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I have heard this conversation with one of my very good female friends who was so adamant of retenting her family's name to the extent she lost a suitor because of this issue...

I for one cannot pay exorbitant fees as bride price including other marriage rights and you won't pick up my name, you never dey craze...I don't know about other people

swarley75:
All this for a cheating wife?

These are clearly the signs of a cheating woman as started by the OP.



My own advice is you need to take charge of the marriage by instilling fear in her mind, you can only do this by beating to stupor. You can ask her to cook one day if she refuses then use that opportunity to tear her one big heavy slap.



See if a woman doesn't fear you, she can't respect and if she doesn't respect you she can't love you.

Sorry, I don't subscribe to using violence to solve any problem, because it can only escalate matters...!! I believe in "Dey your lane, make I dey my lane" while life goes on...

Our real and bonafide slay-queens...

We the Barcelona fans worldwide wishes our very own OshoGoal is happy birthday and bigger wins ahead...!! FORCA_BARCA

What is it about this drug money that people cannot leave...Oh, Someone built his political career with drug Money...

Sweetplum:
Abeg getat. See guy feeling like a rich man. You must be rich to an extent before your looks are ignored.

At this point, I'm very glad you are gotten the point...!!

Lol... Nobi Samba be this?? This one cannot even hurt a fly

Sweetplum:
It isn't too early for gbas gbos cos I know your prejudice against women is unrelenting.
Now see how you ended it. You believe opined it's the right of fat bellied men to v nice shaped girls but fat girls should not might not get nice shaped guys (because men have standard)

No let me tell you say you no go chop better this new week

you are missing the point... always involving your personal emotions but this is reality. A man is different from a woman, with Money, a man can get a soft landing because what money cannot do, more money will do it...

Check the trend and get back to me using Oshiomole, Rick Ross, Ned and Ojukwu as a point of reference.

Kwamecron:
OGA, go find some small girl make u dey na self…


That’s the only better option to win oo

U av to stop all the things u do, stop cooking stop everything and let everything be in mess.


Make sure u don’t attend to anything in the house,


U av to be very selfish


And threatened her with divorce my brother

Woman can’t stop cheating

Nah, he already have 2 kids, and neglecting them for the sins of their Mom is not ideal, the best way is to ghost her, treat her like she never existed in that house...

-Never beg her for sex anymore...

-cook and eat your own food even if she cooks (trust me, she will one day eat what you prepared in a bit to get your reaction, but say nothing)

-Be more closer to your children than ever, take them outing let them have fun...

Then watch the transformation...

Rate your work or rate your weirdness...

Chai...this is bad

E make nice shaaah, even tho expensive wedding doesn't translate to successful marriages...

After all, who dey post "This weekend was fun and the best" na because nobi you they debit according to popular research...

You mean just before 9am fried rice is ready... This is the only thing that might encourage me to get married...

Sweetplum:
Let's say you are right cos your brain worked as you just finished eating.
What ll you say to fat, shapeless pot bellied men like those below looking for pretty, not too fat or chubby ladies with nice curves?
Don't they deserve to marry drums and buckets?

At the bolded, don't you think it's too early for gbas gbos...

Well, what's good for the goose is also good for the gander, like I said earlier, there are men who have standard likewise a woman, But a womans so-called standard can be compromised when there is money, kindly juxtapose what you and your friends wanted as your dream man to the nonsense you all are currently dating or married to... No pun intended.

Every guy possibly have that A'biggie in there clique and they are wonderful people this men you called shapeless might end up getting married to the freshest and finest of them all while the same thing cannot be said of the plus size women unless it comes with some incentives which is likely going to attract some of my useless opportunistic gender...

Sweetvie:
Lol... See you
Sai kawai idan kuna zuma a Switzerland

Yana nufin abu daya ne, but I'm definitely not coming back...

Sweetvie:
Lmao... No you're not, infact they supposed to give you citizenship

Same here... Na bar arewa ina da shekara 17

Lol...Bana son zama dan kasa, Ina son na Switzerland

Just like goods has diminishing marginal utility, machine experiences wears and tears (depreciation) humans as well experiences something of this nature.

Perhaps it's high time we start practicing contract marriage in Nigeria because this current for better for worst doesn't and will no longer work due to see finish.

Everybody wants to experience love again, both parties stopped doing what made them fell in love because they now belongs to eachother which becomes a very big problem. After marriage, tolerance and forced captivity sets in.

Since I removed marriage from my to do list, there is this internal happiness and hefty self pressured burden taken away from my shoulders.

