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If you need an honest driver to drive bolt and remit to you weekly, I’m your guy.
I’m single and unmarried (so you know I won’t use my family problems to stress you)

I’m neat and a graduate and I am open to any kind of scrutiny necessary.

I’m based in Abuja.
I hope my helper sees this and reaches out

They can take pictures of cannabis but they went to burn Canadian Loud? Jokers!!

chisomkachy:
Recovers 390kg illicit drugs in Kano, Kaduna, Borno, Oyo raids



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Iliveforever:
Ned nwoko oooo 🎶🎶🎶
Ned nwoko

Ned nwoko ooo 🎶🎶🎶
Ned nwoko

Lol, if only you could afford drugs for yourself at that time

EriMma1:
No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.

My brother, while you’re not wrong, you’re not right, because even when I was using a miserable gionee I felt more comfy and safer with my phone in my hands, some phones feel bogus in pockets of some outfits, and surely too if you can fork out over 200k to buy a device you will be tempted to show it off every once a while.

Mustiboy:
Everywhere you go, people hold their phones in their hands even when they have absolutely no need for it and the phones would be safer being in their pockets or bags?

Is it some kinda show-off? Cause I could swear this act is more common amongst iPhone users. Are they trying to make a statement? “Oh see the phone I use? I’m not doing too bad”

One thing I’ve noticed is that you’ll hardly find people with broken-screen phones or an entry-level smartphone holding them in their hands this way.

I overheard a Bet9ja boy narrating to his coworker how the respect he gets from folks in his neighborhood has skyrocketed because he now uses an iPhone 13.

Is it a Nigerian thing? Or na so dem dey do world over?

We no know say you don enter before na

JasonScoolari:
That na wetin una take dey encourage upcoming Olosho's....

Try enter Tiwa Damage own, E go be like say you dey Teslim Balogun Stadium.

This one pain me! Ah innocent baby fa, ur own child

ASAPFERG1:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/10/father-allegedly-beats-his-2-month-old-son-with-hanger-in-imo-for-disturbing-his-sleep-breaks-the-babys-arm-leading-to-amputation-2.html

980k in lugbe isnt worth it abeg!

ObosiUkwalla:
Dear Abuja residents..

So i have a relative who relocated to abuja as he got a job offer in the city.

He has been house hunting, he finally got a Two-bed room and one parlour apartment in Lugbe Area. He was asked to pay 980k in total.
The rent is 800k. Caution is 100k, Agent is 10% of rent = 80k

I humbly want to know if its worth paying for or should he keep looking? Abuja residents, pls help a brother out

He did you a diservice for not telling you about his child from another woman, it is your choice to want to live through this with him rather than force it on you. Know that whichever decision you take, you won't be wrong.

H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.

Go on Jiji, find someone you could drive bolt for and apply.

IANAGI:
Good day everyone.
I am a 29yr old still depending on family to survive it's not easy as I can't afford the little things of life, it's as bad as even money to cut my hair is an issue, so shameful. Please I'm in dire need of a job in Abuja.
I live in Abuja.
I am not a graduate.
I speak and write good English.
I am computer savvy. (Not good with excel)
I can drive. ( Drivers license available) may God bless you as u help.
Below is contact and WhatsApp number:
09132868494

You're walking the wrong streets

siofra:
Stop saying "your face show" please it's ratchet and annoying. Somebody will just be walking on the street, you'll go and appear in front of her and shout "omo babe, your face show" no matter how well you're dressed, at that moment you look broke to me

Stop saying "fine geh" it makes you sound broke and uneducated too. It shows you have no other words in your vocabulary to describe an attractive girl. It's generic and boring.


Stop telling yellow girls they look like mammy water you sound diabolical and broke and uneducated too.

Thanks

Just know your case is better than most, find joy in other things and strive for progress, it's never to late for anything. I'm typing this as a message to myself as well

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.

Phew, gambling is a serious problem, I think you should confront him about it, he will put the fam in more debts and problem, you have to be stern in your confrontation .

loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

Just finished my service there, And this is the most truthful response about the state.

LordIsaac:
It is a civil-service state. Finish and go back o.... except you want to do businesses like selling goods. There's a strong indigene/ settler dichotomy therein.

Just answer professionally, the job has already been given to some1,

robosky02:
https://www.completesports.com/eguavoen-ready-to-become-permanent-super-eagles-coach/

It's difficult, especially in an African setting,it would take a lot of effort to avoid this affecting your kids, especially as you would be left with most if the responsibility...if you find someone who could love you again be open to finding love also. But don't stress your head no matter how difficult it seems

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

Old boy! Give it a rest abeg! The stench from your judgement is disgusting...Is she the first person? She has been punished enuf. And her parents and foolish to pull her out of school for this. You that isn't marked for destruction...I greet you.

