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Phones / Pronto: What Is The Police Emergency Number In Nigeria? by softy(m): 7:34pm On Jul 26, 2013
Yes!........We all know that Security Issues in Nigeria are as important as the food we eat!

Yes!......if God does not watch over the city, the watchmen are doing it in Vain!.....BUT,as human being and as a great nation (that we always claim to be), it is NOT a bad idea if we have a GENERAL EMERGENCY Call Number that unifies all security agencies managing
Human, Materials and Properties as entities.

Who knows if we have had this number,POLICE and all other security agents, on the issue of BOKO haram would have been helped enormously!

Many lives could have been saved in this country if we have Police Emergency line to be called when we are faced with the case of CRIMINality......same way, this extends to all other good areas we need such reserved call numbers!

Some countries and their emergency numbers are listed below for your perusal.
USA- 911
European Union, Russia,Ukraine & Switzerland - 112
London (1937)- 999

Exception!
Nigeria(Federal Road Safety Corps ONLY)- 122

AFRICA Police Medical Fire
Algeria: 17 14 14
Cameroun: 17, 119,18
Chad: 17,-,18
Ghana- 191,193,192
South Africa- 10111, 10177, 1011.

(just to mention few!)

pls, great people of nairaland
1. Who is responsible for creating emergency number??
2.do we really need one in Nigeria?
3.What are the problems militating against this development??

Pls, contribute!

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Education / Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by softy(m): 10:27am On Jul 20, 2013
tombeck: Please i have HND upper credit computer science, can i be admitted into 300level for direct entry or direct master without PGD. thank you.

For anyone having HND upper credit and above, in Noun- u are elligible to do your Masters DIRECTLY.....i have people doing it as am typing this.....oNLY LOWER CREDIT is NOT ALLOWED to Masters BUT PGD

HND (Upper credit,Distinction)--Direct MASTERS
HND(LOWER CREDIT)- direct PGD, then later MASTERS.
Phones / Re: All DATA USERS, WAKE UP (CAMPAIGN FOR FAIRNESS) by softy(m): 1:42pm On Jul 19, 2013
Iam an ARDENT SYMbian Phone User!

I visited NCC website . Their details are as follows:

1. Facebook : http://www.facebook.com/nigerian.communications.commission

2. Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/ngcomcommission

3.Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/user/NgComCommission

Abuja (HQs) phone number : +234-9-4617000
Fax: +234-9-4617514

NCC main website: http://www.ncc.gov.ng
Religion / Re: In Jesus Name, All Knees Bow; In Mary's Name, What Happens? by softy(m): 2:06pm On Jul 14, 2013
gree-die:
Im catholic.... we do not pray to mary or in her name.


now where in the bible was it recorded dat mary died? or u think it was mistakenly omitted?

I don't get it, u don't believe mary can intercede, but i do... why not live and let live... i ain't questioning ur belief so why question mine?

why do u peeps keep opening thread abt the mother of Jesus wen ur aim isn't to learn but to ridicule?

Im keeping my knowledge to myself, thanks.

Am not Judging anybody here, ''the Truth will set free''

There is no other name under heaven that can save us apart from the name of Jesus!

This is not about questioning ur belief, but when one is at the cross road,especially if we claim always that we are praying to the same Jesus based on the Bible,it is necessary and COMPULSORY to ask intelligent questions.

We need to refrain from ''Heresies, ignorance and tall tales invented by the greater knowledge (wicked ppl or devil & his agents ) which was enforced,delivered and passed down to the lowest knowledge( we or some of us ) from generation to generations.

For your information, Mary the mother of Jesus fought for her own salvation to be saved,even before she gave birth to our Lord Jesus, and after the death of Jesus. She maintained this holy life till her death,that is why ''she is in heaven now'' NOT in hell!.....(U can found out by sourcing out the info urself)

Mary was a gracious woman, even a committed,and devoted christian, who did not even as Jesus's Mother disobeyed God through Jesus Christ.....(u can source for this info in the bible)
She was an ordinary human being like u and I,BUT GOD rewarded her faithfulness before she died and after she died.

Praying to Mary is Idolatory!
Raising an image for Mary to the extent of praying to her ''molten image'' is idolatry!
We sholud desist from the acts that mock God's love towards us all.
Dead Mary can not, will not and shall not ' wherewithal' intercede for anyone.
Mary was dead just as 12 disciples were dead! Praying in their names apart from the name of Jesus is Pure Idolatory and a SIN!

