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i didnt see my option there

what about folks who likes looking like their age, no minus or plus

i prefer the current me

sayso:
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“Initially I rejected the suggestion, but they convinced my wife who persuaded me to do it,” he said.


~Sissy~ what can you make out of that quote from the man.

someone who cant stick to his NO.
someone who was persuaded and accepted
someone who is probably seeking "mercy"/making excuses under the pretense that the wife is the culprit and he, the mugu
not this "that means the wife is a bully in the house" or this, persuading someone =being the bully in the house

OP

the issue was previously discussed on this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-73994.0.html

Lol. i can imagine, the many Huh's and pardon's you will be going through

i dont think i can recognize a fulani woman when i see one , although i always hear many people say they're the most beautiful in all the tribes in Naija.

i know the health benefits of MC is still a contentious issue for both supporters and opponents of MC

but i'm core believer there is some. and oh yes, the sight of it is just more welcoming

i just think vaccines will be a more effective weapon against malaria. hoping there will be an effective one in the near future cause it surely will save lives

i know youre against it, i was just pointing out the correlation most folks often make. yes both are quite painful but we can say theres is at least some positive benefit healthwise in MC unlike FGM.

i mean c'mon, thats the female joy button

what people go through all in the name of whatchamacallit is beyond me

@ Elazur

seen as "Female circumcision", just the same was a male circumcision.

i know some people make such correlation but its definitely not the same. there is rarely(few) health consequences associated with male circumcision (S/L) unlike FGM that carries many health issues for girls. its just a barbaric thing, it doesnt really matter if its cultural or not

LOL @ gonorrhea thing. one would argue the same thing for other stds but people are just unwilling to be proactive with their health. baffles me though, but i can only wonder.

youre right about BSA, and like you said, who really knows for how long we can rely on that with our ever evolving environments and new discoveries of infectious diseases

youre so right on that antibiotics thing. microbial infections like gonorrhea and the likes are even growing more resistance to antibiotics. i think in a place like our country i dont think the precautions needed to at least avoid more resistance to antibiotics are in place. we are definitely going to be having a serious trouble worldwide with regards to the resistance thing

i remember when Dora was the DG of NAFDAC, many fake drugs were dismantled. we just need stronger and tougher enforcement if not in 20yrs time we will still be having the same issue

sayso:
the woman forced him,[b]taht means the wife is a bully in the house.[/b]Women please help Men in this world.

but they didnt say that in the story. and i dont see how persuading someone equates to being a bully

yes. no one was born a xse expert there is always the first for everyone

Elazur, the spambot hates you, so get over it. Lol .  anyways here is your post:

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[b]**Gosh someone fix this damn anti-spam bot. This is the second time I am having to make this post. The first one wont appear**

In my opinion, there is no reason for concealment at all.

As per internet/self diagnosis, it is a rising problem every be in America, UK, Nigeria, India etc. I think Nigeria should look at adopting a strict drug control approach like we have in the UK.

Prescription drugs in Nigeria should be just that and that only, Prescription drug! No one should be able to get into a pharmaceutical/chemist shop outlet and buy anything they want. It is a very dangerous practices to everybody in the long run. It offers no benefit whatsoever.

In the UK, Prescription drugs can only be obtained after a Doctor or [certain nurse] have seen patient and feels it is necessary for them to use certain drugs. They are then given a "Prescription paper" that contains the stamp of the hospital, information of the doctor, the hospital number and issuing authority etc. This is then taken to a drug outlet store where it is checked before drugs are given to the patient/person.

I think we really should adopt this kind of/similar method. It sucks that anyone can walk in a shop and buy anything they want in most cases. It is a dangerous practice.[/b]

we are still getting there in Naija, but for now, i dont really think the practice of concealment is going to change any soon. many fake drugs out there, even if we implement the prescription paper only method you described, people are still going to fall victims to fake medications. and personally, i think if concealment ensures the safety a patient then . . . . . though, i think patients shouldnt be ignored when they acquire the type of meds theyre been given but many patients arent assertive when it comes to that aspects of their health.

Elazur, the spambot hates you, so get over it. Lol. anyways here is your post:

[b]**Gosh someone fix this damn anti-spam bot. This is the second time I am having to make this post. The first one wont appear**

In my opinion, there is no reason for concealment at all.

As per internet/self diagnosis, it is a rising problem every be in America, UK, Nigeria, India etc. I think Nigeria should look at adopting a strict drug control approach like we have in the UK.

Prescription drugs in Nigeria should be just that and that only, Prescription drug! No one should be able to get into a pharmaceutical/chemist shop outlet and buy anything they want. It is a very dangerous practices to everybody in the long run. It offers no benefit whatsoever.

