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Car Talk / Re: Ask For Ur American & Japanese Vehicle's Parts Including Bumper & Lights by softy(m): 9:21pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nomeh17:
Ask for ur vehicle steering column, pump, etc.

How much is Toyota Camry 2004 2 Headlights

Belgium?

New one?

Thanks.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Meet Putin The Russian President, His Wife And Daughters by softy(m): 9:44am On Feb 26, 2022
yyba:
after president BUHARI of nigeria

When MEN are being mentioned and discussed, please I am begging you, learn how to refuse vehemently the pressure on your mind to include ..........0..............
















You can complete the rest!


Thanks in advance
Family / Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by softy(m): 7:10pm On Dec 13, 2021
kaymandak:
To me it all depends on good planning, industrious partner and God.
1. Children are good heritage from God
2. Industrious woman and a discipline and hard-working man seldom suffer poverty
3. Parenting is another topic entirely which is not easy and almost a lifetime institution, better to start when you have the energy and zeal
4. Family issue is not all about money, there are rich homes with vagabonds and broken relationship
5. Responsibility saves you from frivolity
6. These neighbors you think are poor and always begging from you sometimes have better plans, you will just hear them one day saying uncle we are moving to our fairly completed two bedroom flat, while you keep on changing electronic and paints of a rented apartment.
7. Time waits for nobody, before you close and open your eyes, this post will be ten years ago.
8. It is so beautiful to grow up with your kids, not only when you are a millionaire, even that time you will be too busy.
9. I don't have much, but it is soothing watching my favourite club Chelsea with my boy.
10. May God help us all


Well done, may God continue to bless you and your son.
The OP was just mixing issues together in her or his post.

THESE REPONSES BELOW ARE FOR THE OP

1. To have a child is an achievement. This is so because it adds to your genealogy which started first through procreation. In Africa, having a child means leaving a path that could be traced to u when naming ur ancestors, tribe, village, and your origin. It is a form of secured identity of your next generation in line and in life. Also it is a form of relief at old age, even the Bible describe them as children who would stand at the gate and ask ur enemies questions. They are like arrows in the hand of a powerful man.

2. The numbers of children to have is another discussion entirely. This factor is affected by many issues such as fertility, financial stability, generational instance ( If u are the only child from your parents, ur own parents would love to have more grand kids), on health ground ( imagine a family who love to have 4 children and are well to do financially but was constrained by medical instances of cesarean sections or ectopic pregnancy), the country u are raising the family.

3. The points stated in Number 2 above could now bring us to all the issues u discussed in your original post. Nigeria Is a hell if u don't curtail the number of children u raise. This is even worse when people do not plan well before giving birth to the children. Child do not bring food from heaven. It is God who provides and nurtures both parent ad the children, BUT THE MAIN RESPONSIBITIES LIE ON THE PARENTS


Caveat: if we reflect from where we are coming from, it will DO US GOOD IF WE CAN ALTER THINGS THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE FOR OUR PARENTS TO CHANGE, through our new informed Decisions, henceforth.

If u are married and the house is NOT FULL ALREADY, it is not too late to make amendment. If u are not married, pls open ur eyes.

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Romance / Re: I Am In Love With A Married Woman Who Runs A Spa In Lekki by softy(m): 7:20pm On Nov 24, 2021
LoverJoe89:
Dear NLs,

I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.

We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.

I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.

I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.

Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.

"There is a road that seems right unto a mam, BUT THE END THEREOF IS DEATH"

So, you are the one she has been telling me about?

"You know nothing; John Snow"!

You really wants us to teach you one of the perfect '1000 ways to die"?

This is how flies take enter grave with dead body, there was no room for escape.

All that glitters are not gold

Is either you summersault 3 times or you would be drinking water NON-STOP!

Some young mid adults (young youths) and ignorance!

How would u feel if her children in the university lay ambush for you.

I am advising you to stop this egwugwu dance before night falls when your life and destiny become "yam pepper!
scatter scatter"

Don't be another version of Chioma in disguise!
A word is enough for the wise!

