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You cant be rolling with the Vaseline crew/ Cucumber gang all your life.
Stop being a wimp and put an end to Masturbation now or forever live with it

Kindly place a pm to get your copy for a token of N500 only.

Read it and be Free! Make Sure to Apply the steps outlined. That book is filled with knowledge.

onlinetomola:
Sell your smartphone or Laptop then use the money to buy plenty food stuffs at home or you can dash your Mum the money and ask her to Pray for you .

For real, this ain't joke. That sh*t ain't easy to let go when you are already addicted to it.

HOW TO CONTROL MASTURBATION. MUST READ!!
TITLE OF BOOK: How to control masturbation: Tips, tricks and strategies to stop any addiction
About the book
This book will help you overcome your addiction to masturbation if you are willing. The writer makes a perfect exposition of the various challenges masturbators face and the means which it can be tackled. The techniques given in this book can be used to overcome any addiction that teens of today face. A proper application of the steps laid out in this book is a sure guarantee that you will be in control of yourself and put a stop to the addiction of masturbation in the long run. Do well to abide by these steps and you would see drastic changes before you know it.
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LuciferYaweh:
I can't go 100 hours sef.


I'll die.

Read this Book and be free.
How did we get here?
I keep asking myself that question. How on earth did I get into this crazy villa called masturbation? Mmmm! Let me think. Oh! I got it. I was having a sexually oriented conversation with a group of friends back in school and one dude mentioned something about masturbation. We all were like, ' What the heck is that?” and then the bait came. He said he do use soap on his Jrod while taking his bath, then stood up and demonstrated how he does it with his hands stroking an invisible Jrod. I have watched a little porn but never knew about the new word he was saying. We all agreed that it was disgusting and he waved it off as a thing of the past since he has stopped that already before relating it to us. In my good mind I said ' That’s so absurd '. Two weeks later I was taking my bath and that scene flashed up in my mind. A bad voice in my mind said ' Hey man, remember what that guy said. Why don’t we try it out? '. My naive mind obliged and in seconds I couldn’t stand on my legs as I released. But the sensation felt good to the bad mind. I ran out of the restroom swearing never to try that nonsense again.
Funny I still did it a couple of times more in a space of 3 days back to back to back from the first time. And that unlocked incessant waves and waves of masturbation. The more I promised myself not to do it, the more I did it. It was eating me up so bad and I was feeling guilty since am a bit Churchy (culled from Church. Whatever that means) I continued like that for 5 months straight accompanied with watching porn. You should already know that jerking off and porn goes hand in hand. Two twins that can never be separated even if you stop one of them. The former regenerates the latter and the cycle continues. Unless you kill them both.
Wait a sec! Am deviating already? Okay back to story. So I made up my mind to fight it like a man because I don’t like the feeling of guilt I always experience after masturbation. I started to browse for info online only to bump up on a post where the writer said it is ' a healthy exercise ' and ' quite good for the body ' What the heck! An exercise that puts me in emotional depression and guilt is not and will never be healthy for me. I don’t know about you, but that’s exactly how am feeling it. This crap I never wanted to stomach, am the owner of my mind for Pete's sake. I say what happens around here. Not one crazy mind that always instruct me what to do. Now once I got this mindset ingrained at the back of my brain, I set out to subdue this experience, to quench this insatiable thirst for undeserved pleasure.
You might ask 'Hey dude, whats up these stories?’ but I tell you, take a chill pill everything that happens is for a reason. If you want to go back from where you are, you will have to know how you got there. Then trace for possible and feasible ways to get back to where it all began and this time no mistakes. Now that’s it. I don’t know about you. I don’t know how you got to this point of addiction; I don’t know how you got here. But we can trace back to where we started. If you think it’s going to be a walk in the park, then I must say, you are a big joke. It’s quite easy starting masturbation but stopping it will cost an arm and a Jrod. Have you ever being lost in a thicket and managed to find your way out? Was it as easy as pie? Did you take precisely the same route you came from without missing a step or changing your body position? Answer is No! This isn’t Rocket science, You have to make perseverance and self-control your life long anchor.
TO BE CONTINUED...
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Kirchhoff01:
So today I want to challenge my self not to engage in mastúrbation, sëx or alcohol for a period of 100 Days.

Mastúrbation: I am an addict. I have been fighting this ever since I started. After each session I will vow not to do it again only to find my self stroking my cock the next day. I really want to stop.

Sëx: I have sex occasionally...

