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Yeah same here I'm only attracted to older guys mostly to do with maturity.

I love being single

I would call him/her a cab and give them some money!

No way in hell I'm giving a stranger a lift!

Because I love me, myself and I more!

I never knew people could pick and choose who they marry!

I thought love was the deciding factor!-Silly moi.

@Mrs-chima, anything for you dear!

@hood-rat Thank you, love your smile also

I have a crush on myself tbh!!

This is a very stupid question!

I stopped reading this at:

[s]there was this guy in particular that she dated while she was dating me as well as she later confessed to me.
I forgave her and we had to move ahead[/s]

Hehehhehe@Laga

What is buka Amala ?

@ lagerwhenindoubt LMAO!! How about you get rich on your own

I'm more of a visual person if I can't see the person talking I lose all interest even on the phone my conversation don't last more than 5mins.

Most of my friends are Atheists to be quite  honest we always argue about the existence of God and whatnot.

I like these people as human beings they have more moral and values than most
believers out there but for me personally I pray that I never find myself in such a situation!

@Ebonyville wife should have requested a divorce from the blank shooting husband before indulging in an affair and subsequently finding herself in this dilemma

I just want to bury my head in a pillow and  never wake up to face the world again, when I look at pictures like these.

But in reality not everyone can afford to have a happy childhood and circumstances that befall some children in the world just breaks my heart.

Also, this is a very sad documentary based on child slavery in the chocolate industry and might bring light to some of you consumers.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJMe7fdfEEQ

@ShipIT I doubt any sane person loves the 'drama and unpredictability' of an abusive relationship and if they did psychiatric diagnosis should be advised pronto!

Hi5 @Missy great minds think alike I say!

@Nayah yes judge not for ye shall be judged also *made this up but I'm sure there's a holy book out there that supports this)

Keep me posted @Bede LMAO would love to see how this story unfolds!

Tribe does not come before religion in Islam tribalism/nationalism  is a grievous sin according to the Qur'aan so stop confusing culture for religion. You come across very ignorant and misinformed.  

@Nayah I agree completely with you this time every woman has the right to choose what she wants to do with 'her' body even though some of us wholeheartedly disagree!

P.s I love your pic too *girl crush*

@Frosbel Loooooooooool@lost souls! *rolls eyes*


@OP listen all religions have rules and obligations that is why people follow a certain 'God' and have certain 'laws' in their ordained books!

Now are you telling me that a devout Christian would be 'willing' to marry a non-believer knowing that is the greatest sin in all religions not believing in God/Allah/Krishna , so how could you expect two of the most popular religions in the world to live happily together in a household when their significant other denounces their Lord?

In fact in Islam it is allowed for the man to marry outside of Islam because it is 'believed' by Muslims that the offspring will inherit the fathers name and therefore the fathers religion yet the same cannot be said for the women for the same reason.

Personally, I have no issue with people marrying into whatever religion/tribe/race they wish as it is our God given right to have free will in making choices but however I also have no issue with those people who choose to confine and limit their choices down to religion/tribe/race because we are all free to choose our path in life.

@Missy what does 'terse' mean love?


@Nayah I agree with you partially, as strongly opinionated as I am on abortion I can sympathise with certain situations such as rape and inbreeding (even though personally I wouldn't advise abortion) I can still keep an open mind and feel sorry for the victims involved.


However, my opinion is based on the dilemma at hand and I would find it incredibly selfish if someone that committed adultery would not own up to their mistake and make right what is wrong.

Some of us have high-expectations when it comes to finding a significant other and at times those expectations can be unrealistic.

There is no such thing as a perfect partner unfortunately being human means we come with far more imperfections than perfections.

Therefore , I would advise you kindly to lower your expectations now I am in no way shape or form suggesting you start dating the bin man (even bin men make great lovers) but I suggest you give more men the benefit of the doubt!

Good luck in your journey and may you find prince charming and remember age is nothing but a number.

@Leo-Max Abortion is murder if the woman was happy enough to open her legs than I don't see why she can't be happy enough to open her heart and purse!

Don't go playing with matches and act surprised when you see fire!

I am not one to watch football but recently all my Arsenal fans have become depressed and on the verge of surrendering their Gunna glories!

Thus on behalf of those people may this player bring back hope.

She certainly made her bed but is she woman enough to lay in it?

I hope your friend doesn't choose the cowardly way and entrap an innocent man and child for life.


On a lighter note, the truth always comes out!

Although most abusive relationships may cause physical or mental damage, it is kind of hard to generalise as to why these people find themselves entrapped in such misery!

Most cases could stem from childhood experiences perhaps a child growing up in an abusive household and therefore tends to delve further into that psyche of 'normality'.

In other cases it could relate to what some may call LOVE and INFATUATION therefore would rather suffer the consequences than risk losing the abuser.

Whatever, the case we can all agree that these  people whether male or female lack self-esteem/self-worth and self-value because no matter what happens in life they can take anything from you but they can never take away your self-dignity unless you allow them to!

If you like something you see, go for it!

It may or may not work out the way you want it to but life is all about taking risks.

Besides, there are lessons to be learned always.

The death of Ghadaffi's reign collides with the birth of the New Libya!

She looks pretty but I have no idea who she is!

What is the point of cheating?

Just tell your significant other you ain't feeling them no more and its over.

Then do whatever you like from there onwards!

Only cowards cheat!