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Lmao! She will b fine, if she feels guilty then she should go and do it no more. She can decide not to tell her next, it's not necessary but it's not up to her or her mistakes if her future husband cheats, it's up to her husband so she should calm d.

Beverlyjean:
A friend of mine is in desperate need of advice... She had unprotected sex with a married man... Her fear now is that she feels it might affect her in the future because she knew he was married before she did it...

She regrets her actions... She said she never planned it, although the man had always been disturbing her, but she felt she could control the situation when she visited him, but one thing led to another after a couple of drinks and they ended up having unprotected sex.

The man in question is old enough to be her father according to her but she still doesn't know why she did what she did because at that time she was having relationship issues. She has ended all ties with the man but her fear is that if what she did will affect her in the future because she doesn't want her future husband to ever cheat on her.

She is so broken now and confused... Again she doesn't know how her next boyfriend will think she's that type of person that sleeps with married men if he finds out what she did, because her boyfriend ended the relationship when she told him, although it happened before they met. She doesn't want her next boyfriend to treat her with disrespect if he finds out or make her loose her value.

[Whoever u are making this post, your aim is misguided. quote author=sbashir10 post=84499776]As part of the kaduna urban renewal plans currently taking place in kaduna metropolis, which encompasses four local government areas, namely kaduna north, kaduna south, Chikun and igabi.

The popular Waff Road mosque is as at today being demolished without any outcry from the Muslim majority of kaduna north local government where the demolition is currently taking place.

Question of the day, why are the Muslims of kaduna not complaining about the demolition of mosque which is dear to them??[/quote]

But all these comments I'm reading on nairaland is just making me disappointed, texting a client by that time and for that purpose is very unprofessional and that's it.

But what's all this now, why all this now

Stay away or make peace with it

tactius:
OK...

What if I told you guys that we could have MODERN AMBULANCES, ETC...like the ones we see aborad....IF WE PAID MORE TAXES.

Many Nigerians cry about how bad things are, and then port to countries like Canada, UK and US...where they pay municipal taxes as high as N30000 monthly or more....and in return, ambulance service is among the stuff provided.

Our health care budget was N800billion out of N8 trillion naira...that's 2billion USD. In the USA...the state of New Youk has a budget of $160BN USD.

And we expect miracles from our scanty budget of $22trillion naira.?

And corruption is eating our budget as well...meanwhile PDP and APC supporters are defending their corrupt politicans well well...


If you want nice stuff....PAY TAXES. If you want increased funding..PAY HIGHER TAXES. Our tax rate is 0-24% In developed countries it can be has high as 50% per annum.

Tax or no tax, corruption would never allow things get better than this, we cannot compare budget with the US but the government can do better, how many people have viable jobs before u talk of tax?

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Which of the states u In? I could send it through a courier and u go get it.

numtums:
So bad you can send to other states. But you can WhatsApp me if you change your mind
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iGist:
GISTMORE.COM

THE Commissioner of Police in Abia State, Mr Anthony Ogbizi, on Thursday paraded suspected homosexuals, who were arrested by security agents in Aba, the commercial hub of the state.

The suspects were identified as Fred Ndubuisi, Anyanwu Chidera, Kamsiriochukwu Onuoha, Anderson Emeruwa , Sampson Nwadike and Nnadi Promise.

Ogbizi disclosed that the suspects were arrested at City Gobal Hotel in Aba at about 2am.

A statement by the state police command stated that the suspects were nabbed following a distress call from the manger of the hotel.

The statement added that the hotel manger alleged that the suspects were seen kissing one another at the hotel bar by an employee, who reported the incident to the management.

It was further gathered that the manger went to one of the hotel rooms, where two of the suspects had checked in earlier and discovered that they were six in the room, romancing and kissing one anothers.


According to the police report, the suspects were interrogated and it was discovered that they were members of a gang who came into Abia from nearby states to practise the unnatural act in the hotel room.

The suspects, however, denied committing the crime, saying that they were in Aba for the birthday party of one of their friends, Ndubuisi, adding that their families were not aware that they were arrested.

One of them, Chidera, who claimed to be an undergraduate from the Imo State University, Owerri, said they were all in one room because they were told that the category of room they asked for was not available.

He said, “I arrived the hotel at about 6pm and I asked my friend to book for a room for me. The hotel management said we should pay N5,000 for a room and we could afford it. So, we decided to manage that one room.

“After drinking at the hotel bar, we went to the room to change our clothes. It was at that time that we heard a knock on the door and when we opened the door, the manager started asking why we were six in the room.

“After explaining to him, he said they don’t allow more that three persons in a room and that was how he accused us of practising homosexuality in the room. There was nothing like kissing or making love in the room and we are not gays.”