Alcohol: I drink occasionally so it's not that a big deal

P0RNOGRAPHY: The father of them all. Once I am Hot I just go online and start watching porn. I can't masturbàte without porn.

Day 1: So today I am in a high mood

How did we get here?
I keep asking myself that question. How on earth did I get into this crazy villa called masturbation? Mmmm! Let me think. Oh! I got it. I was having a sexually oriented conversation with a group of friends back in school and one dude mentioned something about masturbation. We all were like, ' What the heck is that?” and then the bait came. He said he do use soap on his Jrod while taking his bath, then stood up and demonstrated how he does it with his hands stroking an invisible Jrod. I have watched a little porn but never knew about the new word he was saying. We all agreed that it was disgusting and he waved it off as a thing of the past since he has stopped that already before relating it to us. In my good mind I said ' That’s so absurd '. Two weeks later I was taking my bath and that scene flashed up in my mind. A bad voice in my mind said ' Hey man, remember what that guy said. Why don’t we try it out? '. My naive mind obliged and in seconds I couldn’t stand on my legs as I released. But the sensation felt good to the bad mind. I ran out of the restroom swearing never to try that nonsense again.
Funny I still did it a couple of times more in a space of 3 days back to back to back from the first time. And that unlocked incessant waves and waves of masturbation. The more I promised myself not to do it, the more I did it. It was eating me up so bad and I was feeling guilty since am a bit Churchy (culled from Church. Whatever that means) I continued like that for 5 months straight accompanied with watching porn. You should already know that jerking off and porn goes hand in hand. Two twins that can never be separated even if you stop one of them. The former regenerates the latter and the cycle continues. Unless you kill them both.
Wait a sec! Am deviating already? Okay back to story. So I made up my mind to fight it like a man because I don’t like the feeling of guilt I always experience after masturbation. I started to browse for info online only to bump up on a post where the writer said it is ' a healthy exercise ' and ' quite good for the body ' What the heck! An exercise that puts me in emotional depression and guilt is not and will never be healthy for me. I don’t know about you, but that’s exactly how am feeling it. This crap I never wanted to stomach, am the owner of my mind for Pete's sake. I say what happens around here. Not one crazy mind that always instruct me what to do. Now once I got this mindset ingrained at the back of my brain, I set out to subdue this experience, to quench this insatiable thirst for undeserved pleasure.
You might ask 'Hey dude, whats up these stories?’ but I tell you, take a chill pill everything that happens is for a reason. If you want to go back from where you are, you will have to know how you got there. Then trace for possible and feasible ways to get back to where it all began and this time no mistakes. Now that’s it. I don’t know about you. I don’t know how you got to this point of addiction; I don’t know how you got here. But we can trace back to where we started. If you think it’s going to be a walk in the park, then I must say, you are a big joke. It’s quite easy starting masturbation but stopping it will cost an arm and a Jrod. Have you ever being lost in a thicket and managed to find your way out? Was it as easy as pie? Did you take precisely the same route you came from without missing a step or changing your body position? Answer is No! This isn’t Rocket science, You have to make perseverance and self-control your life long anchor.
TO BE CONTINUED...
If you want the full PDF kindly send me a PM. It is goes for a token of just N500. After reading this book and you still cant't get over masturbation then your problem is from above.

TO BE CONTINUED...
If you want the full PDF kindly send me a PM. It is goes for a token of just N500. After reading this book and you still cant't get over masturbation then your problem is from above.

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PART 1
TITLE OF BOOK: How to control masturbation: Tips, tricks and strategies to stop any addiction

Copyright
All the content published in this e-book are the property of the Author. The user of this e-book is prohibited to reuse, retain, copy, distribute or republish any contents or a part of contents of this e-book in any manner without written consent of the publisher.

About the book
This book will help you overcome your addiction to masturbation if you are willing. The writer makes a perfect exposition of the various challenges masturbators face and the means which it can be tackled. The techniques given in this book can be used to overcome any addiction that teens of today face. A proper application of the steps laid out in this book is a sure guarantee that you will be in control of yourself and put a stop to the addiction of masturbation in the long run. Do well to abide by these steps and you would see drastic changes before you know it.

Audience
This book is meant for everyone who is into the habit of masturbation and wish to control it to a stop. But special attention is paid to teens and adults as they are the most people who engage in masturbation. I recommend you read this book irrespective of age as the techniques and steps outlined will give the same result for all age grades.

