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MufasaLion:
Absolutely not. I just hate fanatics. I like liberals. Don't judge me and I won't judge you with your skirt.

Shut up!
You know nothing

Iyaebe:
So funny, cele na church?

Shut up!
If you have nothing tangible to say!
Old mama youngi

Shokoloko:
You have spoken well
This is Nike Osinowo (at 47 years) with beautiful kids from sperm donation. Case closed, all pressure off her shoulders.

This sperm donor of a thing is rubbish
Who is the owner of these sperms in the first place
Those kids will ask of their father when they grow up and what will be her explanation?
By the way, that sperm donor might meet any of those kids in the future and decide to marry her unknowing if it's a girl child.
Please let us stop justifying what is not right

Pussywar:
Statements are based on facts and not opinions.

The red pill term was derived from the 1999 movie; The Matrix. In one scene the main character, Neo was offered a choice between the red pill and the blue pill. The red pill had the power to show him the “truth of reality”, and the blue pill would lead him back to ignorance, preventing him from seeing the harsh truth of reality.

This term has become popular amongst social media manosphere, consisting of a bunch of men who believe that “taking the red pill” shows them how to become “real men” and how women should be treated. It is dangerous and really just a guideline to misogyny.

Apart from that, I will be listing a bunch of reasons why this ideology makes no sense whatsoever and reducing it to what it actually is; misogynistic rubbish.

Now, there’s probably some guys who associate themselves with “redpillers” and use their terms because they don’t see it for what it is but sorry to break it to you.

Getting into it.

The belief that women lose “high quality men” as they age:
Now, one would have to carry out research to come up with this “fact” right? Secondly, what you consider “high quality” might not be high quality to a woman. For example, these “redpillers” believe they’re high quality men, but to me they’re not. So, while you’re thinking “high quality men” stopped talking to a woman, she’s probably thinking that she lost low quality men and that’s good for her. It’s called preference. Also, for every woman who would tell you men stopped talking to her as she grew older, there’s another that’ll tell you more men have been talking to her as she grew older because our realities are not the same.

Women have a sexual market value that declines as they age;
Once again, a “fact” that wasn’t based on research.
First of, human beings are not inherently sexual. You chose to reduce women to sexual objects and that’s one you. So no. Women do not have a sexual market value because we do not even exist for your pleasure in the first place. Not sure how the male ego will handle that.

Alpha males;
This term was initially used by an American biologist to describe the social behavior IN THE ANIMAL KINGDOM, not in humans. The term was later adopted by the media to describe rich and influential men like Bill Gates and Elon Musk, but then it was discarded and readopted by this manosphere. In reality, there’s no such thing as an alpha male. If they were, he would be leading a pack of men and not trying to dominate women with force and aggression. You’re not an alpha, you’re a clown.

The “real man” and the “real woman”;
the dominant/ masculine male and the submissive/ feminine female.
Dominance is not a male trait, just as submission is not a female trait. These are individual traits. If it’s not there, it’s not there. We see feminine men who love to wear “female clothes” and put on makeup just as we see women who “walk like men”. They exist and they’re normal, no matter how we want to convince ourselves otherwise. This alone debunks the idea that a real man is one who is masculine and dominant, while a real woman is submissive and feminine. The existence of a “real man” implies the existence of a fake man. Who’s a fake man then? No one is in the position to tell anyone they’re not good enough to be called men or women. You cannot take anyone’s manhood/womanhood away from them.

Women lose value as they age. Men gain value as they age;
Men become more attractive to women while women become less attractive to men. Maybe your taste in women is just rooted in pedophilia? If you say it’s because men make money and become independent as they age...well, that’s the same way that young guys chase after and marry rich old white ladies. So we can agree it’s not about gender but about wealth? Okay.

I think that women should try as much a possible to avoid anyone who uses terms associated with the red pill because they’re dangerous and sexist. In reality, they’ll try to hide it just to get you( because they’ll only bold enough to be that with other men) but eventually it manifests.

