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Randy100:
She is not a dwarf. There is a big difference between a short woman and a dwarf.

Sexyliciousbri:
She is trying to avoid stories that touch the heart and soul.

MrBrownJay1:
- so men should now NOT be honest about the reality of life?!
- do you think men should now pretend that fallen breast/stretchmarks are beautiful?
- shouldnt we appreciate HONESTY before anything else?!

Akinbahm:
I am a type of man who doesn't give a Bleep, a Man who doesn't ass lick and dictate the affairs of the marriage (Man up)...

The problem facing marriage nowadays is each party failed woefully at his primary role which you aren't excluded by doing the duty of the other party...

Your job/duty in that marriage is to cater for the well being of your wife and kids Financially [70:30 u take the larger ratio for u to av more control of ur marriage and the 30% allocated to her is for her to appreciate & respect you more and made her financially wise (not being an extravagance)], Morally, Spiritually etc and be able to Protect them from external force which include their security, ability to Man up when the needs arise not being a sissy u turned to which u claimed caring...

Your wife should not compete with you with ur responsibilities Financially and others I listed up there and don't compete with her with her responsibilities cooking and others.. I didnt say u should turn her to slave in fact if you maintain your role perfectly she wouldn't be travelling unnecessarily and house chores would be easier for her.. we now av washing machine, microwave water heater and many more that will make the hefty job looks easier to her.

In summary maintain your duty and she should maintain hers don't overlap all in the name of being caring...

9japride:
On social media, everyone is a saint so nice and lovely. But in real life na something else. @OP is your hands clean? I am very sure your wife has caught you staring at your maid lustfully. Women are smart.

Akinbahm:
Bro, it still baffles me a lot when guys out there still believes the devil they knew during courtship would change in marriage completely to an Angel by losing guard to them (being lenient) after marriage!!!

Someone up there was trying to make Men being lenient towards their women. How on earth would you give your maid break without the intervention of ur husband all in the name of "Trust issue" aswear it's a slap on the husband he can't call his house to order.

Bro believe me one day she would shit test him by requesting him to clean up either his son or daughter mess that's even if they belongs to him self.

Never you tolerate second hand behaviour from your women if our Fathers tolerated such nasty behaviours our Mothers won't be worthy of emulation today...

Purplekush:
From your reply I can point out 3 things:

1. you're single asf
2. you're unmarried
3. you wouldn't know how to keep a woman even if you tried


You spoke my mind,God bless you. Such guy or babe can't have a happy home, when you think you are d head in all aspects

Naomila:
Have you given your wife any reason not to trust u?

Onebottle:
Oga are you angry because you do the work yourself
Or na the totori thing dey do you.

Your wife get sense sha. Onebottle for her

Omar09:
Follow my word to word advice.
Meet her ask her out on a date like this "Hi, (you wait for her to reply), I am new to the neighborhood and I was thinking we should get to know each other over a drink." take her number there fix a date, take out on a drink and then build on it. That's all. Also remember to tell her you like her a lot and you want to be friends with her. Don't ever tell her you love her. It's a big turn off.

midnighter:
Ah, you still haven't recovered that money This is serious o

solex2346:
hmmmm! what r we friends for if you can do that to your boyfriend?

1StopRudeness:
This is social media era... start from instagram... follow people like Tunde-ednut, the real femi, etc
u will need to pay them to be seen lik an advert ....but if u are really funny... they will eventually be posting u for free to keep their page content with funny stuff
From their u can be doing joke/comedy skits....don’t forget to form a niche for ur self that is unique that people will know u for..otherwise u won’t stand out ontime...
Thanks so much for d pieces of advise given,I really appreciate. The spelling was as a result of typographical error

for example :
Lasisi,
That guy that like to say “u are doing well”
taooma, etc

with some luck, extreme perseverance and continuous improvement of your joke content. U go dey alright last last

And please.... spell “career” well next time...