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[color=#000050]First of all, I am sorry for the situation you have found yourself in.
You were naïve when you were used by that man so none of this is your fault.
Staying with that man is not the best option. He doesn't love you, he doesn't respect you and worse than that , he physically abuses you.

I will advice you try your best to find a way to move out of that house.
You don't need to depend on him for survival. There are other things you could do. You could start up a small business so you can take care of yourself. There are a lot of business ideas you could pick from, especially in your school environment. You could also learn a trade or vocation.

In addition to that, there should also be other guys that might have been asking you out and all that. There could be one that would be ready to take care of you. Perhaps you should try to open up a bit. I am not saying you should sleep with men, or sell your body to them, no, all I am saying is you make a couple of friends and perhaps you might find someone to love and who would love you too.
You can't fight this battle alone.

What about members of your extended family, friends in and out of school. There should be someone you could talk to and who could be willing to help.
Just open up to someone close, you will definitely feel the load lifted from you shoulders.

I don't know how committed you are to your religion, but in cases like this , religious organizations can really be of help.
You could talk to your religious leader about everything. They could help.
Even the fellow members of your religious organisation, whether it's a church or a mosque, can also help you.

Young lady, we as humans always face various challenges in our lives. But we should never give in to them and lose all hope.
There is still light at the end of the tunnel. Everything will be okay,
Just keep on trusting God and be prayerful as well. [/color]

The statement above me make sense.. but sweet it wud have bn if the guy talk abt finance..let not forget she can't don't av money to maintain her self.

So in my own opinion I think I wl suggest let raise a little fund for the victim so she can start any petty trade within d sch campus; So I enjoined all nlander working class shu contribute at least something to help assist is not just by comment.

chocolateme:
I am looking for my love on nairaland (true talk)

Wish u well.. but my dear becareful

goldheart004:
The thought of it send shivers down my spine,it wasn't funny one bit,he was a violent person with words dat struck like venom, yet I couldn't just leave him, remembering those days now just make me smile,because I am a stronger person today,i have forgiven him and moved on,i know he must be sorry for all the pain he caused me,I pray you find peace where ever you are dear ex#

Hmmm reading ur comment and after I checked ur pics this pop up in my heart so we all must experience heart brk,both d rich, the poor, the weak and the strong..the ugly and the beautiful ones.

Ds ur pics na real you?

I was hanging out with my friends when this argument enchew among us, the topic was on ladies, there style of dress and sex when coming to guys Houz.

Since most of us are guys we only imagine what music ladies play in their mind when coming to guys houz, now imagine a lady going to a guy house for the first time believe she wl think sex or rape and probably she will decide to dress to prevent any easy access to her treasure..such as as any of these but not limited sha..

Such a lady wl put a very tight Jeans after she might have put on her tight then pant..but its surprising most time the sharp guys still av sex with them at the end of the day, the most comic part of it is that the lady herself wl be the one remove the trouser, the tight and most often forcefully throw the pant away until after the show u wl see some of them asking where is my pant. Then in the guy mind it wl be so after all this ur masquerade attire I still degbe.

Sometimes you wl see a Lady come to your house with a very long gown no space self for air to pass into her body..then in the guy house show start the lady herself wl be showing the guy the way to remove the clothe and even unzip the clothes...then in the guy mind he wl be saying ehen ehen even u?

Then their are these ladies, they come to ur house with free mind, there dressing very seductive but alas no matter the sharp guy when they say no to sex...there NO is in capital and they always mean it..When they inform the guys they want to go happily and wt a moody face the guys see them off and cursing..In the lady mind she has proof a point all ladies are not the same.

Then the saintly dress ladies..this lady dress like SU with there operations sweep skirt and some time they may put on the hijab with socks just name it; but when show start u wl be amaze how sis and Amira know various styles...then the guy wl be in his thank God I kno dull myself.

One can go on and on with the way ladies come to guys house with the mind of not having sex just to end up be smashed by the guys the question begging for answer is why dress like masquerade or proof difficult wt ur dress when you wl still allow the guy go through the paradise gate?

Guys share ur experience I kno the list is inexhaustible.

Old Jokes...naija nd plagiarism.

E-Wailers don get work oya this thread go soon dey receive enough traffic.
Haters can hate..na im time today it wl be som1 else tomorrow...

hyfr:
It is confirmed, this girl is an ogbanje. You no carry person pikin, dog pikin or fowl pikin na cat pikin wey u go carry. I hope say no be people destiny she dey carry for hand.

Lol Nairaland comment sha...

Naija politicians are not worth dying for imagine when it com's to loot sharing and contract from each company, ethnicity and religion do not count on their table; but yet we d youth without sitting, typing or wailing allowance we be falling over each other all because of ppu who don't know we exist and if they know dey don't care abt us.

Thought it was real...

Oro yi le...

Abegi what is massive here..? Just asking sha

Lol...thought na true talk sef @op u got me.

The frog leg abegi..

sissylucy:
seconded....cas in a relationship it's very hard to avoid it

Thirded and Fourthed....

Why all ladies too like to dey form innocence abegi...I don't like sex but I open my leg to for my boyfriend to prevent from cheating' Shoro niyen..

And in 9ice voice even boys conductor get ambitions...that is to say any babe or bitch get reason for having sex.

God deliver us....

We know but let them return the one they can account for so we use ur to develop our land enough of them using this money in their place while the real owner are suffering.

BiitchAmMe:
lol sure na! konji na bad tin ... d last time i go dere na fight end am. imagine make dem dey drag ur used condom wit u wey ur sperm dey inside.

Bros e u funny for why now used condom?

BiitchAmMe:
D ashawo joint wey dey my area...na 5h for 1round. No smooching, no kissing, no touchin of boobi...she go jus spread leg con dey wait make u begin dig her borehol. N afta 2mins she will be like "Oga abeg do release, customer dey wait me outside".

So embarrassing Awon HOE-LOSHI

Bros ar u talking from experience?

BiitchAmMe:
D ashawo joint wey dey my area...na 5h for 1round. No smooching, no kissing, no touchin of boobi...she go jus spread leg con dey wait make u begin dig her borehol. N afta 2mins she will be like "Oga abeg do release, customer dey wait me outside".

So embarrassing Awon HOE-LOSHI

Bros ar u talking from experience.

sexy indeed..

axortedbabe:
Nice bod.. She looks depressed..

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Contactsless doctor jus seeing her pics...I respect.

Rubbish..make them tear clothes on top anoda man matter. As if wen dey carry the award self dem dey remember dem fans with monetary gift or packages apart from shout out to my fans...ds award is for u na dt one we go chop.

My point here is this our celebrities can go back to their root and try their best to develop or rebuild the primary sch they pass out from, or buy chairs to som of this sch, abi purchase book to the library instead of showing off their wealth.

If a blackman lead from white Houz y is it a surprising thing for a black man to arrest a white man? My ppu believe Ib urself and u wl be great.

If na marriage proposal if she say yes...she correct joor hw many girls go refuse such a proposal.. even the Hijab babe go say yes and conclude by saying I wl lead him to Allah.

Money sweet...may we not share ideas where our mate dey spend money.

O ga...if na naija ds thing dey one reason(s) or the fo they wey make them be like this...

Almost everything ladies wear now are artificial... nothing in them is natural.

Iyamar:
Big ass na wahala o lol

Tell her..Iyamar op u ar aii quite awhile.