How to tell:

1. They use terms like alpha male, beta male, sigma, simp, sexual market value (smv), prime, high value, masculine male etc

2. Constantly talking down single mothers, divorced women, black women(comparing us with other races)

3. Constantly harassing women online and threatening with singleness; “you’re going to be an old cat lady living all alone”

4. Constantly trying to justify women’s bad experiences; “men are allowing bad things happen to women because they want equal rights”

5. Constantly trying to prove that men are better than women; “man is the prize”

6. Constantly making fun of men who are nice to women. Calling them simps or weak men. For example, Prince Harry is a simp for protecting his wife against racism and choosing her over a royal position. Russell Wilson is a simp for marrying a single mother etc

7. Constantly trying to debunk feminism; you’d find them in movements like men’s rights activists. Men Going Their Own Way(MGTOW)...they’re all a part of the manosphere.

8. Encouraging predatory behaviors. Because they believe women have a sexual market value, they encourage older men to target girls who are way younger. Also because they believe younger girls are easy to manipulate and brainwash.

9. All they talk about are sex, relationships, marriage. What type of men girls like to bang, and what type of men(simps) girls don’t like to bang. Almost as if they have been girls before lol

10. Constantly preaching to women about what they should do with their lives. You’ll see them telling women not to choose their career over men because men don’t really like independent women. Or that women should choose marriage before anything because “one day you’ll start losing eggs”.

11. Shaming women for natural things like menopause and aging. Also shaming women for wanting love Eg “old newspaper”, “you’ll end up in Shiloh”

12. Projecting their fears on women. Eg “you’ll die alone”, “no one will marry you”

13. Refer to women as females. They hardly ever say “girls” or “women”

I personally think that redpillers are closeted Incels. They hate women because they incapable of finding a romantic partner (of their choice), and so they become the thing that they think will bring them women; masculine, aggressive, spiteful...because “girls prefer bad boys” right? It’s ironic that they constantly sh*t on “simps” for being nice to girls but at the same time, become the thing they believe girls will choose over simps. I also think they’re insecure about their masculinity. They believe there’s only one way to be a man and they must achieve that, and they’ll cuss out other men who refuse to be that way.

Not sure this is a good way to end this but...thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

Red pill or not
One thing I know is that no woman can ever deceive me

Datedoboy:
Young girls and boys don't be decieved. This is to counteract a post on the front page of this forum.
Why does your past matter? You cannot value a car that have been used roughly by several drivers in the past and pay high for that car as you would pay for a brand new car.

These girls are trying to twist the law of diminishing returns which is impossible.

Also, can you overlook a serial rapist and entrust him with your daughter because you don't believe in someone's past?

Don't let people who sleep around anyhow make you feel it is cool. Instead of them to feel remorseful, they validate their actions.

Some even say marrying a virgin with bad character is worst than marrying a loose girl with good character just to ridicule virgins. Now tell me where is the good character in sleeping around.

As a young virgin either boy or girl, keep yourselves chaste cos u can easily be like them but people who sleep around can never reverse their virginity in these world again so they want to pressure you to loose yours that's why they come up with every statement to justify their loose morals.

Let them continue. God will judge every word said and actions at his right time if it is good or bad. Stay blessed guys

It's only a Simpson that will tell you body count means nothing
And the thing is, they always regret it at the end.
You will see them flooding Nairaland romance section

What do you expect from a hoe who has no shame

Badabada:
Irony of life.

No one wants to associate with failure.

When the good was good, she was their role model. Just a single mistake, you chastised her. He who his without sin should cast the first stone.

That is why we should be watchful of everything we do in this life because you called it a single mistake, not knowing that single mistake can damage you for life

Candidlady:
oh! So me that gave my ex sex, am a muslim and a child of the devil bah?

You two are the reasonable ladies i admire most on this forum
Please don't attack her
Everyone are entitled to their own believe
Happy weekend

siofra:
Make una help me. I saw my ex today and we hugged and in the process he pressed me to his chest too much, now my breast and nipples are in sifia pains. What do I do?

What type of hug is that one
se your ex bf chest na rock ni
Send me an message on my email,I have a solution for you

onumadu:
■ South-East govs, Ohanaeze push for unconditional release

From Magnus Eze, Enugu


https://www.sunnewsonline.com/igbo-leaders-in-fresh-moves-to-free-kanu/

One thing I like about the igbos is that they are more United than the Yorubas
Most of this Yoruba traditional rulers have been bribed by the Federal government so, they don't really care about Igboho anymore

All this talk no matter at all
Action matters
They should talk less and take more action

Bola146:
Is like talking to a deaf man, he can't hear anything.

Yes you are right
He is really a deaf vegetable

One thing i know is that Igboho is not appreciated unlike MNK.
Those Yoruba traditional rulers have been bribed and that is one thing I hate about the Yorubas

Longsleeve:
Alright let it slide..

