Edge247: Labor party has become an orphanage for politicians that are homeless- media practitioner and Presidential candidate, Omoyele Sowore, throws jabs at Labor party presidential candidate, Peter Obi
It could have been this youth causing an awakening of the minds of Nigerian youths with a desire to take governance seriously but alas... He missed it somewhere along the line. Arrogance has always been the achille's heel of youths and Sowore isn't innocent of this. He should face his campaign quietly and not patronise anybody.
[quote author=NaijaCoverBlog post=113657081]A Father-Of-Three, Who Celebrated his wife on Facebook less than a week ago, has been accused of biting off her nose in her father's house.
King Felix Nero and wife Queen Nero have been married for 5 years and have 3 kids together but it is alleged that Felix Nero has been abusive and also unfaithful.
Last Year, it was alleged that he had an affair with his wife's cousin, Ejiro Praise. At the time, the news went viral on many Warri blogs.
Due to the alleged domestic violence and infidelity, Queen moved with her kids back to her parent's house in Asaba, Delta State.
Nero reportedly pleaded with many people, including social media influencers, to beg her to return to their home.
He also posted her on her birthday on June 3 and lavished her with sweet words.
She reportedly promised friends who pleaded with her that she will return to her matrimonial home on Saturday, June 4, but her husband Felix Nero visited her on the same day, allegedly caused trouble in her father's house and bit off her nose.
A Graphic Video shows Queen Nero crying after the attack, Reports.
"See wetin Felix do me o," she said in the video while showing her disfigured nose.
Her kids can also be heard crying in the background and calling for their "mummy".
The Video caused outrage and led people to call Felix out.
Felix has now taken to Facebook to write a suicide note.
He asked the public to forgive him for everything and told his 3 kids that "even in death" he will still love them.
He told the public not to judge him as he alone knows the pain and depression he's been suffering for years.
Social media followers are now calling on his wife to put their differences aside and seek out her husband to prevent him from commiting suicide.
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Husband King Felix Nero bites off wife Queen Nero's nose after she moved to her father's house to avoid domestic violence. pic.twitter.com/JDJdqQ9Pbl
NLElder: First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.
I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.
The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.
The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.
We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .
All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.
After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.
I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.
So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.
So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.
I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."
After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..
All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.
She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.
So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.
The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.
We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.
Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.
Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.
Its really painful finding someone you can call your "soul mate" after marriage. The truth remains that what you shouldn't eat should not be sniffed in the first place...but the harm has been done. You are in love with her but then you need to ask yourself if you are ready for a second wife! If not, do not be selfish and let her go: with time you will surely heal! Wish you well...
I don't know why but this video made me laugh. God come to your rescue, he prays, power belongs to God... Politics is a dirty game: he who decides to play it should prepare for whatever. The rich use money to oppress and still want to use social media to curry sympathy. It is a simple thing, you are invited by the police: honour the invitation. Isn't the former Governor of Anambra a human being? Did he allow himself to be humiliated this way? If only Efcc crowns its activities with convictions and not allow its cases to suffer technicalities.... If only!
When last did you hear a girl was stoned to death for insulting Jesus.
Although I know the girl never insulted Mohammed. That's the typical Islamic fanatic's modus operandi
Dear Sir, There is really no need for name calling. If you do not understand a post, you are at liberty to shift farrrrr to another and make your post on that which you do! My reference to humanity losing it refers to the lawyers. Cowardice? If I hear...
I saw the video of that Christland girl’s mother online; you know, as a mother, I felt sad for her. Especially when I read that they suspended her daughter.
But something in me said, “hmmnnn, the children we are raising these days are “wiser” than us their parents. I said ‘wiser’ because that is what they think of themselves.
A few days after, when I now saw the video of the small girl that was said to have been raped…I said, oh, these children will not kill us, o��. This is what my own daughter did to me too. How I wish the girl’s mother had just quietly sought help for her child because now we all know the girl isn’t the little innocent the mother thought she was. I am not judging o but everyone who saw it say the girl isn’t as innocent as we think. My own daughter did me the same shege!
