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Oahray:
your last statement... Seriously? It's the OP's duty to take care of the child?

Why?

when i say take care of the child i did not mean full responsibility,what i ment was in the event the friend refuses to take care of his child and the op is called on for assistance by the baby mama it is the duty of the op to assist her.

cos to me see it which ever way the op( in the absence of full details )contributed to the break up.

thou the op friend already had a tendency of straying whether now or later.the op only helped hasten it

The same way you cajoled that your friend to date that wicked.greedy,money hungry lady.go back to him and cajole him to go back to his baby mama citing reasons why his first fruit should not be made to grow with out his father and mother together.

tell him of possibility of the child being labeled a vagabon or bastard cause of his decision to leave the mom.

tell him that any lady that can make a man abandon his family just to be with her can never be honest,reliable,trusted or depended on.

if after you try all your best he still insist on beinv with her it is your duty to take care of that child as much as you can.

Drink slim tea.ini edo is a living witness

nunogomez:
i met her in november last year and we have been dating since then she is in oil and gas while im into telecoms i love her but our problem is money she always brag of having more money than i have but little did she know that i am richer three times than her she let herself know but i had hidden alot of my asset from her but the problem is that she loves to go out with her gals instead of me today is easter sunday we are supposed to meet in a joint but she just called that she is with her gals that she cant make it to where i am waiting for her im confused cos everybody around me love her and they are ready to swear for me if idont marry her

In a football match we have those who are kept on the reserve bench.my brother use your tongue count your teeth.

Is blind bartimus your brother?
cos i fail to see how else to advice you,when you can not advice yourself that you had gold for four years and you did not see on how to go about it.

even your boo get a boo.

sas91:
Pls I need your honest opinion on this matter , i'm a lady with an average height and weighing 70kg, my fiance always complain about my weight and I know I'm trying my best working on iii.But this time around he compared me with my friend and said my friend has a better body structure that i'm not more beautiful as I used to be and that if I want to be his wife then I must Slim down. And so many things I can't even mention.
He finally asked if I am ready to do all he wants.
Chacteristics of an it is what I want so leave it that way man.my fear is did he truly love me?
what if I Slim down now and even get fatter after giving birth to a baby, wld he then hate me so much? i'm confused and scared of going on with the relationship, Pls I need advice from experienced people.

[quote author=sas91 post=44021670]Pls I need your honest opinion on this matter , i'm a lady with an average height and weighing 70kg, my fiance always complain about my weight and I know I'm trying my best working on it.

Very good your working on it atleast for health sake.

But this time around he compared me with my friend and said my friend has a better body structure than I,

Characteristics of a future cheater.

that i'm not more beautiful as I used to be

Loves your body more than your qualities.

and that if I want to be his wife then I must Slim down. And so many things I can't even mention.
Characteristics of a selfish man.

He finally asked if I am ready to do all he wants.
Chacteristics of an it is what I want so leave it that way man.

my fear is did he truly love me?
Only you go ask yourself that question.

what if I Slim down now and even get fatter after giving birth to a baby, wld he then hate me so much? i'm confused and scared of going on with the relationship, Pls I need advice from experienced people.

[quote author=umehmj post=43984342]before now i used to hear people fall into depression but i never knew i will someday find myself in such situation as i am now.

right now im just fed up with everything. i wake up every morning not feeling like going to work. i will be hungry but when i try eating, it makes me sick in the stomach. things i fancy before now irritates me and i think im becoming aggressive too. this night i came back and tried listening to some cool sounds. that made me cry my heart out, leaving me feeling alone and dejected. i called my woman cos i needed someone to talk to (she stays in Lagos) but she hurried me off the call cos she is busy in the kitchen. That's why im here.

please how do i get better? you guys should help me please. I'm loosing it. [/quote


This kind of feelings happens when you feel you have not achieved what you feel you ought to..
or you feel you yet to get to certain stage of your life...or you feel things are not working the way you want them to
...or you have a feeling of being stagnant..or your job does not give you the kind of joy you want from a job...
truth is no one really can understand what anyone is going thru except the one going thru it.
My advice...just pray...tell it all to God the way you would tell it to one you feel truthfully cares for your thought,pour out your heart to him...then let it go...take each DAY A STEP AT A TIME...you will be fine...it is just a phase...it will surely pass...read Isaiah 43 vs 18-19 every morning

The truth is that your girlfriend has only one desire.