You really need Jesus!
Politics / Re: Grace Atinuke Oyelude Turns 90 (Photos) by softy(m): 8:24am On Nov 17, 2021
greymiles:
She won it when nepotism, cronyism and tribalism was so deep in this country’s polity
The hate on the igbos have been long before today
Everyone one knows igbos are the beauty Queen in this country, how the award goes to a yoruba person is what I don’t understand

Quit Envying! Nobody has it all. Beauty is not proportionate to only one region in Nigeria. Tiv, Igala, Ijaw and all other ethnic groups in Nigeria have elements of beautiful highly proportionate as God creates them. Have you seen beautiful women from Bauchi State?

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Politics / Re: Grace Atinuke Oyelude Turns 90 (Photos) by softy(m): 8:20am On Nov 17, 2021
SultanOfPuna:
If this is what is called Beauty in 1957
Then I must say I'm HIGHLY disappointed
Make una dey talk true for once
The woman no fine at all

My grandma from Enugu who is 86 was very far more beautiful and sexy than this woman during 1957..

Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. She was named Mrs Nigeria NOT MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL/LADY/WOMAN IN NIGERIA.

Quit Envying! Your Grandmother was just 4 years old less ( not even qualified) the age of this beautiful woman of 1957 when she clicked that title.

Just read ad pass!
Because of unnecessary comparisons, Africa is third world continent, even South Africa (xenophobia).

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Romance / Re: Help Me, My Female Cousin What Me To Sex Her What Should I Do??? by softy(m): 3:12pm On Oct 19, 2021
awesonjr:
I will never have sexsual intercourse with my cousin that why I open this trend to hear advice on what to do whether to tell my mum or my elder sister

In fact, tell your Mum and tell your sister today. Tell your Mum first before you tell your sister in that order. This girl in question has a mission. Do NOT let her use you to complete that mission. If u do NOT TELL YOUR MUM NOW, you may not escape what this desperate girl would do' like someone admonished in page 1.

1. It is possible she had been 'testing waters'before coming to your house.

2. Her age is 22 and this is a peculiar age where many girls damaged their future due to ' foolish decisions' and due to hormone rage and youth exuberant. At this age, some ladies make irreversible mistakes that could taunt them for life. Pls, AWESONJNR, DO NOT BE PART OF THAT HORRIBLE TALES.

3. If you are reading this, do NOT waste time. Be bold to tell your mum today.

4. I really thank you and appreciate you for coming out to ask. Many people have lost it in life because they refused to ask 'sensible questions' like this. Also many people are in jail for false rape accusations because THEY REFUSED TO TALK IN TIME.

5. A stich in time saves nine.

6. You are right, in most cultures in Nigeria, IT IS A TABOO. But modernisation of world events makes people erode that part from their life, but cry so much when the irreversible consequences deal with them, later in life.

7. Your Mum would like to work out the modalities with you in which the said girl could be punished. She knows better. She can advice you to get a proof: video or, voice record. You can easily set this girl up by NOT you falling into the trap. Let her do the talking. Record everything. Then present the proof to your Mum, when she comes back. As men, who hates intimidation from female folks because of sex issues, we say: WISE UP!!!

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Education / Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by softy(m): 12:44pm On Oct 16, 2021
beauty7:
Some people are angry over what I have written.

But this is true.

I have an experience where a man used to come to me and asked me to lie him down and beat his buttocks.


I would remove all his clothes,lay him down and used a flat rubber to beat him.

I initially thought it would be painful to him, so I did it reluctantly.

But he encouraged me to beat him.

But when I beat him,his penis would get bigger,as he rubbed his bottom and shouted. Sometimes I masturbated him and he released while under great arousal arising from the beating.


He said as he is lying down,he imagines himself lying down with other boys whose buttocks are to be beaten.

We were very close in those days and he told me everything.


He told me he loved it so much because right from childhood,his parents and teachers


beat him on the buttocks until he becomes addicted to being beaten on the buttocks.


It was because of him I started doing research and found out what I wrote above.



If under anonymity, someone cannot still speak his or her mind,then the person is very miserable.


That's why I am not afraid to share what I learned, afterall no one knows me



Good night.

In your write up here, a man, NOT A CHILD came to you to practice BDSM.

