ordinary washing and pressing comb only and he took all my time and not even that there were many pple there he is so slow. i'm still piss off

gist me wetin happen with london gals

OgidiBoy:
I wonder if hairy nipples would be a turn on for some dudes

sure do think so cox some men just like hairy women

why are y'all  

it is perfectly normal. some gals just have much hair due to an overabundance of hormones.

@ post

you could also try sugar waxing the area. ouch, but it is really painful

@ poster

is your period irregular?

thanks my dear my day was , went to get my hair done and the hairstylist took 4ever went around 11am and came back around 3pm,

so

how was yours?

yes, hairy nipple is normal. some women just have excess hair growth around those areas and other areas in their body. you can gentle pull them out going in the direction of the hair growth with a tweezer.  note this will surly hurt cox the nipple is very sensitive  so be careful. or simply cut them off close to the skin. This is easier if you hold the end of the hair with tweezers to keep it taut. The hairs will grow again, so you will have to cut them off again from time to time. the hair shouldn't really affect breastfeeding, as long as the baby can still see the nipples and the hair is not super hairy in those in your pubic or armpits. if you are still concerned, i'd suggest you visit your obyn depending on where you are he/she might have better options for you.

but hair around the nipple is not something that is abnormal, many women have it

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=249630.msg3686876#msg3686876 date=1238804001]Why are you fidgeting?
Do you know how many kids have been endangered due to dating sites? We're talking about a 13 years old here.

Who has the floor, you or her?
Tell her and demand what she was doing. . . .if she dares to tell you that you're not her father, tell her parents then.
Nonsense! The way kids are behaving this days.

Are you afraid of her?

Ok, if na for modesty, tell her you were trying to type something on her screen, then you found out her dating sites.

Dude, do you know how dangerous what she's doing is? The guy she could be talking to might be a child molester or a rapist.[/quote]couldn't have said it better!

i mean like seriously, i dnt really think she (your niece)knows what she is doing and it is only you who at this moment can bring light into this matter. she might meet someone online who allures her into meeting him blah, blah, it is either she is raped or goes missing. she is way too young to be doing such things. simply tell her, like ebony said you were tying some address online and the dating site page popped up.

her mom needs to know about this. doesn't she have friends? is she lonely? ask her in a gentle voice the reason why she is visiting such sites, it could be cox she is lonely or lacks attention or something else. dont take this too lightly. she might get upset but guess what? she knows no better at 13 and it is up to you and her parents to set up the boundaries which she must abide by. and oh, she might be putting her private information on those sites, her house address, phone#, and her real name which could put her and the family into serious problems.

shouldnt you post this in the dating zone

daddy (though i wouldn't if i was them) or uncle or by his first name

i suggest either you or the gals parents add the dating site to the list of blocked pages on the computer, so she wouldn't be able to access it. {OR}
there are many software out there, that they can use to limit her access to the internet and it allows you to block certain site or actions performed on the computer. at least there is one that i know that allows you to set the number of hours you want the person to be online, lets say like 2hrs and after that 2hrs, the software automatically shut down the computer and it also includes parental control, which allows you or the parents to block or allow certain sites accessible on the computer. but i do suggest you do something about it before she is allured into something else cox she is way too young to be searching dating sites online.

yea, their hair are really long just that their face are