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@Gaby

You using to much junk on your face, give your face a break.

Black people have natural oils and if you overwhelm your natural oils with constant washing and soap, your skin will become dry. Try washing your face at night with a light cleanser, let your face air dry and then apply an overnight moisturizer. In the morning, do not full wash or scrub your face, just clean your mouth area lightly with a non soap cloth and clean the corners of your eyes. Then reapply more moisturizer. What ever you do, do not overwhelm your face with soap and do not scrub your face, only pat wash it.

@Christiana

You don't have to prove anything to anyone sweet heart.


How are you doing? I miss you little sis.

@Topic


If I had known this topic was still generating replies, I would have come back a long time ago. For some reason I have not been receiving my notifications of new postings as they come in. I just happen to come back to this topic for the hell of it and i saw what people have been saying.

I wish to address this quote first.

@ell77

Also, you have stated u were a virgin and disflowered by this new guy, yet in your posting history you present yourself as very experienced sexually. I notice u did not disclaim this in your reply posts to Sista. I applauded Sista for having time for u as I don't have time to console liars I know too many already! If u had come on thispost with the truth I would have not put that last statement, look at my statement before I saw u were supposed to be lying to us.

For one thing I don't know if you are black or not but I am and so is Christiana and that makes her my little sister because I am much older than she is.

I read some of Christiana's old postings before I made the decision to have time for her. To me she struck me as a girl in need of attention for what ever reason. She is my sister and she needed me so I came to her aid.

I am not calling Christian a lier but if she is lying, people who lie, they need help. We should not be condemning her, black people do this to much to each other and it needs to stop. We all have skeletons in our closets and no one is perfect so who are we to judge this Christiana?

Your trying to make her feel guilty is not going to help her and to all the others who are trying to mock Christiana, you should be ashamed of your self. This girl has done nothing a lot of young girls have not been doing these days. If she were a boy, I think you guys would think what she did was cute or manly.

I am not saying that what Christiana did was right but already enough times in this topic, she has been ridiculed. Now it is time to give her healthy advice and stop acting as if we our selves have never done anything wrong.

Please, abeg, Christiana is our sister and you should try to teach her instead of ridiculing her. Talk nice to Christiana and, you may be surprised at how sweet and intelligent she is. Give her a chance to show that she deserves humanity.

@Ell7 again

@ Sista, imagine if he forgives her, and she cheats again! Will u concentrate on making her feel better and how 'it's not your fault - u are confused'. Or will u let her know confusion or no confusion. What is wrong is wrong, what is right is right! Whatever, I guess u do it out of concern anyway and there is no fault in that.

I understand what you are saying ell77 but attacking her is not going to get her to want to take your advice, it will probably only make her continue to rebel. If you want to help someone, you have to first show that you understand them other wise they will see you as talking down to them, as if you are superior to them and that is not going to help Christiana or this young man she is having this problem with. She has to be able to respect you and respect does not come easy for people who attack other people without first allowing them to explain things in more detail. If you would ask Christiana the right questions, I am sure you will find out that her behavior has a lot to do with something else. It is not that she is promiscuous or enjoys being promiscuous, it is about something else we need to help her discover.

@Shango

we Africans readily adopted Christianity from Puritans and missionaries who viewed our populace as barbarians and condemned our native religions and theologies. Why don't we accept wholeheartedly their other imports, like how we are monkeys and the lowest on the human evolutionary scale. Afterall we readily accept and paint a blue eyed white Jesus on murals in our Catholic churches, even though the people of the region in the bible where clearly NOT european, why not take on the rest of what they brought to the continent? Same goes for the idiotic African Extremist moslems.

I totally agree with this whole statement.

Look at the fundamentalist Christians in the USA and how they have been led to the sluaghter politically and policy wise by the Neo Conservatives. They are such idiotic sheep they can get them to vote for them proclaiming God fearing values and then behind closed doors and closets sip the man juice of the descendants of Sodom.

Damn you ar so right!

Religious fanatics the world over are morons. From Jews to Christians to Moslems. Every last one of you.

Again, I totally agree with you.

Ofcourse white people take christianity as seriously as we do. And it leads to disastrous consequences, both in the so called 1st world as well as the 3rd world.

Yes white people take Christianity seriously but not in the foolish way that black people do. White people use Christianity to benefit and uplift them as a whole. When white people speak of God, they are speaking of their self.

Black people are actually speaking of some other entity that is better than them. Being that White people colonized and enslaved black people, then gave them white Jesus. Weather black people believe it or not, the entity black people now worship, is white people