₦airaland Forum

Men should stop selling themselves short and get women in the best of her youthfulness and fertility.

These women don't lower their bar when they allow you into their lives and even when they do, later, they move on to those who meet their hypergamic standards either materially or genetically

Frezhkid10:
Same way I met a girl about a week ago..she would call me everyday to ask how am doing and we talked and kiss a lot..they se asked me to add money to her money to buy an android phone for here..I obliged and said I will consider the option..after one week she asked for a wrist watch then I told her I was jobless that corona took my job(just lying thou)...since then she just changed towards me...if I don't call her she won't call me..and all other negative attitude...I just dy thank God say e protect me from a gold digger ..

Dump that leech's ass if you like your life.

Guys should stop playing themselves short!

GreaterFuture1:
I wonder why you are telling us this tho.
I would never in Understand the rationale behind Entertainment Gossips tho, not even in 10 Lifetimes.

Most people are inherently stupid. They were the ones gossip magazines were made for. Too bad that they make a high percentage of the population.

Most of the names mentioned so far don't cut it to me like intelligent folks (or whatever that means to mediocre-minded Nigerians that litter this forum).

An extreme few on the list make fairly decent contributions without making it a mess but most folks on the list are the noisiest on nairaland threads. . Others just clown with their IQs lower than that of a stone.

If that's the criterion for making the list, the lousy monikers that spam the thread with pornographic photos and bet photos should make the list too

ubunja:
lol I've been working on other stuff, plus taking a break from NL because too many people are losing their minds over ubunja and the miseducations. I had to rest. Plus I was on a long ban so I just when the ban ended my mind was elsewhere. Also I'm working on my books now. And I'm about to start pimping so..

Back like I thought you would! Lol.

Welcome.

Put the pûssies of these hoes on toast. These bîtches better start having your money like Rihanna.

ObaKlaz:
The sad thing about Nigeria as a nation is that we can easily pinpoint our problems and even profer intelligent solutions.

...but at the end of the day, all the talks and deliberations remain nothing but mere talks and the status quo stands.

It's bizarre.

You know Nigerians the way they are. It's the same for their leaders. They know the problems, the way out but only talk about it. No action.

stainchris:
If we want to really make head way in this our God forsaken country.

We have to start from our bogus military-like constitution and ensure that we have a central database and go digital in all our operations most especially our election processes.

Scrap federal character and quota systems.
Scrap state of origin, ethnicity and religion from our constitution.

Invest massively in our educational systems,both formal and informal. Make primary and secondary schools free and compulsory.

Invest in electricity and health care industry.

Put the right persons in the right job no where he or she comes from.

The judiciary too must up their games and ensure that justice is done without delay.

Decentralize power and make the states and local government source fund independently.

Chai, they know all these but greed and selfishness won't allow them.
We keep moving in circles and keep blaming each other.

Una good morning oh!!!!

You are as good as talking to yourself with these great points.

Do you think the evil humans who make our government don't know all of these you stated above?

The best thing is for the nation to crumble and all of us go our way. Oil would soon be useless. That's when we'll face the reality.

Toks2008, the whole idea of beauty, Looks and leagues is a mind thing and this is how men spoil a lot of chances for themselves and other men when it comes to getting women.

Professional Gold Diggers exploit these weaknesses in men to get resources even without giving the pûssy.

Because of thirsty men that lack dominant masculine frame, I know more ugly women who have a bigger ego and self entitlement than that of a cute super model.

For every single women described by these weak males as "extremely beautiful", there is a bad boy/player tired of banging her and don't give a damn about her looks/league.

My personal advice to men is to get a woman with decent, modest feminine qualities and stop hyping/overrating this tasteless ladies because of stupid looks.

Sammiel:
reply my email please.

Foolish simpleton forcing yourself on a girl.

