Nairaland General › How Do I Establish Health Boundaries When Dealing With My Parents? by smart177(op): 8:20am On Mar 07, 2023 |
Hello friends! I am a 25 year old male, no longer living at home. But still my parents want to influence me as if I am still sharing a roof with them.
For instance they want me to quit doing my things and do what they want..
They at times make me feel worthless, comparing their achievements to mine especially mom, she says that she is doing well than i am. And actually everytime I meet with her i feel depressed and emotionally disturbed.
So friends i need your advice on how to establish health boundaries with such kind of parents.. MIND YOU THEY ARE DIVORCED.
Thanks in advance. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Should A Christian Be A Member Of A Secret Society?" by smart177: 11:56am On Mar 04, 2023 |
Thank you for such a good write up. |
Celebrities › Re: Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually - Daddy Freeze by smart177: 4:17am On Feb 13, 2023 |
SenatePresdo: The guy you mentioned is right.
I just have to agree that what arouses men is the urge to release clustered semen.
If there is no semen, a naked Beyonce won't even turn you on. And I think sex was meant for reproduction not pleasure as most think. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 3 Keys In Serving God Consistently by smart177: 11:49am On Feb 12, 2023 |
This is the best thread i've read so far on this platform.. thank you so much for sharing this faith strengthening information. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Of England Wants To Stop Referring To God As ‘he’, ‘him’ And ‘our Father' by smart177: 4:06am On Feb 11, 2023 |
siofra: They are right though.
I've always thought it's misogynistic to refer to God as HE.
God should be THEY. God doesn't have a gender. Then why did jesus refer to Him as OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN.
matthew 6:9.? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Of England Wants To Stop Referring To God As ‘he’, ‘him’ And ‘our Father' by smart177: 4:16pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Robinmido: If God does not punish this generation, he will need to apologies to Sodom and Gomorrah And i think a short period of time remains before GOD punishes this generation. |
Education › Re: 300-Level FUTA Student Commits Suicide In Ondo (Photo) by smart177: 7:33pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
generalwo: ..... Amen.... Until you come to Nigeria, you won't know how bad things are..... In every 10 persons in Nigeria, 5 are living in abject poverty, 3 are "just comfortable" and only 2 are rich...... It's that bad down here.... People struggle to eat good meals..... Chief how are you doing? thanks for the mention, actually things are really bad! But have you ever asked yourself why things are really that bad especially in these dayz?? |
Education › Re: 300-Level FUTA Student Commits Suicide In Ondo (Photo) by smart177: 7:22pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
generalwo: ..ue..chief... I'm sure there are 10m Nigerians presently who will gladly read trade places with you right now.... Nigeria is the worst place to live right now as a human... No electricity, no money, no food, no fuel, no security, no hope... Nothing to make anyone happy to be alive apart from family..... Just nothing!!! Chief i am really sorry, sumtimez i thnk i am in a worst situation but people are going through very dire situations, i am sorry may God easy your plight.. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Human Soul: A Bigger Trophy Than The FIFA World Cup by smart177: 7:08pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
hopefulLandlord: Soul? what exactly is that? I looked through a biology book but couldn't find a reference to souls. I looked through a mythology book however and found all kinds of information on souls. Are there any peer reviewed scholastic research papers published in any medical journals that I could learn more about this thing called souls? Where is this thing? how many does each person have? 1? 2? more? it varies?
What gene is it linked to in our DNA? What kind of cells is it made of or what exactly is it made of? can we see thing thing with an MRI machine or a powerful microscope? Who do you think would know more about this thing called souls: a witch doctor from the deepest jungles of Ogbomoso who has had no contact with civilization, or the entire science faculty from MIT? Scientists study everything; why don't they study souls? Is it for the same reasons they don't study the powers of Deadpool or the magic of Harry Potter? Soul means you life. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Lady Neighbour What Her Boyfriend Is Doing by smart177: 7:01pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Goodlady: Mind your biz. Minding ones biz is the surest way to avoid trouble. And if you wanna be a detective, use another sim to text or snap a picture evidence of him n the co-fornicator, send to your neighbour's whatsapp. Make sure it ll be difficult to trace it's from you. I agree with u minding one's own business is a FULL TIME JOB. |
Education › Re: 300-Level FUTA Student Commits Suicide In Ondo (Photo) by smart177: 6:55pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
generalwo: I no go blame am too much..... To stay alive in Nigeria under buhari is a challenge... Suicide is never the best option but e no go better for APC and anybody wen plan to vote them again come feb 2023...na so so back all of una go dey go for life..... Apc has to do Nigeria in 8 years, what Nigeria has not seen since she became an independent country..... Not only NIGERIA Bro thngs are tough elsewhere here at home TANZANIA things are pretty tough people are taking suicide as an option. |
Crime › Re: Young Mother Hangs Herself And Her Son In Ghana (Photo) by smart177: 8:57am On Jan 19, 2023 |
This is EXTREMELY SAD...and sadly no one cares about the welfare of the other..