What you should know?
This book was written in a guy’s perspective but same technique is also applicable to females. Some slang words are used in the book which are:
Jrod: The male reproductive organ.
Coochie: The female reproductive organ.
P: A combination of the two above.
Jerking off: Same thing as masturbation.
I have my reasons for not saying them directly but rather using slang words to denote them. So where ever you see the slangs above, just know that it’s the meaning above that we are talking about. I got to give them some respect. That was how I was raised so don’t blame me much.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Copyright
About the book
Audience
What you should know?
Introduction
How did we get here?
Chapter 1
Identifying the triggers
The environment trigger
Objects
The Idleness trigger
People around you
The Internet trigger
Your thoughts as a trigger
Chapter 2
Limiting the triggers
Limiting porn
Limiting the solitude
Limiting the object trigger
Limiting the idle factor
Limiting the hottie factor
Limiting the internet factor
Limiting the media
Limiting your thoughts
Chapter 3
Creating a diversion
Physical diversion
Diversion by recreation
Diversion by environment
Diversion by procrastination
Mental diversion
Chapter 4
Dangers of masturbation
Conclusion
Quick tips



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Biglittlelois:
I use to think the couple will just pray to God for a child, it will appear inside the stomach, after nine months they'll go somewhere to pray, like a vigil or something, then the baby dissappear from the stomach to the mum's hand, we were very churchy churchy while growing up. I didn't even know man and woman have to something to have a baby till I was in the University, lol.

Being too churchy is not too good.
You got to know the good and the evil or else bad people will manipulate your naive mind.
Same reason God showed Adam & Eve the good Trees with good fruits and bad Trees with bad fruit.
So if you chose any then you live by it. Instead of blaming anyone for not telling you.
Sex Education should be Chiseled into every young mind that have come of age.
I dont like all these slangs mum and dad used for Pe.nis or Vagi.na. Which one is Pi Pi? Mum is Pe.nis! Haba!

Pruwa:
The comments just made my day Hahahahahahaha For me I always thought it was the anus

lol When did you later find out the truth?

From the bum bum. That was what mama told me o. And i lived by that till my 16th year. Still remember the time I asked that question in Biology class in SSS3. And all girls and dudes come dey laugh. I was seriously standing my grounds with our fine biology teacher, erupting more laughter. She explained and explained but i stuck to my guns. I even stretch neck on top the matter that my biology teacher gave up. Funny I was regarded as brilliant but the brilliance no reach girl matter. Until i watched some child delivery films. Was so shocked thinking that ladies give birth through the urethra. I was even planning of using surgery if my wify wants to deliver. Since i know how painful deliverying from the urethra sounds. So naive of me! And i thought i know something. Na later last 2 years i just grab the truth o. My mum have some explaining to do.
Imagine for ss3 wey Boys don wise, i come dey carry last. I stretch neck for that matter for many months with my dude them. I even thought that se.x was by touching a girl. Na why i fear to touch girls through out secondary school. Mummy no try at all.

Just open your mouth as wide as you can and with the speed of light sink your teeth on your pinkie finger.
The pain will make your One eyed Snake to recoil with immediate effect. Thank me lera.

HARDDON:


They still write love letters these days? How Romantic!

Balless

The Emperor himself just graced the thread. Thou Finest wine that kills little dolls. Your shoe lace I cant untie.
Your good works in and beyond Nairaland is incomparable. Gloria to thou!
So Boss. Is there any proven way to lay home chicks and still got zero problem?
Fair doll living in my lodge is given me the Green lights. Should i just let go?

peacefull:
Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

I'm so sorry for your experience
Your ex husband is heartless man
But when someone in love that person so much, very difficult to leave. Because still wanna trust. Everybody can make mistake. Not always bad. Shared good times and bad times together. Everythings are good memories. Because after some time, talking and laughing together about when had really so bad times in the past. Bad times can be good old days. One year by one year getting old together. Not easy to forget about loved one.
I really hope you are not so much in hurt now.
I really hope you are getting fine now.

Sometimes love is really so hurt. Love can make someone very strong. Also can make so weak. But I believe love is always beautiful.
For family, for friends, for partner etc...
Always beautiful. But sometimes really so hurt.

Maybe my problem is now I can't think he is bad person or bad husband and if he is married in Nigeria because of culture or his family, I can't think his fault. I think maybe that is my problem. Very confusing
How can I find out if he is already married or not. Only check his phone? Can I get some paper from Nigeria?

