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[quote author=pearl~hapi]my opponent obviously has little or no knowledge of the topic“money is required to sustain love”no one is arguing love shouldn't be utmost in a relationship but that money isn't a factor is a no no,you just mentioned your husband took you out on a date,could you please tell us and state firmly that he did so with paper or sand or he merely said I love you and you both found yourself in an outing centre.permit me also to say that you knowing him\having an affair with him started with the date.imagine you guys saw at the supermart and he took your number,called you and kept saying I love you I am sure that's your own defintion of love but then he went an extra mile to take you out on a date which he did with money and if actually you ended up footing the bills you also used money/quote me wrong.[/quote]my footing the bill was not to spice-up the relationship but to prove to him that his money will not buy my love.
Now if you say he spent money to take me on a date, then I guess I paid him back his money by footing the bill. Therefore, it is right to say he spent nothing on me that day.

Hit me harder baby

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[quote author=pearl~hapi]so how did statements like lack of communication destroys love come to be?and what is communication without money?words like girls dating broke ass guys which is frequently used by lots of guys\girls is also a daily quote.have you ever wondered how aristos and sugermummies gained so much ground in our society?well it is in a bid to look/remain good,with a nice hair do and general body maintainance that led a lot of girls into such acts like runs,my next question is do these girls have boyfriends who appreciate their goodlooks made out of runs?oh yes,and not only do they appreciate the looks they go about boasting to friends about how goodlooking their girlfriends are even tho they contribute nothing to making such personality.so if a guy appreciates something good why or how does spending money to make it a reality potray its a money based love affair?lack of money in a romantic love also makes lots of ladies disrespect their spouses,it has also made a lot of girls cheats which has led to distrust in a lot of relationships.And then my opponent made mention of our fore fathers not spending a dime financially on their women.this brings to heart the story of romeao and julliet.Romeos deadly act of getting himself and he's love julliet poisoned was made possible through income,the deadly poison he got was a very expensive one that only the nobles could afford but yet he afforded it no matter how expensive it was all to protect he's love.that's to tell us that money has always been important in love affairs.talking about our fore fathers not careing about money but love,has my opponent ever wondered how and why exchange of humans for money came to be?a lot of our forefathers who had so many children with a wife they could hardly cater for made it through by giving out one of their children out in exchange of money to cater for the rest now that goes to show that even our forefathers who cared about their spouses needed finance as well.I have also come across aged women who recount the number of wrappers in their boxes that was presented to them by their spouses even before they were made husbands and wives,this also brings to mind the stories of how a lot of women in the old days abandoned their husbands for the white men who were willing and capable to take care of them and provide for them.money has always and will always be required to sustain a romantic love.until am called up again,I remain pearl,thank you[/quote]its obvious that all these shows that this co-debater's priority in a relationship is money.
Good day once again judges and viewers. I still oppose the motion "money sustains romantic love". The above quoted statements shows that our youths now believe money makes the world goes round forgetting that "Love" should be the right word.

Permit me to use my experience as an example. When I met my husband in a supermarket, I never liked him despite his flashy car he drove that day not because I have mine but because I am not moved by a man's wealth. To cut the story short, he took on a date and said he will foot the bill but I insisted that I should do it. Now we were not in love at that time but if My opponent(pearls) were in my shoes(based on her statements) she will fall in love immediately because of the car and taste of this guy. Now tell me if this is TRUE LOVE? Viewers, isnt it obvious that my opponent's priority in a relationship is MONEY?. I rest my case till next round. I belive the judges are convinced by my points. Thanks

[quote author=pearl~hapi]good,I started first yestday so I think skydeep should come up first in this round,thank you btw crazyman is really an intelligent and tough debater:I miss him sha cos I was actually warming up for him.all good anyways[/quote]I will oppose ur argument madam. So go on baby. Hit me!

ijebabe: I saw the first message. Chill.

ok.

ijebabe: Skydeep:
Content: 2 points
Presentation style/delivery: 3 points
Grammatical correctness: 4points
Sentence construction: 4 points
Clarity/fluency: 4 points
Score: 17

where is my sound reasoning point?

@op. So whats ur point?

@ijebabe. Where is my sound reasoning point?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]The debaters would be paired up before the start of round two. You shall only counter the arguments of whoever you were paired with.
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but how will d pairing work when those opposing are higher in number?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Starts from 12 noon tomorrow, nigerian time.
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12noon? Mondays business is always hectic . Well lets see if customers turn-out will be less

Sexkillz, what time is d next round?

*yawns* I guess is goodnight right? . Till next round

Now whats next? Only one person supporting?

Goodevening our humble and unbiased judges,viewers and my co-debaters, am here to oppose the motion “money is requiréd to sustain love. I remain my humble self, Skydeep.
The word "love" has a deep meaning and not just what the above co-debater(pearl ) defined. Love includes sacrifice and sacrifice is not all about money. It goes a long way to say one can die for love(quote me wrong if I am). Permit me to use a story about my friend who almost died of kidney stone but was saved by her financeé after he donated his kidney to her. Now tell me where money was used in this story? I guess not.

Let me also take u back to the medieval ages where things like computers, phones and other computerized gadgets are yet to be invented. Do u think our fore-fathers spent a dime for love? I guess not. They had to sacrifice, trust and understand their partners. Those qualities are what nurture love. I hope the judges are convinced by my points. Thanks

Why not pair those that are ready?

I skipped dinner cos of this debate. U guys should start na

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I am officially declaring the debate open, and would like the members of the supporting side to start posting their arguments. . .
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are u sure they are online? Or are they scared?

^now

*jogging and warming up*

sexkillz: [color=#000030]
So far, on the supporting side we have:
~vicky~
pearl hapi
AmBeautiful
Risky man
claremont
delkuf

and on the opposing side,

Adaeze003
Mary4life
Osheshe
Crazyman

I would like slimyem, skydeep and pendo, to indicate which side they would be arguing on. . .


We need more opposers to make this balanced.

Thanks.
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Am opposing

This is awful

We share same laptop password. He has my email password but he is too busy to check it.

Hmmm. This reminds me of the TV Programme "TOUCH BY AN ANGEL".

Am in. My experience is a good point

@sexkillz, you changed the topic without informing me? I have been to the library to study d first topic to get ready for the debate. . Ok this new one is kinda interesting.

Awww. It reminds me of......

Hmmm. We still have a lot of them in romance section . I cant even give my information to a girl.

@op. You are on your own