It is well with us all in Jesus name.Amen.
Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Mother, Abibat Mogaji Is Dead by softy(m): 2:06pm On Jun 16, 2013
PEN_MIGHT: May her Lord have mercy on her soul,forgive her her shortcomings and may she be ranked amongst the pious on the Day of Recompense.

And please,for those who have scores to settle with her son, Bola Tinubu or ACN should not invade here and transfer aggression on the dead soul.

We don't speak ill of the dead.....pls!!!

Pls, I really dont know 'why' it is very sacred or wrong to speak ill of the dead!......I really want to learn.....pls enlighten me and back up your claim with valid evidence(s).

Note: dont redirect me to anywhere oooo, if u dont have good and verifiable reasons to back ur claim, just reply me humbly...no abuse or wrong words is expected. Thanks.
Politics / Re: Nigeria Cant Survive Another Civil-War – Mark by softy(m): 8:36pm On Jun 07, 2013
ALTRUTH:
yes o, we also pray for Generals that are brave men not like one I know who prostrated like a lizard and wept like a baby pleading for his life!


At point of death or means of sudden or predetermined termination of one's life OR when faced with life threatening situation , that is to be caused by another human (cruel)being, especially when u are totally incapacitated, and when u are weaponless or defenceless to the zero level, NATURALLY, one (human being) will love, and by any means of presuation (Awolowo) or through escape (Ojukwu) or through tactics (Alameiseigha), to preserve his or her life. U and I are subject to this natural phenomenon!.....

Kapish?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: People Born In June, Lets Meet Here by softy(m): 3:58pm On Jun 05, 2013
am June 1st ooo and there is showers of blessing or rain that day and thruout d month
Nairaland / General / Re: Happy New Month To All Nairalanders by softy(m): 4:00pm On Jun 01, 2013
nadia_SA: happy born day doll....


Today is MY BIRTHDAY!
Politics / Re: Nationwide Blackout? 24 Hours And Counting by softy(m): 3:37pm On May 25, 2013
playmode:

Kill person for wetin Na suffer head dey think of killing anyone.If you dey enjoy better infrastructure and you get peace of mind ,why you go dey think of killing any person. Abeg follow me PORT go overseas leave that yeye country ,make the senseless people dey continue to use their own hand kill themselves. No be rocket science na simple logic grin . These same people wey dey complain now go line up in 2015 go vote Jonathan again.Goats no dey ever learn,dem go make the same mistake till they die.


Waooooo!
Because of u, Mr Playmode, I got sticked to this thread.

U are so intelligent, in fact, I ve read all ur replies and posts on this thread patiently and also digest all of them!

Indeed, truth is bitter.....and what you have is THE TRUTH!.......

Everything u pointed out here is 1 Billion percent correct,valid and certain.

I learnt something from all ur post : IF U WANT TO DO SOMETHING (positive, for development, future etc).....JUST DO IT!
No room for paparazzzzzzi.....lol

When SUN shines, JUST MAKE HAY!

Also, how can we get all ur advice and points into our thick and thin skulls in Nigeria presently to avert future disasters like plagues(our CORRUPT leaders) on our dearest soil nigeria

Mr Playmode and Mr YEYEBOS: I love u from the bottom of my heart!....keep it coming!

Signed
Softy
Politics / Re: Senate Says President Has Not Declared Any State Of Emergency by softy(m): 9:08pm On May 17, 2013
dc555: The President is the Chief Security Officer of the Nation and has the Executive power to make Emergency decisions. So if Cameroun invades Nigeria, the President should consult the National Assembly before taking any decision?

I totally agree with u, man!

we as a people, when Jonathan was pleading with these boko guys,condemmed him as slow,retard and inactive person;
Now he acted wisely to stop the menace, some misguided leaders are crying foul!

When people were being slaughtered or bombed beyond recognition, what did the senate do more than TALKING- condemning the act?

It is a pity that NIGERIA is run by leaders that talks with two sides of their mouth at the same time. They believe in holding water in their mouth,if they really want to quench burning fire.


Is it in our constitution that Nigerians should be killed anyhow? What kind of bad riddance to classy rubbish the acts of our leaders.
or is it in the constitution that senate and house of representatives should holding nigerian to ransom by onlyTALKING and LOOTING They love quoting constitution which has no effect on them, in turn, they have turn our rights as constitution to CONSTIPATION for the rest of Nigerians minus them and the family: they will pay someday.


