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|Politics / Re: An Armed Robber Who Ambushed Abiola Became A Governor - Zainab Duke-Abiola, Wife by smartolala(m): 11:42pm On Jun 14|
temitope27 post=102There 714463:There is nothing like may be it is fayose,it is fayose.He has a lite hiace bus that they used then.
|Romance / Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by smartolala(m): 3:58pm On May 04|
The word 'love' does not associated with men,it is divine.
|Romance / Re: Pre-wedding Pics Of A Nairalander (simsify) by smartolala(m): 9:31am On Dec 02, 2020|
Congratulations it could have been me and one sister here but she messed up at last
|TV/Movies / Re: Laycon Rocks Nengi And Rubs Her Butt As Finalists Enjoy The Jacuzzi by smartolala(m): 1:37pm On Sep 26, 2020|
CosmicPhoenix:Bro life balance one just have to position well to get what he or she want inside life
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|Romance / Re: END OF YEAR PICTURE: This Image Was Taken Today 31/12/2019 [Picture] by smartolala(m): 11:05am On Jan 01, 2020|
KIA51:You look stunning and beautiful.
|Romance / Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by smartolala(m): 11:31pm On Dec 21, 2019|
Op I don't know if this quote will be of help to you.unsuccessful men run after women,while women run after successful men,why can't men run after success so that women can run after them.
|Politics / Re: Appeal Court affirms Makinde’s election As Oyo Governor by smartolala(m): 2:21pm On Dec 18, 2019|
seunmsg:I hope you have heard the pronouncement of the supreme court,next time listen to the wise saying,whatever is bound here,is also bound above.
|Politics / Re: Zainab Ahmed: Dangote Refinery Will Save Nigeria $10bn by smartolala(m): 9:09pm On Dec 15, 2019|
This Government will never ceased to amaze Nigerians,the last time I checked,Dangote refinery management said they will get crude oil at international market price and also sell its refined products at international market prices and also they will not engage in crude oil swapping for petroleum products.
|Family / Why Are Numerous Decent People Single Nowadays? by smartolala(m): 5:20pm On Dec 13, 2019|
Many decent people I know are single.They are well to do and have the resources to sustain healthy marriage,and also not belong to the group who decided not get married for reasons best known to them.
I am of the opinion that it's for one main reason:they are looking for the one.
They want true love.They desire something real,something that takes time to build,but something that will last forever.
They are careful with who they choose to fall and have high expectations for who they will settle down with.
They live by concept of delayed gratification, constantly hoping that amongst all of these people who live to satisfy their temporary pleasure,one will appear that has real and pure intentions.
They are dreamers yet they are observant.They have been hurt in the past but they believe in better.
They strive for better.
And I really hope they find it.
What do you think?
|Nairaland / General / Right And Left Brain Dominance by smartolala(m): 5:24pm On Dec 11, 2019|
This simple test has been bringing heated arguments among me and my folks over here.some of them don't see what I see.
Please nairalanders come to our rescue.
If you are right brained you will see a combination of pink and white.
If you are left brained you will see it in grey and green.
So what colour did you see?
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 9:05am On Dec 11, 2019|
Kelvin30286063:I will not reply you with harsh words like stupid,mean,wicked and insensitive that you stated because of my upbringing and the level of my evolvement in life.The sitting on the floor to eat was her choice,after she was stopped from eating alone in her room,I go to know some years later.she did many things bad later but I don't want to say all,because to err is human to forgive is divine.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 12:35am On Dec 11, 2019|
sholay2011:No problem,thanks a bunch
|Religion / Re: David Ibiyeomie Built Female Hostel For Ignatius Ajuru University by smartolala(m): 12:31am On Dec 11, 2019|
harlee:You are saying the truth,his former landlord at pot Johnson, street phc,where he was staying during his struggling day told me this also,the man happened to be my friend's inlaw(okrika man too)
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 12:09am On Dec 11, 2019|
Oblongata:I tried to summarized everything without saying all for not be as if I am demonizing my fellow human. Your story is similar to mine because my Dad told me later that he kept many things to his chest because he want my mom to learn some lessons....since the maid was recommended by her trusted friend.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:51pm On Dec 10, 2019|
sholay2011:I tried to summarized the whole thing not to paint her too black because we are all humans no matter what,the choice of eating on floor was hers,i found out some years later.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:46pm On Dec 10, 2019|
cococandy:I got your opinion, eating on the floor was her choice,after my mom refused to let her eat in her room,to avoid being isolated from everyone.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:41pm On Dec 10, 2019|
Geminita1:You get it,that is the just message I am trying to pass.
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|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:40pm On Dec 10, 2019|
Dignity5:I was just trying to pass a message without demonizing her,that is why l left many things that happened out.As for the eating on the floor,I later found out she made that option herself
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:35pm On Dec 10, 2019|
nlPoster:yes I was insinuating that she is better,because we spent most of the time her and she was caring then.As for the eating on the floor,I later found out she made the choice by herself.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 11:29pm On Dec 10, 2019|
sholay2011:some years later when I was discussing with my father,he told me that in his presence the maid told my mom she will prefer eating alone in her room,but my mom declined,so that she won't feel isolated.when she came to sitting room,she refused to seat on the chair,that food digest easily whenever she sit on the floor while eating.
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 8:37pm On Dec 10, 2019|
nlPoster:what do you what to know again?