No wonder Nigerian girls dey treat una like the weak trash that the most of you men are.

emmaodet:
You should know that the more civilized the world is becoming, the more people will start challenging the Norm.
It is not only marriage that is been attacked daily, it goes to all the things we think are normal before.
Marriage
School/Education
Religion
Jobs/Work/Employment
And many more.
Marriage because people especially guys are now wondering while they should put so much energies to keep Slaving day in day out when there is less stressful alternatives. Life is all about alternatives.
Why should you keep paying for more and more on firewood or kerosine for cooking when there is cheaper gas?
Why slave away your life when there is cheaper FWB, bedmates, open relationship/marriage etc with more rest of mind and less drama.
School - people are now asking if going to school and having certificate is not a waste of time and when there are no jobs?
Religion - you know there is a rise on pastors attack lately likewise tithes
Jobs - people are now questioning while they should keep working their asses from 9-5 for a job that barely pays their bills when a musician, footballer, yahoo guys, runs girls are making far easier money and enjoying their lives.
All these have made the modern man lazier because no more moral to do the good things.
Welcome to the side effect and drawbacks of Capitalist System where the efforts most people will input will be inversely proportional to the output thereby making most to be depressed, unmotivated and lazy to do legal and moral things any more.
Once again, welcome to Globalisation, Capitalism and Civilization

You are wise.

libertyfather:
It's too late, I'm drowned

ZooOga:
" I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy"

NL sages clap for yourselves. y'all always say some of these females wanna run up the mileage and body counts then wanna settle down with a good guy! Salute!

I thought I was the only one who noticed this because I saw no one made reference to the bolded part.

The bolded part is a subtle sign of a lady with a high notch count. The OPs boyfriend prolly saw through this scam and decided to play smart.

Boss13:
Are you willing to give him a prenup? Will you run to the courts and seek protection when he says he is no longer interested again?

Since you know his fear - tell him you would sign a prenup to reassure him. If you are not willing to do a prenup, then let the man be.

I do get your idea of the "Prenup"

However, I want you to know that prenups are not watertight in protecting men from the family courts from being exploited (specifically in North America and Europe). The family courts can still trash your prenuptial agreement and give the woman more than half of all you suffered to earn in your life as a man.

It's the reason why an increasing number of men are dumping the institution of marriage in the west.

Boredasf:
bro how did you know!!!?? .. lmao
He specifically complained of this rationing of sex stuff oo.

The moment he settled down into dating and marrying her, he is no longer the prize. The wife is now the prize and sex becomes the bait.

Anything she wants is tied to his urge for sex.

In the background of all of these is that, women never get married to the alphas they truly love, abort for, or have their first kids for. They are stuck with who is ready (the alphas won't settle down for excess of options and understanding the trashy nature of women). They marry the beta-simps who they despise in their earlier years but who have now improved their status of having regular income and few resources to sustain them.

After having kids for these simps, sex becomes a chore for them because they were never attracted to the simp at the beginning or simp never had her sexual imprint.

Sometimes too, these women have so many body counts that they find it hard to pair bond in marriages. It's generally believed that if a woman has a body count of more than 4, she loses her ability to be have genuine affection to men. The beta simps she ties down in marriage eventually suffers all of these.

TheRedpillguy:
Lol this guy is on the redpill. Try as she may. The manosphere saved another one. Success!

I was surprised at the responses of most of the males (who one would mostly consider as thirsty simps) on this thread. Most are going MGTOW without even knowing it.

Nooil:
If you marry a good wife, you'll gain legitimate children, peace of mind, constant gist partner, constant sex mate, a foresighted being, a real estate agent, a real estate investor, a stock investor, a backup plan, a supporter and helper, a cuddle partner, a doctor, a pastor, a spiritual guide, a teacher to your kids, a Sunday school teacher to your kids, career planner for your kids, a business development officer.... Should I continue? Just pray to God to give you a wife. It won't always be rosy, but when two work together in harmony, the world will be under their feet.

Same old bull shît.

All these can be gotten outside the confines of marriage. The "illegitimate child" thing is nonsense, used to goad men into carrying the responsibilities of women (who never take responsibility) for anything.

Homo Sapiens started settling down into the union called marriages barely 10000 years ago. Up till 50 years ago, marriage made sense but with the rise of feminism, abolition of gender roles and an extremely high economic pressure on men to level up, marriage has become outdated and men all over the world are dumping it all together.