Another suspect, Ndubuisi, who claimed to be a hair stylist, also stated that he only invited his friends for his birthday party and lodged them in the hotel, adding that they did not indulge in any homosexual act.

“I invited my friends for my birthday and I wanted to pay for two rooms but we couldn’t because the rooms were filled up, that was why we were in one room,” he said.

The Commissioner of Police, however, said the hotel management would bring his evidence against the suspects, who, he said, would be charged to court.

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there r bigger problems in this country, bigger criminals who need jailing than spending taxpayers money to disturb other people's private lives....it can b disgusting seeing guy on guy but leave people alone

BrightEye:
i only take 100mg once daily now. Yeah, thats what i vowed to be taking now. I take alcohol in small amount or sometimes moderately. Nothing else.

If u can drop to 100mg a day then u have done half the work I think, next time try taking a shot or two of alcohol, mostly spirit instead of taking the pill.
If the head aches come try to sleep it out or take panadol, if u can successfully go through a day without taking that pill I can assure u, u would b fine. (also I think the 100mg pill u take is a capsule so u can't break it, I used to take the 225mg then I started breaking a single pill from 2parts to 4parts, it would b so small and almost ineffective cuz I realised my mind just wanted to feel like it's still taking something. That way I prepared myself to finally stop

BrightEye:
Pray for me. I am depended on tramadol, pretty scary than being addicted. I once came out clean and i felt like a new born baby, i felt clean. Unfortunately, i was not able to turn away from the buyer as you did. So, i relapsed. I miss my old life that's why I am working on stopping it. I have followed the best advice by tampering it off. I am on 100mg daily now (i used to be on atleast 200mg daily). So pray for me.

It's still up to yourself to choose to endure, I'd ask u how many times do u take the 100mg tablet a day? And what else do u take other than tramadol?

it's hard dealing with an addiction you know is tearing you but you find it hard to stop, you ask people how you should deal with it and they tell you "it's just God".
As a once addict of pain killers esp tramadol and after spending time to understand and study my system after recovery I took note of these few steps and felt they just might be effective in dealing with tramdol withdrawal and getting your self back.

1. ADMIT YOU HAVE AN ADDICTION N IT'S A PROBLEM
You cannot deny tramadol isn't really an impressive drug to be involved with, poor PR, bad rep and literally cheap, the high feels good I remember how it feels for real but you can't b proud of your tramadol at all, codeine even has more steez!
Now in my case I was good popping up to 5tablets a day of 225, on parties I could go a bit more, now the thing is I don't like anything that tries to ruin my sex, and over time trams(as me and my friends called it) started messing up my sex life, at first tramadol improved my sex but it started to drop after continued years of usage.
The first month I noticed nobody needed to tell me....i had to stop.

2. LET GOOGLE SCARE THE NYAMA NYAMA FROM YOUR BODY.
Baba just type "long term effects of tramadol" or "sex and tramadol" there is no way you twist the tags and search that tramadol doesn't come up with something scary, I honestly feel even super scared for girls addicted to that pill.
Note that All the while I'm doing this I'm still popping oh but now I'm super conscious, I noticed I felt sad cuz I have to succumb but I'm soon overcome with the high and I forget again

3. STEADILY DOWN YOUR DOSE
So here was a big game changer for me also cuz I had urges to get high for even the dumbest reasons, I would want to pop pills cuz I'm alone and bored, or I would want to pop pills cuz I'm going out and I need to feel pumped enough to vibe with my surroundings.
So I made a choice from 5-7pills daily I dropped to 4pills, tramadol is so strong that it's honestly not necessary popping more than a pill at an instant. after struggling with fluctuating number of tablets daily for over a month I finally decided that 3 tablets /day is the way to go, making it after every meal so I stay high the whole day and compensate myself that it was after I ate I popped the pill so I won't feel like I'm losing so much weight (I actually got so skinny it was sickening) tramadol makes u look messed up, really! If u addicted to it and u look good now just imagine how good u would look when u stop....bruhh!!
Anyway downed my dosage.

4. AFTER ALL THIS TIME, IT'S ALL BEEN IN YOUR HEAD....UNDERSTAND THAT.
This mentality should come in right with Steadily downing your dosage, after seeing the impact "the placebo effect" has made on healing, this seems to me more like a partial representation of that.
By programming my mind to understand now that I needed just three pills every day I made the effort to split my pills into half, but maintaining my 3times a day routine, thereby reducing intake from 3pills to one and half. In this time I realised after so much usage I wasn't so high, I didn't want to succumb by taking more to feel better so i............