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 8:36pm On Dec 10, 2019|
Fountainofyouth:most times it is inevitable, especially if both parents go out often to earn a living
|Family / Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 8:30pm On Dec 10, 2019|
Yes,she was too comfortable hence she started taking things for granted.Gossips about? Very many,up to the extent of damaging our family reputations,I just summarized everything,I am not a good storyteller@NGR Senate
|Family / This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by smartolala(m): 6:49pm On Dec 10, 2019|
My parents hired a maid to look after me and my immediate younger sister when we were 7 and 4 years old respectively.Because both of them were early riser and kind of busy people.
Me and my sister got attached to the maid within some days and fell for her affection toward us.she was great in her job and cooked really good food and provide the nurture teenagers like us deserves.
My mom used to take feedback from me and my sister of her work.I used to praise her a lot .I was even insinuating that she was better than my mother.
One day we were on our dinning table of six sitting capacity. My mom asked the maid to seat on the floor and eat because she normally eat after we finished our dinner.
I asked my mom why can't she sit with us and have her dinner? She is a great maid and take care of me and my sister.
My mom replied son,you don't know the social customs. Eat your food.We will discuss it later.
I started arguing with my mom.
My father said just shut up your mouth and eat.Don't talk while eating.within me I was thinking that my parents are cruel by their actions.
The following day when me and my sister came back from school,during lunch,I asked the maid to come and sit with us on the dinning table and have food.
She refused first,but I insisted because I thought she deserved some respect from me.
After 2 months she started gossip about my mom behind her.
She used to tell me how cruel my mom is to her.Initially I was supporting her because of my attachment to her.
Then,she took it to another level and started gossiping with other maids in the neighborhood.
Not long,she started commanding me and my sister for many things ,Do that,Do this.Her behaviour started changing slowly.
She started cooking bad food during launch time as per her own taste.I don't like spicy food.Still she commanded me to eat like that.
One day my mom came home early from market and met her shouting at us.My mom asked her,Take your salary and get out from my house.I told my mom the whole story,I requested her not to tell my father.
My mom promised not tell my father,but remember son,always keep the person where he/she belongs.
That day I realized that our parents might not be always there for us,but they will never harm us and always protect us.
No body can replace your real mother.Though my mom is late,till now the advice is evergreen.
Thanks for reading.
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|Crime / Re: Lady Set On Fire By Her Yahoo Boyfriend Over Infidelity, Dies (Video) by smartolala(m): 4:21pm On Dec 10, 2019|
This is the reason I always advice guys not dive into serious relationship with a runs girl when still in active service,because she can hardly be satisfied.she will be salivating to know what other guys has under their boxer shorts and how deep is their pockets,till she is tired,then she can be loyal.But this boy messed up big time,let him face the music.
|Family / Re: Advice For Teenagers Going Into Their 20s by smartolala(m): 11:32pm On Nov 28, 2019|
[quotie author=ststyreal post=84456235][/quote] I don't agree less.
|Family / Advice For Teenagers Going Into Their 20s by smartolala(m): 4:24pm On Nov 28, 2019|
1.chasing opposite sex(or same sex) is a waste of time,so don't waste your time
2.Travel a lot if you have the opportunity.It will change your perspective about life.
3.social websites ruin life.so minimize your activities on social websites.
4.career is not everything for life.Learn other skills.
5.Don't compare yourself with other people.
6.Love yourself.If you don't care of yourself,nobody else is going take Care of you.
7.Expectation can destroy your mindfulness.That's why don't expect.
8.Start to save money from your first paycheck from your job or business.
9.Don't do drugs,you will live to regret it.
10.Leave your job and start your own business are easy to say but difficult to do.You must have the guts to take this decision.
11.Don't compare yourself with other people.
12.Run 1km every morning to relieve your stress and anxiety.
You can add yours,thanks for reading.
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|Politics / Re: Kogi 2019: Hoodlums Set SDP Secretariat In Lokoja On Fire, Reps Member Furious by smartolala(m): 2:00am On Nov 12, 2019|
This does not requires the service of a Babalawo or Dibia,knowingly or unknowingly this is orchestrated by Yahya danger,he is now a nightmare in kogi state,pray for kogites
|Politics / Re: Indimi Slams Reno Omokri Over Comment On Otedola Donating 5bn For Charity by smartolala(m): 1:49am On Nov 12, 2019|
I am not a supporter of Reno though,I have been to Maiduguri and some parts of Borno state,with the enormous wealth from our common resources in the custody of indimi..he has not done enough.when he gave an America university &14m,it was all over the media,so they loud their giving.
|Politics / Re: Appeal Court affirms Makinde’s election As Oyo Governor by smartolala(m): 6:37pm On Nov 11, 2019|
The APC Oyo state chapter and Bayo Adelabu should just let go of this ,they should congratulate Gov.makinde ,and start early preparation for 2023.The man is Gods ordained and peoples choice for now.
|Travel / Re: Evolution Of The Beautiful City Of Dubai In Pictures by smartolala(m): 5:01pm On Nov 10, 2019|
We as Nigerians need to reassess ourselves and think of the best system of governance that will suit us,most third world countries do not developed practicing democracy as it were.
|Education / Re: Oluchi Okala Miracle: ABSU Law Graduate Had First Class In ABSU & Law School by smartolala(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2019|
Success gives me joy,congratulations young woman....you will go places ijn.
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