The long awaited revolution is at the corner since the hope of the common man has been dashed.

Osibajo2023:
if you are happily married, it is most likely u married like 6 to 7yrs back, but these current ladies na errors

You too sabi book. Thumbs up for you. That lady called kòbojunkie is all over the place supporting errors.

Dear Nairalanders,

Please I had a dream in which the number 14 and 19 appeared to me. Please what are the implications of the dream.

If you know please assist me. Thanks.

Cc: Lalasticlala
Obinoscopy
Mynd44
Dominique

Dear All,

I am writing with total disappointment at NECO. Normally it takes two to three weeks at most after every NECO SSCE marking excercise for the little marking fee to be paid. But the reverse is the case in the last NECO SSCE of 2020. Up until now majority are yet to receive their stippend, especially those banking with GTB, UBA, FIRST BANK etc. only a few examiners operating with FCMB have been paid just last week. This is very disheartening as the current style of piecemeal payment is not helping matters. And of course amount that has been budgeted for why should it take long to pay and be paid in piecemeal.

We therefore call on all and sundry to prevail on NECO Chairman and the FG to release our little stippend of examiners marking fee for 2020 NECO SSCE marking excercise with immediate effect to alleviate the suffering of poor examiners during the excercise and the financial expenses incurred during the excercise. Thanks

Cc: Seun
Mynd44
Obinoscopy
Dominique
Lalasticlala
other Mods pls move to fronpage,thanks

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Salary is negotiable and accommodation is certain.

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Chiquitq:
It is not your business to pay her shop rent. A business is a business and rent is part of the overhead costs. If she is not making enough profit to pay her rent then she should close the business.

If you use the money you have been paying for other projects, you would see your investment and use it as you please.

A man who provides for a woman totally is not helping her at all and it hardly turns out well. A woman who also expects her husband to provide everything is also not preparing herself for the day the man might leave or lose his job.

You can support her rent only if she is supportive and productive and maybe experienced a huge loss that requires a loan to cushion otherwise it is unreasonable to be imposed on you.

Thumbs up

Thanks all for your great advises,in a multitude of counseling there is safety according to proverbs. I anticipate more and good advises.

As we get into the new year I want to take a stand concerning the entire house and will stand my ground on it. Hence the need for more input. Thanks all.

Cc: Seen
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique

Good day all,

Please I need good advice from married folks. I have been doing my best in providing for my wife and children. Without much input of support from her despite the fact that she runs a little business and works as a teacher.

I pay the house rent, children school fees, her shop rent, feeding for the house etc. because she is not usually paid alongside others by her state government.

However, from recent findings, I discovered the govt. Has gradually and almost cleared their salary arrears remaining just a few months and yet she does not seem it necessary to at least let me know. Although I won't ask her to give me her money nor subject her outside voluntary support of the family, but one thing is that I am very much disappointed that despite all my efforts in taking care of the family, now that she has money she cannot tell me nor deem it necessary to at least pay for her shop rent.

Please I have called her one on one to talk sense to her after which she will agree to change but am not seeing any change. What else can I be advised on,thanks.

Perfect South, what is perfect in your Nick name? Look the lot is cast into the lap but the whole disposing is up to you. I mean too many advised has been given to you but the implementation is in your court.

Choose the best your spirit can assure you of and live by it.More grace from God Almighty.

legacystore:


This is a massive disrespect
If u take it for granted then she will hit u with a bigger one.

Thumbs up men. Jah bless. I had tried it had aforetimes and now decided to be a simpleton to get things going smoothly,but the reverse is the case,men the dice is cast. God punish nonsense advise I must nip this at the bud. Thanks for all the advice brotherly and sisterly. I love you all.

Thanks
Obinoscopy
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique
And all mods on board
Jah bless you all.

After this incidence the following day I had a dream of a dog bitting my hand which implies total betrayal and disloyalty.

I don't trust that woman any longer for my safety,I had earlier reiterated that this has been recurring but I wish to share this particular one. Am good to get leaving my only car for her and the kids

LadySarah:
Don't care whatever her reason is ,it is super wrong unless you are the'Lord' type of husband who cut off their wives from their families which means you may not want her to go .

but if not


It took her weeks to make the plans and not once did she mention it. Are you sure you ppl were really talking?

God forbid anything happened ..

Thanks all and thanks Lady Sarah, from my post you can deduce we are in good talking terms.I do call everyday and never did she mention this to me.This is total betrayal and I have lost trust in her already, even if I may not allow her to go,don't I have the prerogative and discretion to do that? This shows disloyalty.

