KillamanJoe:
I'm using my own standards to judge the case as there is not amount stated by the poster. For example, my wife and I pay 1.2m as rent and 100k for 3 months for crech. How much I wan use take chop food in a year.

1.2M as rent? I salute you, you are a rich man!

KillamanJoe:
This one is strong. On one part, I see the man is doing his bit. I mean, paying school fees for 4 children and rent for a family of six alone is quite much. Especially if you live in a place like Lagos.

How much is he earning and how much is she earning, let's start from there. Because, my wife and I share almost every bill. We both have good paying jobs, hers is even better than mine but I have more time to pursue personal briefs.

Once I hit bulk sum, I transfer to her for keeps, towards rent and savings.

From my experience, food, clothes, gas and light bill are the least he can expect from you to contribute to the house hold. And except you're earning peanuts it should not see it as an issue.

AND why did you guys give birth to 4 kids in this era? Only one that I have, I've thinking of visectomy. Kids are freaking expensive.

Did you say the least he can expect from her is food, cloth, gas and light?
See eh, i wish i was the one paying school fees. You cant plan for food, it keeps piecing your money. I swear if you calculate the amount spent on food and running the house monthly, you will be surprised that school fees comes nowhere close. Meanwhile fathers will only pay school fees, all the other things attached to school, uniform o, projects, cultural day/career day costume, change of shoes, food flask etc doesn't concern them.

This is the case in most Nigerian homes.
Sister, you must save o. Cut down expenses and save o. If you buy fuel 4 times a week, reduce it to once. Reduce orishirishi food. Do everything to save. Try to see if you can do some small side hustles, it will surely help.
Secondly quit apologizing for what you know nothing of. See ignore him totally, he will come around. What kind of control is this na

Flakky26:
Can you suggest where I can access fund to complete a building project that is already 65% completed?

If you work with government, you can make use of National Housing Fund

Jumyg:
Hello

Please can someone help me with the current prices of the following items
Cement
Landrover of Granite
12mm Rod
8mm rod
1by12 plank


Thank you

Cement: 2600- 2650
12mm rod: 2300
8mm: 1300
1by 12 plank: 2200
This is the price in my area in Benin

Zino89:
Please is it right to use 3 coaches from dpc to the base of window?

In mine it was 3 coaches for the sitting room. Elsewhere was 4 coaches.