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ageless

yes depression especially clinical depression and also bipolar disorder plays a huge role in suicide cases. there is a big correlation between the two. when a person is depressed, they feel worthlessness, hopelessness,loneliness, [external and/or internal,] negativity and all the bad thoughts goes through their minds and when this person is in such position, they decide that it is better to kill themselves believing that life is no longer worth living, that death would mean no more pain/ emotionally/physically cox depression is not only an emotional thing but also physical one. so taking their lives would mean the end of it. so that's why when a loved/friend/relative is depressed it is best to offer them help very early start by listening, listening is the keyword here cox if left untreated suicide is most oftentimes the next route.

there are also other causes of suicides like substance abuse, recent loss it could be in a relationship/ job/ a loved one etc

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=260904.msg3721628#msg3721628 date=1239595077]Oh dear [/quote]nah. . . we ain't that big

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=260904.msg3721602#msg3721602 date=1239594084]this is a joke, right? right? [/quote]joke ke? LOL

i wouldn't even marry another ethnic group other than mine not to talk of marrying of another west african no i cant

we are a dozen in ma family

brein:
Sissy, nice one, bur wht u mean by bein spoilt, as in what kinda aspect.
I suspect u to heil frm d Eastern part o 9ja! Wit dis ya culture of been an only boi/male/man/guy* Proof moi wrong.

me? mistaken identity bruv! _LOL  better luck next time!

can you kindly translate what you wrote cox i find it hard to understand _{no pun intended}

and did u really have to double post this

i don't have a hero

avoidance is my keyword

Methsa:
Is it possible to hav affair to wife's real sister? How long it can last?

oh chim oo!

Outstrip:
It can even be nasty on men too. I saw a white guy with hairy armpits and maybe it's because his hair was straight and long but it kind of grossed me out.

yes most men hardly shave their armpits

maybe there is something about your attitude that turns them off

it depends for some it is real, for others it is infatuation in disguise

for yours, it is still too early to decide whether it is love or lust, there is still room for evaluation

it would have been a Yay 4 me if she shaved everything off, i mean since she wants to go bald why stop half way?

Nay for me

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=260828.msg3719228#msg3719228 date=1239509303] "[/quote]2x!

@ Ebony

I'm Forensic files fanatic never miss it!

i think it depends on the age of the child and the neighborhood/ how far the place is. if she is a little girl i wouldnt take that chance of letting her go my BP is already high enough!

@ stillwater

any reason for your decision?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=249630.msg3720974#msg3720974 date=1239571394]Happy Easter. . . 

I don't mind the thought of children having TVs in their room. Infact, I'm for it.

If you have parental controls on the TV, why not? You can block the channels you think is inappropriate.

You can't/shouldn't try to block your children from the outside world affairs.

If you're concerned about the amount of time the TV's been watched, then make a rule about it, including the time they  start/ stop watching it.

Yes yes, we can't always know what our kids are doing or if they follow the rules or not. . . .[i]But [/i]the positives outweighs the negatives of watching TV. Especially if you teach your kids to be responsible[/quote]hi dear happy Easter to you too so how many pot of rice and pepper soup did you cook today?

aha! i like this your answer so in your view supervision is the keyword. GOOD!

brein:
Wht are the basic advntages et disadvantages an only male in a family needs to know. E.G. Benefits attached of been an only son, necessary responsibilities. Etc.
Pls tender ya critical analysis et opinion either based on cultural believe or orientation.
1. What do i need to know as per concerning my family and her background?.
2. What responsibilities awaits me in the near future?.
3. Am i suppose to dominate or take charge over my fathers' wealth et property after his demise if he was rich?
4. Do i need to question my father about anything pertaining his WILL?
5. What should be my major responsibilities in the family as to what and what to interfare or decode.
These and Many more.
Pls also state if yor references are based on cultural analysis.
Thank.

1) know the location of all your fathers land and assets
2) taking/playing the role of a father to the family, acting responsible, and making sometimes tough decisions
3)depending on your cultural background, from ma place since you are the only male all the responsibility fall on you and you have to be a sharp, smart person if not you will definitely be overshadowed by those village hooters especially when it comes to family assets
4) yes, get to know all his assets, ask him questions about anything pertaining to the cultures/tradition of your land
5) i would say your major responsibility would be learning how to take charge, control the family affairs

finally dont let your family spoil you too much dont be a spoil brat since you are the only son if not you are in big trouble

TV in children's bedroom

your thoughts,

i like it? why

maybe/confused ? why

i don't like it ? why

have no idea? why

same to you!

any pix of the contestants for the hottest whatever in question?

i dnt really see anything romantic about god recreating the world without females

shouldn't this flawed theory be in the religion section

honestly, with things like this, infidelity in marriage it is a very serious problem and it isn't always a snap decision that one can just make like that though it might be easy to say things on here like leave, stay, or whatever but until you are in such real situation you cant really fully predict your decision/action when such things happen. so with that said, i don't actually know what i would do at first if i happen to catch him cheating cox i need to deal with the anger first.