Intrepid01:
But some girls don't mind sha....a young lady I've been friends with, she just graduated from Unilag. Around December/ January I told her wanted her to conceive for me and she was cool with it. infact we recently dsussed it again and she's still cool with it. I asked her if I Dad won't be angry, cos her mum is late, she said her he won't be mad at her at all. Unfortunately me I was just joking about it but the pretty babe is damn serious about it.

That babe already submitted herself to you, asking you to lead. If you can handle the responsibility of treating her and your kids well, go for it, but be smart about it. It could also be a set up to father a baby that isn't yours.

Clown!

Boredasf:
alot of my friends always complain of how their wife changed after marriage.
One called me yesterday complaining bitterly of how his soft and cool headed girlfriend suddenly changed after he married her;the guy is even contemplating divorce sef but the lady don get bele

It seems women treat men well during courtship than when married.

The bolded is true.

The mystery and unpredictability that the single guy held to her is gone. Also, she may have probably married him for his ability to provide (as a beta-simp) while she has her eyes on the asshole alpha who wouldn't settle into marriage with her.

Now, she rations sex while also detesting him.

Marriage sucks for most men.

Solababa91:
Do the crime, pay the price. a plot of land for sale very close to the main road, at Falegan along Ilawe Road, Ado Ekiti, contact me or whatsapp on zero eight one six nine nine two seven zero nine four.

Who go fit buy this your land if no be yahoo boys, armed robbers, corrupt politicians and civil servant?

Ramos16:
How do these celebrities easily impregnate girls, why is it so damn easy for them

The reason is because women flock to HIGH SEXUAL MARKET VALUE males and donate their pussies (even, for free). Status (among other men), Resources (Money, land etc) and Persona (Alphaness/Desirability from other women) establishes your value to women. These women may even be richer like in the case of TuFace. His high sexual market value being a music star with sex appeal made richer women have kids for him.

Try to make yourself one and you'll be amazed at the result.

Most of the nairaland girls yabbing Davido for his philandering wouldn't hesitate to drop their panties in his presence without him even saying a word.

uuzba:
Why are Nigerians, despite ALL this racism, still queuing up to get American visa and green card? Why?
They want to go there and fight inequality? And yet abandon our own inequality here?

You should know the answer already.

The inequality and the poor value of life in Nigeria will make one ignore the failings of the American system just to be there.

The American "inequality" is a lot better than our "inequality".

beejay85:
I doubt that ...Nobody will want to stick his or her neck out in this delicate case....
who will want to risk protesters wrath on thier business?he will likely spend a long time at least till the protests subside

You obviously don't how rooted racism is, in the American system.

America in itself was built on the back of racism. Caucasians bullying the Indian natives and enslaving blacks while using the intellect and money of Jews to prop up their economic system.

There are many pro-white groups that receive covert funding by closet racists who exist in every facet of the American government and this folks already consider Derek Chauvin, a hero.

If he gets sentenced to jail, he has been promised protection by one of the notorious racist prison gang called the Aryan Nation.

Corroro:
While people are mocking people me I'm here smiling cos FCMB just paid me 1k for opening an account and funding it.

How is that possible?

Nigerian banks that are stingy and exploitative

Poloyanabo1:
Good one i hope the 20million jobs get saved and more creeted too for the thousands of ngerians left Jobless by covid 19...
On a lighter note I've gotten used to nigerian politicians lying, its no longer a new thing!
FTC on a monday morning?
its not about the money, its the feeling!

Guy, use language wey u sabi.

E obvious say English na big war for u.

The nonsense you typed above can cause brain damage.

Just let the dead nigga rest already

This one just hit his moment of truth!

It's impossible.

This is war!!!

I don't know whether to be happy or sad for them.

As ugly and racists as Chinese are, they are probably better than the angry set of Nigerians they are going to face.

post=90144430:
NCC should do something about this ASAP

You and I know that they won't do anything.

NCC probably has a hand in the increase sef

Plus, they know Nigerians would do nothing after protesting.