I want you to recall that last year when boko guys were on 'what -seems -not- ending' rampage of serial bombings, all these leaders were hiding, even packing all their family members out of the 'Hot Zone' because they have the means?.....BUT an ordinary citizen that pays his or her tax and obey all rules and regulations should die for fun?

Concerning the matter at hand, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, the Grand Commander of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Chief Commander and Automatic Head of state,Commander in Chief and Topmost Field Marshal of Army Forces of Nigeria, who has vecto power and from whom Almighty God will ask from on how he ruled this nation in his lifetime, irrespective of leader style and constitution, IS completely RIGHT to defend the right of his nation's citizens in various forms that deem fit!

Who knows if Jonathan is even acting on INTELLIGENCY to prevent further ''bigger and dreadful'' plans of these boko guys

As for some school of thought that think that Jonathan has done bad thing concerning 'declaring state of emergency'... What do y'all think he should have done

As for our senate leaders making mountain out of nothing, TIME will TELL!

Thanks.

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Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:49pm On May 07, 2013
noskeybaba:

GOOD. FINALLY IT IS SINKING IN THAT YOUR EMPTY SKULL. grin grin


I knew u would do this!


Are u happy now ?


Thank u, fully fulled skull!

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Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:38pm On May 07, 2013
noskeybaba:


AS AN Igbo man, IF U SEE IDEMMILI, THE FIRST THING THAT COMES IN YA MIND IS NEVER HARM IT. IT IS HARMLESS.


Ok sir.
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:28pm On May 07, 2013
PAGAN 9JA:


YOU SIR! WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE IDEMILLI SNAKE?! CMON SHARE WITH US OR SHUT UP!

EKE IDEMILLI IS HARMLESS! EVEN A CHILD KNOWS THAT! a child ëspecially" since they keep children company. .

Hmmmm, I ve been following all ur posts for many years on many threads on Nairaland.

U are very quick to abuse, disrespect and distrupt peace, just a few!

why did u say i should shut up Is that how u talk to ur father at home??

How can u stay behind ekforum raining abuses on an undisclosed person.

Henceforth, i will not talk to u again, and if care is not carefully taken, I CAN SEND UR PAGAN GODS TO TERMINATE U FASTER THAN U THINK, unless U CHANGE!.....NOTE: U ARE NOT THE FIRST TO BE DEALT WITH AND I BELIEVE U WON'T BE THE LAST.


WATCH UR TONGUE!!

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Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:14pm On May 07, 2013
saintneo: EKE NEKWA ONYE UKA ~ PYTHON, CHRISTIAN HERE

I was born and raised in Anambra, I have always known of this tradition in Anambra. These snakes visit home stay with children without harming them. I have never heard of a case where there was injury or death as a result of this snake. In my place in Enugu, there is snake we don't kill as well ~ Awgo Ocha(White Snake) usually small in size.

Somehow, there seems to be an equilibrium between these snakes and their communities. It is the same equilibrium we have with other animals like dogs. Also, these snakes could be endangered species.

I'm against the killing of this snake. Firstly, this snake was sleeping in the children's room. For the snake to be sleeping, it means the snake had being there for longer period without harming anyone. Why didn't the pastor secure his children first before seeking its destruction? Why didn't the pastor show any mercy?


There are some situations in life u will find ur self and in terms of safety, then ur instincts will work better.....especially when it comes to ur lovely children.

Stop blaming the pastor jooor!
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:06pm On May 07, 2013
ItsModella: The specie of python in question is small unlike the long, scary ones seen at zoos and forests. So y'all should chill on the exaggerations.

Hey sista, leave that one oooooo!

Python as a snake is a constrictor.....u can google it......whether small specie or big one, they are willed to suffocate their prey at any time t.

What dyu know about snake self I really want to know!........dont give me craps on Dstv NatGeo!
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 2:00pm On May 07, 2013
ItsModella:
Exactly. If you like be a Christian from now till thy kingdom come, if you kill an idemili python, you must accord to it the burial rites of a human being; coffin, grave and all.

are you saying that as many as possible Igbo Christians who still believe in this are HYPOCRITES

SMH
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 1:43pm On May 07, 2013
akigbemaru: Did you all see the hypocrisy of the 99 percent Christian igbo people? Serve Jews and Jesus in a broad daylight but serve the talking serpentine when the chips are down at night!
akigbemaru: Did you all see the hypocrisy of the 99 percent Christian igbo people? Serve Jews and Jesus in a broad daylight but serve the talking serpentine when the chips are down at night!
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 1:42pm On May 07, 2013
Lilimax:
THey kill everyother snake in Anambra state except PYTHON
It does not bite people there.



