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@nana u call abortion being wise cause u wont be their wen the consequences of the abortion denial them of having a child later that will make most lose their marriage in some way or have complication on their health in future. not everybody a lucky to go free with abortion

Being a single mother is what 50% of the mothers do not planned for but due to circumstances or dating the wrong guy they got hook up in being a single mother wish x not a crime. But its their way of handling the situation afterwards will determine what they really want and bring out there true personality and behavior. some will see it as a lesson and challenge to overcome by being a great person and some idiot will just go ahead laying down with any guy that has some cash to drop justifying themselves with how life has been unfair to them, while the arrogance of the rich ones among them wont allow them to keep a good marriage but only father or their child. Thats why their solution x abortion bcus they already fail themselves and have no destination.

its because u dont work on ur emotion wen u ar in fair distance and u dont make her take an actiive activity in ur life dats u dnt fell love for her or feel like u still need her, they ar downs and up in marriage. if u cant find a way to work on both of u dat means the next lady u will find after leaving her wont stay for long also except u ar already cheating on her.

Family x not created by blood alone but by the love u share and how much happiness u can give to each other. if your sister can do dis to your wife in your presence, she will do more worst things when u are not around and nobody has ever break in to your apartment since you move to abeokuta that means she x the one that destroys d certificates and cloths in the house. she just destroy your wife future weapon to be successful and luckily you went out wit yours. its better to report to d police to stop her from harassing you family in the future and also it will b better for you not to ever stay in the same roof wit her.(Family will take the risk for u to b happy not to take your happiness away form you) #involve prayer#

first check what went wrong if she can figure that out and if her husband has totally given up on the marriage her safety and her children safety comes first. Any marriage that take your joy and well being away from you or children those not worth it. if she x confident of taking up the task of raising the children with out her husband or a step father then she can quit the married.