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Mizwisdom:
Many people gave you advise but you thank only 4 so it means the rest of us wasted our time, another thing I've noticed is you seem to be too ready to pls monikers with 'm' so much so that you even insulted me because of one kid. Good luc to you on that.

Babe it havent reached like this na. She deeply appreciates your advice. Implicitly or Explicitly. Kindly take down the last 2 sentences. They are just off.

peacefull:
Thank you for wrote to me.

But I don't understand well.
Cassava is trees right?
Is that sexual meaning?

Sorry about I'm not English speaker and my English is very poor.
So is difficult to understand your word to me.

But if that meaning is sexual meaning,
I really can't understand why you said it to me.
Coz I said I'm loving him?

I think sexual relationship is also important for b/w husband and wife's relationship.
But it is can not reason for stay long together and keep marriage life for me.
Doesn't matter if he can do sexual performance well or not.

If partner can't do it very well and can't satisfied it, just try to find out what is and how can they make good feel for each other and even think about that time(looking for how can they satisfied for each other) is also fun.
Then when they find it, they are so happy and their love is getting more strong.

That is just my thinking.
So if he can do very well or not and he has good one or not is doesn't matter for me.

Different culture,different language, different skin color,different eye color etc, all of things are doesn't matter for me.

I just fell in love with him almost 15years ago.
And still fall in love him.
Every time getting more loving him than yesterday.
I'm loving himself.

I want you to understand what I didn't fall in love with his genital.

Thank you.

LMAO Succinctly Put.

Peaceful you are quite the very best wife in Japan just that the man who you make all these sacrifices for never appreciate it.
You story is really heart breaking. It weaks me seeing people who are financial ridden and i cant do anything about it. You dont really know how much i share your hurts right now. But i will bookmark this thread and surely reach out to you if i get some crispy notes. Am even thinking of how to sell all my Father's properties and wire the money to you. < joke intended. Nigeria is so difficult so we Nigerians make joke of the hardships instead of sulking. We laugh at our own sufferings just to feel better. Life got no manual, we take it as it is >
for the record am a legit, cool headed 18 year old Igbo boy, born and bred Son of the Soil. Look, the general perceptive of many Nigerian youth is. Get away from the country >> Travel abroad >> Make some money whether legit or not >> Come back to Nigeria and convert it to our local currency. Automatically making the guy a millionaire. >> Take the Igwe title < kingship > or start answering ' Omena Dollar ' meaning ' Dollar Don' literally, One who deals with dollars or money bag. Am afraid its the same part your husband is threading upon. Igbos are huge spenders on those they love and care about.
I once sent my Girlfriend my university tuition fees, all in the name of love. Stupid me! But this your husband is not showing these qualities of love peculiar to Nigerian men. Making me reach the assumption that he is keeping you just for the greencard. And believe me thats the root cause of most online dating scams by Nigerians. Everybody wants to leave the country for greener pastures thinking that its easy over there. Now in igbo culture, much duties are placed on the shoulders of first borns/ first male child. He is invicibly tasked with the job of providing for the family like sending cash for upkeeps, ensuring to take care of his other sibilings even to a detrimental extent to his own progression. My Dad had to train his whole sibilings and paid their school fee even though he wasnt through with his own schooling just because he came first.
So i dont know if your husband is the first child of his family, even though he is, such should not warrant such degree of negligience to his japanese wife.
It is an open secret that he has a wife in Nigeria who he sends money for upkeeps. And i tell you his nigerian wife ( if my speculations are true ) dont give a flying Yuan who you are as far as the money conitnues flowing. Her opinion is ' There is no place like Home' meaning after everything, she still gets her husband back home with her. We Nigerians know ourselves. Believe me when i tell you this
he is a baller and millionaire here in Nigeria. Our general notion of our Brothers who travel abroad and come back is >> This guy is killing the dollar! This guy have raked in too much cash there o. Infact he can sow a money suit now. And when he goes to village meetings, he will be praised, hailed and edified because we think he is now counting in $$$ instead of Naira.
This will make him spend voraciously as to whom much is given, much is also expected. So i wont be surprise that your husband is living large and expensive here in Nigeria but forms a pauper back in Japan. And you are his tool with which he actualizes his self centered ambitions. You accomodate him and legalise his stay in Japan while he mines for Gold without giving much to you. How can one refuse paying his bills, take his surpportive wife to the clinic, help out in the day to day running of the house, treat you like a queen ( which you are ). But he has money to book an expensive flight back home. Thats so odd for an Igbo boy who cherish and adores his wife. I dont wanna believe he is using you. Also about the electricity stuff. Dont blame him, our community have not had electricity for straight 4 months. So 10 days is quite small to worry about. We rely heavily on Generators for power. You quite respectful still, a rare virtue of Good wives. I can relate igbo culture to you. Feel free to ask your questions. @ Angela777 fallacy of Hasty generalization. Dont judge based on one angle. Non scammers far outnumbers the Scammers in Nigeria. You said Some raw truths tho. And no i dont believe in the Charm thing. Take a chill pill. And yeah you are right we like money. Like, who doesnt? Come to mbaise marriage ceremony an Igbo clan and see what money wastage is called.

