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FashionRe: See The Wedding Dress A Nigerian Designer Reportedly Collected N1.8m To Make by Slimlord(m): 5:56pm On Oct 13, 2018
give iya tobi just 50k
CelebritiesRe: Regina Chukwu Holds And Sucks Love Machine On Set by Slimlord(m): 1:45pm On Oct 11, 2018
My dick is very bigger than that
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye's Sitting Room Tastefully Furnished (Photo) by Slimlord(m): 1:35pm On Oct 11, 2018
haywire07:
So everyday I think to myself, how a 50k job with lots of pressure can fetch one a healthy life .

Is this how to start somewhere?
I earn 15
CelebritiesRe: BamBam Becomes Micserah First Ambassador by Slimlord(m): 1:31pm On Oct 11, 2018
OboOlora:
Twyford WC needs to give her toilet endorsement cheesy
you wicked
CelebritiesRe: Shaku Shaku Crooner, Slimcase Biography, Age And Lifestyle by Slimlord(m): 5:45am On Oct 08, 2018
Slim Lord go blow one day
CelebritiesRe: Skiibii & Broda Shaggi: I Don't Pay Tithes, Religion Nigeria Greatest Problem by Slimlord(m): 7:33pm On Oct 07, 2018
mubaking:
how is skibii successful?
at least you know his name
CelebritiesRe: Rahama Sadau Pictured With Her Lookalike Sisters by Slimlord(m): 7:06pm On Oct 07, 2018
No nudity I swear
CelebritiesRe: American Lady Slams Funnytoheeb For Using Fowls To Mimic Cardi B's photo by Slimlord(m): 6:57pm On Oct 07, 2018
All I see is meat
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Fulham Vs Arsenal - (1 - 5) On 7th October 2018 by Slimlord(m): 4:41pm On Oct 07, 2018
Fourth position ���
CrimeRe: 14-Year-Old Girl Gang Raped By 10 Boys During Cult Initiation In Anambra. by Slimlord(m): 2:35pm On Oct 06, 2018
Xaos:
But there's a form of mutual consent... I don't think this constitute as rape. Going by definition.
You be cow She's fucking 14
Christianity EtcRe: Foluke Adeboye: When You Fall Out Of Cash, Your Wife Will Fall Out Of Love by Slimlord(m): 8:53pm On Oct 04, 2018
I can't believe this is coming from a supposed servant of God
Science/TechnologyRe: Nigerian Physics Student Builds A Drone, Names It ‘hope For Chibok Girls’,(pix) by Slimlord(m): 8:49pm On Oct 04, 2018
A jss3 student made this in the school I taught
RomanceRe: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Slimlord(m): 9:07am On Oct 04, 2018
Just go back to the basics
RomanceRe: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Slimlord(m): 9:02am On Oct 04, 2018
geek4k:
I Need Help! I'm Emotionally Traumatized.

Hi guys!

It's quite a long read so I've tried make it as concise as possible..

I bet you'll enjoy every piece as you thumb through.

We've known each other for some time before i asked her out. She gave a "Yes" sometime on August 2014, which has practically made the relationship 4 years old.

At the earlier stage, we had great feelings towards each other, we where literally submerged in love, did stupid and childish things together. Y'al know what love turns one into nah.

We where practicing a distance relationship. Same city, although just a 45min road trip kept us apart ~ we never denied visiting each other as we often did. thanks to 2go and what'sapp.

Time past, amidst the minor quarrels we had a greater reason to remain put, we grew stronger in love ~ i bet we had the best teenaged age. Got to a point we believed we where both destined for each other i was even prepared to tie the knot if only nature treated my pocket right.

All the while, we never had any bed intimacy only kisses and bla bla... Not until sometime 2017 when i went in. Arrghh! Very awkward i must say, just try to imagine where 2 novices are trying to make something of it. All through the session i was just looking for my way in.

The subsequent attempts after taking several xx video tutorials was fairly good NOT GREAT because she had a very bad sex beginning; a rape victim to be precise and that experience corrupted alot in her sex life. You don't want me to go into details, I hate to too.

[b]Note: [/b]She is a very brilliant girl who got great personality, more reason i loved her wholeheartedly. The not-too-great sex paragraphs isn't made to sabotage her memory but because it's a cornerstone of my ordeal with her.

Heads up guys! She started having issues with the sex experience thing. Not because it wasn't SO GREAT but because it makes her backslide from her faith. Ohh didn't i mention? She's from a very strong Christian home.

I guess the devil took its chances on us, never wondered why it took so long before her realization. Now she's trying to be that born again kind of person again. Guys! I'm sure you know what that means.

The privileges i used to enjoy as a boyfriend where all ripped away not even a kiss or bla bla to manage almost drove me into maturating. Not just that, this is also garnished with some funny acts, not having my time et all. On my end it seems she utterly turned her back against me.

The whole quarrels erupted and all made me look myself like a devil trying to deviate God's child. I on the other end I'm just a lover boy trying to fight back for his feelings.

Things deteriorated, we hardly talk and even if we do wouldn't last more than a minute, all the while i was just drowning in sadness and heartbreak.

I still remember when we broke up our sexual relationship and remained good casual friends. My mind chose to cut any connections with her but my heart said otherwise. I couldn't cut it down, the imaginations of never seeing her again dreaded me even.