Was the snake he killed a PYTHON?


Google PYTHON and find out what it is capable of doing!
Culture / Re: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by softy(m): 1:38pm On May 07, 2013
ifyalways: Over zealous religious fanatics.I hope they roast his arse. angry
How would he and his fold react if his bible is pissed on?
Did Jesus convert anyone by shitting on his/her sacred stuff?v


Hmmmmmm, are u a pagan
What would you say if the snake had bitten one of the kids Is snake ur God

What religion do you practice??

I hope u have never seen snake fight before!
Romance / Re: Things Married People Wont Tell You About Marriage by softy(m): 7:07pm On May 06, 2013
50calibre: This is one of the worst threads I've seen, it's jam packed, no paragraphs or spacing.

Next time arrange your post in bullet points or paragraph, it makes it easier to read. I feel like giving you 24 lashes of the cane.

Whaaaaaaat!!!!!!
is this the only valuable comments u could make on this nice thread?
You cannot see through the mind of the Poster until you stop looking through his faults as defaults.
Family / Re: Thinking On Giving My Baby Up For Adoption. Does That Make Me A Terrible Mom? by softy(m): 8:43pm On Apr 30, 2013
Fhemmmy:

You want her to raise a child based on uncertainty, you want her to commit the future of a child into what she is not sure of, cos based on you "You never know where help could come from" are you willing to help buy the diapers and food for the child ?

So what dyu suggest in this case
Religion / Re: Clothing And The Believer In A 'Modern World' by softy(m): 8:37pm On Apr 29, 2013
salt 1:

Wrong! A friend of mine died recently but was mercifully sent back. Even tho she'd been a wonderful xtian, she was disqualified from entering heaven cos of her dressing.
God is interested in every detail of our lives. The earth we're living in is doomed for destruction. God is creating a new heaVen and earth and no tiny sin or worldliness will be allowed to enter and pollute that new place.
Your choice: dress modestly/godly and make heaven or deceive yourself that it doesn't matter and miss the rapture

@salt, pls i will love it if u can share the testimony of how everything happened, what he saw and how he was ''mercifully'' sent back. Such great testimonies liberates and encourages one to sit up!
Religion / Re: Clothing And The Believer In A 'Modern World' by softy(m): 8:19pm On Apr 29, 2013
Omo_Tier1:
In your mind, you really think Jesus when He appears, a human flesh will be something to reckon with in His presence? Let me say this: No man or woman will go to Hell because of what He or She wears. Rather, any man whorefused to accept Jesus as His Lord and Saviour, such will be cast aside into the abyss.

Whilst modest dressing is to be encourage, lets not make religion out of it. For man looks at the outside, God sees and works with the inside. Clearly Jesus said: It is not worth enters a man that corrupts Him but what comes out of Him - Think what this really means.

What an interpretation!....wow?

''No man or woman will go to Hell because of what He or She wears. Rather, any man whorefused to accept Jesus as His Lord and Saviour, such will be cast aside into the abyss.''

This is a pure lie! Dyu really understand what is called Godliness and Worldliness.......they are two constrasting standards.

Note this: if u dress anyhow, u will give account of it. And if care is not taken now, it may land u in hell! - am not judging ooo, but it is a fact according to Jesus's explanations.

Pls,Bros!........when it comes to God and His standards.......no DILUTION and HERESIES!

Dressing well is part of what Jesus said ''let ur light so shine before all men........'' this include the way u relate with,talk to,dress ,react,act,argue,decide and understand others.
@op, u have really said it all.
Some of them (both male and female ) are not ordinary! (u really know what i mean).....they are sent to cause DISTRACTIONS!


Even the bible declared that ''women should dress in all modesty''......unclothedness is not part of what Almighty God demands from U and I.
He hates seeing both ADAM and EVe in unclothedness, that is why he created animal skin (called hide) to cover it.