Hell no! That is not our culture. Our culture forbids having 2 wives. And especially if the wives dont know that they are married to the same man.
If you want to know if he has a wife then do any of the following. >> Tell him you want to check his contacts and messages. If he has nothing to hide, he should give it to you willingly. But if he got some bad things he is hiding, he will refuse. Then maybe delete those chat or messages before giving it to you. Now if he agrees, Hurray! You are ready to know the truth. Messages is more revealing than contacts. Just make it romantic, sit with him and scroll through his messages together. Ask him questions like who is this guy? Point to a chat he had and say ' who is that lady? ' then watch his reaction. He might start stammering or take a long silence before answering. That means he is trying to cook up a lie to tell you.
>> Next go through his Gallery. Say you wanna see his handsome pictures. Then go through every picture. If you see any lady picture ask him funny and witty ' Who is that beautiful lady? ' >> Use some Psychology tricks on him. Its all over the internet. Or maybe reverse-psychology but i doubt that would work. >> Next thing you can try is pretending you know that truth about his nigerian wife by saying after a cool evening.
You: I know you married Amaka. Now tell me, how many kids did you guys have? >> He will of course deny that. >> Just say with a smile: ' I already know the truth ' stand immediately and leave, go do some chores pretending you never just had a conversation. Dont raise up the issue again for the mean time. Make sure you do this with Seriousness and a little touch of cheerfulness. >> Now what you are doing is trying to build up Suspense. In His mind if guilty, he will ask himself ' What truth does she know? Have she found out? Did my friend spill the beans to her? Who told her? ' >> He might go to you in the kitchen and ask ' What do you know? ' or ' What truth are you talking about? ' or ' What exactly are you talking about? ' If he ask you this, just know that he is feeling guilty but want to hear how you knew he had a wife. >> If he is not guilty. He might try to reveal that he never had a wife by saying ' I swear I didnt marry in Nigeria ' or ' You are the only woman am married to ' thats it. You have your answers. Note: amaka is a general and widely used igbo Female name. He will be shocked that you know this. And if he is guilty, he will be more shocked that you already know a lot about his background. And that can destabilize him.
>> Next thing you do is make friends with his Nigerian friends. Now when i Mean make Friends, I mean very tight/close friends. Females preferably if any. Nigerian females are quite good talkatives and cant keep a secret. Chances are that they say the truth unknowingly when conversing with you. If its a male be sure he is cormfortable chatting with you. Then when you have built enough rapport with him, ask him the question. >> Ask him like you know already, something like ' Sure <INSERT HIS NAME> married a fine lady in Nigeria. Is she so beautiful? ' Now this is much better than asking questions that don't gets mono answers like ' did David marry in Nigeria?' His response would be Yes or No. Which is not that helpful and of course they would always deny to protect their friend. Be careful dont ever Nag him

peacefull:
Thank you so much. I appreciate you.
I asked him about bride price.
He doesn't pay means maybe our marriage is not count in Nigeria. But he said No. Because I'm not Nigerian and we did paper work in Nigerian embassy. So we are also married in Nigeria that what he said.

I also don't know about Japanese Yen to Nigeria Naira. He said twice or three times.

When he comes back to Japan. Ask him why he didnt take you to his Parents for marriage blessings. For any marriage to count in Igbo culture, your parents and his parents must meet. Then blessings are given for the marriage by both parents. If this is not done, it is possible that his parents never knew that he married over there in Japan. He might even tell them that you are just a friend. Ask him if he told his Parents, brothers, sisters and kinsmen that he already married in Japan. I might be wrong so don't take my words to heart. Just saying you should make him tell you the whole truth. He is very tricky. A marriage where couples are not truthful to themselves may not stand.
A time will come when he will fly back home and will never come back. Pardon me to say that. Unless he really loves you that much that his conscience will judge him. Karma might also come for him if he dares to. But I swear, you Japanese love too much. So drunk with love. Well am not Married so I dont really know what love means. Are you on Facebook you can add me up.

peacefull:
Thank you so much!

Hello is Kon nichi wa.
About phone call, English says same Hello. But Japanese says Moshi Moshi. Same Hello, but different in Japan.

Thank you is Arigato or Arigato gozai masu or Arigato gozai mashita. Arigato gozai masu is more polite than Arigato. Arigato gozai mashita is something like for past.

Sensei means teacher. But we also call for Doctor or Lawyer Sensei.

Nice to meet you is Hajime mashite.
Kon nichiwa, Watashi no namae wa John desu.

Okay. Arigato gozai masu my Sensei.