Sweetvie:
Wow... Hakan ya sa ka zama hausa. I only spend one year in kaduna b4 they transferred us to jos. Shin har yanzu kuna nan kaduna?

at the bolded...NoooO, Ni baƙo ne kawai

Italics : Na tafi tun 2015 due to insecurity.

This is as a result of the poor randy northern men, one man marries over 15 wives with each giving birth to over 5 kids who most times, the useless father doesn't even know their names...!!

Unfortunately, to the Elite northerners...These are the structures they are talking about

jrusky:
It doesn't matter they are winning SW so go to your non fighting liar green snake bitch.

Sw and the North yiu obi go chop flogging like transformer thief so keep your cry for Feb 2023.

Your voice is your choice...!!

Sweetvie:
Kayi kyau... Daga Ina Ku ke? I mean where are you from? You're hausa?

Ni yaron Igbo ne mai alfahari, wanda ya taba zama a jihar Kaduna tsawon shekaru 20...

Greattestman:
My distatnt relative poisoned her husband because her ex boyfriend promised to marry if she poisoned and killed her husband. She poisoned and killed her husband but the ex rejected her on the ground that someone may deceive her to kill him. She's left to struggle to take care of her two kids and take the responsibility of her late husband.


She must be regreting now.

So a known murderer went scout free and her husband family turned blind eye...

Verdict : Akiko ndi mgbu...

Bodmum:
No fewer than 27 Dangote staff are currently in bad condition after they were shot at by the invaders.

27 were shot but no casualty

the last time I checked, gun do kill people, not putting them in bad condition.

When the gunmen shot police, soldiers, they died but when the same gun shot civilians, they refused to die.

verdict - - - - - nobody was shot at.

I hate silly propaganda

The man with the gun has the final and ultimate power, how about scampering for safety during the sporadic shooting, won't there be wounded casualty with several degrees of injury...??

I have seen and experience what Oso Ndu( run for life) can do to someone...

AntiChristian:
Don't they have Agbero in the east too?

Any sane president should have a plan for all his citizens! It's not only the elites and educated that'll vote come 2023.

Truth be told, some agberos are irredeemable...

Na fight go end am...

Sweetvie:
Yes... That's true
I actually learn from there when I first travel to jos... Atleast i will be able to communicate a little

Lol...must be nice

Sweetplum:
She's beautiful. She should not lose her self esteem cos of some mean comments.
We can't prevent ill comments on internet but we can prevent ill things from happening to us. Her first step to more good vibes is to lose weight. Her breasts too can reduce with her weight.
And as someone here said, all those immature male comments handle desire to v sex with her and they are still calling her names. You ll be surprised with the no of males asking her out in her DM.
Most men reading with their penni s.

As you can see, she did herself dirty due to her gluttonous nature, If any man should marry this type and she gives birth to her first child, she would explode x3 of her current size.

At the gym, I see most of these plus size women deceiving themselves every weekend all in the name of size reduction, after the routine exercise and everything, they go back home and other for sharwama, Yoghurt, Pizza and every other thing you can think of and before you know it, the popular slogan "Na fat I fat I no kill person" follows...I know a guy that loves them fat, that's his rituals.

You ladies should understand Men has choices, standard and principles as well, I for one can never settle for less...

Moreover, I'm among the few guys that would never sex any lady who doesn't fit my standard/specifications

To spend or have spent?? And ASUU is still on strike, Herdsmen are still cashing out on dailys!! The damages and massive corruption going under this administration can only be unveiled when APC leaves office...

If Nigerians should miss Labour Party this time around, then it is finished...!!

Smartjob1:
If this mor.on of a man with shoe brush had any iota of sense, he would know that Peter Obi did not stop at getting a degree from UNN alone. He went further to develop himself. He got degrees and professional certifications from Ivy leagues such as Harvard, Oxford, etc. He kept on developing his leadership and managerial abilities. How has Reno developed himself since he left the university? What else has he really achieved aside making noises on social media as a past adviser to GEJ? Can Reno win a ward in his polling unit? Can he even stand PO in any debate?

He said he is a Pastor but we can count the number of times we saw him preach on a pulpit. In fact, that pastoring career disappeared almost two years ago.

The truth is that he will remain a fugitive till 2031 because Peter Obi will be declared the president next year.

Damn! Is he happy with the happenings in Nigeria?

At the bolded "You know all they do is to make noise, and when people make noise, they exchange ignorance- Dr Kenneth Okonkwo 2022.