If she's cheating you will surely find out one day..

He might never find out if he is not willing to,till death

Bola146:
Swearing with the Bible is totally wrong, let your yes be yes and no be no, what would you do if you see her chatting with men Do unto others as you want others to do unto you if you did acted suspicious, she is not a fool to keep quiet, women are jealous in nature, she wants the best for her family, she is a human being too, you are the head of the family, you should know the best for your family. You trust your wife but you are still doubting or your conscience is questioning you I don't understand? Please settle it amicably and if you are at fault, you know how you settle your fights before, don't let third party come into your home. Some comments here might lead your marriage astray, don't let ego destroy you, confront her and sit her down to apologise and way forward

OP please don't take this advice
I beg of you!
Watch your wife movements closely if you have the time
Some women are so intelligent that you will never find out they are cheating on you till you die
Men have really suffered in this world sha

murmee:
Are you saying she will release a sex tape and won't care about her endorsements, her Fans and her son? That is most unlikely!

You don't know what these celebrities are capable of doing if they really want to trend.
If only you know.

I go for number 2

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Is not about the color

Do they have boobs?

A real niggarrr love sucking boobs
And another thing we real niggarrrrs will also take into consideration is that are they tight and creamy down there
That sweet moment when we finally slide in...then the walls of their cuntus clip our rod and hold it firmly

You have not answered the question niggar
You are spilling shit

I don't see Aston Villa losing tonight
It's either they draw or win

oriewanbe:
Can't the origin of that tape be determined so that the police can nab the blackmailer that released the tape? Mehn, the guy wicked no be small. Because of money you can do this to a lady. >
Shame on the guy o.
From comments I've been reading on this platform, the blackmailer has many friends here on Nairaland. If you don't support Tiwa on this then you are a friend of the blackmailer.
Tiwa, I feel your pain but that is human being for you. I can see you were in a dilemma before you decided not to pay the blackmailer. You wanted to do like Salawa Abeni who called the bluff of her blackmailer then even though the guy was eventually arrested.
So so sorry Tiwa.

And what makes you think Tiwa is not the one that release the sex tape herself?

For me,I think Ronaldo shouldn't be compared to Sallah because they are not even playing in the same position

Pataricatering:
why are you so pained though? I'm actually curious - why the bitterness on top somebody else's sex tape ?

Pained as how?
Why should i be pained
Am just stating the obvious here

Insidenaija:
Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/giorgio-chiellini-leonardo-bonucci-slam-cristiano-ronaldo-for-rejoining-manchester-united-from-juventus/

From what I read, they said the team now plays with togetherness after he left.meaning, they have always been looking up to him to do the magic for them when he was there.
That's what happens when you have a star in your team.It has it advantages and disadvantages as well.

benjackugo:
Looking undisturbed by her recent sex video scandal, Nigerian singer, Tiwa Savage, dressed in a braless suit, took to TikTok to dance to her Somebody's Son' song, IgbereTV reports.

She captioned her photo on Instagram;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CVTnmVkMjYL/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dplanlY8F3g

What do you expect from a shameless bitch who updated her porn video online?
Indeed you cannot shame the shameless!

obembet:
Source: https://www.skysports.com/football/news/37002/12440615/bodo-glimt-6-1-roma-jose-mourinho-ships-six-goals-for-first-time-in-managerial-career

Shit happens
From what I read,he field up a Roma team B.They should learn their lesson from it and move on stronger

tunnex190:
She came to me asking if I could help her with a design. I said she could make a house design or a squid game design. But she prefers to go for squid game design.

That's nice.She tried

falcon01:
I bet you feel happy and proud. It's nice to have
a daughter

What do you mean by it's nice to have a daughter

Scam

Maks27:
nairalannders.
Please if you have a old or bad Android phone you are not using again please help me with it.
I am in desperate need of an Android phone. I am a student and I am Missing a lot without an Android
I don't mind if it's bad but repairable
Thanks in advance
My location is Ogun state

What did you use to type this one you just typed?

DoctorDree:
Hmmm
The boldness of that bastard is one it a kind
He thought the guy was just an ordinary guy taking pictures by the road side
Now he is in trouble for a long time

One of a kind

janedonez:
Regi Hot, i swear! money good o.

And what is hot about her body apart from the skin?

Candidlady:
love how you started your comment "well for me"

Thank you