5. FOUND A SUBSTITUTE FOR THE OCCASIONAL UNEASINESS
Never liked alcohol growing up, I was sweet mouth, I never really drank till university and spirits were the worst of the drinks ever made, but I needed something to get me of the edge and it had to be legal. I didn't want to spend time drinking so much so I chose to take spirits, one...two...highest three shots and you buzzing and fine to chill. You can't make it a habit cuz of the smell but It became a weekend to look forward to, chilling and having shots, I even began to appreciate beer and fish....lol.

6. EVERY DAY WITHOUT IS A BIG WIN TO YOUR BODY AND SOUL
It's not even a religious thing, it's just truths. The days I didn't take anything I felt so proud of myself, like I would be able to do anything if I put my mind to it. So sometimes when my tablets are finished I try not to go buy or when I travel to places I'm not familiar with I go with few tablets and once I've taken them all I endure till I'm back in my city. But for each day I could do without I felt better about myself and my confidence improved until one day......


7. TAKE NOTE OF THE CHANGES IN YOUR BODY
.......i was walking to the mallam I normally got my pills from to get my now subsidised dosage and I noticed from the past week I hadn't taken any pills I felt like I added a pound or so, I had been sleeping a lot more on time and waking early and my appetite was coming back, the black bags under my eyes were disappearing and honestly I never felt more handsome and it's just been on and of weeks, I felt different inside. Took the left turn to my mallams Street and.......

8. MAKE A DECISION AND STICK TO IT
Stopped a bike, after the mental review of my present state while on they walk to my mallams shop I made a final decision never to go back to popping pills again, I loved the changes I noticed in myself and decided to stick with them no matter the urge. The funny thing is....there was very little urge to go back, it was a gradual transition but I was determined to make it work.



It took me about a year to fully get lose of this drug and it took me months to understand the process as a whole that my body went through.
There are clearly more thorough methods to dealing with these addictions but this is for the people that need freedom from this drug.

Disclaimer: I'm no medical practitioner

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

Lol if u value the effort your woman put a relationship and u can afford to lavish her with gifts abeg do so. It's not about owing her, it's a personal satisfaction knowing u can make a woman even more special now after she suffered with or for u in the past

My baby is 30, i'm 26 and if I don't marry that girl, there will b problem...good luck to u and ur mentality. I hope it works out for u, but nigga ur vision is bleak...Lmao!!

IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

Well thats a country with bout 4 different time zones, we are still struggling with making the rest of the world understand Africa is not just one country. Soo.... that's that.

ollah2:
You cant use what happens in Alabama to reach conclusions about New York and say it's one America fam

Maybe yes, maybe no.... I just know if a foreigner walked up to me and asked or confronted me in a debate about what happens in the northern part of my country I won't win points by telling him "oh that's the north, we r quite different down south" it's all one Nigeria fam

ollah2:
Should Northerern ills be used to judge the whole country?

Ignorance
Illiteracy
Bigotry
Violence
Child birth

Et al

Okay so u agree muric is spewing trash? If u do then we agree on something, u southern Muslims may clearly handle ur business n religion better. But still check the violence numbers nd as for ur questions If I typed my experiences in the middle of religious violence u may not believe me so why bother.what happens in the north doesn't stay in the north, it gets to d rest of the world. Considering the illiteracy numbers and high child birth among these northerners it would still get to u guys over there soonest.

ollah2:
Only dumbs generalises, you didn't answer all my questions. You only talked about how religious leaders brainwash Muslims in Kaduna. I'm a full Yoruba man first and always and what happens in the North stays in the North.

It's a different ball game entirely down south, if MURIC was a northern group spewing this trash then maybe northerners could have listened to Him. There are differences between Southern Muslims and Northern Muslims

Lmao, see how u came in sounding like ur fuckin username, so Caseless!! Sanu. Brain box, ur part of the problem I'm trying to talk bout, u now brought in size of church? When u guys literally have a small mosque in every block in every hostel? Dude that's not even my problem, ur part of the problem I'm talking bout. I started this of with ur muric people but u guys have made it to b a christian vs Muslim debate, I don't even have the strength, my potato dey burn for fire. I don't want to start Cuz obviously u have problems with self confidence if u have to start with insults bruh.

Caseless:
ollah2 don't mind the airhead. He has no answer rather than rambling. He's so incoherent to even understand your questions.


He schooled in zaria , but he's still low on IQ. Where he schooled, one among their churches is bigger than all the mosques in the campus put together .

As mixed as zaria is , some foolish liars still think people walked from mosques to beheading people.