Dear All,

Greetings from here. Just needing a piece of positive counsel here. It has been subtle and recurrent but I decided to share this particular one.

My wife travelled for a burial with my kids without my knowledge. I travelled far away for work and call home everyday. Just recently I called very early in the morning to tell my wife I will be coming home by weekend,she somewhat sounded surprised and said instead of me coming on Friday I should come on Sunday.

I didn't say anything,I pretended not to be angry with that. Yet I immediately did a cash transfer for feeding and balance for the kids school fees that same morning we were discussing.

Later in the evening,I expected her to call and update me on the fees payment,but I didn't receive any call,I then had to call but her lines were all switched off,at this point I was worried especially when I couldn't talk to the kids.

I then called a neighbor to help me check if they are at home only to confirm they travelled for burial which the neighbor got to know from a phone conversation between my wife and her sister.

At this point, I called my wife's brother only to confirm that they were having a burial in their village, which I am not aware of,even as an inlaw.

Right now am very upset and I don't want to act in anger,please how can I react to this conspiracy between her and her family carrying my car with my kids to a distant village for burial without my knowledge.

Thanks for mature inputs only:

Good day house pls,can anyone help out with the best natural strategy or herbs which can help one sustain erection without any side effect? I appreciate your kind contribution. Thanks

Pls someone should help me where is Ighalo, for long now I have not seen him in Man U line up.

Please I saw this in the punch newspaper,that Carbon has started payvest investment. Please who else have idea about this. Thanks

There is this relation of mine that has been cohabiting with this guy for about three years now,with no seriousness to marry from the guy even after advising both to do court or simple traditional marriage.
Currently she is having fibroid and advised by the Dr. to go for CS. But the guy claims he has no money to deposit for the CS. Also this relation of mine has no money of her own currently.
Please what advise can one get to handle the situation? Constructive criticism and helpful comments pls!!!.Thanks

Akinsete19:
Her death was an attack. the guy was just unfortunate to be the killer.

You are very correct

You are just looking for untimely death or terminal disease if she is married, but if she is not married nemesis will catch up with you,since you are betraying your neighbours wife,better look for some one else,the free cheese is a mice trap.

Long overdue, this guy is too exceptional. May God help him more.

The indaboski

Mindlog:


You don't force yourself on people who don't like you, you don't have to wait for them to verbalize what they feel towards you before you realize their perception of you.

From your post, the woman is earning an income while the husband is non-committal. Let her get a smaller accommodation that she can single-handedly afford should the husband refuse to pay for the accommodation and move in by expiration of the tenancy of their present residence. It is now left for the husband to either out of "anger" pay for a bigger place or swallow his "pride" and move in with them which I doubt very much because mentally, he would feel the wife owns the "space".

Mindlog I salute your wisdom

They have been married for over 12 years now with two kids. If they don't like her they should come out plainly na, that's the essence of this post cos in a multitude of counsel there is safety amongst them

Ningen:
It's so sad when two people who once love eachother become strangers and can't even communicate again. Heart breaking really.

Advice her to start looking like he suggested.
That's a step in the right direction.

Next thing is to try & establish communication.
Let her submit herself for a dialogue.

What if she has been doing this?

Renida:




You should be posting a thread about this and not even the house.


Do you want a candid advice?

Alright go through this:

Goodmorning all, I will try to make it very brief. This lady has tried and needs urgent counselling.
She seems to be the breadwinner of the family while her husband while a way with I don't care attitude,such as not providing feeding allowances, coming home very late at night often,with no good reasons,not picking calls when he travels to his village for days, chatting side chicks which has been confirmed on several occasions,leaving house rent almost completely for his wife to pay,not allowing his wife siblings to spend the night in his house but his own relations will do,not bothered about the wife health challenges and her concerns to make peace.
Recently the wife family members had a meeting with him to resolve differences but after a while he continued again and this is virtually affecting all areas of the family psychology and mental health even spiritual. The last attempt she made was to contact the wife family relations and they called him on phone,but he was rather speaking old issues that has been resolved concerning his wife bringing her relations to the house.

Please what is best counsel out there we can give this relation of mine,remember she has tried prayers and still praying, she has contacted a few family members of her husband but they are all in support of the man.