Angela777:
Dear, in this topic we all calmly are trying to help the lady to see her situation better and to decide BY HERSELF what to do. I have no interest to argue with 18 years old boy about if Nigeria is good or bad, I visited Nigeria, I was married to a Nigerian and had 5 years with him, I have many Nigerian friends and have my own opinion who is who. If you came here to fight, please, go and open your topic about fighting. No need to add any arguments and fights between participants here, the lady is in stress and she is trying to understand, if you have a good advice or some info for her (not for me) how the marriage with the Nigerian man works, please write about it as I and all others do.

okay Mum am sorry.

Durentt:
Please advise, I'm a 20 year-old-gay-student, yeah I'm 99.9% not straight, but this girl in my department always looking my way and flirting with eye contact is exasperating.
She's beautiful, but I like boys. It's not that I can't fall in love with a woman orhave sex with them, but I prefer boys by a light year ahead of women and don't want to stress on women.
Please what do I do? Ignore or ask to back off or try my sexuality again?

You need a good calabar babe to straff the gay outta your life. What a Morata!

Angela777:
We all are expressing our own opinion about how we see this situation and we all are entitled to chat here. I like Nigeria and Nigerian people very much and I always say most or many but not all. Noway!! Some or a few would have being far better. You implying 4 out of every 5 Nigerian have the scamming mindset ingrained in their DNA? You try to minimize my opinion just because you wish to give better image about Nigerian people and your country and it's natural you get upset if a foreigner (in this case me) is pointing to the wrong doing, yet even if you don't like it, the wrong doing exists Am not saying that it doesnt exist. It is everywhere! Which country dont have bad eggs? And no am not minimising anything. Just dont like how you visual most Nigerians as bad rubbish because you watched some wierd stuff in CNN or BBC. You dont even live here for Pete's sake. You Just heard. Just heard isnt enough to paint the image about Nigerians. and JUJU and charms, scam bad practice even killing people, exists, I am not saying this is the case of Japanese lady, she is living with her husband for a long time and apparently juju is not involved.

If you say, you wish to help the lady and you are so generous, just send her money on the monthly basis or for her medical bills yet I think it is not appropriate even to offer to do it. Japan is a different country and before talking, maybe you need to learn how Japanese people would react to your offer.
Okay. I take back my generousity and lock it up in a 2 way authentication Vault.
We all here assume the lady is being used but only she knows exactly if she is and if her marriage will be well. All we can here to tell her this and that exists in Nigeria, she asked about how is the Nigerian marriage and now you are telling her even a Nigerian wedding is luxury and big money spending, then if the igbo man loves his wife or better saying CONSIDERS the woman his WIFE, he supports her in everything and he is very nice, even big spender on his woman. So you just confirmed almost all we all we're saying here. The lady is reading, thinking, analyzing and hopefully she will ask for help from a close friend, family or psychologist to straight up all her thoughts, she needs to share her doubts and ask people how they see it and it is up to her how she makes it work.

She came here for the advice, same advice I did ask my Nigerian friends advice and my American girlfriend when I was confused about my Nigerian ex attitude. All she needs now is not you talking About Angela, she needs to understand and see clear her marriage and see what is it good for her, her husband and her child. Same ish that i was saying. Was i talking about the Haitans marriage culture in my post? Hell No. Its still Naija marriage culture that i was expressing. And gave the general notion of Nigerians Still, I personally don't believe her situation is too bad, mine was much worse yet as a loving and supportive woman, I didn't believe any advice until my ex was discovered by his Nigerian women doing a crime. Western women we really believe in real love and it is very hard to understand why loving and giving so much we are put aside after this man asked us to marry him and was so nice for some time or sometimes. It's very hard for the Japanese lady to understand or even accept her own husband for years living together could make up lies and to be so heartless to her when she gives him all she has. I understand her pain and I hope she gets the best advice and solution.

End of story. Still dont get what you are implying. You saying she divorce or wait for things to unfold by itself.

peacefull:
Thank you so much!!
But I really can't speak, write and read English well. I'm always using dictionary for write and read. Many things I can't write well and can't understand well when I'm reading.
Yes!! Of course! I can teach you Japanese. But problem is my English.
What do you wanna know?