Then u begin to imagine for boys. THEN you turn your imagination to "But it is true"

On this note, I would implore you to STOP PUTTING YOUR "IMAGINATION" ON THE GENERAL POPULACE AS A "FACT" That's how EVE ate the forbidden fruit through imaginations of things told by the SNAKE in HER HEAD.

Let me clear you.

For an Adult: beating could be pain or joy (BDSM)
FOR A CHILD, it is strictly pain. Even for ages 2 - 16.

We should NOT generalise a Seperate events on the whole field of events. It doesn't work like that!

Summary: This is your conclusion. This is your opinion.

WHAT YOU WROTE IN THE FIRST PAGE IS NOT TRUE.

This is not about Argument, but it is about debunking your lies.
Education / Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by softy(m): 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2021
jumper524:
Arrant rubbish.
The researcher need 500strokes of koboko on his back.. Rubbish.

When people don't have anything (tangible/sensible/honorable/developmentally/progressive) to do, they enter deep thinking, and voila, their mouth automatically opened and they start to impress their inordinate results of thinking on the general populace. It is called Case 1 Malady.

They should stop the madness. Stop turning false depression induced reasoning to Facts of Life!

Beating anyone on those mentioned parts of the body DOES NOT incite any sexual activity, but sends signals to your centr nervous system at that point in time, as an INFLICTED PAIN, especially as a Penalty for doing wrong thing.

We were beaten then, we did not die.

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Politics / Re: Pay Pentecost Tax – Osinbajo Advises Preachers by softy(m): 7:00pm On Sep 18, 2021
jlinkd78:
Loading!!! What taxes should Muslim preachers pay Mr mere Commissioner

Very simple:

Jihad Tax.
Car Talk / Re: FG Hikes Vehicle Number Plate, Driving Licence Rates By 50% by softy(m): 9:04am On Aug 13, 2021
mfm04622:


All these challenges you mentioned, do we ordinary citizens contribute to them? Why are we always about govt when we ordinary citizens are the main perpetrators of the ills in the society? The change begins with you. Change yourself, then demand that others change

It takes two to tango. Yes citizens (both the government and the governed) are culprits for those crime mentioned above. But power and chances, privileges and authority has been passed to our leaders to checkmate all these problems.

Do not forget that, these leaders were once followers. They seriously knew what to do, But thoughts like the one you proffered in your post has blinded their reasoning. Think about this. Even when we run to abroad (working society e.g. America, Europe, Asian, e.t.c), this your thought process still lead us to temptations and crimes, as we can see in the daily news. WE need to change our thought process!

A responsible government must in all honesty tackle moral and societal problems with progressive policies, firm institution, and balanced systematic approach to issues; not adding and contributing to the problem. you know this, but you really want us to accept your verdict?.....Nah, it doesn't work like that.
Car Talk / Re: FG Hikes Vehicle Number Plate, Driving Licence Rates By 50% by softy(m): 8:22am On Aug 13, 2021
mfm04622:
You all want Nigeria to be better. For Nigeria to be better, require investment. Most government all over the world get their funds from taxations. Nigeria have the lowest tax to GDP ratio in the whole world! In the whole world! Yet, you complain when government borrow. How do you want government to fund activities if you don't pay taxes and you don't want govt to borrow? Do your part, then insist the money is well spent! Any other thing, I am deceiving myself and want Nigeria to remain as she is!
If you can buy a Nigerian used car for 500k, why are you complaining of paying for the plates? Sebi the plates is only for those who can afford cars? Or motorcycles. If you can afford 100k motorcycle, what is 5k?

The problem about this is not how government of the day wish to generate Tax, but it is how the corruption, inflation, insecurities, bad government policies, lawlessness, corruption of justice, selective judgement, ethnic nepotism, and all the bad deliveries of our leaders ( devil himself fears terribly at the mention of Nigerian leaders) in all ramifications, has affected daily living of Nigerian's life.

We should be objective in our contribution to the national discussion.
Politics / Re: Igboho Seeks Asylum In Benin Republic, Sues DSS And Malami by softy(m): 10:37am On Jul 24, 2021
Juliusmalema:
Is Igboho not a terrorist?

Someone that terrorized SW that the people now live in fear of his name...


I am aware that yorubas are happy atleast they can now enjoy peace.....


