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folksync:
Now, this is serious!!!!!

I kind of like her too. But MARRIAGE? Don't know about that.

Today is her birthday and we just finished the (boring) sitting room party. And right in front of her friends, she introduced me as her fiancé. What!!!!!!

And so...? No be human being
My fiance is an abilno(true talk)
Stop makin it/look like a big discrimination..if u love her wife her...
Be4 she utters such statement, i know u must ve got intimate with her
Am proud to say it out..I LOVE MY ALBINO.
Love urs or dont bring such stories..warfi guy says so

smelly hair and braids

mickky88:
who is now going to be the mother of the kids? your mother or your wife?

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trannslation, it means women are every were

Btw i dont rem wen i posted dis.

keyman0007:
Hi everyone, i have a problem and will like to share.

I have been dating my lady for a while now, this is our second year, we havent had sex, she claims to be a virign.

Anyhw there is a problem am 27 going to clock 28 my baby is 22 years.

she use to form shakara for me when we started i even remember opening a thread on tips on hw to get her.

The problem is am due for marriage i want to get married this year, latest early next year, this my woman says dat not on her mind o, that she wants to go for her masters in the UK this year.

she has been tryin to get me to see her folks for reasons i dont understand. whenever i talk to her that i want to get married she tells me but i knw she is to travel out nw, i shd chill why am i in a rush.

she also has been acting all nice all of a sudden and doesnt see the big deal in us separating for a year.

I feel stuck and think she is playing the whole thing to her advantage.

hw is a young guy like me chill for a 2 years, without any lady, just phone call and skype chat.

I attempted breaking up with her and she cried begged for days, claiming am a sly, wrote a very emotional poem and all that.

The standby chick I hv isnt ready either, she is a student and marriage doesnt look like a near future plan for her.

Also the thought of her meeting her mr right over there drives me nut, she can just return and say she isnt intrested anymore. we hear all these stories.

Have also tried looking out but building a relationship to marriage level takes awhile.

I think am in a fix, any tips or advise to the guys and ladies in the house.[/b]


Needless to say i finished school 2008, completed service 2009 and since 2010 God has been faithful secured a gud job. I have been working for over 6 years now and feel like an old man.

I feel it time to start my home.

Yes dump her and go for a matured girl of 25 or 26
Ladies in that age range are not yet matured mentaly so they would like to explore the world just like dia frnds and have fun but the matured type wont do that people get married and still go to school,master an all dat (only immature girls think otherwise..) that girl is not ready for marraige look 4 a more matured mind
And dont bring such trash here again.

Keketu:
the best age for a girl is when she has mature enough . note not only in breast and back but once she know that cooking for her boyfriend and taking care of house is the core responsibility and important.

the best age for male is when he know about respect and how to strive for family to eat and once he is sexually mature enough to teach he's wife how to .

Nice one***jots it down***
Thank u sir

cruzita:
any age u start thinking reasonably .but I suggest 24-25yrs for ladies then 28 for men

Ure right baby.

CaroLyner:
what are you telling me.even intelligent guys chase girls.
teamhardtoget#

Ok na
#team single @ 30 or datin an unserious fellow# ...keep encouraging stress an wicked act

multiple joystick..chai i tok am ,..nubian 113 oya run come here come see 4 urself before u qoute me next time.

ehenn hennnn?..ok na no wahala***post and watch***and i know say na d yeye girl go bring dat stupid suggestion oo**no problem op suffer no spending too must dey too na after all terms and conditions apply. As a sharp guy

Smellymouth:
How do you cope with a No spending relationship ?

Oya Op ova to u

ericuzor:
Obviously , I ’ m not a relationship expert. But there’ s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved , and a marriage of almost 16 years , here ’ s the advice I wish I would have had
1 . Never stop courting. Never stop dating . NEVER EVER take that woman for granted . When you asked her to marry you , you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with . SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that , and NEVER GET LAZY in your love .
2 . Protect your own heart . Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart , you must guard your own with the same vigilance . Love yourself fully , love the world openly , but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife . Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in , and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there .
3 . Fall in love over and over again . You will constantly change . You ’ re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today . Change will come , and in that you have to re - choose each other everyday . SHE DOESN ’ T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don ’ t take care of her heart , she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely , and you may never be able to get it back . Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her .
4 . Always see the best in her . Focus only on what you love . What you focus on will expand . If you focus on what bugs you , all you will see is reasons to be bugged . If you focus on what you love , you can ’ t help but be consumed by love . Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love , and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife .
5 . It’ s not your job to change or fix her … your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing . And if she changes, love what she becomes , whether it’ s what you wanted or not .
6 . Take full accountability for your own emotions : It’ s not your wife ’ s job to make you happy , and she CAN’ T make you sad . You are responsible for finding your own happiness , and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love .
7 . Never blame your wife if you get frustrated or angry at her , it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU . They are YOUR emotions , and your responsibility . When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed . You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself , you will no longer be triggered by her , and you will wonder why you ever were.
8 . Allow your woman to just be . When she ’ s sad or upset, it’ s not your job to fix it, it’ s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’ s ok . Let her know that you hear her , and that she ’ s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean . The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out , and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you … DON ’ T RUN- AWAY WHEN SHE ’ S UPSET.

