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Happy for them

The constant need for public validation in this generation is appalling!
So leaving her husband is a thing to celebrate or what?
The lesson she should be teaching is about the not rushing into Marriage!

ExAngel007:
Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

https://www.tori.ng/news/230638/nigerian-lawyer-shares-before-and-after-photos-of.html

I hope you’ll be kind to her as well and give her when you have?
Don’t be a take take guy

MaDaRa01:
Two days ago i went to a woman's shop to buy something and i took advantage of the little kid she left in the shop by paying way less than what i bought.

Thanks to the good people of nairaland with their good advice. I deciding to go clean to the woman and telling her the whole truth without hiding anything.

I went back yesterday to the woman and told her the truth, how i took advantage of the kid by paying #50 for the rice worth #1k and how i came back to pay the balance after i realize my wrong.

At first, i thought she was going to get angry at him. Instead she asked me if i have bible app on my phone which i affirmed. She quoted a verse to me and talked to me on confession of sin and forgiveness.
Seriously, since when i dey go church, no pastor sermon touched me like the little talk the woman gave me. Till now i'm still thinking about it.

I thanked her, promised never to do that again, and as i was going she told me to wait. She later gave me some rice, beans and other provision that i should take it for free and anytime i am hard on cash, i could come to her shop and get anything and pay her whenever i receive salary or when i have cash with me.

I said all the whole "Thank you, God bless you".

It was not the foodstuff that blessed my soul, but how she handled the situatiom.

May God continue to bless the woman

lereinter:
But you said there's low liquidity

So where will people get the tipper load of currency

Done forget with high inflation, income hasn't increased

Well am not a economic person, maybe you have better explanation

The point is that when everyone has more money, the value of the money drops
Just like when there is yam harvest season! The price(value) of Yam drops compared to the off season!
So in this case if they dash poor people millions and pump those trillions into the economy, the value of the millions drops drastically cos everyone has millions and there would be much money chasing few goods

Ogonimilitant:
Buhari is wicked. Why destroying this instead of giving them to the poor masses if you don't need them.

Seriously? Apparently you don’t understand what money is!!! Presently the inflation rate is 22% despite the low liquidity. Now imagine everyone having millions 😂😂
Y’all would be using tipper load of currency to pay your rent!

Supremos:
Exactly. I think Nigerians should demand for probe

Probe from who ? By who?😂😂😂
Y’all think this people rate you that much?

manutdrichie:

I’m sure you’re losing money already on this car

Shedrill:
Same interior
GLk
Maybach
Gwagon
GLE
ML


Benz has lost it

Almost 2 years and nobody is buying?
I’m sure you’re losing money on the exchange rate

Lol
Jokers!!!
The truth that we all agree on is that till now,
No one has been able to provide any substantial evidence that Peter Obi is corrupt or incompetent! The only grouse the ruling elites have against him is that he’ll probably prevent them from dipping their hands into the cookie jar and prevent them from sharing the National cake amongst themselves.
The unfortunate irony is that some of the oppressed masses that he’s trying to protect and uplift out of their poverty are still the same one’s fighting for their oppressors just because they are of the same tribe or religion! Or they feel they’ll benefit from licking the crumbs off the hand of their oppressors.
I really hope the majority of Nigerians would vote for Peter Obi, cos the shege Una dey see now, we warned you in 2015!!!!

By the way, I’m Yoruba so no need to tag me with any of your childish tribalistic nonsense

JoshTim:
It is not only to interpret laws, it is also to apply the law as spelt out in the constitution.

When you say apply the law, what exactly does that mean?
To apply the law to specific circumstances? To enforce the law?
The power of the supreme courts when relating to other arms of Government in a democracy is Judicial Review!!!!!!!
The supreme courts can declare whether the actions of another arm is constitutional/legal that’s all!

N3TRAL:
Like I said earlier, Buhari lost the war before he even started. No one gives two fvcks about him again.

To the high ranking members of APC, myself inclusive, we've already delivered Tinubu as our new president. We're waiting for his swearing on the 29th of May.

