Workch:
How's he suppose to do that?

Opolo e ti daru!

Presently In Kwara state. #515 in all the fueling stations

fergie001:


SOURCE

Seriously, I have never witness what I sees right now, ever before. Every major roads are almost empty, okada are moving empty, Keke napep, taxi, korope, are all moving almost empty. Don't people going out again or what's really going on?

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Na only mugu da spend money for wedding and expecting much.

My advice to people intending to do wedding is that you should spend what you can loss,just like betting. It it comes back fine, if not you move on.

I just Don't get it, why spending a lot on wedding. My wedding was low-key. My wife wasn't that happy because she expexted something big but when I orientated are about what really matters is life after wedding, she accepted but after wedding I surprised her by pumped 3m to her business. She is doing so well now and her friends who wasted lots on ceremony comes to her for help but I'm glad she didn't stupid by just offer help, she gives what she can loss, she will never loan you money.

politicoNG:


https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/07/15/revelation-of-a-19-year-old-girl-gang-raped-by-6-boys-in-anambra/

There is nothing like criminal in Nigeria, what we have here is, no punishment. Let assume these 6 boys sentence to live imprisonment, and another set of people do it, they all imprisoned too, nobody will commit that type of crime again.

TemplarLandry:
When the going was good.

“Used to be my homie, used to be my ace...”

I dedicate this classic diss song aimed at Eazy-E to them “F*k Wit Dre Day” (And Everybody’s Celebratin’) by Dr. Dre feat. Snoop Dogg. Great jam!

Guess you're new here? You go soon tire with your rubbish

SOSinNigeria:
Birds of a feather, flock together!
Criminals are now teaming up. I really pity this country because if the judiciary don't act fast enough...

If the judiciary don't act fast ? Joker you no get sense at all?

Racoon:

https://www.thecable.ng/lagbaja-granting-amnesty-to-bandits-created-avenue-to-reorganise-attack-citizens/amp Mynd44 nlfpmod

Bullets to the heads of bandits else, every houses in Nigeria will turn bandit so mans government dey pay all of us.

Gamblers, Idiots, greedy ones and quick-money seekers deserve to be scammed. I'm glad that you are You go get sense next time. Nobody will show you how you can make easy money while sitting your a** down doing nothing. Anything like, invest and go sleep, let your money work for you, is a SCAM! Well, idiots won't see that

tonye33:
I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.

In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.

6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.

To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation.
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

What should I do!?

--Please advise him.

This is the mistake most of you make. Your pastors tell you lies to take your money and make sure your sense is no more useful to you. A medical doctor confirmed it to you that you can never impregnate a woman and you believe God will heal you? Like seriously?

Kenneth4u205:
Good. As long as that nonsense is not practiced in our Kwara state

Shut up! Indicate Ilorin ONLY! We Omo Offa will continue to practice our isese. Culture before any religion. Only Ilorin they can stop isese celebration, it can never happen elsewhere in kwara state.

Came4amod:


You are thinking too much about it.. take your time anytime you wanna have fun .. and try playing with you wife before intercourse

Forget it. Erectile dysfunction has nothing to do with been excited.

Biglol008:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, pls I need your advice. I’m married 28 years, no children yet. Newly wedded, I have a problem. I don’t last long on bed. I cum very quickly and it takes a long time like 4 hours for me to get another erection and most times it’s not very hard like my first erection.

I was told the nitric oxide in my body is low. Pls I need help. How do I boost my nitric oxide in my body or if there are any supplements let me buy.

I’m afraid if I don’t do anything now my wife might eventually cheat in the future. I no longer have my morning erection like some guys do. I have exercise, did ginger, garlic, bitter Kola nothing seems to be working.

What can I do to remedy my situation. Pls no talk of hospital health wise I’m very okay. No diabetics or anything no infection pls help me so I can save my marriage and my myself.

I wanted to suggest ginger, garlic and butter kola but since you have used them and not work for you, then you need sick herbal remedy. If you're in south West, listen to your local radio especially at weekends, you will hear them advertising, take their number and go see them and your problem will be solve. Do not buy herb from herbal hawker Ooo. Do not go inside market to buy from Elewe Omo Ooo. Do not send money to anybody to do it for you Ooo. Do not take stupid poisonous pills from pharmacy Ooo. Listen to radio, take number and go see them. Your problem will be solved. Meanwhile, try this tonight and see how far. Get just one egg, break it and mix it will pure Honey and drink immediately. I'm sure you go nak your wife tired for that day but I don't want you to depend on that. Just get your problem solve from herbs.

Mamaafrik1:

Kwara and kogi.....

I don't know much about kogi because I don't see any western state close to it but Kwara state, I really don't get it because 97% are Yorubas.

Mummyimbecile:
This is the right step in the right direction.

If these things were in place, Nigerians would have been enjoying 24/7 electricity without interruption.

In the US, every state has a power company that supplies electricity to the state and sells excess to any neighboring states that need it.

I repeat this is the right step in the right direction. This is the first time they have put their heads together and come out with something good.

Give kudos to the president for decentralized power, if not, they wouldn't have got that authority to have their separate power.

I expect Tinubu to doorr by decentralize more and more power to the states. Too much money In the hands of FG so also power.

tamdun:
Good,every region should follow their footsteps,especially north central

Kwaea should go with south west, they are missing a lot for counting themself with other north central. I pity them. Last time I checked, hausas don't recognize them as north 'cuz when they punished Western states the other time, Kwara state suffered it. Tomatoes, pepper and onion stops at niger state.