Children of these days? Forget them, they can fool you into the well, cover you up and not even blink.
If I have an opportunity to talk to the girl’s mother, I will just tell her to keep quiet, she should learn from me.
Few years ago, my daughter, she’s my niece actually; her mother died a long time ago and I have raised her since she was six years old…so she is my child. She was just 15 when this incident happened.
I sent her to one of these Model Colleges in Lagos state.
She was in boarding school. That school didn’t even allow phones or any of this yanmayanma that private schools allow, they are like the old Unity Schools of our days. That’s why I thought, she would be well disciplined and focus on her studies…
She was in SS1. They resumed that day and whenever they resume, the school insisted they returned in their house wears. This was way before Covid when parents and relatives were allowed to follow the returning students into their hostels and help them settle in.
That day, I went to drop my daughter in school…of course she was in her green check house wear. I went with my son, who helped her carry her box and bucket to the front of her hostel. I was at the bursar’s office, settling the outstanding fees and showing receipts for other payments I had made for books… you know that sort of thing.
My son came back to meet me on the queue at the Bursar’s and said his sister was settled…they call each other brother and sister even though they are cousins. Anyway. By the time I finished because there were lots of parents and guardians too who came to settle financial issues with the bursar, it was late. So I told my son to go tell his sister I would come visit in two weeks’ time. I also couldn’t even see her before leaving because it was about 6.30pm and the bell was ringing for students to go into their hostels for head count. The school always did head count every evening and especially upon resumption.
Many of the students still loitering around the premises ran into the hostels to be counted.
We left that day and I thought I had done my job as a mother.
Three days later, that was on a Wednesday, I was called by my daughter’s house mistress asking for my daughter.
I said, “Huh? What are you talking about?”
She said my daughter hadn’t resumed school and that she was wondering what had happened to her!
I said, “Haba! Are you dreaming? I brought her to school on Sunday, she resumed with the rest of her mates on Sunday!”
House mistress said my daughter hadn’t been seen in school for three days and though her bed was always made, she hadn’t been physically seen!
I almost ran mad as I raced to the school that day.
My mind was in a turmoil, I drove her to school myself, and she was checked into the hostel by the house mistresses’ assistant, where could she be?
We got to school, lo and behold, upon speaking to me and realizing something was off, the house mistress had summoned my daughter’s close friends to her office. She wanted to know who had been laying her bed and fooling her staff. Because you see, a laid bed means the child is around, right? So they had been laying her bed, making the hostel staff believe she was around. Empty beds or unlaid beds meant the child hadn’t returned to school.
She called three of my daughter’s closest friends and asked them where my daughter was.
They didn’t tell her, they kept silent but she delivered well intended backhand slaps and they began to confess like witches…she then took them all to the principal’s office, that was where I met them.
The girls were still crying when I got there. They confessed that my daughter had met one boy on Facebook who invited her to come visit him at one hotel. He had called her the following day to meet him at a certain place outside the school gate.
Unfortunately for us, they didn’t know the name of the hotel. They said when I dropped her in school wearing her house wear, she had gone into the hostel and changed to mufti. I had no idea she packed mufti in her box because you see, I packed the box myself. I did so not because I even suspected she would go to school with contraband, (the school allows provisions but there are certain items they forbid like phone, etc); they checked their boxes upon resumption. So I packed her box because when she packed the box, it was so jumbled up, I had to remove everything to repack neatly and it was in my presence her brother dragged the box into the car…so you see these children can fool you.
Anyway, that’s how we began to look for my daughter.
From hotel to hotel, we begged to search, some proprietors allowed us search, many said they didn’t have anyone that looked like her as guest. We went with her photo. Oh yes, we went first to the police before I began searching with my son and another relative of ours.