Dont worry your English is perfect. If you can learn to speak a nearly perfect English like this on your own then you must be very intelligent. Many people stay in English countries for years and still cant speak a good english.
So that aside.
How do you say hello in Japanese? How do you say 'Thank you' ? How do you guys greet. Sensei means ' Master ' right? Heard that in Street fighter film. How do you introduce yourself? Example. Hello there, my name is John. Nice to meet you.

peacefull:
Thank you for give me advice. I'm appreciate you.
I can still laughing! I maybe very poor. But poor can't take my smile. I can't lose my smile because of poor. Because my heart is not poor.
I have no luxury things. I'm not living in luxury. That is no problem for me. I'm thankful what I have. I'm living under the roof. I can sleep on the bed. I can eat food. I can take a shower. I have family. I have friends. I can laugh. I can cry. I can angry. I'm alive! That is enough for me Very luxury. But I'm a woman and human. So sometimes I'm admire someone who have good things.

My husband is not looks like rich man. Sometimes he don't care if he is wearing bad socks like already little bit tear. That's why sometimes I bought for him if I can buy when we lived together. I didn't care if I can't buy something for myself. He is a man. Hard working man. He should not wear like that.

But you mean when he go to Nigeria, he will be like rich man? How? Only me think about he is not rich man? But if he has money, why he wanna hide from me? He think I will take his money? Because I want him to pay his arrears? I never demanded him to luxury life for me.
But sometimes I had talk about travel like dreaming. Not demand him to take me. I'm talk like dreaming for go to travel. But I maybe made him feel like I'm greedy?
How can someone don't have enough money doing like rich man in Nigeria?
He is also hard life in Japan. He is assist my life and take care of his life and sending money for Nigeria? Is it possible?
He is not first son. If first son don't have enough money to take care of his family, what will happen with him?
If he is the first Son but cant provide then he might lose his status and respect. That means some of his entitlements or responsibility will be taken away by the child who provides the most. Things like Decision making or planning of the family might be given to the second Son if he is more succesful and richer than the first son.
Even in Japan is same. First son has responsibility for many many things.
I asked him about child in Nigeria before. He always say he don't have a wife in Nigeria. So I asked about maybe he has a child without marriage like me. He explained about in Igbo land(?) Igbo land is just the same as a place where the igbo tribes lives. In nigeria Igbo land is located in the south East. Just as in Japan mainly Japanese live there so we can call japan a Japanese land. Same logic applies in China: Mainly Chinese people so in we call it Chinese Land. and bride price. I still can't understand well what he said. Without pay for bride price is not wife or family? That child can't accept their family? if he said the above, that is he is simply saying you are not his wife with regards to his culture. In Igbo land for a couple to be recognised as husband and wife, the husband must pay a certain price called bride price to the family of his wife. This he would do in company of his brothers, kinsmen and relatives. Only then can the Igbo society recognise the both of you as a couple. So he just exposed himself by saying that. He implies that back in his country Nigeria, you are not his legal wife. Because he paid no bride price! What is Igbo land? I had talk about it only one time. So I still wanna ask him and wanna understand what he said.

Anyway, You are not stupid what you did for love. I will do same thing if I can do. Love is very very important. [b] you place too much importance in Love. Are all japanese ladies like that. This can make bad people manipulate you since you love with your whole heart and can do anything for love. [/b]Sometimes very hurt. But always very beautifule

To your first question, the economy of Nigeria and japan are quite different. I dont know the Naira to Japanese currency exchange rate. Its simple. If i make 100 yen ( i have forgotten the name of japanese currency. Pardon me. ) after working in japan, if i come back to Nigeria and exchange that 100yen to local currency. If the exchange rate is high say 1 yen is equals to 100 naira. Then am gonna be having 10,000 naira in Nigeria which is just a small amount in Japan. So if he earns say 10,000 yen that will make him a millionaire in Nigeria. Thats 10,000 yen * 100 naira. Making it 1milion naira in Nigeria for just 10,000 in Japan.
The bold text in your comment are answers to your questions.

peacefull:
Thank you for gave me advice.

forreelinc.
FemiEddy.
Nutase.
Badgers14.

I wrote about my husband like bad guy.
But he is good guy to me.
That's why I'm still loving him.

Sorry about if I made you feel so bad what I wrote.

I wrote too much about money problem.
But in fact, my must worry about is I still can't be his especially woman.

I'm so anxious now.
Maybe bcoz of he is not around.

But I had good experience in here what you gave me advice.

I'm very very APPRECIATE!!!

Have a great night!

P.S. if woman will get too much fat after marriage, husband say a swindle or pig in my country.not hippopotamus

Your english is very much improved. Hope you can teach me Japanese in return.