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he better go and get tested and possibly start treatments early. inasmuchas going for the test is scary its the only way to overcome his fears

What does the man stand to lose by paying for his wife to be comfortable after the divorce especially as he can afford it?

greedy is the keyword. as you can see he already claimed she didnt contribute anything to the business so why reap where you didnt sow? since the woman doesnt want to suck up to his bs and wants to quit therefore she should as well find herself a means of living with her OWN money

Would he rather she sold pure water or gala on the street? What is wrong with peoples consciences these days?

he could careless sef if the woman did worse things. conscience ke?

What I don't get is why/how do people who used to love each other so much can become so spiteful.

thats divorce for you lol. where couples show their true ugly selves esp when there is huge property/money at stake

grin it and put in the freezer

OMG that pic is too graphic!!!! Emeka add caution to the heading abeg


the heart of man is indeed wicked. they will chase you when youre alive and even when youre dead they still wouldnt allow you to rest in peace

those Kobes shot is weird! like wdh

[quote author=Dr. Tee link=topic=458717.msg6178944#msg6178944 date=1276054864]@Sissy: Now I see your point. But you know, it would have been a lot easier for me to get it long before now if you had been a little less negative or a little more civil with your initial post.

I see your position but you wouldn't blame me for putting this up anyway; quite frankly, the post you reffered to might be quite distant, it four years old already and might not be easly noticed by casual nairalanders. I didn't noticw it myself until you call my attention, though in a queer fashion.

I don't intend to harangue with you. Please keep things at bay.

Peace![/quote]i wasnt negative in anyway or had any intention of of being so, when i replied your thread. i guess you greatly misunderstood me and just came on the offensive as if i said something unheard of or insulted you. i showed you the other thread because it was extensively discussed there and the method is still the same.

anyways, peace to you too

Outstrip:
Good counsel is the key. I just hope that it is someone who will not be swayed by the money that her husband might be able to bribe him or her away with

thats definitely a big one. how could we have forgotten that one sef along? lol for me i'd say the chance of that happening is 65-75% cause the husband will do everything in his power to make sure the woman get less.

how i wish we could follow the case and know the final outcome

Welcome back MHC

@Sissy: The picture is clear. We know who the pretenders are! One of them has come up publicly to speak about hpb and thrombosis while coming back tail between legs to ask how to calculate!!

i see youre still having issues with yourself. too bad cant help you with that.

because i showed you a thread where your "safe period" was previously discussed youre biting yourself huh? dont wound yourself because theres no firstaid around here you hear?

amazing!

yankidelta:
Of course i prefer a younger look.Coming to think of it y will one prefer an older look?

because not everyone want the "forever young" look

iice:
[color=#9900ff]lol. . .true that
But i think its cool to know how to speak atleast some language[/color]

i think its cool too but the problem is that most people think why learn something thats not marketable in the gobalworld unlike other foreign language that gets you somewhere. for instance if our mother tongue was french or spanish which are one of the foreign languages spoken by most of the countries in the world, its very marketable business-wise and otherwise unlike Yoruba,igbo, huasa and others.

and then you have the inferiority complex of accents(which i personally think bs) and the mentality of being 'oyiboized' and lack of pride in our identity. all these things are definitely taking us to the future where (english only please signboards) will be the new black for both young and old. sad, but its exactly where we are heading

Outstrip:
It just seems that when a lot of evil against women is done in our land a woman is usually in the middle of it. For example the Oba that just attempted to kill his wife came with another wife to do his deed. We have ekaette trying so hard to pass a bill to persecute women when in that same country we have women being forced into prostitution just so they can keep a job. Female circumcision is usually done by women and as you can see with yerima it was woman who matched in his defense. I don't know what it is or if it is just conditioning.

true but i think this is unpredictable cause if you get a male judge who shares the same view as the husband, "you dont reap where you didnt sow""she is greedy" blah blah or who has extreme POV. it goes both ways. but i think she will definitely get a substantial share of their property if she has a good counsel(s)

i will never spend money on this riri hairstyle


https://i.huffpost.com/gen/172236/RIHANNA-RED-HAIR.jpg

where are we heading?

to the future

Ujujoan:
But seriously oh, did you really have to wear white!

why not?

[quote author=Dr. Tee link=topic=458717.msg6171325#msg6171325 date=1275949303]@queenafric: Thanks a great deal sister. May the good God bless you. You just saved a lot of babies from been lost at the abortionists' tables. I'm sure a lot of people all over the world would copy and keep your post for record purposes. Don't mind these people who talk about being playing safe,  like if these safe things don't burst and all that or if all of them are indeed comfortable with 'protection' as against 'flesh to flesh'. Its unfortunate that a lot of us out there are simply hypocrites. Thanks once again my sister![/quote]no need to burst a vein or raise your bp. you hear?

big father:
Different strokes for different folks.

quite sad from both sides

yeye

i too want it banned but then again i think it'd impossible to outrightly ban it. the big cigar companies are willing to tap their own personal saving just to fight it. but i think the best we can do is to ban it in some places and educate people on the health-risk associated with smoking because not every smoker knows whats health problems are in store for them.

people still believe in this?

better be safe than to be sorry relying on a "safe period"

aisha2

be strong for yourself and for the people you truly care about and who loves you.  suicide only creates an illusion as a solution to a problem but it really solves nothing instead creates more problem/burden and on people you least think it will affect

like others have suggested talk to someone you truly trust and feel comfortable with because a problem shared,  is a  problem half solved


remember this too shall come to pass just have faith and think positively no matter how hard the good thoughts may seem to comeby. there is always light at the end of the tunnel but only if you believe it. be strong mami and dont give in to the false hope suicide gives. dont let it defeat you.

artificial nails is a big no no for me



https://fashion.3yen.com/wp-content/images/artificial-nails.jpg

really?

this is seriously awesome

he will hear wey after coming home, three days straight he has heard the last of it.

youre late to drop off our son to school but too early to help your female friend and jack her car and possibly drop her off? oh yeah?

switosman:
@ Alloy

you can sy that to the buzards, there is much to this than the eye can see. she definitely need some alimony but she shld know that nigerian divorce proceedings are still in infant stage. culture plays to the guy most time.

they are still in the infant stage only when youre a poor man not when youre rich and armed with a superb power lawyers

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=457484.msg6162200#msg6162200 date=1275820938]Why is the woman annoyed, the man wan chop fresh meat na![/quote]and thats why she wants her own fresh greens and properties. why is the man annoyed and getting all defensive na?

funkybaby

am  by your ordeal!

Ruq

no go try any salt and water. go and see a dentist and know the position/conditions of things in there. thanks funkybaby for suggesting those hosp to Ruq at least now hes no more excuse

many people on the food sec have been looking for this same book ever since. it must be a popular book judging from the demands here. anyways goodluck in your search

i think it depends on the particular kitchen products youre interested in.

although i havent used any of app from the provided options but i think maybe you could make your question more specific (?)

as far as we the people are concerned plam oil na palm oil no minus no plus

the only differentiation we make between oils is groundnut and palm oil

so like Missy said as long as its red, we go use am

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=457484.msg6161190#msg6161190 date=1275788829]I don't know why Nigerian men go bananas whenever issues boils down to losing part of their fortune to their wife during divorce proceedings.?. A real man should be able to let his wife walk with as many as possible without winking because a real man is confident in himself that he will make another one.   Nigerian men are no real men in short.[/quote]and most of these rich men are usually those who request/demand their wife become housewives because they can provide for the family but when yawa don gas they will like to cling to their properties and remember the wife no contribute shhs shhs. yeye people

dont forget to check it out just to be on the safe side