Your input is appreciated for sake of peace

Renida:
Tell her to forgo her ego firsr and right to be offended, if she feels any form of maltreatment from the husband however right you could be and go reconcile issues first, leaving the house issue.


After reconciliation this will automatically sort itself out

She has done that severally with her relations trying to resolve all issues. The last one was that she called the attention of some of her husband relative to air out certain things for the sake of peace but that seems not to make any impact. And the earlier a plan is made to secure accomodation the better,mind you she greets the husband regularly but most times he will not answer.

Dear Nairalanders, on a neutral ground a relative of mine sent this as a text message below to her husband who for some time now has not been in talking terms:


Good morning Sir, Please with the state of economy, I may not be able to contribute for house rent this year as much as I did last year,I suggest we start looking for a cheap but good accommodation in time before expiration of our rent by September this year.Thanks and God bless for your understanding.

And the reply she got from him is:

Better start looking Ma.

I needed to advise my relative but before I do that I would like experienced contributions thanks.

God bless you Gburugburu.Enugu is in God's Hands

The incontrovertible and indefatigable Senator Abaribe,Thanks for being Senator of the common masses.Godbless you sir

EmekaMD:
Brutai and his men have been fighting Bokoharam for many years without any traceable improvements.

Chad soldiers pushed one major offensive and Bokoharam got dismantled.
Then Brutai immediately relocated to NE.
And today Shekarau wants to surrender, something that wasn't foreseeable until now.

My verdict is..

1. Chadian army has disbanded and weakened Bokoharam, and so Shekarau is at the verge of being captured. And his capture would exposed many grey areas including the sponsors to Bokoharam. So Brutai quickly goes in to do the capturing himself and make sure all that needed to be concealed are not exposed .

2. Another option is they'd have Shekarau turn himself in and be given first class treatment and eventually released as a repentant. We've seen lots of these already.

3. Worst case scenario he'd pretend Shekarau wants to surrender, and orders his soldiers to cease fire for negotiations. This would offer Shekarau more breathing space to recuperate and reorganize again. After all Bokoharam is a business venture Brutai and the elite north would never want to lose.

If you think I'm being pessimistic wait till time proves me wrong

Your brain na first class, you are just too much.I salute your reasoning.

Franzinni:
You see all these things you have written is still one side story because I take it that you are in support of the wife for what she is allegedly going through .. Any body who has any experience in this matters will instinctively know that unless you see the whole picture, you haven't seen the whole story..but being that the man can't come to his own defence, let me then proceed to add my advice based on the info I have...

The man is not worth another second of that woman's time ... Children or no Children ... After all she is surviving on her own .. She should just make it a duty to get on with the rest of her life and it will free her from the stress of thinking about one man-child somewhere...

Since all other means seems to have failed ... Make she dump am simple and short ...

Sir, am not in defence of anybody if not for anything the man should support his wife who works round the clock to ensure the family survives,I have witnessed the husband attitude its not welcoming at all,however we know sometimes women can offend but nevertheless he should not take it too far as to affect even the little children

Goodmorning all, I will try to make it very brief. This lady has tried and needs urgent counselling.
She seems to be the breadwinner of the family while her husband while a way with I don't care attitude,such as not providing feeding allowances, coming home very late at night often,with no good reason,not picking calls when he travels to his village, leaving the rent almost completely for his wife to pay,not allowing his wife siblings to spend the night in his house but his own relations will do,not bothered about the wife concerns to make peace.
Recently the wife family members had a meeting with him to resolve differences but after a while he continued again and this is virtually affecting all areas of the family psychology and mental health even spiritual.

Please what is best counsel out there we can give this relation of mine,remember she has tried prayers and still praying, she has contacted a few family members of her husband but they are all in support of the man.

Your input is appreciated for sake of peace

Goodmorning all, I will try to make it very brief. This lady has tried and needs urgent counselling.
She seems to be the breadwinner of the family while her husband while a way with I don't care attitude,such as not providing feeding allowances, coming home very late at night often,with no good reason,not picking calls when he travels to his village, leaving the rent almost completely for his wife to pay,not allowing his wife siblings to spend the night in his house but his own relations will do,not bothered about the wife concerns to make peace.
Recently the wife family members had a meeting with him to resolve differences but after a while he continued again and this is virtually affecting all areas of the family psychology and mental health even spiritual.

Please what is best counsel out there we can give this relation of mine,remember she has tried prayers and still praying, she has contacted a few family members of her husband but they are all in support of the man.

Your input is appreciated for sake of peace