Bluntly speaking. I'm very emotionally sensitive with dealings with her. My happiness depends hugely on her, hence, any unfair act she gives set my heart ablaze. that's exaggerated though, but it's just as bad as that. Every now and then I'm always emotionally traumatized and this has bad effects on me.

My Regrets?
I wouldn't blame myself much because i was inexperienced and naive when our feelings was blossoming, I let loose my 100% heart commitment and now the consequences is just as fatal.

If i had known and took precautions earlier I'd have moved on with my life by now. But unfortunately, the reverse is just the case here.

Back to the present.
I've discovered that even the casual friendship hurts me. I mean Yes! No sex, no kisses i get it! I don't just get a dedication from her, no special moments everything is just as boring AF and this disgusts me.

This is where your I need advise.
Respective of the fact I'm still emotionally attached to her, I've accepted my faith of letting her go the issue now is doing this practically. It's just too difficult for me to handle.

Beside this, i feel we might later need each others help one way or another as we're both distant learners in same institution.

The feeling of not seeing her ever again dreads me alot whilst i doubt I'm capable of moving on if i don't cut her completely of my life.

Sometimes I feel the cause of this crazy feelings is because she deflower me. I don't just know why it's this much.

[b]Note.[/b]It might sound to you that she stopped loving me or never had feelings for me. But the fact is she's too very in love with me all along even till now. Her faith is just strong and nothing can supersede it.

Insults are welcome. But first understand its usefulness her before you waste that effort.

What do you think i should do guys?
So you don't want to repent like her?
CrimeRe: White Men Holding The Breasts Of African Women Slaves (Throwback Pictures) by Slimlord(m): 8:31pm On Oct 03, 2018
Naughtytboy:
The day u will die
l
RomanceRe: South African Virgins Reveal Why They Are Not In A Hurry To Have Sex by Slimlord(m): 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2018
Sirheny007:
Virginity.. phvcking overrated.
See your life
RomanceRe: South African Virgins Reveal Why They Are Not In A Hurry To Have Sex by Slimlord(m): 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2018
Sirheny007:
Virginity.. phvcking overrated.
See your life
CelebritiesRe: Skiibii & Broda Shaggi: I Don't Pay Tithes, Religion Nigeria Greatest Problem by Slimlord(m): 9:56am On Oct 03, 2018
mubaking:
successful artists are talking these ones sef dey talk
How is skibii not successful
CrimeRe: White Men Holding The Breasts Of African Women Slaves (Throwback Pictures) by Slimlord(m): 9:38am On Oct 03, 2018
Naughtytboy:
work on urself,they do give me anal and head even though am a broke guy, i have a lot of nudes too
When will they give you HIV?
CelebritiesRe: Cornelius Michael: Photos Of Sexy Nigerian Model by Slimlord(m): 7:13pm On Oct 02, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So men feel sexyhuh? Nawaooo
Sexy is not confined to any sex.. It's for both
RomanceRe: 41 Years Old Single Lady Was Used And Dumped On Her Introduction Day by Slimlord(m): 1:14pm On Oct 02, 2018
Akin was involved in an accident period
CelebritiesRe: Simi Kisses Falz Romantically (photos) by Slimlord(m): 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2018
Op how is that romantic
PoliticsRe: Why Nigeria Is Being Encircled By Military Bases. by Slimlord(m): 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2018
To be honest I understood nothing
CelebritiesRe: Cornelius Michael: Photos Of Sexy Nigerian Model by Slimlord(m): 12:57pm On Oct 02, 2018
Bluezy13:
Putting on a shirt without an inner wear (eg, white singlet) is a turn off for me.


Wonder how guys feel comfortable in it.
I see such dressing as being irresponsible.
Your problem though
I actually feel sexy without it
FashionRe: Most Beautiful Girl In Abuja 2018 Contestants As Finals Hold 27th October (Photo by Slimlord(m): 10:17pm On Sep 29, 2018
Nassarawa all the way
CelebritiesRe: Davido With Chioma On A Trip To São Tomé, Central Africa (PHOTOS) by Slimlord(m): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2018
Chioma is not wearing pant
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid & Nike's 'Starboy Jersey' To Be Re-Released To Celebrate Independence by Slimlord(m): 10:09pm On Sep 29, 2018
Immaculatesnow:
I wonder who buys theses cloths, maybe ladies but anyhow come and sell your verified Nigerian AdSense account to me
you really need sense
PoliticsRe: Every Nigerian Owes China N15,000 - Political Analysts by Slimlord(m): 5:24pm On Sep 05, 2018
I hate being accused of what I don't know
CelebritiesRe: Nina Hints On Forgetting About Miracle Finally, Says Everything Is Now New by Slimlord(m): 9:58am On Sep 05, 2018
Finally she open shop
SportsRe: FIFA Releases 3-Man Shortlist For Best Player, Lionel Messi Excluded by Slimlord(m): 9:25pm On Sep 03, 2018
Chinny024:
My vote goes to MODRIC... He deserves it this time...
you are not going to vote��
SportsRe: FIFA Releases 3-Man Shortlist For Best Player, Lionel Messi Excluded by Slimlord(m): 9:25pm On Sep 03, 2018
Chinny024:
My vote goes to MODRIC... He deserves it this time...
you are not going to vote��
CrimeRe: Rapist Gang Raped After Being Caught Raping A Lady. by Slimlord(m): 9:12pm On Sep 03, 2018
Father Lord

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