We don hear wetin else

DeeTus:
Wat do u want me to tell her? Nwanyioma is still there for u n u're still calling me. U can pm her.

Hahahaha as a sharp warfi guy i no need to wait na..i don do dat 1 since la

bclemsnews:
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Oya bling am com na my oga don tanda dey wait oo

pweetychyka:
Check ma previous post!
U 'll get all the kisses u need

Nne dat 1 is past tense i need present 1 iyo Pls pls pls Giv me mk my mind settle..OP tell am oo.

teebee22:
sure u forgot to mention their good parts too.

Pls i hope u wont be offended when i say this ufouma knows how to cook faith can bleep a man to death.

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pweetychyka:
No wahala
1 myt not be okay!

Chai ***schocks in hapiness***gains consciousness*** :'

Oya and d kiss?

teebee22:
I dated my fiance for two years while he was yet to get a job, I can proudly say I didn't ask him for anything, cos I naturally love been independent. even his mum told me face to face that with the way girls are after money she never believed I would be patient and with the way my guy tells her about me. she is dumbfounded.

Nice virtous woman,..i wish faith, weyemi,ejiro and ufouma were like u

teebee22:
no offense meant too...... but am sorry to say
1 ur reason for conclusion is not clear enough and the fact that you dated one to three girls with same character means there is something u re doing wrong and you av to work on that

2 we re not aggressive, we only hate it wen our rights are thwarted and we re been been fooled.

3 Delta ladies re very hard working and supportive

Baby i can vouch for our mothers becos i know they are hard workin and supportiv but u babes of nowadays?..i sincerely doubt that

The last urhobo girl i dated is a choleric creature..with her even when am not wrong am wrong...do u know i am d one who always apologise 4 her mistakes and mine at every argument?.even if i cant call her befor i go to work. She takes every tin as offense.
My neigbours fiancee too thats how she is..

I would like to beliv u aint like that sha.

pweetychyka:
Lolzzzz... U always wanna generalize peeps which isn't right! Not angry at your opinion at all jez want u to make corrections
Ain't angry tho....

And the smile?...and oo befor i 4get a kiss 2

DeeTus:
Hehehe. Can u buy me a drink?

Waiter oya bring 3 bottle of origin for op both 3 parcel of weed and monki tai

teebee22:
not control you or be a servant either, but be a partner and submissive cos two bends hands tangle better

UyoTa....oya if money neva dey nko tok truth make devil shame.?

DeeTus:
Let me throw you one chick. Which state r u at?

I dey d delta gon gon...abeg throw pweetychika come infac take am stone me

teebee22:
I thought as much

So u mean if we were married 4 exampl U go control me?...a typical urhobo man?

DeeTus:
He wants the one he can fully control.

No ...yes..i wnt the obedint enduring suppotiv and hardworkin type..and sad to say many of them aint like that..but wetin man go do?..we go just manage d one we see

pweetychyka:
U r at it again!

Stop generalizing oooooooooo

@ op u see? Now she is gettin angry...u see wot am saying? fear of say she go vex no go fit make me tok truth again..oya pls help tell her am soory if i did somtin wrong...oya pls smile 4 me..
Baby

[quote author=DeeTus post=42219270]Am a nigga. I knew u r not yet married.

nigga tok to nigga an nigga understand. .

DeeTus:
Lol..Sure?

very soon sha

DeeTus:
Lol..Sure?

Soon to be sha Delta igbo precisely,,me am urhobo ugheli north

teebee22:
yea

That says it all... (no offense)
But why are all of u so aggressiv ?..ther is always that tendecy for u all to be angry 4 even slighestt mistake.

DeeTus:
Lol. Do u have a gf from Delta State?

Sir am a married man

pweetychyka:
Speak for urself alone! Many outta dere ain't ready!
Take note

Baby u all dont just want to wait and endure Ive seen it Experience is the father of wisdom..