In the UK, Prescription drugs can only be obtained after a Doctor or [certain nurse] have seen patient and feels it is necessary for them to use certain drugs. They are then given a "Prescription paper" that contains the stamp of the hospital, information of the doctor, the hospital number and issuing authority etc. This is then taken to a drug outlet store where it is checked before drugs are given to the patient/person.

I think we really should adopt this kind of/similar method. It sucks that anyone can walk in a shop and buy anything they want in most cases. It is a dangerous practice.[/b]

we are still getting there in Naija, but for now, i dont really think the practice of concealment is not going to change any soon. many fake drugs out there, even if we implement the prescription paper only method you described, people are still going to fall victims to fake medications. and personally, i think if concealment ensures the safety a patient then . . . . . though, i think patients shouldnt be ignored when the acquire the type of meds are been given but many patients are assertive when it comes to those aspects of the health.

i bet you didnt understand the whole lyrics of that song

MRbrownJAY

i think theyre the same couple. this is just the old version of the story. lol


@ topic

embarrassing

blame it on menopause

nah, your and Still no mind me jor. i no b any Fulani jare.

lasttime i checked my passport, my nationality said Burkina Faso

stillwater:
Lol, it's true now. The girls are beau-ti-ful.

yes o!, women envy our beauty, men cant help it

FL Gators:
lol i tot you were Igbo

Ebony, i will sue for you for identity endangerment

Mad,

your post isnt showing . it was arrested by the spambot on its way here

here Mad's blocked post:

[b]Before we go to how to grow your hair, there are some mistakes you may be making you MUST stop first:

1. APPLYING RELAXER TO ALREADY PERMED HAIR WHEN RETOUCHING
This is deadly for your hair. Even the relaxer manufacturers tell you NEVER to do this. Apply relaxer to new growth ONLY. When it's done, wash and style your hair. The more times you apply relaxer to old hair, the weaker it gets, until your hair won't have volume but will be thin and unhealthy. Strands of your hair will break off at different lengths, and will look as if it's stopped at one length and isn't growing.  Stop doing this, don't let your hair stylist do it , and don't exceed the number of relaxer minutes for your hair type because you think you're 'cooking' hair.

2. HARD BRAIDING
Tension pulls the hair out by the roots and breaks it. NEVER let your hair be braided 'hard'. It will break, especially around the temples.

3.THREADING WEAVE ONS TO YOUR OWN HAIR.
If you're fixing a weave-on, don't let the hair extensions be tacked to your own hair. Have your hair woven neatly and THICKLY with straight hair extensions so it can absorb the shock of all the brushing and styling your weave on will be subjected to while on your head.

4.SMALL TOOTHED COMBS
Don't ever use small toothed combs on your hair, or allow it to be used on your hair.  You will pull out your hair, or pull some of it halfway out, which will fall out eventually. The smallest gap comb should be a wave comb. Brush hair with a huge comb first, then a smaller comb, then a wave comb.

5. EXCESSIVE HEAT
Very bad for hair. When your hair is in curlers don't sit under dryers  set to excessive heat. Dry your hair under the lowest heat setting, or take the curlers home and have them removed and your hair styled the following morning.

Stop these things first if you do any of them.[/b]

stillwater:
Nope. Because they rush to pageants does not make them the most beautiful. Most beautiful and you can't even make an impact on the world's stage, abeggi.

The prettiest girls I have seen so far are the fulanis.

awww . . . .i know right? we too much!

barbaric, inhumane, ugly, wicked, unjustifiable, and just plain ignorance

@ waladis

good points.

OP, above all na only God feel protect and save man. you just have to keep praying and hoping they dont remember you cause theres no foolproof around those animals

na you come! you see now that her case has little to do with poverty but everything to do with "love".

i think every patient has the right to know and even if the patient is not assertive, the doctor should explain the purpose and uses of every drug they administer to the patient

i can also understand the reason of concealment in a place like Naija, where people will choose to self medicate which in many cases endangers their health.

we arent destined for it.Lol

yea, she is kinda of old but at least she has one especially after losing her kids

but am also happy about the introduction of IVF at least many barren women now have another option

^^^^

thats what many naija folks call it

dominique:
i hope they pardon her. her child died by her hands, that's a worse punishment than any jail term can offer.

right. this is indeed a terrible accident

Emeka spare me the emotions. the dude only contributed only 3500 to the brideprice while she handled the other expenses and youre trying to tell me that those other marriage expenses were less than 1000?

she also brought a car for this dude, she paid the apartment they lived in and i'm sure that she was also responsible for the everyday feeding and upkeep of the house moneywise. abeg jor

and yes, i am sternly against domestic abuse in any form. i'm not condoning the dudes beatings in any form. and yes she is a victim. however, i dont think poverty played any role in this as you implied rather the most abused word called "love"

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=453428.msg6141520#msg6141520 date=1275526308]the dowry could be N1000 or less, it doesn't make her affluent in any way. Cut the poor lady some slack please. Remember she is the victim here .[/quote]