Politics › Re: Open Bus Ride: Supporters On The Streets Of Lagos Welcome Tinubu by SleekyP(m): 2:32pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: My 3 Bedroom Building Updates.. by SleekyP(m): 11:12pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: The Most Insulted Nairalander That Never Quits by SleekyP(m): 10:33pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Truthsoldier: I have been on this space I think for some time and I have come to see that there are particular nairalanders who no matter what they insult them whether good or bad,they continue in what they know best, and I have few of them here,you can add yours,so here are they;
1.Mr Righteousness No matter what this nairalander post or quotes you will see some nairalanders deliberately want to attack him,this guy is quite mature and calm in his responses and hardly meddles in filthy talks, instead he is consistent in dishing advice and warning on eternity, heaven,hell and rapture. Some nairalanders here call him Pastor Righteousness, and he has been consistent in his piety here as far as I know.
2.VeryWickedMan This moniker is on another planet, I keep wondering if this guy is really as he portrays himself to be here on this forum,he is a killjoy of some sorts,and a big 'clout chaser' and attention seeker,I think that sometimes his sarcastic comments are just to catch cruise and fun,and when he says anything even meaningful he would still be attacked by some comrades here,but dude doesn't give a hoot.
3.Siofra This moniker is never giving up because of bashing,she relishes it,she intentionally creates posts just to pique the pride of some unmentioned fellas on this nairaland planet,they in return give it back hot hot,but she's like thermocool flask that takes it hot or cold,will I say thumbs up but some will come to attack now,anyway she deserves it.
4.Alex reports This dude is like the biblical Joseph hated by his brothers,they insult the hell out of this brother,some hating him too badly, but dude keeps leashing out 'doings' and peppering the trolls, after all he is not the reason for the naira swap issue..Oga you try
5.Seun This Oga deserves accolades,if Insults are building materials it could have been enough to build a skyscraper for him,Mr seun has seen shege in the hands of this 'chineke platform' and the members,but as calm as water,he remains focused,It is worth acknowledging,this forum sef nah another 'Naira swap palava'.
Add yours Where is tosyn2much  Mr 10things that year. |
Family › Re: Problem With My Wife, Mother, And Mother Inlaw. by SleekyP(m): 10:31pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Norah199: Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.
So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.
For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.
We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind. Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.
To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months. The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.
The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported. Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.
Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.
I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..
After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.
My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.
The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up. Your opinions would be deeply appreciated. Thank you 🙏 What the elder sees......  |
Politics › Re: Another Battalions Of Nigerian Soldiers Touch Down Lagos Today - Photos by SleekyP(m): 10:10pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Iliveforever: Any agbado thug wey go do fim on Saturday go collect 6ft immediately.
Make I see how tinubu go take win this election. start running... Tinubu is here already  |
Politics › Re: Why Tinubu Can Never Be President He Didn't Merit! by SleekyP(m): 7:13am On Feb 19, 2023 |
Ratello: Asiwaju would have bought votes for as much as N50k per vote if CBN did not stop him.
He wants this presidency so much that he had cash stored in vaults in billions ahead since 2019.
His ambition to be president was why Ambode, a sitting governor, was ousted despite pleas that he should be allowed to complete his second term and a new puppet installed that would aide his ascension to Aso Rock without any question when it comes to reeling out Lagos state funds for it.
The same way he made every candidate in the APC primary looked like nothing is what he planned for this election.
During the primaries, some northern governors were given 1million dollars each. A certain wife of a powerful man also got a new house gift in Dubai worth 5m dollars. Everybody around Buhari was bought.
Even after they had previously agreed with the president for a consensus candidate, Buhari was shocked to see all APC governors suddenly insist on primary elections.
The man bought even Buhari's maids, cleaners and cooks.
That was when Buhari realized that if he allows this man take over from him as president, he will sell Nigeria and turn us all to his slaves.
The man began plotting on how to ensure his money does not get him there and that was how genius Emefiele hinted the president of the strategy of the new notes.
Now for you to carry N10,000,000, you will need 50,000 pieces of N200 notes, meaning you will need a bullion van.
Bubu show the city boy say him be old soldier..
Since then, his partners in crime have been crying like hungry lions.
Buhari locked Dasuki up for almost 4 years against court order, they did not talk. Buhari kept Nnamdi Kanu in detention against court order, they did not talk, Buhari detained El zakzakky against court orders, none of them talked and many more but suddenly they want the same Buhari to obey Supreme Court so that their candidate can buy votes?