Wawelexy:


Then you are missing alot... It very yummy, trust me

Trust me I will try it out today. My wife will prepare it and I will buy fufu on my way home from work. I will update this comment tonight

Wawelexy:



Nope, are you Yoruba? If yes, then you should know Ewa alasepo

Yes I know Ewa alasepo but it can't go with fufu na? Well maybe perhaps I can't eat swallow without veggies or draw soap. Mi o le fi ata lasan je anything swallow so, gbegiri self I can't eat swallow with it, I can eat it with Tuwo alone.

ChybuzzDD:


Yeye talk.
Were all the ones Malami and Co recovered from looters used "for the betterment of the people"?

What would they do with the subsidy funds that they haven't been able to do since the oil boom?

If they remove that subsidy, which is the only thing Nigerians benefit from their oil, you guys will just suffer in vain.
The funds would be relooted.

Hello, you're getting it wrong or perhaps you really don't know how FG comes about the money use in paying subside. It all borrowed and stool borrowing to pay.

Wawelexy:


Yes, concoction watery beans

I believe you're talking about gbegiri?

Wawelexy:


Beans

Alone(porridge)
With plantain (dodo/cooked)
With yam
With bread
With fufu
With semo
With garri(drinking/sprinkled on)
With pap/custard

Just give me beans....

With FuFu? How? You mean beans as soup?

Foodqueen:
Nothing to do since there is no light.

Let them go to their room, they will gist till they fall asleep.

They do this alot until when I thought they'd went to bed and that's bad to go to bed after meal. I asked them to stay in the livingroom till about two hours. That was when I got to know that they do nothing. So yesterday I was looking at them and asked myself, ain't they bored like this? Sitting side by side, silence, looking up the roof, just sitting for hours. Then I decided to see what I can have them play with, till ded time. With suggestions here, I'm gonna go for one. They need do something to keep them stay up for hours before they go to bed. Thanks

frozen70:


You can get an iPad with home internet connection for them to browse about educational things

They can link up on U-lesson for online teaching

You can subscribe on pay TV for them to watch stations if there is steady light

You can get bicycle for them to drive round the compound if there is space

When you register them for schooling, let them join lessons in school that will carry them till 5pm when you guys will be back home

By the time they get home had their dinner, the next thing is sleeping straight to bed

I think this is the best. I'm gonna do just this. Thanks

vincenteger:
I saw on the front page something about parenting and technology or so
I think you should look for it. You will likely learn one or two

You should avoid giving them gadget or something relating to that so that when they go back they won't start asking their parents for it.. but rather buy them books or educative stuff that they can go back with after their stay.

Ok thanks so much.

Nazgul:

If you don't have cable TV like DStv, gotv and the likes, get one for them. They'll definitely find a particular program irresistible. That should relieve them of the boredom.

Alternatively, you can take the whole family out for picnics on weekends and have fun in whatever way you feel.

Alright thanks for your contribution.

Kobojunkie:
Una no get graphic novels to read? Dem no fit go library go borrow books read ?

I can get them one.

Blackdeewhy:
Get them:
1. Affordable I-pads
2. Story books
3. On cartoon network
4. Buy toys
5. Allow them to play outside

Thanks my sister. My house is gated. And all other houses, no kid play outside. They got to do things during the day. Put water on flowers, runs round the house, the older one teaches the younger one and TV but after dinner which we usually eat by 6:30. They do nothing till we goes to bed. I mean just sitting down doing nothing. I'm gonna go with what you have suggested..thanks once again.

MrBrownJay1:
a different activity each day of the week:

- educative board games
- painting/drawing etc
- help cleaning the house
- help cooking dinner
- help with school lessons (math/English etc)
- professor teaching a new language
- professor teaching a musical instrument

Thanks so much. They got things doing during the day but after dinner is when they sit idle, doing nothing. Before they got a break from their school, there are a lot of activities for them after school ( home work, assignment and all that ) but same thing still happens after dinner. After dinner is only when they don't do a thing. Though I got to noticed this now when electricity was bad, for about 5 days now, no light so I do not put on TV from 6 upward so as to save the battery ( solar ) to power the house till the next morning.

swaley:
How old are your nieces?

12 and 8 years respectively.

Good evening everyone. Trust your day was great.
Please I need advice or suggestions. Got my brothers two daughters living with me and my wife. They are gonna stay awhile. We are living a very private life here. We don't go outside gate. After work, me and my wife stays in. This kids got to play a lot when they were with my brother but that not happening here. Like right now, after dinner, they are just sitting down folding their hands, just sitting, doing nothing. So I'm thinking of what I can get for them to play with till they goes to bed.
Please someone should suggest for me. Can't watch them just sitting for three hours, just sitting because we eat our dinner by 6:30, goes to bed by 9:30.
Thanks everyone.

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

Too late! Listen to me. Ladies of nowadays wants no other thing than money from their man. None of them loves thier husband, they only wants his money and they can do anything to have all it to themself. New trick in town now is, to keep the man away from his family via diabolical means or poison him. That's what is going on now. Before your brother died, the moment you noticed he is not supporting you and mama and not coming visit often, You go to him, go there to pass a week or two, it's enough to get to know what's going on. Ladies of Nowadays deserves nothing and despite. Same thing happened to my brother but we were smarter than her, my brother went there to pass three months. It lead to fight and separation. When all cooled down, he was now telling us what was going on and he could not say pim to anyone. In this case, I'd say you killed your brother.