The only people still supporting Buhari in APC today are those that can't deliver their polling unit. Bashir Ahmad couldn't even clinch a primaries ticket. AGF, Malami couldn't get Governorship ticket. Buhari himself couldn't stop Jagaban from winning the primaries despite his envy.

Even Aisha Buhari is not supporting Buhari at the moment.

Buhari has less than 3 months to fvck off Aso Rock .

To the big political players, he technically has one week. All they need to do is deliver Tinubu next week and Buhari's orders will be equivalent to an order made by Obasanjo or Goodluck Jonathan.

To be honest, no APC governor gives a fvck about the dictator at the moment.

Cry me a river😂🤣🤣😂
Why are they all running around like headless 🐔

Busy76:
https://thisweekng.com/2023/02/naira-swap-policy-your-action-can-lead-to-anarchy-festus-keyamo-slams-buhari-on-national-tv-video/

Dude is talking trash 🚮
There is a reason for separation of powers in the constitution! The Federal Government has its powers and is not always answerable to the Supreme Court! The Supreme Court is to interpret the law for the Executive arm and not command the executive branch!

It makes sense that Peter Obi the leading candidate in this election avoid the debate since other serious candidates decided not to honor the debate! What’s the point?
Everyone knows Peter gives interviews more than most of the candidates so it’s not that he’s afraid! It’s just doesn’t make sense to be portrayed as an unserious candidate

Badhguy:
You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor.

Who told you this ignorant statement?
Please stop propagating false information on public platforms!
You have the same chances of having AA, AS or SS on your first or tenth try. Except you medically select the embryo 😒

taylor88:
No be today people begin defect


If we begin count how many people that left APC e go reach 87million

E go reach 100 million sef😂😂🤣

It’s so convenient for you to avoid all the allegations against Your Tinubu but could easily refer to those of other candidates 😂😂😂

ATLIEN2027:
In summary - no need for long story.

Pandora pathological obi tuary is a conman and fraud being perpetuated by the IPOB terrorists. Peter Obi tuary is incompetent and a failed former Governor with nothing to show for 8 yrs of governorship in Anambra.

Nigerians are not dumb, they can see through the charade of the conman. Atiku on the other hand is a known thief and bereaved of any new ideas.

The only candidate that Nigerians respects for his record and his antecedents for new ideas and innovation is BOLA AHMED TINUBU.

We don't need a man that can preach at church on Sundays or an man that can give sermons of Fridays - We need a man that has shown in the past the ability to produce and perform. We need a man that can assemble the best of Nigerian brains to create a government that will improve the lives of ordinary Nigerians.
Everything else is just a waste of time.

Look at their past records and vote wisely, don't be fooled by tribal and religious cacophony.

Bola Ahmed Tinubu is the next President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Why are you crying already? Keep deceiving yourself 😂😂

walefresh3:
Peter obi will only meet the 25% in Lagos but loose woefully in other western States...

Peter obi will lose BAYELSA and head Abit above others in other south south states...

Peter obi will get the required 25 % votes in 12 state of the southern regions... And 5 states in the northern regions most especially North Central...

If u add all these together dey are not upto the the required votes demanded by electoral law...

The law Said u must have 25% in 24 states of the federation... And what I counted up there are not more than 17 states so pls obidient explain how obi is going to win the coming election....

On ATIKU...

ATIKU will get the 25% required votes from 15 northern states...

4 in South South states...

2 in Southwest states and if u add dis together it is not upto the required law VOTES....total 21 states

TINUBU

Tinubu will get the required 25% votes in all 19 northern states base on the APC structures..

3 in South South states

And 6 in South West states ..if u add it to gether u will realize he has already got 28 states that's above the required law votes demanded by electoral law...

ELections are not won by popular votes alone... if u like score 15 million popular votes.. and the other candidate score 12 millions and meetup with the 25% in 24 states of the federation.... The candidate with 12 millions votes will be declare winner...

Obidients ... Dis was what soludo saw and said obi won't WIN... .