Bush meat has now caught the hunter... Cry me a river....Asiwaju is your president  |
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole Lists Reasons Why Tinubu Is The "Best Presidential Material" (Video) by SleekyP(m): 7:11am On Feb 19, 2023 |
Tinubu coasting to ASo Rock  Vote #Apc |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Former US President, Jimmy Carter Enters Hospice Care by SleekyP(m): 7:09am On Feb 19, 2023 |
EVIL MEN  |
Politics › Re: We Will Curse You If You Betray Us: Wike Tells Rivers PDP Assembly Candidates by SleekyP(m): 6:41pm On Feb 18, 2023 |
Tinubu all the way  |
Crime › Re: What Should I Do If My Own Brother Want To Kill Me? by SleekyP(m): 3:54pm On Feb 18, 2023 |
grailife: Seun is nairaland still working? or maybe am too old to still be here You old enough to locate a barracks abi you waiting for CIA to come for ya rescue?  |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Anambra Police Officer, CSP Chukwuemeka Patrick Agbazue by SleekyP(m): 5:44am On Feb 18, 2023 |
Credit GLB  |
Romance › Re: Have The Youths Become Sexually Depraved? by SleekyP(m): 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
The internet is uncensored 
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Business › Re: CBN Offical Tells Nigerians To Deposit Old Notes In Their Banks (Video) by SleekyP(m): 6:00pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
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Business › Re: Is The Naira Redesign Policy Defeated? by SleekyP(m): 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Shit is not working....Abort!!! M1 M2 M3 Classified  |
Politics › Re: Ogun Govt to Revoke CofO Of Any Commercial Outlet Rejecting Old Naira Notes by SleekyP(m): 3:30pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Good move  Who has 50k cash New Notes??  |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Will Be President Of A United Nigeria by SleekyP(m): 9:31pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
BAT2023👂 Vote APC  |
Celebrities › Re: Bruce Willis Has Dementia, Family Announces by SleekyP(m): 9:26pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: 2023: Naira Redesign Policy Has Minimised Influence Of Money In Politics- Buhari by SleekyP(m): 9:11am On Feb 16, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: We Will Start Accepting Old Notes, Kano Supermarket Tells Ganduje by SleekyP(m): 7:27am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Good move....old notes still valid  |
Politics › Re: CBN Orders Us To Recirculate Old 200 Naira Banknotes To The Economy by SleekyP(m): 9:37pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Old naira still valid, spend ya money  |
Business › Re: Nigerians Shun Supreme Court Order, Reject Old Naira Notes by SleekyP(m): 9:23pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Lagos and Abuja still spending old notes, this is pure propaganda and lies haba mana!!!
CBN said there is no more paper to print new notes. |
Celebrities › Re: Mr Ibu And Daughter Reconcile With Wife (Video) by SleekyP(m): 6:04pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
isaiahethan: You have dirty mindset. I'm sure you never followed daddy freeze interview with the family . Stop using naira scarcity and frustration to comment. Be warned ⚠️. Please do not quote me Just quoted your ass....what next?  |
Celebrities › Re: Mr Ibu And Daughter Reconcile With Wife (Video) by SleekyP(m): 4:20pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Adopted daughter my ass  |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Hints At Stepping Down For Peter Obi To Unite South by SleekyP(m): 4:18pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
franchasng: Since the end of the civil war in 1970, Igbos are the only tribe that have truly forgiven others, how?
Igbos have rallied and supported Presidential candidates from Hausa (Shehu Shagari), Fulani (Musa Yaradua), Yoruba (Olusegun Obasanjo), Ijaw (Goodluck Jonathan), Fulani (Atiku Abubakar).
Igbos are the only tribe that freely travels to all parts of Nigeria to live and do business and not just doing business, they freely buy lands and develop mansions and contribute to the development of their host communities, be it in Yoruba, Ijaw, Efik, Ibibio, Bini, Idoma, Fulani, Hausa, Kanuri, Urhobo, etc tribe without fear or prejudice. They don't give any excuse not to build in their host community, they don't fear persecution or attack, they live freely with the host communities and even try to become part of them. This is a known fact about Igbos in Nigeria.
Now can we say same about Yorubas? I doubt. They will give you one million reasons why they cant live or build investments in Southeast or even Southsouth and other parts of Nigeria. They select states and capitals they can live or invest and back it up with reasons.
You all know the truth, and to be Frank with you, until Igbos are pacified and completely forgiven and embraced in Nigeria, divinity will continue to work against the progress of Nigeria no matter who governs Nigeria. Exodus 20:5  Tinubu is your next president. |
Politics › Re: Babachir Lawal: Nothing Is Working Under APC, I'm Sorry I Campaigned For Them by SleekyP(m): 10:27pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
You see am? The Cabal....
This is well preplanned to frustrate the government.
Tinubu shall triumph over them insha Allah! |
Crime › Re: My Experience In NDLEA Jail by SleekyP(m): 7:36pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
Where is lalasticlala & nfpmod  |
Politics › Re: Oyo: PDPVanguard Withdraws Support For Seyi Makinde, APC Welcomes Them by SleekyP(m): 7:01pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
 Please vote #Accordingly 
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by SleekyP(m): 6:49pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
MhizLewa: 100k? Aaah! Barely 3months old new AC? You can do better! 80k in sabo yaba |
Politics › Re: Osun Election Tribunal Admitted That Ademola Adeleke Forged His Certificate by SleekyP(m): 6:34pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
cliqtips: Ehen ehn..
So, this is where they waited for him.
This is APC's plan B
But these set of lawyers didn't hear about Tinubu's certificate and school history that doesn't exist. Na so we dey wait Obidient  |
Politics › Re: Governor Adeleke Addresses Osun People, Says Claim Of Over-voting Unfounded by SleekyP(m): 10:10am On Jan 28, 2023 |
This is a chess game.....keep your bishop & use your knight  |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Is The Incoming President - President Buhari by SleekyP(m): 9:41am On Jan 24, 2023 |
we urchins are happy  |
Politics › Re: PDP Suspension: Senator Chimaroke Nnamani Designs New Posters For Tinubu by SleekyP(m): 8:14pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
What a strategic U-turn  More coming for Asiwaju Next month. #BAT2023 #Adelabu2023 for Oyo state  |