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quote from osisi
[Many people do it because they can't afford nursing homes.
They are expensive.
I know people who have taken care of sick parents till they died,many of them had to quit their jobs and get on welfare and they aged a great deal with all the stress.
Some end up diovorced from their spouses because the illness takes over the entire household.
No body wants to "send their parents away"
but sometimes a nursing home is the best option for sanity sake]

yes, u r right.  but then every case is different. so it might not work for everyone

i have already repented a long time ago, i dnt use bad language again oo

nothing

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DeReloaded:
people still do what?  

keep their parent in their house plus their family, at least i know many people here who are doing it.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=6294.msg3671438#msg3671438 date=1238541836]I hate yellow. Too bright

Hope say you don't dress your boy in pink from lack of proper shopping.

Sissy, are you getting ready? It seems so o, by the way you answer my questions [/quote]hahaha, still a long way to go

[quote author=**osisi link=topic=256254.msg3671631#msg3671631 date=1238545604]Exactly.
they think it's easy
Even your pubic hair will turn grey overnight.[/quote]it is not easy, but people still do it.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=253455.msg3671628#msg3671628 date=1238545488]Would you go through with C-sec?[/quote]thats not my first choice but if complications arises i wouldn't give it a second thought

sley4life:
i understand,  my wiffy wont undergoe such. i heard kids born thru operation arent much smart. but they still have to undergoe intensive care. sometimes u see the baby coming out with the wrong part maybe the legs first, such cases are very bad, thanx for the modern era where u get the facilities to treat any disorderliness and also provide sedatives for the woman on labor so the pains might not be much felt

who fed you with such pathetic lies?

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=253455.msg3671602#msg3671602 date=1238544950]Once you do C-Sec, you do it for the rest of your babies also.

So no C-sec ppl  [/quote]nah, due surgical technique today, vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC) is possible in many cases. In fact, 60 percent to 80 percent of women who try VBAC have a successful though it is not right for everyone but it is very much possible

[quote author=**osisi link=topic=256254.msg3671595#msg3671595 date=1238544746]Many of these people answering are small girls,college students.
Wait till they're married with a family of their own and a career.
I would have said the same thing 10 years ago[/quote]it doesnt always work that way. some people say something and stick to it. when it comes to my parents i dont compromise.

if someone tells me not to come to her home, i will gladly oblige especially if there was a disagreement at least i would stop and just to let things settle.

if your mom still regard her as a friend, then she should reconcile with her, i dont really know the cause of the argument so if it was a minor thing then she should just reconcile with her.

OgidiBoy:
What if you on a fixed income and your wife is out of work and you live in this tiny two bedroom apartment with 3 kids. And what if your mom is getting social security and can afford one of those lovely Elderly homes, is it still wrong to have her live there till things get better ?

nah, i dont think it is wrong cox she is not staying there permanently.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=256254.msg3671532#msg3671532 date=1238543711]LOL thanks.
As you can see, I yearn to learn. . . .my friend once told me that my curiosity would be the end of me someday [/quote]hi, baby i don answer the question oo, check it now

sley4life:
i get coffee&kola wit me, mayb i go wire am electronicaly for u,
abeg i dey feel for una wey de go child birth, abeg make una take heart, the part i hate is when the labour goes otherwise, i have lots of experience wit ladies that got operated cos the baby stuck during delivery

yes thats always the scariest part coz then it is do or die

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=253455.msg3671474#msg3671474 date=1238542589]I'm very peaceful, I just hate it when men try to bring women down.

Hmmm, maybe I'm kinda a feminist. Just a little  

@Sissy
You seem so knowledgeable when it comes to kids. . . .I know where I know my part from. . . .are you a mother, elder sister, or a student?

If you don't mind me asking  [/quote]

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=256254.msg3671515#msg3671515 date=1238543361]Sisssy, see as you dey always try to avoid my question. . . .I left you a question on the baby sex thread.
If you're not comfortable with answering it, just let me know.
I assure you, I'd understand [/quote]no nah, i didnt check the top post.

no vex na, i will go and answer it okay

sley4life:
na u be the poster,  u supose de sleep now abi na aus u dey

do u have sleeping pills, cox i cant seem to fall asleep, mister?

or better, come and tuck me in then?

sley4life:
i guess u arent geting my pt. didnt u read where i said the painful part is the delivering part(labor). before getting 2 labor do u knw the pains u feel b4 & after. . the first labor is kind of painful but thereafter the pains arent felt much

now you r on topic!

so wot was that your ranting about eve eating and all that about them

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=256254.msg3671483#msg3671483 date=1238542736]You can get a home healthcare nurse to stay with them.

I'm telling you, the Nursing Home sucks!

Atleast at home, your grannies have everything they want [/quote]some of those home care nurse sef are bad, when you go out some beat them

so even if i will keep them at home with the home care nurse i will install a surveillance camera in the room cox i dont trust some of those folks

yes oo, to me i think it is unfair for me to leave them there in the hands of strange and some are even maltreated there.

personally taking care of them when they are old is IMO the greatest reward and thank i can really say to them

tope2000:
u still here? when is ur internet run outta money??

i seriously think he is looking for someone to pick up an argument with on such useless topic

so like you said, i will keep my peace

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=253455.msg3671462#msg3671462 date=1238542326]We're talking about labor.

If you don't know what the thread is about, kindly take your leave,[/quote]Ebony, no mind him. just keep ur peace. he aint worth the extra time

no, i wouldnt cox it is my duty when they are old to take of them cox they did that for me

sley4life:
kip asking, go ask baba we create us why, as i said before its has to be like that, d opp gender has to carry the pains cos they initiated the troubles we are facing nw wit the serpent,

seriously you are really pissing me off with this your ranting here

tope2000:
Nasty . . . .i guess their own comes with a perfume

hahaha

no mind them, you can imagine pot calling kettle black

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=6294.msg3671410#msg3671410 date=1238541173]You go shop for both sex?
So how you go decorate the nursery?  
I'm not only talking about the clothes here  [/quote]decorate it the unisex style baby . . .

tope2000:
You dont have to colour it blue or pink . . . ,  yellow is a unisex colour

Haaaaaaa . . . . .have u ever been to a baby section in a shop u wish u have a baby to buy clothes for . . . their clothes are so beautiful

oh dear! yellow is my least favorite color

yes oo, after seeing those cute clothes, you just feel like buying all the cloth in the store

tope2000:
That is another serious issue . . . . .why do men run away from this??
Am i the only that suppose to clean the baby's poo?

most of them are scared of the poo cox to them it seems nasty as if they dont do it themselves

tope2000:
U dont even have to . . . . they sell lots of lovely unisex clothes for babies

yea but some like pink for gals, n blue for boi's so i will buy both colors

tope2000:
This is why there are books for new fathers. . . . .so he shud hit the bookstore n get one immediately im preggers

yea, some of them are too lazy to flip a page of any book sef changing diaper sef can be a war between iraq and iran

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=6294.msg3671382#msg3671382 date=1238540555]So do I, but who wants to be shopping on the last minute esp when the woman is not able to drive or leave the house?
You think say your husband go dey babysit? [/quote]i shop b4 the baby comes. buy both boys and girls cloth and those i cant buy i will give the list. he must learn oo