What do you imply by Alpha females? There can never be two lion in a Pride, its 1 lion and the rest Lioness, 2 captains cant sail one ship.
So Alpha females is far fetched. Unless for Lesbabies who later get married in the western countries. An alpha female might arise there as someone should lead for others to follow.
No real G wants to get surpressed by a Lady claiming Alpha.

So i have being snooping around nairaland lately and discovered this two very helpful threads. The first one is.
www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only
That Harddon guy really is the bomb tho he got flaws in his post. But he is trying to drive home a point, so get the point, seive the rest and move on with your life. Infact that thread is a whole course of study on its own. You might want to get those in your head, you might need those techniques someday.
And of course this thread here
www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman
.
One gal like that platinun or what was busy arguing her head off. A thread quite intriguing, eye opening and fascinating.
Reading thoroughly these threads will put a stop to an extent on these numerous sob stories of Mr. Nice guys and Lovy dovy nite tales.
'After everything i did for her...' you bera dust your butt and read those two powerful writeups. Apply em and use your head.

So i have being snooping around nairaland lately and discovered this two very helpful threads. The first one is.
www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only
That Harddon guy really is the bomb tho he got flaws in his post. But he is trying to drive home a point, so get the point, seive the rest and move on with your life. Infact that thread is a whole course of study on its own. You might want to get those in your head, you might need those techniques someday.
And of course this thread here
www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman
.
One gal like that platinun or what was busy arguing her head off. A thread quite intriguing, eye opening and fascinating.
Reading thoroughly these threads will put a stop to an extent on these numerous sob stories of Mr. Nice guys and Lovy dovy nite tales.
'After everything i did for her...' you bera dust your butt and read those two powerful writeups. Apply em and use your head.

Valerie47:
Marry someone you love sincerely and emotionally attached to in order to avoid cheating and unhappiness in your marriage.

Money wasted, time exhausted, hearts broken. She deserves sumfin bera than emotional attachment blah blah blah. Why, dude lead her on for years. Years she would have used to find sum sweet guy who appreciates her effort.
Bro marry that lady o. She have made breath taking sacrifices for you and now, you want to stab her in the back? No way.

kingemzy5:
13. No home like daura
14.lalasticlala with the snakes
15. Pretty aisha
16. Sleepless night among zoombies on Sunday
17. The Buhari diary

18. The end of Buhari's reign.
19. Back to Daura: Apocalypse.
20. Feb 16: Enough is Enough.
21. I am Atikulated 1 & 2.
20. Too dull Too lifeless 9

Elsah:
Sigh. You are very right friend!. I'm learning to own my mistakes but if there wasn't social media, i might not have made such stupid mistakes. I had to delete all my social media accounts, especially Twitter, cuz they are all bad influences. Now I'm only on Nairaland and Whatsapp. Which i will soon delete too!!

Dont Babe.
If we keep thinking about the Past we wont have enough energy to beat the Present and conquer the Future.
We need you here.
I need you here.
Lady gats move on and never look back.
No matter how things are just know that their are Many people who Care about you, dont let them down.

If could turn the hands of time, i would have changed it for our wicked landlord.
That guy used me as a slave to do his dirty work, molested me psychological, once spat at me, once humiliated me infront of our neighbourhood kids, worked for him in his farm day and nite but niggah gave others cash but gave me nothing. Just because we were living at his house.
Dude turned me into slave, his personal slave and i was too naive then.
I was quite foolish at childhood that if i think back about my unfascinating childhood, i discover that i disgraced my whole generation.
.
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Lalasticlala Fp worthy.
Mynd44 do the needful.

Elsah:
If i could turn back the hands of time, sigh, i would never have given Billz the bj, and Toby too. They didn't deserve it one bit, neither did i even find it pleasurble. I wish i wasn't curious about it. Greatest mistake of my life. I hate myself for my bad choices in life. Sometimes i wonder if I'll ever get to forgive myself for my stupidity. They say the past is in the past, but I'm still there. Stuck, unable to move on.

Wasnt your fault bae.
Its xvideos fault and social media and internet too!
You gats move on.

Moyola:
Sings: If i could turn, turn back the hand of time. . .

*continues
And my Darling you, You would be mine.
Ohhhhhh oh oh!

The lady who started this thread is high on some grass.

