Amotolongbo: Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband. A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.
Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on. I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway
If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.
Phillipsburg: It's a long read because I had to pour out my mind wholeheartedly. Please endeavor to read through.
I so much hate my dad right now. And even my mom for supporting him. I can always remember how unfortunate it is for me to find myself in this family in the first place. Infact, not having a family is better than this living hell I found myself because these people are bent on ruining my future with their own life.
My father is the person who will be fighting with my mom in a brutally physical manner where they'd be running after themselves in the street after almost stripping themselves naked. He's the one who doesn't know how to reprimand his children except by using curses. He's the one who would go out and come back drunk and turn everywhere upside down. All these I've endured for almost every part of my life and my mom has refused to leave him saying because she has kids for him. I know some of you people will start saying all manner of things about how you would have cherished your parents if you had one blah blah blah but this is hell. It's choking me I feel like dying.
I just met a girl who happened to be my girlfriend and we've been together for some time now and my father is help bent on separating us because he doesn't want me to marry close to him so that there wouldn't be clashes between him and the mother of the girl because he feels the woman is a violent person. As they've turned the house into a place of sorrow, i couldn't think of spending even a minute inside the house. I usually spend the evening with this girl at her place and return when everyone at home must have slept. The next thing was for him to start cursing at the girl and even threatening to go to her house and throw tantrums. I just want to get out of all these because it's choking me. I can't breathe. I feel like I'm losing my mind because of everything. The emotional torture I feel whenever they start fighting. How angry I feel when he starts cursing everyone and shouting at us in front of the house and disgracing everyone of us throughout the whole neighborhood. The way he go about gossiping and talking bad about his own children and wife to outsiders and the whole neighborhood. I'm sick of everything.
I just wish I was born without a family because I'm even afraid of imbibing his behaviors and acting like him when I later settle down. I will never forgive him for making me become who I don't want to be.
Save enough money and leave that house as soon as possible. About your girlfriend, her you benefiting from the relationship or she is the one benefiting from it? When I say benefiting,I don't mean sex oo.If you are benefiting from it, stop the relationship and build your self first.
nwekeugochukwu: Precious Chikwendu: 'I Am Grateful For Being Single; Femi Fani-Kayode Is A Narcissist'
Femi Fani-Kayode's ex-wife, Precious Chikwendu has advised single ladies not rush into a relationship to avoid making the wrong choice, IgbereTV reports.
Chikwendu referred to her ex-husband, Femi Fani-Kayode as a narcissist and stated that it is better to be single than to be with such a man.
GurlFriend: I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.
My Experience
I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'
My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.
That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.
So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.
I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.
He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?
Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.
I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.
After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.
Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?
That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.
Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.
What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.
I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.
Oya swear with your father's scrotum that you've never cheated on your boyfriends before
Queeeeeen: You're the one that needs to have your brain checked. By conducting a DNA test on your kids, you're directly telling your wife that you don't trust her and your kids may not be yours. Unless you did it without her knowledge.
Am the one that need to have my brain checked I don't blame you
Jecci: No words for the old agbaya man that slept with an underage girl to the point of getting her pregnant. In all these it is the little girl who was raped and a victim in all these that you blame.
So many baba Ijeshas out there. You just spoke like someone without a functional brain, I doubt you have one. I suggest you go and do an MRI scan to determine the state of your brain and save us the stress of listening to your trash
siofra: I know the rave about DNA tests has died down a bit but I have to say this.
I still don't support taking your kids for a DNA test.
As a man and woman in a relationship, you both are meant to trust each other no matter what.
Taking your kids for DNA tests breaches that trust and shakes the foundation of your marriage.
It's disrespectful and it hurts your wife. She has every right to be angry with you.
I'm sorry but if my spouse decides to conduct a DNA test on our kids in the future, that marriage is over.
Not only is it disrespectful to your wife, it could end your marriage because you're indirectly saying your wife is a prostitute.
Thank you
So it's disrespectful to a woman to go do a DNA test on your kids but it's not disrespectful to the man when the woman commits parternity fraud right. You need to get your brain checked
I don't blame the man but the 14 year old wayward girl.Let her do what she likes with the pregnancy and bear the consequence later. Abi you want tell me say she no know Wetin she dey do when the idiot dey toast am and she dey there dey shine teeth like person wey just win lotto?
JaneYave: RIP. Drug kills. Stay away from drugs. I still have not gotten over the death of my favorite Whitney Houston. Drugs destroys silently and ravagely.
Witney Houston was murdered Though she do drugs but didn't die of it FBI swept her case under the carpet Her daughter died a similar way three years after.She was murdered too!
Femmyfestus: You got a debit of 53naira and you postrd it on crime session. What if it was 1000debit? You will probably summon the ceo of zenith to face firing squad
My brother na so e dey take start oo. So make I dey wait until them deduct 10k abi
Hello fellow Nairalanders,I get a debit of 53.75 Naira alert on my zenith Bank account telling me it is for verve card rubbish. I haven't withdrawn from this particular bank as I feel is of no need withdrawing from it because I trusted Zenith Bank a lot I feel sad about it because even my access bank account and wema bank don't do this. Please any one with the same issue?
steveneche: Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too
We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship
I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house
As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?
HEAVEN4444: simple something, get 5 naira note in 5 places and put them all in envelope and give for each offering. you have satisfied all 5 offering plates and you are only out of 25 naira
I give when I feel like Nobody can put any pressure on me to give If you ask and I don't give you,if I ask you don't give me too,if you feel like I don't keep malice
kabakaauu: Veteran actor chiwetalu agu finally unveils his rising sun outfits remember months back he was arrested on the streets of Anambra for wearing a regalia interpreted by the Nigerian Army to be a Biafra flag., but according to Agu the cloth was just a rising sun , chiwetalu later promised to make a new outfits of rising sun and here it comes
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Solofresh2: 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021
