₦airaland Forum

@Gaby

Sista, there you again very blunt and funny would love to have a one on one chat with you someday that is if you are on msn or yim

No baby, not on YIM but that don't have to stop us from talking though. I have an email you know?

I just love my people and I don't like for them to be fooled, you know we have been fooled long enough? I am glad you appreciate my being blunt and exposing the plane old truth. I am also glad you have a good sense of humor

Email me anytime okay?

@Topic

I find it very interesting how black people in nairaland support this white Cucchi in her relationship with a brethren Nigerian man. However, when a AA sister comes in here and tells the story of how she is with a Nigerian man, she gets told things like the Nigerian man is using her, or that they are culturally different, when the thing is, any black person would be more compatible with another black person way before a white person would be. Why are you guys lying to this White Cucchi? Why do black people always feel the need to support and comfort white people even to the point of lying to them.

@Cucchi, the Nigerian brother is only using your for uninhibited sex, I am sure you give it to him in a way that our Africans sisters are afraid to give it to him. You are wasting your time, that Nigerian brother is infatuated with you, you are a living dream for him. Trust and believe, when he awakes from that living dream of white Cucchi, he will be sneaking around on the side getting him some of that Black Cucchi real soon. You are an infatuation for him, he probably needs papers and his family is probably in on it. Nigerian family's would never truly accept a white woman for their son, it just won't happen unless its out of convenience.

I know white men are boring and black men are the best but I think you need to learn to tolerate white men because they are your natural counterpart. Why don't you take what you learned from the Nigerian brother and go back to your white man and teach him what it means to have soul.

You said you wanted to know what people think, well there it is, no holds barred.

@Ibexy

Come to think of it, they are sometime easier to have than our sisters out here.
An average African lady wants you for what you've got only (apologies to the genuine ladies).
Most white babes love u for what you are.

What you said was not well thought out. White women want you for what you have also. They may not want you to have money like black women do but think about it, most of the time, white women already have money and a well to do family with money. In that case, only thing white woman wants from the black man is his black love along with his black sex. Black man loves a woman better than white men and the black man is more exciting than the white man, the white woman knows this.

Black women may seem to only want you for what you have but that would be because she does not have it herself and she was raised to believe that the man is supposed to provide but not all black women are like this, me being one of them. I am AA and I have always been independant, I also see nothing worng with me working and the man taking care of the house.

Asian women, they won't get with you if you don't have anything besides your Dick to offer. Asian woman is subtle though, you will never think she is with you because of the money.

Then again, think about all those white women who marry rich black men, are they with black men because of love? Please. White women want the same thing black women want, the circumstances in which the black woman or white woman is in, determines what kind of man they will seek out, one with security to offer or one with good loving to offer.

Something is very wrong with black and white being together. I say that because it is becoming an epidemic for black men to want white women and as black men leave black women for white women, black women also begin to seek out white men. If it wasn't just black and white intermingling with each other and other races of people was in on the mingling like Asians, Indians, etc. I would see it as okay but something is very wrong when it is mostly black and white only, the two groups of people who have a very bad history. Why is that?

I rate Crazykid a 10 for realness.

Crazykid gave Rich4now some advice that was nothing but real talk.

@Dvampire

she is a sex freak,let her have sex and then the proof that she had that same sex with someone else behind her boyfriends back will hit her. think about being used and dumped. i think she'll have that prick of conscience that she has been a slut all the while (unless like you said, she has her head phucked up)

Your method if is of a mad mans method. What if that method backfires, making the girl feel she is even more worthless causing her to keep sleeping with all these different men. You forget, she had been getting dumped already by the men she has been sleeping with behind her boyfriends back. For her it is not about being a sex addict, sex is not her problem however her problems manifest in the form of her sleeping with several men. The issues this girl has goes beyond the act of sex. That is why I said, why try and make this girl realize anything by digging her real good and then dumping her? He would be just as sick as her if he slept with her again, just to teach her a lesson. This girls head is messed up.

If a woman has thoughts of not being sexually desired by men, you wouldn't sleep with her to make her feel wanted would you? Especially if you know she has had pass thoughts of suicide due to her feelings of being undesired?

People who do drugs, they are only addicted to the drugs because the drugs help them to temporarly escape the problems they may have through out the course of life.

For people who are addicted to sex, it is the same thing. You wouldn't give a drug addict more drugs to make him realize that his addiction to drugs are harming him, would you?

@Ndipe

There you go again with your anti-white comments.

How is what I said anti White?

I can't win for losing around here.

@Ndipe


Hey Ndipe, if you wish to marry a human white person, go ahead and do that. If you don't think anything is wrong with human white women, do your thing.

Stop worrying about  what other people think is wrong with it if you see nothing wrong with it yourself. When you ask people what is wrong with something you your self approve of, it seems like you are not that sure that you really approve.

@Dvampire


Vampire, don't you get it? If his digging her was pelasing to her in the first place, she would not be getting dug by other men. Digging her real good and then exposing the tape to her is not going to make her feel any more guilty. The girl obvioulsy has a problem. She is not only permiscuous, but she is a lier. Why would he want to have sex with her one more time when her head is phucked up? He would only be contributing even more so to the problems she already has, unless he is just as sick as her that would mean that they are both sick, especially if he sleeps with her again in effort to get sweet revenge.

He needs to let the girl go, or stay with her and work through her sickness, which ever he feels is worth the effort.

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@Sani Malik


Don't even confront her, you have all the proof you need. You already know she's a lier so why waist your time? All you are going to do is make matters worst by confronting her becuase she is going to keep lying. Even if she tells you the truth that the recording is her, do you think after her lying to you and sleeping with another man that the relationship is worth keeping? Just walk out of her life, make her wonder what happend to you. Don't do anything drastic, stop thinking about your self, this girl obviosuly already has a problem and you doing something drastic to her will not make her problems go away. Even worst, don't hurt your self, why would you want to hurt your self behind some girl, you better move on and get another woman.

How long have you been with this girl?

You guys must not be to far from me, it is 7:18am where I'm at.

@To All


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