MALIGNANTGuest:
She claimed she never knew what came over her.
How could she have known she's POSSESSED?
We should be more afraid of the Next!
Most times these Untrained Idiots act by Impulse.
Some of the trained ones who consequently yield to peer pressure usually acquire these evil spirits ab initio by correspondence.

It's so sad & surprising to see such a LITTLE BRAT contributing to moral decadence in such an early time without waiting to get to advance class of study. Kudos to you!

I'm so disappointed in you!
Your parents may not really have contributed as some would purport. Sometimes some kids are marked for destruction despite efforts.

Clown �� this comment off me

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

Important to keep it clean,
Dont be quick to go to the saloon for a cut,
Never use shaving sticks,
Get good hair cream and always use it after a bath,
But hair conditioner if possible, it's not expensive,
Normalise getting a cut without carving your hairline and side burns for a while.

PatrickOkunima:
I'd love to join the beards gang, but can't bear the itching.

I'm going bald and it's getting worse by the day, so I'll be left with no choice but to be having skin cut, as in gorimapa. But it would make more sense if I leave some beards to go with the new look.

Is there anything I can use to stop my beards from itching?

I'll appreciate your comments.

Thanks in anticipation.

Edited:

The comments I have seen so far indicate that kids have taken over Nairaland, the romance board at least. It's unfortunate really.

A true hero

EmmanuelScott1:
A Nigerian man, Eluemunor Richard Okasia, has drowned after rescuing a drowning lady at a beach in Kaliningrad, Russia.

The unfortunate incident happened on Saturday, July 17, 2021. He was a student in a Marine University, who got married barely a year ago.

It was gathered that he and his wife were at the beach when they spotted the lady drowning. His wife was said to have begged him not to go into the water but he insisted.

According to an eyewitness, “He was part of a group of four guys that tried to rescue the girl that was drowning. He was the first to reach her and he pushed her out of the strong current.

The others were then able to get the girl to the beach. He himself was then carried deep into the sea by the current. He couldn’t get out. He was above the water for a few minutes and then went under the water.”

https://instablog9ja.com/2021/07/18/newly-married-nigerian-student-dies-after-rescuing-a-drowning-lady-in-russia/

Lifeless mannequins are standing, yet ure having immoral thoughts, muslims that think like this are their own problem

PoshBoss007:
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Read this thing you wrote over again, and ask yourself if you made any sense.

NwaAmaikpe:




Baba was fighting for first class graduates and I have just learnt that his CGPA is a borderline low 2.2.
So what then was his interest except pure mischief?

You insult your University's most important visitor, their surest meal ticket and you think there will be no consequences?

It is never to late to pursue another degree if that's what u want, u can work and school if u must, it's a good plan. It would b stressful but u would be done and proud in no time.

Spark2:
Dear Nairaland,
I am in a state of dilemma now. Choosing between going for masters and pursuing my passion of studying medicine is quite difficult for me.

I studied chemistry Education, graduated well, served and I'm now teaching. I am barely two years into the profession and I am already tired of it. I feel I deserve a career not just a work. A career in medicine for me is something that I belive will make me happy. it's something I can do even if I'm not paid for....I'm 25 years and I feel I have no time again.

I hope to go pick up a JAMB form this week to pursue my passion and happiness. I will not want to make any mistake here. So I believe hearing from people who have been in this shoe will guide me.

Have you been in this situation?
Did you pursue your passion?
Please share your story, age at which this decision was taken and how it has impacted your life.

This will go a long way in guiding me through this critical decision.

Thank you

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Lol, you need a woman in your life, somebody u can touch and not some far off dream cuz she def would have sex with som1 else before u can mak it to the abroad

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Bro there will always be some1 that looks like they got life workin out better for them than you, just as there would be people that think life's better for you, this rude awakening should motivate you and at the same time teach you humility. Na so life b

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

You sound like a rape apologist

Mozino007:
You have already planned....Get d Bleep outta here Bitch!

U guys never listen on this platform! Stop dropping ur emails to avoid wahala but you say you get coconut head who gifts any1 1000 dollars as reg bonus ? Na tree them plug the money ni? Una no go ever wan use ur brain

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U guys never listen on this platform! Stop dropping ur emails to avoid wahala but you say you get coconut head

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