TINUBU AND SHETTIMA IS THE NEXT PRESIDENT OF FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA .... FACT

So everyone who is supporting Peter Obi is Igbo?
It’s obvious you’re a tribalistic yoruba man whose hypocrisy reeks to the end of the earth.
Before you reply!
Omo karo-ojire nimi, but we can no longer support mediocrity on the basis of tribe or religion.

Moh247:




Looking at how modern Ibos behave, what Lord Lugard reports wrote about Ibos to the house of Lords, Sarduna's BBC interview, Ijaw and Ikwere Leaders rejection of Eastern region.

Its easy to see why

These are the same people with the OSU caste system

Suddenly you need a vote for Ibo Presidency in Incompetent Obi

You come to SouthWest tell Yorubas they are Yoruba christian and Yoruba Muslim

You go to Kaduna and tell them South and Northern Kaduna are enemies

Use pictures of grieving people who lost relatives to insecurity for mere Politics

Funny enough cowards among them would never see anything wrong, they would like the post and silently disappear



.

Great

Sensational headline. No new information.
Moreover Wike has only one vote . Hopefully he’ll support Peter Obi.

This is an epidemic

Spoken like a wise human! God bless you

placeofallure:
But you are a bully. You are a terrorist! You harass her with hateful words all the time. Do you know what those words were doing to her? Imagine telling her she was your mistake, telling her she's a never-do-well, you made her entirely worthless. She felt less of who she is originally. You killed her with those words. Emotionally, you are an abuser. There's a limit to what we can take. Limits break, limits are exceeded. She has reached her breaking point. Can you undo what you have done?

Do NOT listen to the many people here who will say leave her and let her suffer. Suffer for what exactly? You wronged her. She has tolerated you enough. Marriage is not meant to be endured, it's meant to be enjoyed. What did Kobojunkie tell you, maybe you should borrow a leaf. You need therapy.

I understand probably she's not working and that's a strain on your finances but you have to sit and plan together. Don't take your frustrations out on her. Somebody like me, I'm better off if you take cane and beat me instead of raining abuses on me. I've been like this since I was a child. Words will keep reverberating in your head even when physical pain from cane has left you.

Go and make your marriage work bro, you are the head of the family. Get family members to sit together and principally, you and your wife have a lot to do. Let's rid our society of broken marriages. Good luck to you.

ppogba:
The way people are quick to say " forget about her" on this forum means just one thing. That is, most people commenting are kids. Sorry if my comment offends you.

It’s very obvious that most of them are immatured and very inexperienced about life. Unfortunately those are the people the OP seems to be listening to �

Spaxon:
like the feeling of home activates instantly

I Know right.

Once I hear any Nigerian language that I recognize it brings a smile �
Always a joy to meet Nigerians here

Spaxon:
Alright guys.
Most times I do see Nigerians in Illinois. It's a normal thing.
Especially the Yoruba's.

And then I rarely do hear their conversations. Cus they mostly speak Yoruba.

So just last Thursday, met a couple in the park speaking my Native (Ibibio) dialect.

Well I felt I let an unconscious smile and next thing I walked up to them and we had a very wonderful conversation.
I got invited for Dinner.
It felt so good that evening to actually get that connection feeling.

PS; I know lots of Akwaibomites live in Chicago, but you'll rarely hear them use Ibibio in conversations outside their homes.

So have you got any experiences?
Maybe not outside Nigeria.
It could be within the country and in a different tribe.

Justwise
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

madridguy:
Many of them are facing the reality now but shame won't allow them to come back to Nigeria.

You think so?

Sarkin:
Don't you see 'over' 2000?

Over 2000?
Smh

Which 2000 years?
Mohammed died in 632 AD so that’s 1400 years ago

Sarkin:
I wonder where these idiots saw in the Quran or Hadith that anyone who blasphemes should be killed.

The stupid government needs to educate these animals but they won't.

When Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) was alive, right in his face he was insulted and when his companions asked whether to strike the person dead, the prophet warned against that.

So after over 2000 years why should some illiterate animals in a 3rd world country pick up violence to deal with whatever they perceive as "blasphemy"?

They are so lost they believe they are doing God's work. But even God would reject them.

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