I put it to you, you know you are terribly chewing wrong information, and spitting it out as the pressure of being petty so pushing you, carelessly!
He is not a terrorist

Nobody in the past or now were/are living in the fear of him. He is loved by his people

Yoruba are not happy about this problem. That is the main reasonumber our Oba, His Royal Majesty, Ooni of Ife constituted a committee.
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Properties / Re: Hardwood For House Roofing 2x2, 2x3, 2x4, 2x6, 1x12, 3x4 call 08182481552 by softy(m): 11:00am On May 25, 2021
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Religion / Re: Muslim, Sulaimon Faruq Prays For Pastor Adeboye (Video) by softy(m): 7:29pm On May 12, 2021
Empiree:
don't bring bororo into this. Yoruba Christians did the oppose. They do not pray for Muslims. Rather they pray for destruction and confusion amongst Muslims in their 1994's 69 prayer points headed by RCCG and Deeper Life. But here we seen Muslim prayed for you clowns. So this is not about bororo. Don't shift goalpost. This is about you Christian intolerance.

Your 1994 manifesto said it all. It calls for death and destruction of Muslims in Nigeria. I will never see Yoruba christians as family. It was the same Adeboyea and co that led RCCG those days and reigned their evil "prayers" of destruction and deaths on Muslims. You can not escape this. We have documented proof which means Nigeria Christians are intolerant and violent people.

I am not sorry to say that this unfortunate demise of Adeboye's son was payback for his evil scheme at Ebute Meta in 1994. But I acknowledged his son's time was up and was not related. If you want proof of Christian Association Of NIGERIA's 69 prayer points, check my profile.

The main christian bodies in CAN those days were RCCG and Deeper Life.

This is a quote against you in year 2020 by someone who intelligently read through you and your insinuations, convictions, gimmicks, tricks, passion, phobia, videos, submissions and allegations, below:


"You are a chronic Hypocrite

You have no single right to advocate for Muslim rights

Leave it for people that respect other religions

Just went through some of your posts and noticed that you keep fighting imaginary wars with Christians

You cant even answer most Muslim questions without first comparing to how same is better than Christianity.

I have worked with and stayed with many Muslims and i still have nothing but absolute respect for how they treat their fellow human beings.

But you Empiree is not a true Muslim

You are the ones causing bad names for Muslims all over the world

You can easily be brainwashed into being a lethal Terrorist if you are not one already.

Have seen few Muslims who I know other Muslims will never be proud of and you Empiree is worse than them.

Wake up"


My own submission is " Pls wake up from the past, and move on, both of the religions are way more than what human brain can easily fathom....... stop fighting for religion, it does not help anyone nor does it improve our life. Fight to have ur own personal life saved"

Once one is totally confused about conviction, such person would be as backward as third world countries-- my 2 cents.

Caveat: This is my final admonition to you, I may not reply you and your opinions if I discover that are u still 'sleep walking'

Thanks.
Properties / Re: Roofing Sheets: The Cost Of Various Types Of Roofing Sheet In Nigeria by softy(m): 6:53pm On May 08, 2021
money121:
Na this matter we be settle since on my whatsapp
Some client prefer cheap materials but later regret it
One of my client lose millions of naira making use of this materials
Thinking she bought Stone coated roofing sheet (Bond Design)
Not knowing is Aluminium roofing them Go Coat for her after installation the whole roofing start leaking but thank God we have take up the Roofing Job..
Imranroofing are to remove the old roofing and installed
STONE COATED
Shingle Design (Black with White patches)

Site location: Enugu State

1. Pls, apart from this scam case you just treated, does it mean that Longspan Aluminium is inadvisable to procure based on one's pocket value?

2. You mentioned that if someone is looking for cheap product, what would you advice a client who had planned to use Longspan Aluminium Roofing sheet based on his/her pocket budget??