2ndPeter 1: 4-8

Thank you.
Family / Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by softy(m): 2:07pm On Apr 22, 2013
ItsModella:
Exactly, there's a limit tolerance can go. Everybody has a limit, agreed. That is the point when you play out your last card before knowing whether it is wise to walk out or not. The impression I got from her post is as soon as love dies, walk out. Wtf? It's not a relationship but marriage, you don't just walk out without thinking of the consequences. Whether you want to admit it or not, love dies at certain points in a relationship, it doesn't mean you should just give up. Try and make it work, not walk out. Unless it has become overly repetitive and you can see that no headway is being made.

I LOVE U, babe!

Even in own my personal context : NO DIVOrce jare!

Am gonna tolerate and tolerate and pray for total family understanding till death do us part!
Family / Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by softy(m): 1:24pm On Apr 22, 2013
Policewoman: Pls if you have been destined forever to remain a spinstress, don't spread your curse to other ladies who wish to get married. Keep your opinion to thyself and stop polluting our minds. Thank you.


Sweet woman- U have SAID IT ALL!

@op,
DONT ever START what U canNOT FINNISH!

What u are doing by raising an unconnected or baseless arguement u called Thread is called MISCHIEF against ONESELF!

Remember, if ur mum had HELD onto this kind of DISGUSTING ideas called ''ur thinking''..... She will not have given birth to u.

In fact, what are we really talking about here??

Marriage is ORDAINED by GOD!

I don't really know why one will wake up and think about something like what the OP is arguing about- if not deluded.

As I had said before, and implying from ur several answers to the questions asked by wise women and men here- u are just showing UR IGNORANCE about what u really want in life,U dont respect God's laydown rules and organisations, CONFUSED,FRUSTRATED, or u are looking for people like u that can really agree with ur innuendos!.......

My advice:

Stay clear of any relationship now if u are really that bittered! - pray and change ur ATTITUDE to MEN.

Note: bad characters destroys women of virtues.

After six months, initiate another relationship, after u might been ok.

U need life,so get ONE!
Family / Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by softy(m): 1:00pm On Apr 22, 2013
hotbabe001: Dats Nigerian men mentality. Rubbish

Hey lady......did u just say this?
Generalisation
Including ur DAD,BROTHERS and B/F, even ur male friends

Did u read all the conversations written before u commented??

It is high time u used ur ''all God's given senses'' to weigh the bouncing weight of ur thought(s)/word(s) before u spew out words that ''necessarily '' will make someone refer u as FEMINIST, BIGOT and PARANOID!

I just checked on ur profile pics......very nice and beautiful....... but u sounded so GULLIBLE!

My advice:
Be logical in ur conclusion, and always becareful not to GENERALISE!

It is a crime againt REASONS of ACTIONS!

Thanks!
Family / Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by softy(m): 9:10am On Apr 22, 2013
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Not in the area I live.

@OP, what is ur own personal plan concerning marriage??.....u wanna marry someday?.........because bad examples of marriage dominate ur area where u live DOES NOT connote men see women in marriage as 'slave'........!

Whether figuratively or literarily, your 2% about sane men that treat women right is just ridiculous.........so, 98% of men (whether married,aspiring,undecided) are INSANE (treats women like gabbage)?

Nigeria is blessed with both bad women and men as a group, and others as good ones!

What is ur parental background?......can u explain the kind of love you learn from them?

If u are not a feminist, don't act like one.

To tell u as a fact, some married women are very bad, even transfer the bad habits to their daughters!.......and the cycle continues!

What is ur point of bringing up a thread that shows who u really are- disturbed and bittered

My advice for u:
Make hay when the sun shines!
be ready to bring in good character whenever u are ready to get hooked!
Thanks.

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Family / Re: Why Don't Christians Apply The Bible To Their Lives Especially In Marriages? by softy(m): 7:07pm On Apr 21, 2013
bukatyne: I have noticed that so many men are quick to say that women should submit to their husbands. Some even claim that women and men are not equal. However, I want to address the christian men since they should understand the concept of Biblical submission.

1. Why don't they practice the kind of love God expects from them? 1Cor13:1 - 13 i.e. Love is kind, patient, polite, not boastful, endures all things, never loses hope, is never happy with injustice, always happy when the truth wins out etc?
2. Why do they always want their wives to submit before loving them even though Christ commanded them to love their eives as He loved the Church?
3. Why do they think submission of their wives makes her inferior considering the fact that God told us to submit to one another? Eph 5:21?
4. Why do they think hunmility, gentleness etc are qualities to be developed by women even though they are clearly the fruits of the Holy Spirit (i.e. Love, joy, peace, faith, gentleness, longsuffering, hope, tolerance and self control) which is the characteristics of a believer either male or female?
5. Why do they allow their families to treat their wives like a household slave even though the Bible says a man will leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife?
6. Why do some of them still support adultery even when the Bible clearly condemns it?