MhizAngel99:
This ElidaxZiel guy has been thoroughly destroyed lmao. Well done Sabrina. I'll be sure to watch out for this idiot in the future

Will you kip quiet!

segunojo866:
why didnt Jesus Christ saved those girls?

How can someone be dis brainless and stupid. Attacking people up and down when you yourself wasnt present at the scene.
You get Brain at all. If you have nothing to add to this thread kindly keep shut and allow others post theirs.

itsmeurLady:
NL guys shld stop this gold digger thing, it is becoming Childish... Haha? If you love a girl wether independent or not, won't u spend on her Now before u say WATS wrong in me spending, there's nothing absolutely wrong as well but he has to show that he can give to me as well even before I ask. I hate asking guys for money, so if u can't use your brain to give me for like 6 months, I move! Gat no time for stingy men and I don't see why I shld pretend abt it.

I dont think Boys give out money these days like that, You have to Earn it!
But i cant starve my gf for 6 months tho, if i have one.

1F30M4:
It was one heartwrenching something like that, I cried my eyes out all day that I thought I would one day die from it.. I could barely eat even my cousins started to ask questions.. Thing is I gave my all, I was really committed but he'd rather take it for granted and when I thought about all the sacrifices I made, it just brought so much tears to my eyes.. I actually initiated the breakup but for a while I just couldn't live with the fact that all of it would just be washed off the drain just like that, it wasn't easy for me but thank God I've lived through it and just when I was starting to have a breath of fresh air, he came up with stories for a comeback but then I wasn't having any of that. I've moved on, never going back and it'd be better if he did same, I wished him well and that was it

Aw babe. Hope you have moved on.
Havent being in a rltship but i think i need to gather experience here.
I will just photocopy my heart, keep Original for house come carry fake give future Gf.

Pls can someone help me with the email of Mike mann's native doctor, i want to ask him something.

* Parks Buggati and observes in 4k*

Herlertah:
Hello Nairalanders, Lol, never thought I would one day post anything on Nairaland. I used to come here just to read news and funny comments by you guys. People like simplykush .

Before I go further, I will forever be in debt of the mods if they can pls let this reach front page.

My name (nickname actually) is Herlertah, 18, graduated from secondary school last year with 4 distinctions and 4Bs in WAEC and prospective student of OAU pharmacy (got 281 in jamb but still waiting on that slow school)

I decided to discuss a very important thing with you guys as I know we have many intelligent guys here who, as I have witnessed, have helped many people here.

I discovered when I was in Jss classes that I have the ability to multiply, divide, add and of course, subtract numbers (even big ones, I mean very big ones) without using calculator within a short time or no time at all!!

I am very also very good in squaring numbers within twinkle of an eye, just like, Scott flansburg.
I can find the square of 98765 within 10 seconds with my brain. I know the factor of ever number from 1-more than 10,000 or even more (don't know my limit). I once found the 3^40 and got 12157665459056928801with my head (took me few mins though). It's the longest record I have for now.

I also have the ability to know on what day of the week a date falls, I mean any date, whether past or future. Like asking me on what day of the week June 3rd, 2065 will fall and I will tell you that it's gonna be Wednesday.

I have known this for a while, buh where I am living here in Osun State, its hardly recognised. Although, I was given A MacBook upon from graduation from sec school mainly because of this ability of mine. Still I need help, I want to show this to the world, I want to make the country proud. I can do much more and I don't even know how I am able to do it. Although, I work them in my head buh in a rapid manner.

Thank you as you help with your invaluable comment.

Thank you!!!

If you combine this your hot brain with computer science will be a very good augumentation. You might make the next cryptographic algorithm that can change the world. Or be our very own Niaja Linux.

SpyAC:
men that thing sulks, was once a victim but am a free man now, I did not visit any doctor nor dentist. Ginger, garlic ND utazi leave that eradicated it for me, house praise the lord.......

How did you do it sir?

A 38 year old man manhood grew to abnormal size after having sex with someone wife. It happened in Zimbabwe This one weak me!!
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Igbokid:
Your father generation are fools

Lame. Try again.

Worst: When i couldnt answer a simple question lecturer threw at me and like 4 departments were there. Even gf was shaming for me.
Moral: dont have a Gf in the same department you are in.
Best: bought a nice laptop of 100k after all my hustling that refuse to pay.

Igbokid:
Ask your good for nothing parents at home.
Ipob osu pig!! Thunder fire your smelly akpu mouth there

Next person pls, this one here is a fool.

Igbokid:
Frustrated akpu munching osu pig cum mofo from the gully land

Who was your English teacher?
You life revolves round a bag of stupidity.

Okoyeeebos:
Lmaooooo

But Shidioke, this matter really pain you o!

nope man. Na just fun we catching o.