TROPHY WIFE!!!!

No right thinking,intelligent,ambitious,industrious, lady putting into consideration her age of 27
will do all what you said she has done.

If you marry her be ready to financially be there for her everything for the rest of your life or be prepared to be nagged
when you don't meet up

osawemwenze:
what i fear is that she might like it more than anything, probably she might be a prostitute, and cheat on me later.

My opinion she married the wrong man.
Faceless or not why would you call your wife a prostitute.
Why marry her when you knew she was a prostitute just cos she gave you"best job" that some men pray for.

johnson232:
Wrong woman spotted..

Most thread created by the op was an advert for a wife back to back from

@32 Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy to

Let's Meet Here If U Are Looking For Your Future Partner

Sexually Active But Still A Virgin @31 And Waiting To Knot It

Why Does She Want My Services Free

Pls Rate My Relationship

If I Have To Forever Be In Love with Just One Woman

Fast Ways To Retrieve Your Emotions From Your Ungrateful Crush

I'm Too Straightforward Like Business To Keep A Relationship

I Don't Get Nigerian Women's Green Light Clearly

at op i think you should focus more on being the right man
that way you would attract the right woman cos it seems to me you do not really know what you actually want.

The bible.
Condemns sex outside the bedrock of marriage calls it fornication and a sin before God.

The world
Says why get married without test running the product.calls it sex enjoying be mere flesh.

My heart says.
Abstain from sex.cos the bible says and the two flesh shall become one.how many men do i become one with if i continue to test run before marriage.


So who would you rather obey.
God.the world or yourself.

I hope you have written your will.
I hope you have made peace with all.
I hope you have printed your obituary and brought you casket.
Finally hope you have drugged a grave you.
cos you definitely will need all this mentioned after your marriage to her.

09094981201.lagos

Well Well the fact she even told you the truth makes her a very good lady.

Dating you means zeroing out other guys that would come her way,


and seeing she no ready for serious ish,she let you go.so be grateful.

Btruth:
move on? Move on with his life or with the weeding?

Move on with his life
Personally there are some things that can not be compromised in a friendship,relationship and expecially marriage and that is TRUST.
It is trust that makes a woman marry a guy who has potential hoping and praying that tomorrow will be bright.
It is trust that makes a couple to still seek God in the face of years of fruitlessness hoping they will bring forth their child.
It was trust that moses had in God and his word that made him go to rescue the Israelites.
According to the op.He might never trust her again.
So why fool himself by marrying her?
He has the option of erasing all her wrongs in his heart and go ahead with the wedding or call fux a new date say 6months for them both to re discover each other true self. all my opinion.

JESUS
Cos he gave up his life for me that i may have life.

move on
The most essential commodity which is trust has been broken.

No need to marry.just employ as your manager.why you say.
I'm capable of managing your assests provided you pay me a reasonable salary.
I wont defraud or swindle your money.
I will grow your investments.
Gosh i need a job.lobatan

As a man thinketh so he is.....

Yours wasn't a failed relationship.

Yours was a choice.

You choose what was most important for you.

So live with it and move on. start noticing all the dimples,laughs,great dress sense,fake smiles,nice legs on pencil skirt, fake lashes,mary kay,bm pro, and co faces,well made up pouted lips but nothing beats a good heart,a caring soul,a die hard thick and thin woman.

Look out!!!!All that glitters ain't gold.

It gets on me when people don't know what they truly want.rather they prefer to jump from one relationship to another all in the name of dating.
The issues that resulted in the breakup between you and your ex has it been discussed and settled?if not be prepared to break up a second time

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mhaki:
Where can I buy Blueberry fruits in Lagos? Specifically on the mainland.

shoprite or osata supermarket in allen

LordBailish:
Instead of you to focus on your own life and let it be a testimony, you are busy waiting for others testimony. That's how some of you use your brain in reverse.

Quite harsh.There are other subtle ways to pass your message across.

Straightforward