3. What could cause the leaking: nature of the sheet or the incompetence of the installer?

4. What should be done to prevent this leakage (an advice to the client)?

Your kind and experienced reply would be highly appreciated. I have people around me who are highly depending on the answers to this question so as to.make their final decision. Thanks in advance.
Politics / Re: IGP Adamu Orders Arrest Of Sunday Igboho Over Eviction Notice by softy(m): 3:13pm On Jan 23, 2021
Fahdiga:
He should be given Kanu treatment. We the Yorubas prefers to live with peaceful Fulani herdsmen than terrorists IPOB. Sunday Igboho is on his own



A coward disguises. You are strictly speaking for yourself. Who are "We"? May be your family members and you. Pls, do not be UNFORTUNATE in life. If you are short of words, being silent is therapy

No herdman is peaceful. They strike in group. They always wait for an opportunity, then they strike continuously until they rename your streets and villages in their blood- thirsty engraved names.

Plateau State is a living example.

@the thread, the game is ON!
Crime / Re: Youths Swim In Oba Of Lagos Pool, Destroy His Royal Stool by softy(m): 9:47pm On Oct 22, 2020
Tiwatopebabe:

By the time these 'men of war' knock on your door at night, I hope you come here with this same force, to hail them.

@Tiwatope, bad people are everywhere, same as good people. I am not tribalistic in nature.

If that is ur real name, then you betrayed ur self by concluding that ONLY the people I hailed in my comment are known for such negative vibes. Ruthless and evil characters know no tribe. Pls, be reasonable for once!

If u are disguising through your moniker, u need serious help.


Dont quote me again, if ur intelligence weight can not carry my premises. Thanks.
Crime / Re: Youths Swim In Oba Of Lagos Pool, Destroy His Royal Stool by softy(m): 9:40pm On Oct 22, 2020
ProfAmaben:


No, I as an Igbo elder also respect the Yorubas today onwards. You guys are men, but it should stop here abeg, we love Lagos and it's people, enough already.

Mbaka and every Fulani worshippers are presently being dealt with in our side.

God bless Southern Nigeria.

God bless Southern Nigeria. Thanks.

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Crime / Re: Youths Swim In Oba Of Lagos Pool, Destroy His Royal Stool by softy(m): 9:38pm On Oct 22, 2020
Proffdada:
YOU CAN SEE THAT YORUBAS ARE NOT LIKE SOME BUFFOONS WHO REVER THE RICH. YOUR STUPIDITY SPEAKS IN VOLUMES. THOSE WHO CALL OR THINK YORUBA ARE COWARDS KNOW NOTHING OR ARE JUST IGNORANT

Who is the statement in bold referring to? The original poster or me who was hailing my people??
Crime / Re: Youths Swim In Oba Of Lagos Pool, Destroy His Royal Stool by softy(m): 9:36pm On Oct 22, 2020
[quote author=loveth360 post=95220297][/quote

Ur posted picture made me LOL
Politics / Re: Looting Of Covid-19 Palliative In A Warehouse At Mazamaza by softy(m): 5:45pm On Oct 22, 2020
Ebhod20:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvy5ROgQJR4
Somewhere in place called Monkey village, around mazamaza in Amuwo-odofin LGA of Lagos State, people stumbled upon a warehouse full of covid-19 relief packages and it's been a free for all since over 3hours now.
Laslas, our grassroot leaders are the worst

The topic title is wrong.

You would have made it better this way:

"Yoruba Youths Secured their HIDDEN Covid 19 Palliatives from Political Thieves of Nigeria"

"Hidden Covid 19 Palliatives: Yoruba Youths Revealed the Politucal Elites' Cospiracy"[b][/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
Crime / Re: Youths Swim In Oba Of Lagos Pool, Destroy His Royal Stool by softy(m): 5:39pm On Oct 22, 2020
hammer3:
AS FROM TODAY, I HAVE UTMOST RESPECT FOR OUR BELOVED YORUBA YOUTH FOR RISING BEYOND ETHNIC LINES AND LEADING THE ENTIRE NATION OUT TO CONFRONT OUR TORMENTORS.

DEM DON TOO TRY.



MEANWHILE, THE OLD FOOLS ARE STILL TRYING TO PUSH A TRIBAL NARRATIVE TO DIVIDE SOUTHERN NIGERIA, BUT NOBODY IS LISTENING, ANYMORE.



THE DIVISION IS BETWEEN RICH AND POOR, POLITICIANS AND THEIR MILITARY PROTECTORS, VERSUS THE REST OF US.



