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@Mukina


I wish Mukina good fortune.

My birthday is Jan 11th

@Topic


Only a fool would shut down Nairaland

@Radiant

Like she was worth having a man's baby huh? Why didn't the man want to settle with her? How did she end up having a child with the man?

You don't get it. She is the one who is taking care of the baby, not him. That is why I said he was not worthy of having a baby for and yes, any woman who takes care of her child is worthy of having a baby.

Radiant, it is clear that you and I do not agree on much so let's just leave it at that okay. I been in Nairaland long enough to detect when someone is responding in a tone that suggest their negative ego is in the way and I do not wish to exchange words with you if you are going to get on my case for talking from a black perspective. Your opinion of me is biased and I don't want to continue word exchange with you because it will not be leading to an objective understanding. I advocate ex prostitutes living productive present lives, I think like an human being, they to deserved to be marrried if that is what they want. That is it and that is all as far as I am concerned.


Now you have a nice day.

@Mamaput

Mamaput, I was using black as an example. I could have used Asian as well but you know black is my specialty.

However, that does not mean that I am not concerned about Asian prostitutes. In Cambodia, prostitutes are as young as 4years old. Old white men doctors and lawyer type etc. they travel over to Cambodia to have 4 year old little girls suck them up, or to actually penetrate these little girls and guess what? It is the brothers and fathers and mothers of these little girls who prostitute them out to these men. The little Cambodia girls call MouthAction, Yum Yum, can you believe that? They have been trained to sell MouthAction as a product called Yum Yum. Cambodia is a very poor place and rich white men are taking advantage of these peoples poverty. This is what I imean when I say that people have become victim to other people who are not human enough.

Like You said Mamaput, in Europe, a white girl is a prostitute for the money, not because she has no other options to support her self.

For some reason, for people of color and white people, the reasoning for why they do what they do is always opposite. Rich white people generally do drugs because they have the money and the time to do it. Black people generally do drugs to escape black misery. Do you see what I mean? I could go on and on with this but I will stop here. This is why when I speak, I speak form a black perspective or a people of color perspective because that is what I know. I don't understand white people and thzt is the bottom line.

@Radiant

I hope you not here again with your "pro black" thingy? Undecided We are talking about prostitutes in general. Whether green, red, black or white race, a prostitute is a prostitute. Wink

You must not have learned me yet. When ever I get a chance to speak from a black perspective, that Is what I will do and I will not be stopping. So, I think you should get used to it or don't waste your time responding to my post because when I reply to you, the word black, African or Africans is going to be in at least one of my sentences.


Now, if you must know why I talked about our African sisters. I talked bout them because if I am not mistaken you are of African descent your self. You never know if you could have been in the same situation as one of our African sisters, what you would have done. Would you want to be rejected for doing what you had to do in order to survive? Survival is a human thing and being that some of us humans are not human enough, other people on this planet have to suffer. We don't have to go into the politics of why Africa and Africans are suffering. Our African sisters, even the ones who are prostitute, they are some beautiful women.

I know one here where I live. She used to be a prostitute in London and she just gave birth to her first baby after having so many abortions. I am proud of her for not being selfish enough to keep on having those abortions and finally giving birth to a beautiful African baby. Unfortunately however, the African man she had the baby with, he wasn't worth having a baby for because he sleeps around and is not interested in settling down. My point is, now after being a prostitute she is a loving mother who gave up prostitution a long time ago and now she is a mother. Some day I hope she can find a loving man to help her raise that baby and I don't think it should matter that at one time she used to sell her body.

How many women do you know who have had several male partners for free, without charge? You don't know. That is the whole thing. The only difference between a prostitute and a woman who sleeps around in my opinion is, the prostitute is smart enough to charge.

@Radiant

I hope you not encouraging prostitutes and prostitution? Please, lets stop rubbing around the damn shyt. It is bad and please lets try to encourage a quit to it.

I am not encouraging Prostitution or prostitutes and I don't see how you came to the conclusion that that was a possibility no my behalf.

