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BadRadio:
I just cant wrap my head around it. I ve observed overtime and I am still wondering how these things happen.

You see a very good looking dude/lady getting married to a not so physically appealing and compatible dude/lady.

Some might say it could be that the lady/dude has got some monetary influence or that his/her dad is Otedola, Sir Tony Elumelu or Dangote or something like that or that he/she has inner beauty/qualities and all that.

Some might say the definition of beauty can be personal sometimes which doesn't take any particular conventional explanation and that it usually lies in the eyes of the beholder.

But let me ask all the fine boys & pretty ladies on Nairaland. "

"Can u get married to a ladyGuy that doesn't measure up or complement you with his/her looks"

I believe that every good looking guy/ lady deserves an amazingly beautiful/ handsome woman/guy to get married to, at least for the sake of posterity... let the unborn kids be proud their dad/mum made the right choice

ipreach:
A Social Media User has taken to the social media to advice newly married couples to stop using hotels to spend their first night.

In the post made on her Twitter page, @JustSociety4all said the same bed hired by some men to sleep with prostitutes is where some people lay their marital alter.

She continued by saying even if you have one room, sleep there and don't mess up your foundation.

See what she tweeted:



https://twitter.com/JustSociety4all/status/1226917226445524993?s=19[/quote]Loud it

Wearabletech:
Lol, quite funny, but nature is not stupid. The baby is suspended in a protective sag that shields it from shock or resonance. Not even an infection can get to the baby. Some men may be disgusted by the idea. But science has proven that it's perfectly safe except in women with bad obstetric history.

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.

It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.

Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf (my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She doesn't even visit on a regular except for sex.

Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

Akanoaaa:
You need to listen to that song bro.

Beckysexy:
It's okay Kid
Bygones are bygones.

Beckysexy:
Awwn sorry BBY boy, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings tho.
I'm sorry

Beckysexy:
You're here trolling a girl all in the name of getting her attention , while your mate are busy with there lives.
Mumu

Beckysexy:
You're senseless
That's the real fact, deal with it.

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.

It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.

Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf (my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She doesn't even visit on a regular except for sex.

Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

sussybae:
TRASH

dzionist:
I have a girlfriend we have been together for more than three years. I've assisted her financially and academically. But recently she started misbehaving and when i confronted her, she said her mentor said she should pray first. Besides she even say no sex in the relationship before marriage..

pode:
Hahahahahahahahahha, my guy I laughed because this was the samething that happened to me, three of us under go three days fasting, slept in church, without coming out; I even absent from work for the three, one week later the mentor came to inform me that the Holy Spirit shown him that that my lady, she's the one the shown to him to married.
Guy if you love e your life, leave that girl because she's going?? Gone!

Amakavula:
hey handsome

Davash222:
90% of beautiful women don't have sense!

Amakavula:
I noticed this a lot, like Nigerian men are petrified of pretty women.

Been on dates were the guy stammers for hours.... another one where the guy's hands keeps shaking like wtf..

I noticed guys are afraid to approach me, like you see them gathering and planning who would come talk to me,but non grew enough courage.

Took my friend's sister to an audition ( cos I drive) all the dudes do say hi over 10× , smile like sheeps without one courage to talk. Even the one that tried struggled.

Is this a self esteem issue?

Beckysexy:
It's not about looking good, it's about the cash and moreover you look irresponsible.
PS- Please don't smoke around that little kid.

Ginaz:
If they get to you then stop bringing all details of your life here . Is it everything you post concerning your relationship?

Duh!!! It’s now getting boring.

funmisticqueen2:
Add another condition na!! But I love this.

He better do it publicly.[sup][/sup]

budaatum:
So, I've read some of your threads and I do not agree that you "genuinely love him regardless".

How can you possibly "genuinely love him regardless" and be posting all you been posting asking those who don't know you nor "love him regardless" what you ought to do?

If you love him regardless you'd love him regardless and do what you want to do regardless of what Nairaland thinks you should do.

You know what your heart says you should do Casalinda so stop being Casandra and do it regardless!

mechanics:
hahahah, take am easy na, am just asking a question.

mechanics:
Did you talk to her about what you saw in the chat, if no, then how do you know she's has been cheating on you?

Frankicent:
21 years old.. No wonder still small and inexperienced. Most you all date? Can't you all stay single enjoy life and save your self from troubles and harm? See now disappointment won kill you..

You went to your gf pass and let you to a guy place for 3 hours... F*ckng him...

And St*pid you waited... I swear she don Tie you.

A real man would walk out within 5 Mins..


I can bet that she would have disrespect you in front of that girl. Don't ask how I know..

... Bros no be you get that girl.. Na that guy be the real guy...


Now you broke after spending all on her... You just too d*MB... Money that you would have given to your mom or use it for something better in your life... Na fake love you waste am on...


Now you claiming she love you... You F**lish .... A woman who love you will fear you and wouldn't cheat you ooo.. She's just using you because you cheap.