U CAN IMAGINE WAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF FOR SAY DEM CATCH OBA. grin grin




So, YORUBA/AFONJA YOUTHS/PEOPLE ARE NOT BETRAYERS AND COWARD no more??

The narrative has changed in the mind/mouth of people who know nothing about collective effort/Yoruba people,

Glory be to God.

From ab initio, YORUBA PEOPLE ARE MEN OF WAR!!! THEY WERE /ARE SPECIAL KIND OF WARRIORS who calculate carefully and vigorously before they jump into actions!

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Education / Re: Engineers In The House Please See If You Can Settle This Argument For Us by softy(m): 1:52pm On May 22, 2020
welturebotanical:


when that interior wiring is connected to the government power supply you may still be able to get a good current if there's no fuse to break it down, but without fuse this current will be too high for all the home appliances and therefore will damage them, that is why all power coming from the pole are connected to a fuse that breaks it down to something ur home can take.
When u connect this thick wire to that fuse, there will be fluctuation in the electricity of that house, because d current will want to wrap around that thick circumference n long length of the wire, before reaching each destination of every appliances and stuffs which will lead to low supply to ur appliances n bulbs etc, that is because the power from d pole has been broken down by the fuse. But I still need engineers to make corrections on what I said.. I may be wrong.

Are you an Electrical Engineer?
Travel / Re: Lockdown: Inter-state Travelling. Share Your Experience. by softy(m): 7:09pm On May 15, 2020
Help! I wish to travel from Ibadan to Enugu. Pls, if u have any idea from

Ibadan to ijebuode

Ijebuode to akure

Akure to Benin bypass

Benin bypass to Agbor_- Asaba road

Onitsha bridge head

Onitsha to Enugu border

How is Enugu border.

Pls help a family

Means of trspt: in my private car with 4 family members.


Thanks.
Family / Re: My Hubby Asked My Mum To Go because I Gave Him Her Undies To Wash by softy(m): 9:07pm On Feb 24, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
If roles were reversed, they would expect the wife to wash her MIL's clothes.

I have no issue with him washing his mother in law's clothes. But UNDIES!! Hell no!! That's disrespectful. Except she is I'll.


But does the husband wash his mother's underwear? If he does, then it's hypocritical that he's shouting to heaven for washing his 'other mum's' underwear.


The right thing to do is for the mother to have asked the husband directly only for the clothes, while she washes her undies. That act was disrespectful.


But pushing the mother out is not for the best. Asking the mother of your newborn to choose between you and her mother is unfair and it's manipulative, emotional blackmail. Then he adds the salt of threatening not to do the chores again. In that case, I hope he is ready to hire help, because she didn't marry him so that she would do house chores for the rest of her life.

Let the mum apologise to the husband for the disrespectful act first.

Then, Let the husband apologise to the MIL for overreacting and the wife for putting her in a situation he would never like to be put in.

Simple!c

All the points u made hère are very cruel, condesceding and disgusting.

It is an act of wickedness of the highest order to have manipulated the man to wash the MIL clothes in the first place.

The wife knew what she was doing. Both the wife and her mother are evil and love playing victim.

Be educated that, roles of a wife in her MIL circumstance can not be swapped for roles of the husband in his MIL circumstance.

THE HUSBAND MUST NEVER APOLOGISE. BOTH WOMEN SHOUKD CLEARLY APOLOGISE WITH SO MUCH REMORSE.

It is even insulting that the manipulative MIL told the husband that 'if it was his mother's cloth'

If I were the one, the MIL will go, the wife would be severely punished ( not by beating or throwing tantrums, there are 1001 ways to punish such manipulate daughter of eve) and the marriage will end after 5 hours.

Note: you may want to go gaga on me, and play emotional script cumming with ferocious victim mentality with my view on this subject matter, u would be sadistically ignored.

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Education / Re: My Experience Teaching In Zaria by softy(m): 7:34pm On Oct 23, 2019
femi4:
Marriage remains a union between a man and a woman for a jss1 class. Don't be overzealous child, else you won't be alive to tell the story

According to the Nigeria Constitution, Marriage remains a legal union between a man and a woman with both parents/guardians/sponsors consents.


The OP was teaching trash.

I am very angry at this tales right now.