We need God's kingdom more than ever. |
Family › Re: My Father Disowned Me For Marrying A Disfigured Man { Photos } by smart177: 12:32pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
True love still exists, but one in a billion...
i wish a long and a prosperous life to that woman. |
Career › Re: Police Officer Meagan Hall Dismissed For On-Shift Sex Romps & Illicit Affairs by smart177: 6:47pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Lumig:
 And her husband will think he has a wife, not knowing that his wife is a PUBLIC TOILET... Spits Men be prayerful before choosing any of these females as a wife abeg For certainity. |
Family › Re: Husband Catches His Pregnant Wife Having Sex With Another Man In Uganda Hospital by smart177: 7:28pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Such kinda of news is gonna make me postpone my marriage goals of this year.! |
Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by smart177: 4:55am On Jan 13, 2023 |
 Banilla: You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable. Take a bullet eeeeeh .,  Banilla: You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable. Take a bullet eeeeeh ., |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Baptized As A Jehovah’s Witness by smart177: 7:23pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Solocoin: Yes 100% sure. I'm not trying to condemn Jehovah witness but this is very simple and common among them. They also do this with their members too when they pair them. If you're a member don't feel bad but this is just reality and simple truth. Let God judge if I lie against them. You are scaring me man... i trust them alot.! |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Baptized As A Jehovah’s Witness by smart177: 7:56am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Solocoin: Because they easily sleep with people they go to preach to, maybe he has do it with them before. Are you sure about this?? do you have any evidence to back up your claims? |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Baptized As A Jehovah’s Witness by smart177: 7:54am On Jan 11, 2023 |
vengertime: It was only this last Christmas I learnt Jehovah witness people don't celebrate Christmas For sure they don't. Have you eva came across a bible verse that says jesus was born On 25th december.? |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Baptized As A Jehovah’s Witness by smart177: 7:50am On Jan 11, 2023 |
jasent: When last did you visit psychiatric hospital? Ahahahahaha |
Family › Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by smart177: 3:37pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Wrong! You can have both without being married Kindly explain how can one get companionship without ever getting married.?  PoliteActivist: Wrong! You can have both without being married Kindly explain how can one get companionship without ever getting married.? |
Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by smart177: 8:42am On Jan 09, 2023 |
Cypress042: Poor family background can never be cause of a mans failure, failure starts from ones heart.
Love his constructive spirit. For sure |
Christianity Etc › Re: "I Am Thinking Of Selling My Soul To The Devil" - Nigerian Woman by smart177: 8:29am On Jan 09, 2023 |
Built2last: It can't end well.
Avoid permanent decision for a temporary challenge For sure. |
Food › Re: Animals You Can Never Eat No Matter The Price by smart177: 10:43am On Dec 30, 2022 |
duro4chang: Na only dog I have not and dont want to eat. Others I don chop them finish. Even a cat  |
Literature › Re: 30 Significant Take-aways From Man's Search For Meaning (+ Free Copy) by smart177: 7:10am On Dec 18, 2022 |
I've been looking for a summary from this book...thank you for this. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Merchant Of Death" & Arms Dealer Viktor Bout Joins Russian Parliament (Photos) by smart177: 6:31pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Righteousness2: As the world becomes more darker and Gloomy, there is a dire need for ALL to know and Understand that JESUS CHRIST is the ONLY hope for anyone who desires to be Saved from the darkness and desolation sweeping all over the world.
There is no need to Sugar coat things! Very Harsh and Dark times are coming on the Earth ! JESUS CHRIST is the ONLY way of Salvation and ESCAPE! EXACTLY... We need to double check our lives.. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Signs Same-sex Marriage Into Law amid funfare (Video, Photos) by smart177: 2:27pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
kennyz247: man no God
ur ways is not mine,says the Lord SURE. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Signs Same-sex Marriage Into Law amid funfare (Video, Photos) by smart177: 9:25am On Dec 14, 2022 |
kennyz247: I wonder y God still choose to bless this people, despite there atrocities and abuse to God Believe me GOD is not behind those blessings and soon...HE is going to annihilate them.... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Issues Dire Warning To Humanity ( Pics) by smart177: 8:39am On Dec 14, 2022 |
Righteousness2: When you begin to see major Endtimes actors dishing out Bible Endtimes Prophecies, you are better sit up and do the needful.
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Desolation and Destruction is Coming but before then, there will be Great Escape for all who are Genuiely Saved in JESUS Christ.
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Dont let anyone Deceive you with Mary this or that. Mary has nothing do for you , me or anyone. JESUS Christ is the ONLY Way to be Saved. You don't need a mary, Paul, Peter, Elijah or any one else.
Get Ready Folks ! The Rapture is Imminent! Depart from Evil! Depart from Iniquity and Sin! Come into a Genuie relationship with with JESUS Christ. This is the Only way to escape the What is coming. Are u witness!? |
Food › Re: Why Is Food So Expensive Nowadays In Nigeria ? by smart177: 8:57am On Dec 12, 2022 |
SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT! SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT!SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT!  SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT! SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT!SKIDDOLEE: In a country where theyre not producing food or crop in large quantity that will be able to cater for everyone , yet they close the boder . I wonder how next year will be . It will be sO HOT! |
Romance › Re: What I Did To An Ungrateful And Unappreciative Girlfriend by smart177: 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
tayo60: Any girl who never appreciate d little you do for her will not appreciate you, even if you bought her d whole universe. A good girl shows appreciation for a pin given. WELL SAID. |
Health › Re: Mexican Woman Cut Open By Assailants Who Stole Her Unborn Baby by smart177: 5:26pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Klington: Obviously, the whole world is a competition to out-do one another in [b][Evil practices/b]
God have mercy. EXACTLY! When i come across news like this one i really get dissapointed...i wonder what the future has instore for us! |