₦airaland Forum

meyri:
It great but not easy. I am the oldest girl and not married but my younger sister is. And boy do I get the insults rained on me. My mom tells me i am not setting a good example by not getting married. Older women say that I should be ashamed of myself because my younger sister has married before me.

thats sad! these kinds of situations push many women to marry drunkards, wife beaters,useless men and some even meet their death all in the name of answering "mrs"

but please dont let the pressures make you accept to marry just about anything that has a third leg

Navi613:
it's simple, U LEAVE!

if only it was that easy as those 5 words L.E.A.V.E

true. but somehow that seems to be their culture over there

A study by the child protection commission shows that between 2001 and 2007, the number of children smoking between the ages of five and nine jumped 400 percent. That is tens of thousands of cases and does not take into account children like Aldi, who are under the age of five.

i dont really see how a 2yr old could tactilful over power his parents that they will so helpless and have no other option than giving in to his cigar urges. the parents seem not be concerned about his health but about

cost of spending four dollars a day -- Aldi smokes an average of 40 cigarettes daily.

interesting enough, the parents(the mom was smoking while preg.) said they have quit smoking but the son is still on it. quite sad

aww . . .pele . will keep looking for any others

also, i had a popular movie thread that was "locked" (10months and 45K views after i opened it). . . . . . . the reason i was given by Seun was simply these 2 words "illegal thread"but when i had first opened the thread, the moderator confirmed to me that i was within the rules. i sent Seun numerous emails to get some better explanation but i never heard from him again!

maybe he was probably referring to the illegality of the sites you posted

your case was prolly maybe one of the fews but am sure theydo give reasons for any ban

the smartest thing to do should also be to give a reason for the banning so that people can avoid doing "whatever they did" in the future (IF they did anything wrong). . . . . . . . . but there again, we dont deserve an explanation.

they do give reasons

fingers crossed hoping its right! wishing you retentive memory on your exams

In fact I'd prefer a very reserved marriage with in-laws and best friends.

your parents or relatives nko?

kai! wish i could be of help but am more into bio. sorry hun

IMHO

i'd say the introduction first before the proposal

no mind Emeka jor

everything we must attribute it to poverty.

the woman paid 95% or more of the bride price all in the name of poverty. Emeka abi?

Ebony, what kind is it, general or bio?

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=249630.msg6126232#msg6126232 date=1275337042]grandma to a human baby abi na your pet you dey refer to?

anyway, i dont believe you. [/quote]Aunty Tpia, it was recent na, so am still getting use to the whole process

i didnt tell you she is a weekold and i have been the one getting the sleepless night feels like motherhood all over again

why not go to a general hospital and make your intent known? am sure they will help you help others

i'm not sure of other african countries but i dont think such will happen in nigeria. dont think our parents are that crazy

@ Tgirl

welcome back!


@ Ebony

i became a grandma recently. my daughter just gave birth a week ago. theyre here with me and its been a joy being a nana

@ Champie

you sure you still want a granny like me

no mind them

[quote author=Aloy_Emeka link=topic=453428.msg6121923#msg6121923 date=1275263898]Y'all should stop blaming the abused woman. Poverty and illiteracy can make you act silly sometimes.[/quote]you mean "love" [ can make you act silly sometimes.]?

^^^^

abi.

some women sef

of course its the parents. the person here in question is still a very small child. he doesnt know the damages hes doing to his health and his young lung

and he will get away with it so dude better go and repair his car

wrong section. too much shouting. hard to read.

Lol    

woah! highly embarrassing and quite sad

nothing changes still. lets assume its positive its better at least your unborn child will have a greater and better chance of being protected from it

so dont let that scare you that much

i think its good couples to be are required to do test cause many have paid due to deceit of their spouse hiding their status

its ok to be scared due to possible unknown but once you get it done, you will have some fears lifted off you. since youare going with your wife to be, you both can lend each other the emotional support you need. good luck

BEAUTYGURU:
Lol !
I wonder o ! face 969 wetin u dey hide? Ashawo !
Honestly, wetin he wan do if say e dey hiv +ve ?
Move out ? Call EFCC ?

can you answer my question here?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-443984.0.html

Romeo4real:
Chaircover, what kind of fantasy is this? How do we know?Well, the OP said she gave it to him. He is currently on medication for it. Or should we now disbelieve the OP?Also, the PID was found only when they paid a routine visit to the doctor. 
If he gave it to her, and she made no mention of it until the routine examination discovered it, surely she would have raised hell. The fat that she didn't shows that she either gave it to him, or is not sure she gave it to him. Do bear in mind that PID infection can take anything from 3 days to 2 mths to develop.

of course thats what he would say, you expected him to come and say "oh i gave my fiancé an std and now she has PID"?

for all we know, the dude could have been the carrier. since this one side of the story give the woman the benefit of doubt

wrong section