₦airaland Forum

dollynnn:
Aunty Kemi has started spewing rubbish again.
Agreeing to join or not still doesn't change the narrative here . So Aunty Kemi if this was actually true, you never thought that he might have acted along with them so that he could save his life and tell his parents?
Anyway,we all know that the poor boy was beaten not because it was as a result of initiating him but as a result of his refusal to join and be cowed into submission.
May his soul continue to rest in peace and may his killers never find peace

Fronesis:
Dont marry a woman that has no character and who is empty and has nothing to offer. An example is the topic here. Beautiful but empty of character and brain.

Mozino007:
Forever young

Wiseandtrue:
Irresponsible, indisciplined, uncontrollable dog!

OneCorner:
What do you guys derive in fake news
You bloggers needs to be charged for treason for posting fake news cuz you are enemy of the state

Iyaebe:
Wait o! person go fit bully me like this? as in person bully me Iyaebe, I never see that human.

larryking540:
bro we lack transperacy in our society let me be frank with u ,it's not the mattero f been smart ,,let me shock you ,even after wedding a ladyshe can still leave you even after birthing kids for you ,we mostly in Africa don't have truth in our lips ,,why let a man spend money on you when you both know u have agreed to get married after you graduate abi the guy no fit go school....
why go on a date with a man when u know he will find you sexually attractive and sex will come next ,,we in Africa lack transperacy even to our various homes

larryking540:
bro or miss ,no man who is eligible for marriage sends a lady to school for free ,there is already a mutual agreement already put in place ,most of these ladies know that already ,why prolong the issue ,then why can't the lady also ask ,the way ladies go to river with egg to swear for a guy because of marriage way no work ,are you aware a guy can also walk to a river and swear for her like that ,,,..date with purpose

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

Iyaebe:
I used to spill truth to my parents plus the ones that does not even concerns me and they won't beat me.Back then,the only way my dad will know all that happened when he was away was just to get me a lot of goodies when coming back,as soon as I follow him to his room,just know that I'll spill everything before coming out even when my brothers have already begged and bribed me not say anything. Well,they started hiding everything from me but I was a pain in their neck.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

pmoye:
This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.

Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.

I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.

The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.

Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.

If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.

Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.

Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.

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Geminiboi:
What hype? He has been United's best player this year.

Candidlady:
¤kabiru please pass me that chair and bring your lighter with you thanks¤

abortion of male kid should be legal while abortion of female kid should be illegal

TOAST TO THE DEAD

HEAVEN4444:
wahala for who get job. i am happily unemployed

mocipe:
Lovely height.

Too bad her greed got her into this.