For two days, we got nothing. I didn’t sleep, I didn’t eat because I believed in my heart my child was deceived by some monster she saw on the internet.
But, my child wasn’t the little innocent I thought she was after all!! Ase, she had been chatting with this man and agreed to come and visit him. She had changed to mufti in the evening and gone out of the school gate disguised as a cleaner in the school!
Meanwhile, as far I knew then, she had no phone. I didn’t buy her a phone because I just couldn’t even afford it; I gave her an old one I had used before but she told me it couldn’t do internet and so she dropped it…I had no idea she had another phone!
Do you know how we found her?
On Friday, early in the morning, around 5.30 am, the evil boy she went to meet dumped her naked in front of the school gate!
Yes.
They had raped her, used her…it was a painful sight. She had red blotches all over her body. They were many boys who raped her over and over again…for five days. She was barely alive when they dumped her at their school gate. Maybe they had heard police was looking for her, I don’t know.
The gate man said he heard a sound, like some crying feebly at the gate, he opened the gate and saw a naked girl…that was my own child. The child I sent to school telling myself she was safe in school! I would swear my daughter was well behaved. Quiet, didn’t even go out when on holidays. Many times I forced her to go do some deliveries for me; she preferred being indoors, watching Tv.
When they identified her as their student, she was able to say her name before she fainted again. They called me, I went to the school and took her straight to a nearby hospital.
They admitted her and began to treat her.
A few days later, when she had regained her strength, she told me what happened.
She was begging me and crying saying she had learned her lessons and would never deceive me again. I couldn’t even scold her because seeing her condition, I saw she had suffered enough. Her punishment was all over her body. She suffered several lacerations on her vagina, one broken rib, she said they were beating her as they raped her; her face was badly swollen and red with blood, her hands and feet had been tied during the acts… and I knew a great lesson had been learned.
What else was there to say to her?
She spent three weeks in the hospital after which the school suspended her for that term… Oho! I don’t blame the school. The story had gone out that she was setting a bad example.
Ha!
She herself saw hell that period. Walking and urinating was hell for some time; thankfully she didn’t get pregnant because that would have meant she would’ve had to stop school entirely.
But I thank God today. I made her go back to finish school. She was ashamed and didn’t want to go back, I said, “what did you say?”
She repeated but is just one year behind her mates and she is determined to do better. Sometimes, experience truly is the best teacher, now my daughter mentors younger girls and advises them against online predators and not telling their parents where they were going…
Today, I’m proud of my daughter, we both “bleeped up", but like that musician, Black Sherif said, “Of course, I bleeped up…Who never bleeped up, hands in the air, no hands?” # DEAR PARENTS, PLEASE LET'S LEARN TOGETHER. OUR CHILDREN SHALL MAKE US PROUD & NOT BRING SHAME TO US IN JESUS NAME . AMEN. (written by Peju Akande and based on true story)
A beautiful write up. The world will be a better place when we all own up to our mistakes.
flexxyworld: The case was being alleged to be a case of rape, you know how you gender tries to use rape or molestation as a blackmail/sympathy. The video only gave more credence to what the situation really was. That said, I think upbringing and child parenting is very key, regardless of gender. Now is not the best to look for who is more wayward or who to blame. Everyone is to blame. The parent, the society, the morals , the school and all.
The way people use "rape" nowadays is a mockery of victims who are really raped and live with the trauma. People should just accept they are wayward and choose to indulge in sex with their eyes wide open; without any form of influence.
The Nigerian Police has a way of muddling up gender based violence cases...most cases would not get to the point of murder if gender based violence cases are treated with empathy by the police at the initial stage of complaint by victims.
Denique: As it should. Their negligence caused them that. That said, can the media just stop with the rape narrative cos clearly no one was raped.
it was a move calculated to draw widespread attention/sympathy towards the girl as the victim. The truth about taking an issue to social media court is that parties will be dragged in every possible angle like a Tiger Generator. The painful thing is the Internet never forgets!
chatinent: Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?