I would appreciate if christian men can answer.

Other men can but please no bashing allowed.

If you don't understand the concepts, please just read.

Thanks.


Please answer the following questions humbly:

Are u a christian?
Are u married?
What makes it difficult for anyone or someone to easily submit and succumb to a higher authority (husband,leaders and heads)as God demanded
Is it sturbborness, inferiority complex or superiority complex, gender-equality mindset

Your answers are very important!

THANKS
Romance / Re: My Manhood Wouldn't Let Me Approach Woman, How Can I Overcome It, I Need Help by softy(m): 5:19pm On Apr 17, 2013
Oohrhii: I smile at all these replies.. but none of them actually does it.

The problem the OP has is that his hormones levels are high due to not having s.ex for a long period of time.

Its something you were used to before..but now lacking. You have a high se.xual drive but that does not mean you would last much during s.ex. you are just Hot ni.

The solution.. is >>>Try to masturb.ate more frequently on your own maybe twice a day or more if you can, so as to lower your hormones level.

In a week or 2 you should be alright.



Masturbate?.... !!!!

@op, PLS DONT EVER TRY TO MASTURBATE...... This act leads addiction and it is clearly a BONDAGE!

If care is not taken and at a point, if God do not intervene after u must have been addicted to it, MASTURBATION would be a destroying act for u.

U can check a lot of on this forum (romance & sexuality,for instance ),u will see that MASTURBATION is a principal bondage ,at initial stage,it is sweet,but LATER, one always regret it!

The first response and second response on this thread solve ur problem.

Simply control ur mind and desist from the wrong acts that controls ur mind.

My 2 cents.

Thanks!
Family / Re: What Is Wrong In Taking Money From Your Hubby's Pocket? by softy(m): 9:28pm On Apr 14, 2013
greatgod2012: I wont twist words here.........taking money from your hubby's pocket/wallet without informing him, is STEALING, regardless of the type of man he is and also regardless of how rich he is.
Consider this scenario and clearly state how you will feel if it happens to you.
A man kept some amount, lets say, #5000 naira, the second day, he thought the money is still intact, went to a boutique to buy a beautiful dress for you, which costs the same amount, bought it, and when hes about to pay, he discover the money is #1000 less, imagine the embarrassment you would have caused him by your action.
Another example, both of you already have kids, and he kept money in his pocket, only for him to get to know on getting to work the next day, that part of the money is missing, and by the time he would be back home, you had gone to the market and he just assumed that its the kids that must have taken the missing money and he has already punished the kids severely before your arrival, only to discover that the kids are being punished for the money you stole, how will you feel
So, stealing is stealing, if you need the money, ask your hubby or take permission from him before taking his money, and if hes the stingy type, abeg, two wrongs can never make a right, d4, ignore him and manage the ones with you, in this life, there is a blessing that is attached to doing and being good, especially, taking care of one's immediate family and he who refuse to play his part misses the blessing. Dont allow a stingy man to turn you into a thieve.
May God help us all.


God bless u.

This topic has led to many problems in many homes.

Strictly, God is against it.

We should always create awareness concerning what does not (privately) belong to us.
Family / Re: Am Facing A War Thatz Bigger Than Me by softy(m): 9:17pm On Apr 14, 2013
funnyx: @OP
While it is great to help your family members as supported by many posters on this thread, I'll advise you do it wisely, plan for yourself and PLEASE DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING BACK. My post may stand bizarre but talking from experience many family members are ingrates, they believe you owe them a living and wait till they have some money then they'll show you their true colours.

yea,some family members are turn-offs.
Family / Re: Am Facing A War Thatz Bigger Than Me by softy(m): 9:13pm On Apr 14, 2013
Rooneyboy: @ Poster, u are very self centered and an ingrate.

That is too bad!........he needs encouragement, not bashing!

@op, as people here had really encouraged u, have saving.

Even if u need to get marry in the next 2 years....u need plan,savings and alot of emotional committment.

I pray for u, God's favour will multiply in ur life, and u will get promoted with double increase in ur income in Jesus name.

Kudos to ur mum.
God bless u .

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