Our culture and belief system are against evil ideas such as Identity Crisis and LGBT.


Was he ever taught such nonsense knowledge in school while he was undergraduate and even, during his master programme, officially?


ITK and superiority complex!

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Education / Re: Is This True About First Class Students? by softy(m): 10:09pm On Oct 16, 2019
Stargurl20:
Is it true that most of the first class students or graduates are good crammers?

Yes and No.

Some do, while most do not.

To some, whenever they cramthey forget it easily at the point of need.

While some are ' LA cram LA pour'.
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Some are supernaturally gifted with transcendental IQ
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.some have supersonic cum photogenic memory.

In all these factors, there is a trigger point.
Education / Re: Sex For Grades: BBC Set To Expose More Nigerian Lecturers by softy(m): 7:11pm On Oct 07, 2019
TempleHouse:

Infact, BBC exposed Lecturers, Members of Congress, Head of Corporates Organisations etc, Members of Royal Families, Musicians and even including the serving Prime Minister on any allegations and any crimes which is of public interest.
There is a BBC program called PANORAMA which is aired on quarterly basis and it' can be viewed online and on You Tube.
Hope it satisfy your curiosity !

U dey mind those funny set of our educated illiterates wey FULL NAIJA.

Read, they will not. Contribute sensibly to an issue objectively and pragmatically., they will not.

THESE SETS OF PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE IN OUR SOCIAL STRATA IN NIGERIA.

That's why they blame even their tomorrow on every thing they can lay their hands on, so as to improve their frustrated levels of thinking faculty and self inflicted paranoia.

Imagine if these ones are lecturers!

These sex addicted lecturers (whose victims are married women, single mothers, beautiful girls from poor background and quiet girls) are everywhere in Nigeria's 'Studysphere'

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Education / Re: Sex For Grades: BBC Set To Expose More Nigerian Lecturers by softy(m): 5:20pm On Oct 07, 2019
naijaguy123456:
The British want to destroy our top educational institution. The British have done nothing positive for this country. If Unilag had made a major breakthrough in research would the BBC publish or run documentary on it ? Go to Uk universities and your white professors will be telling you that you can’t graduate here with first class because you’re black! They should run documentaries on those .

Hmmmmm....... Not funny.
We should be honest with ourselves. British do not want to destroy any top institution in Nigeria, rather they are putting things in order, for a girl child, engaged, and married women who are students to survive in our environment.

If u know what these monsters (sex addict lecturers) are doing every blessed day to female students, u will definitely applaud the BBC.

WHO NO GO KNOW NO GO KNOW!

Everything is not politics or partisan.

Well done BBC.

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Politics / Re: Why Has Buhari Abandoned The East-West Road? by softy(m): 10:03am On Sep 14, 2019
RichDad1:
Are there no ministers in that region to fight this cause at the FEC meetings ?
What of Senators and Representatives from the region to mount pressures on the MDAs ?
What are your Governors doing anytime they Visit Abuja? Share money, Bleep Olosho and come back to feed people like you fables and bitterness of how the FG neglects your region.

How long has that road been bad ? I’m sure it predates this administration. Why can’t southern Governments give attention to things that concerns their people ?
They will rather stash dollars in Dubai, UK and Panama.
The President, Minister for Petroleum, Minister for Finance , Minister for Niger Delta were all from this region at one time.
What about NDDC? What difference did they make ?

Throughout the agitation of the Militants , have you ever heard them demanding the Government should fix that road to world standard? It’s all about personal wealth acquisitions.

The money/Jewelries that EFCC recently forfeited from Deziani can fit that road.

What about the luxury Yatch owned by Kola Aluko?
Or the Millions of Dollars seized from PEJ?

Forget all these stories, the politicians know what to do to get that road fixed but they won’t because it will affect their embezzlement duties.

Even if private companies what’s to fix the road , the Locals, Especially the youths will be all arms to demand settlement.

We’re are our problem in the South. Leave the northerners out of it.

If it is permitted to like this post one billion times, I would have done so by now.

This post is the truth and the fundamental problem on which all other problems were built on top.

How many government's hospitals (local, state and Federal) are at optimum and realistically operational.

Both young and old people of Nigeria are the problems of Nigeria.

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