Who should we blame?
Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”
They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!
And so? That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.
There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!
Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!
What else?!
Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!
Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!
Back to Chrisland... Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!
Should Chrisland be locked down?
Why?
Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.
Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?
To stain the image of the school? The parents? The girl?
They tried to leverage those! They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!
They tried to allow the matter die in the school!
Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video! That's what Chrisland were protecting!
Do you know?
Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!
There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex! But don't they say majority wins the vote? Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.
The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.
But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”
Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.
The parents? Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!
The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.
Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!
PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.
Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her! The kids? Shame on those kids! Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!
Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!
And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!
Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!
Everyone is to blame...most especially parents who think paying crazy school fees takes care of their responsibilities of instilling moral values in their kids. Charity begins at home; train up a child in the way he should go: Teachers are also parents and have their responsibility to their own children.
Kingpin1000: When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him. The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved. No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.
GreatAxeMan: The 13 year old boys are the perpetrators and the 10 year old girl is the victim. Judging from the video, it's obvious that they have groomed her because that was not the first time she was abused by those boys.
it is a little bit difficult to determine who the perpetrator is in this case. one of the boys even complained he couldn't sleep because of the shaking bed. investigation needs to be carried out...parents are very quick to run to social media seeking sympathy when most of these things can be avoided...a child does not get spoilt overnight.
Jennyclay: Modified: I just watched the video. That wasn't a rape case.
she wasn't rape. It's poor parenting and school negligence at work here. Although it's so sad and embarrassing.
@TheStakeHolder, I'm so sorry. Please accept my apology. The headline should also be corrected because that wasn't a gang-rape case.
*just saw the video...I find it hard to see that girl as a mere 10 year old #smh she seemed so in control. parents have a lot to do and exposure to porn and social media isn't even helping matters!
Uprightness100: Irrespective of how the world changes, The WORD of GOD will not Change because of a Changing World.
Being a Christian, Gospel musician, Pastor, Prayer machine, Bishop or whatever does not Exempt you from Disater if you go outside GOD'S will or GOD'S plan. Once you choose your own way, it does not Matter who you are, you will face the Consequences.
These are the Facts of Marriage from the Word of GOD.
GOD'S Standard of marriage is One man one wife.
GOD Hates Divorce. If you happen to come to a point where you say your spouse has done this or that and you cannot Forgive or you are going, you must understand that remarrying Under anyguise is fornication and Adultery.
Only Death Permits one to remarry. Any other remarry is Immorality, Fornication and Adultery.
GOD is the Institutor of Marriage. Conciously involve GOD in your Choice of Partner. If you are Honest with GOD, HE will Direct u. GOD speaks! GOD leads! GOD directs. If your don't hear GOD, better not to marry.
God hates divorce. ...the bible didn't say God hates the person who divorces right?
Dorwadora: Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?
Here's the thing.
Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.
I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.
Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?
Some questions already have answers: the wife of your married boss freaking out when she finds out you are cooking for him...right or wrong?
Niece: Nigerian crossdresser, Okuneye Idris Olanrewaju known popularly as Bobrisky has reacted to a bill by the House of Representatives to prescribe sanctions for cross-dressing in Nigeria.
Bobrisky in his post on Instagram said he is not a crossdresser but a transgender.
even with all the surgeries He can't take a single picture without filters, his doctors should look into making him physically presentable to appear plainly as a woman na ..abeg he should let us hear word!
Many lawyers lack conscience. This can only be his defence lawyer's strategy to utilise any available loophole in the case. Empathy should be a word for human beings abeg.
TunezMediaBlog: Davido feast on his words following oppression from fans as they criticized him for blaming alcohol on his excessive spending cum clout chasing.