All that I am saying is no one is perfect. A lot of our African sisters are prostitutes and lord knows when they were children, they didn't say "when I grow up, I wish to be a prostitute."

People are abandoned by their family's and as a result they can't eat and they don't have a place to sleep. There are other circumstances as well that I will not go into. A woman in those types of circumstance may turn to selling her body in order to survive. I say that if she is no longer selling her body, she should not have to suffer a double jeopardy of being rejected because of what she used to do in her pass.

@Crazykid

1. can i wake up every morning and thank God for giving me a lovely wife like you
2. can i boast of here anywhere i go telling people how decent and special my wife is
3. can i satisfy her sexually.
4. can i enjoy my honeymoon with her without any negative feelings

1. God is knows for giving us gifts in packages we never expected God to give them to us in.

2. Why would you want t boast to people, all that matters is what you and your wife feel. Who do you want to satisfy people or yourself?

3. It depends on your self esteem and confidence.

4. It all depends on if you are clear that only love matters.


@Radiant

Sista me, Once a prostitute, always one!

Then I guess you can say once a poor man always a poor man. Or once a sex addict always a sex addict. Or once a woman who sleeps around for free, always a woman who sleeps around for free. In which case, who would be the stupidest? The woman who sleeps around for free or the one who gets paid for it?

Only before marriage you test for HIV?

I agree

Prevention is better than cure! Those who can marry a prostitute, I wish you the best in life.

Are you advocating abstinence? If anyone has had sex, weather a prostitute or not, they need to be tested before marriage.

I didn't say they can't be married but Sista, I can't marry a prostitute. Can you marry one?

Would I marry a male prostitute, it depends on how long he has not practiced prostitution. No one is perfect. I would much rather a man who has prostituted to women than a man who claims to be an "ex" homosexual.

@Mamaput

I agree with you Mamaput, they need to stop wasting their time picking on this young girl. Anyone thinking that this girl is money hungry must be someone who can not afford a lodge and so he is hating.

In my experience, it is always the men who have nothing that complain about a woman who desires a man with money. Those same men would not be caught dead with a woman who cares for them if she is not as attractive as the so called high class women. Those same men only crave the women who only want men with money.

@ Harvey Hey don't blame this girl for the high class women who reject you, find a woman in your own league.

@Havila


Havila, I have not been reciviing my notifications to responses in topics I contribute to. I am getting together the facts right now and I will be back to answer your questions.

And no, I am not a Rastfarian

@Radiant

Marry a prostitute? What kind of sick joke is that?

I don't see anything wrong with marrying an ex prostitute.

What are the chances of you knowing of the fatal skeletons in your mates closet?

How many women marry men who at one time used to engage in homosexual activity and now they are married to him?

How many men marry a woman they thought was a virgin but she in fact was not.

All I am saying is, if a man knows the woman he is about to marry used to be a prostitute, at least he is aware of her skeleton.

Nobody is perfect not even you.

In case you over looked, I also said, if a man is to marry an ex prostitute, test should be taken to make sure she is not HIV positive or has Aids, but then again she needs him to be tested as well. Anyone who is planning on getting married and they have had unprotected sex in the past, weather they used to be a prostitute or not, they should get tested to prevent the past from becoming a future problem for the future marriage.

@jammin

christiana, how can you say you love Sista and you don't know what love is.

I hope that Christiana sees your little smiley face on the end and knows that you are only joking.

@Mazaje

religion is really the opium of the masses

"Karl Marx" a white man said that his self. He is one white man we should take notice of. After all he is related to the people who are the masses.

Mazaje, You say you are confused but I can't see where. Everything you said is right on, I can't see any flaws in what you said.

The question is, what can be done if anything about this matter?

Africans and black people period, will kill you if you try to come and and tell them to get rid of Jeeeeez - us.

To them, that would be blasphemy and their rationale will be that the will of God is that you be gone, in other words dead. At that time, in their mind, God would not have a problem with you being killed - even if your being killed by yet another religious fanatic.