OP,
nw y wud u want every thread to b serious

God Bless Nigeria

9ja 4life

still doesnt look like d doll

richyblink1:

1. After her 3 months maternity leave, her mom will still be around till the baby is a bit strong for daycare.
2. Raising family is not a career nor a full time job, it's an obligation attached to parenthood. A man gat to do what he gat to do. Likewise a woman

im sorry to say, that isnt thinking it through, i have an experience of a couple currently facing this challenge, the husband wants her to resign to take care of the baby, and she is holding so much resentment towards him right now.

another colleague of mine, doesnt see her children till weekend, reason being that she leaves the home before they wake up and gets home wen they are fast asleep, shes is a stranger in her home, hence my reason for creating this thread isnt it better to address this fully prior to marriage or like my case just go for a chic with a less demanding job

richyblink1: Think you are still having difficulty understanding the real meaning of marriage, commitment, togetherness and sacrifice.

I and my better half works in the aforementioned sector. She comes back later than you mentioned because of tràfic and the section she works. I on the other hand closes around 5:30/6 daily, and gets home latest 6 because of proximity.

For the past 1year, i take care of meals and house chores from Monday to Friday, while she take over Saturdays and Sundays. I have never complained or grumble. I always feel on top of the world while cooking for her. You need to see the type of prayers and peck I get each time she comes home to see that I have washed the dishes and prepare dinner for her. Not minding the fact that I have to stay hungry most times till she returns so we can eat together.

Broo, if you truly understand the rudiments of love, marriage and togetherness, you will notice one thing, Sacrifice (tolerance, endurance and selflessness)

tanx bruv, this is the kind of insightful post i'm looking for. i have a question or two

1. whats your take on having children? who looks after them?
2. would you/her sacrifice career over raising the family? or just sacrifice family over career

aisha2:

The Poster is a part time dreamer and script writer, one point he had a hot wife who got a job working on shore and he wasnt sure if he should let her accept the job.

Another time he wanted to choose between getting married and buying a range rover.

Now he is dating a career lady. Chai.

im serious this time, besides, other folks will get to benefit from an open discussion

pickabeau1: if u have issues with a womans profession but feel yours is not an issue...Dont bother...

common, are u kidding me

d woman runs the home mehn!!! haba if both of us are out, wu looks after the Children?

pickabeau1:

What do u do

watz d relationship btw my job and the topic?

hmmm! i can relate with the OP,
was in a similar position range/marry, so i chose to buy a range instead

















.......but now shes married

yea, i kinda like her, but im considering the pros/con b4 getting really really serious

dear NL peeps,
I have been in a relationship with a hawtiepie, truth is ive been really kinda busy, so i maximize my free tyme to be with her, however it jst occurred to me that she is also very busy, even busier than I. now here lies the challenge, she works late evry day i.e 8pm (it also takes like 2hrs to get home), and gets called to the offices on saturday at least twice a month, sometimes on sunday .
I planned to settle down with her but with this her busy schedule, I am having serious second thots, I practically will be living with a stranger, secondly who will take care of the Children when they eventually come.



pls if you are/have similar challenges, kindly share, also do you advise i break-up, cos i cant deal with this right now .

.......yeah- she works in the banking sector

snthesis: a lil hint #9jabrink, we are entering phase 2 (d big guns hav made dia cash), shares are gonna start plummeting soon due to uncertainty in polity (foreign investors on hold), diversion of funds into campaigns, crippling the economy blablabla

we'll resume nextyear to repeat d cycle all over again

...guess u didnt listen

Eyop:
You better stop deceiving yourself. Am fellow guy like you

WTF

Eyop:
Hello dearest sugar

it never happened

na wa o-only one like

still no NL Babe calling me dear

.....u gals are mean o

hazyfm:

MY Dear,

male?
or
female?

3some things

gabicon: Just thinking out loud. Did he know he was infected? Why did he come to Nigeria? I'm kind of curious cos if he died today that means hevmust have been in the advanced stage of the illnesses so did he come to find help in Nigeria or spread it.

hmmm!!! smart guy, i bet he was paid to spread the disease-(his family will b taken care off), and i wont be surprised if it aint Liberia colonial master

Cecediva: How are you dear?

na wa o- wen will a NL babe call me dear

idumuose: Buhari is 74years or thereabout,next year(2015) he will be 75.If he is defeated in 2015and i am sure he will,his next chance to contest is 2019.Buhari would be 79+ in 2019 and it's only a foolish party that would allow him fly it's presidential flag.

This is the time for him to fight dirty as it were to clinch APC ticket.Goodluck to him.

hmmm this is a sign
79, @2019.....
9 is a special number
APC * PDP =9 i.e multiplying the number of letters
NIGERIAN= 9 letters
President= 9 letters
....Buhari to win the presidential elections in 2019




sai Buhari 2019 sure pass

Teespice: Na wa oooo.

From the fiancee who was supposedly hiding things and this.

Sorry for those who will take this thread serious.

im trying to settle down

zeb04: What kind of obsession is that and not all ladies behave in this manner so don't conclude that easily.

dats y i created this thread, wanna be sure it isnt generic to all ladies- sheiit shes calling again

Oxone: Reminds me of a girl i dated a while back. She was calling every other minute and asking same silly questions it almost drove me nuts. Had to call the whole thing off after 3eeks for the sake of my sanity cos it was bothering on obsession.

Haba! i have better things to do than talk to same person 10 times a day!

same here, and wen i tell her i cant talk, she says why dont i send her a text instead

Abrilla: Synthesis I thought you were married with a wife already

sowii, it wasnt me

hmmm..... so clinging is a sign of loving sum1

....i guess ive never being in love

Abeg , guys as you can note the time of posting 11.50pm...this post is really serious.

im in a fix at the moment, yeah got a serious gf, but the thing is she wants to own me ,

she calls me every other sec, expecting me to return calls and wen i dont she calls to ask why.

she compares my commitment to her with my job , saying im more committed to the office.

she's upset if i dont spend enough time with her, knowing fully well, that my schedule is demanding

she never keeps to time on dates

pls im abt done with her but i need an opinion if all "serious" relationships are like this, or its jst peculiar to her cos i cant deal ryt now- i'm so used to my space,

or i've i become a serial bachelor

proffemi: T

By the way, if anyone on this forum has the ears of any top-ish NMA members, please beg them to strongly consider shelving their strike for now. I will also be doing the same. What looms before us is a national emergency of truly unprecedented proportions, and I think history will judge NMA harshly, unless they lead us to face it.

sowii, on the contrary the "good doctors" will postpone dia strike for longer "till d coast is clear--wu wan die

Sloan: "Follow the money"! When crime does occur, this is all you have to do to find with 99% certainly who is the criminal or culprit. This is what the US, UK, etc do to find criminals with minimal time by just narrowing down the search parameters. In a nutshell, who has the most to gain from the crime? That person or people are most likely behind it.

In the bombing attack today on General Buhari, who has the most to gain from his death? Jonathan and the PDP! They are the ones who are trying everything to kill off opposition so that they could easily steal the 2015 elections! Who has the wherewithal to kill off investigation? Kill off any report? GEJ with the illegal use of official powers. I put it to all Nigerians and the world that GEJ is behind the attack on Buhari and Boki Haram! He has the most to gain from his death and the division in Nigeria!

contrary GEJ has the most to lose with the staged managed bombing of GMB. GMB is almost certain to win the APC presidential primaries-which is a gift to PDP and why wud GEJ want to loose that advantage