He once bragged about his plans to buy the homer chain but turned renegade after Drake revealed the price he bought it.
just as buying a Lambo to be driven round the streets of Lagos State is seen as a dumb investment by some people! one man's meat is another's poison abegi
[quote author=Kwanza post=111362132][/quote]My only question is why would the dog allow itself to be stolen with the car na? these dogs with names self...Bingo for no allow thieves carry am jor
being a single mum is tough and having no form of sexual release of stress is tougher! in my opinion: to stick to your resolve to "keep" yourself, you will need the right people around you...both sexes. it is advisable to avoid people who do not understand the challenge you face, who might want to test your resolve or push you beyond your limits. Of course there will be cold nights, days your hormones would be on overdrive and times when your body will say "kilode" but know one thing...my dear you are human! and if perchance it happens that you fall off track, don't beat yourself up, you set your standard and should not sacrifice yourself for falling. Be the judge of you; God understands that there will be days when we fall hence...Grace. Any advice to go back to your ex husband because of sex is total B.S p.s. ...talking from experience.
Moz22: Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg
like you rightly said...there's no excuse for what you did. you are already remorseful so no need crying over spilt milk. seek your mother's forgiveness; no one is perfect.
Graceihotu: My question is "what do guys really want" I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding. I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
The honest truth is...he wasn't meant for you. if he was then you won't be facing this. you can cry/wail, it will soothe you for a while but you have to face reality that it would change nothing. Relax...yours will definitely not pass you by.
ExAngel007: A jilted man has taken to Facebook to call out his girlfriend who dumped him to marry a soldier.
Uncle Bless in his Facebook post, claimed this occurred after he rented an apartment and set up a business for her. The heartbroken Ghanaian man also alleged that after he questioned her on her relationship with the soldier, she claimed "he's like a brother to her".
He wrote:
You are getting married today wow that’s beautiful everyone will wish you congratulations and I will also wish you some. Is it not the same boy I ask you about when we were dating you said he is nothing to you, you quoted he is like a brother? ( brother) everyone won’t know we were dating because you hide the relationship from everyone and let everyone knows am nothing and can’t date you right before you accept my proposal we’re you there alone, your friend Roberta was aware or not aware, you let everyone know her as a bad girl so we all can hate her right.
You bill me of sorts of things from Rent, money for business, everything when you attack spiritually who did you bill, any little money I get you to have it in your account, you told me you got a job at Aflao so we need to rent. you got that money within few days, you later said your previous place at sogakofe your bill needed to be renewed I did that with my poverty money.
You let everyone knows we are not dating, after draining me down you just came to ask me who knows I rented for you and why should someone knows I rent for you. You block me wow because you finished ur mission of draining the poor guy down, I don’t wear uniform right so you need someone who wears some, and those who will attack me am waiting for you.
An ungrateful human being, today is your wedding day, wow all the guys you dupe are aware right. If I talk much I will offend God but keep in mind the guy you duped and feels he is born n stupid guy is alive and make sure you live a life well because the curse all the guys are preparing won’t stop hunting you. it’s funny everyone seeing you wearing an immigration uniform. I don’t want to talk about that because it’s part of you, you can lie lie lie more than everyone on this earth:: you Rubby today is your wedding day right May God bless the union okay I will come back and post all our chat here for updates.
"Rubby today is your wedding day right May God bless the union okay I will come back and post all our chat here for updates" ...if he post those said chats, will the union still be blessed. ?
The Nigerian singer, Habeeb Okikiola popularly known as Portable Omolalomi, is set to be a father for the 3rd time as he is expecting a child with his 2nd baby mama.
Recall that the Zazu star, Portable already has two sons, which he revealed are from two different women
Omobewaji Oluwaferanmi who is his second baby mama took to her Instagram page to share a cute video with her man, Portable, while flaunting a noticeable baby bump.
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he should go back to driving school and stop dui... Qed!
but know one thing...my dear you are human! and if perchance it happens that you fall off track, don't beat yourself up, you set your standard and should not sacrifice yourself for falling. Be the judge of you; God understands that there will be days when we fall hence...Grace. Any advice to go back to your ex husband because of sex is total B.S