Oh! To b fair I meant in Nigeria, finally education is key. Surely there would b a more good Muslims than there r bad, but look at the numbers, still forgive my bias. I believe all this my talk started Cuz I strongly feel these muric fellows are saying shit. Peace out #OneNigeria [Quote author=lovelybugs post=68208667] How did you come across your facts? How do you know that the percentage of bad Muslim to good is 80:20? Believe it or not there are more good Muslims than there are bad its just that the actions if the bad Muslims are always publicized.

The media isn't keeping anything down but whenever there is a christian terrorist attack how many times has it been reported on notable news outlets? Compare to when there is a Muslim bombing. When Muslims are killed by either Muslims it Christians nobody seems to care but reverse is the case when Christians are killed.

I am not saying all Christians do not care about people of other religion lives because I am aware that I cannot generalise because I have not met all the Christians in the world

How many Muslims have you met? Are they up to 1/5 the total population of Muslims on earth? If not then you have no right to judge all Muslims by the very little you've met. Hell even if you have met 3/5 of them you still would have no right because in life people's character will always superseded their religion.[/quote]

I have good Muslim friends, I didn't mean they had black hearts, it's your Islamic leaders I'm talking bout with the black hearts n forgive me if it's sounds hypocritical to u but it's too much, the shitt we get in the name of Muhammed, it's too much, the fact it's trying to control everything is shit to me, I lived most of my youth in Kaduna state, schooled in ABU zaria n I think I have seen enough. My stats were purely assumptions as regards to the concentration of shit I have seen people do in the name of Muhammed opposed to christianity, I'm purely atheist n yes there r very shifty shitty Christians out there but people have enough to struggle for in their homes rather than take to d streets. Its not even an argument of who does the most Cuz violence is violence but mehn..........i am really tired of killings in the name of Muhammed

ollah2:
Where did you watch them move from mosque straight to killing people? Where were you and what did you do during the course of the event?
Where did you witness Islam breeding fanatics ?
How did you reach the ratio 80:20?
What criteria did you use to conclude that Muslims want to control everything?
How did you reach the conclusions that "You guys(including your good Muslim friends), sheikh and scholars have heart of black and evil" ?
How can you have good Muslim friends who has hearts of "black and evil"?



Pls kindly answer these questions devoid of emotions, hypocrisy, sentiments and bigotry. Thanks

My dear the media doesn't keep anything down! News is news, I have watched people straight out of mosque they moved to killing, I have witnessed first hand the fanatics Islam can breed, there r terrorist across all religions n tribes but when a ratio is 80:20 which poses a bigger threat? I'm tired of Muslims trying to control everything, I have good Muslim friends no doubt but u guys, ur sheikhs and scholars have hearts of black and pure evil, it's too much...that's where the problem is, ur religious leaders teach to much wickedness. That's my own. Kawai!

lovelybugs:
There are christian terrorist but the media always keeps quite whenever it happens. I don't know why it may be that the news of christian terrorist doesn't sell or it may be an agenda on Islam or it might just be that Christians tend to ignore the fact that there are Christians who do not mind taking the hatred in their hearts to the extent of murder!

But I think you will agree with me that the chances that you hear of mass killings by Muslims is far greater than the chances that you hear of Christians ones not because there aren't Christian terrorist but for the fact that the media never like to carry the news.

My own is way this muric of whatever feel like that they can come and threaten the whole country Cuz of a music video? If there is anything inciting violence it's this letter, reminding people of the violence of since the 1990, aren't u Muslims shameless? Taking up weapons and killing your country man for cartoons and videos that wasn't even made in your country? I'm bit trying to compare but if Christians wanted to act like u muric whatever the world would b half a population less, I have seen TV series, series not just movies that blaspheme and insult Christianity the whole show yet it still goes on. Why can't u just worship your God and ignore the world, I mean!!!! Una dey tire person Abegg, u want to sue falz? Feel free! But I feel these guys would low key send their thug fanatics in the street t incite violence. U guys are so touchy over every thing so much one can't help but believe it's true. Herdsmen Killin is what's going on in Nigeria, stealing n buffoonery n he portrayed that. We wil see u (muric whatever) in court. [quote author=nwakibie3 post=68198099]https://politicsngr.com/withdraw-nigeria-video-within-7-days-else-muslim-group-threatens-falz/violence.

All u religious fanatics una shit dey smell for my nose, if u look at that woman and u feel like she is dressing inappropriately or to seduce, it's your mind that is the bloody problem. I can't imagine the lot of you commenting like total backward people, no listen to message dey there dey find flaw in dressing

All u religious fanatics una shit dey smell for my nose, if u look at that wiamn and u feel like she is dressing inappropriately or to seduce, it's your mind that is the bloody problem. I can't imagine the lot of you commenting like total backward people, no listen to message dey there dey find flaw in dressing

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