Jashub:
Sorry to say this, but I don't believe in that rubbish. Yes, God talks to people on a normal day, but when it comes to marriage, there's seriously no biblical evidence to support such.

And for those who claim to have heard God saying "this is my wife ", we can't really be sure if it was God speaking . After all, we've had a number of marriages that came crashing after such pronouncements were made. A great example would probably be Chris Oyakhilome

Aniluvreal:
I wanted attending my church today, but it has been raining cat and dog here since morning, thus spoiling my plan of going to my church as my church is a bit far from where I lived. So I decided to changed the plan and attend one new church like that in my street that is close to my house.

On getting there, I was welcome very well as that's the tradition of churches when they see a new comer. The usher gave me a seat and I happened to sat close to one beautiful lady. The lady was so beautiful, I must give it to her. Her shape, ebony skin color, her height and the little cleavage she showed, all these were on point.


It was time to sing the hymn, sadly, the hymn didn't go around, so you have to sharewith your neighbor , so I happened to share with this beautiful lady. The hymn conductor mentioned the hymn No, the lady opened it , I get close to her to see the wordings very well so I can as well sing it too.

Here comes the shocker. Immediately the Organist finished tuning the hymn, the congregation start singing, it was at this point the girl finished me with endless foul smell that oozed out of her mouth when she opened her mouth to sing, I try to bear it and pretend as nothing happened but I couldn't , so the best thing to do was for me to look elsewhere, even at that, the odour was still hitting me so hard and so badly. It got so bad that I developed stomach ache at the spot in the church immediately. The pains got so bad, that i couldn't concentrate again in the church, so I pretended as if I had a call, picked my Bible and headed straight to the door, when got outside I exhale the breathe of freedom and headed straight to my house.


I feel pity for her, because it's obvious she's not aware that she had bad breath, and I didn't have the gut to tell her, because I feel , she'd be so embarrassed. Poor beautiful girl.


My stomach is still paining me because of what I inhaled today in church, I pray I get well soon.

Aniluvreal:
I wanted attending my church today, but it has been raining cat and dog here since morning, thus spoiling my plan of going to my church as my church is a bit far from where I lived. So I decided to changed the plan and attend one new church like that in my street that is close to my house.

On getting there, I was welcome very well as that's the tradition of churches when they see a new comer. The usher gave me a seat and I happened to sat close to one beautiful lady. The lady was so beautiful, I must give it to her. Her shape, ebony skin color, her height and the little cleavage she showed, all these were on point.


It was time to sing the hymn, sadly, the hymn didn't go around, so you have to sharewith your neighbor , so I happened to share with this beautiful lady. The hymn conductor mentioned the hymn No, the lady opened it , I get close to her to see the wordings very well so I can as well sing it too.

Here comes the shocker. Immediately the Organist finished tuning the hymn, the congregation start singing, it was at this point the girl finished me with endless foul smell that oozed out of her mouth when she opened her mouth to sing, I try to bear it and pretend as nothing happened but I couldn't , so the best thing to do was for me to look elsewhere, even at that, the odour was still hitting me so hard and so badly. It got so bad that I developed stomach ache at the spot in the church immediately. The pains got so bad, that i couldn't concentrate again in the church, so I pretended as if I had a call, picked my Bible and headed straight to the door, when got outside I exhale the breathe of freedom and headed straight to my house.


I feel pity for her, because it's obvious she's not aware that she had bad breath, and I didn't have the gut to tell her, because I feel , she'd be so embarrassed. Poor beautiful girl.


My stomach is still paining me because of what I inhaled today in church, I pray I get well soon.

Your written English is enough mouth odour (blunder). I can relate.

immortalcrown:
Chai! Men dey kill women. Women dey kill men. Men dey kill fellow men. Women dey kill fellow women. This world sef.

Barrister026:
it's so annoying children of nowadays thinks because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are. they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

my kid bro who i single handledly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he his a father of a 5year old boy and another one its on the way. well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days... the recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. discussion we having one thing lent to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this year's. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? why would I.

yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him... before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.

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CorrectBizWoman:
I'm 27, my husband is 39 and we have 3 kids together. My husband is a very good man and has made this marriage journey very easy for me. It's true what they say that no marriage is perfect. My only problem with him is low libido resulting from putting unnecessary pressure on himself. Every other thing about him is 100%.

He looks at his friends that has hotels, hostels and so on and start comparing them with him. This actually started 3 years ago when our last born was 1. We are doing great financially but he wants more.

Last night, I tried initiating sex again and he began about how he's not in the mood because of money matter again. I just tire. We live in our own house, have a house with tenants, investments here and there, still my husband is not taking things easy.

I doubt he's cheating. I have access to his phone whenever I want. He don't hide it and has no sneaky character. I might be wrong though but I highly doubt that.

Just ordinary gisting with him, I'll be soooo Hot and wet. Even as I'm typing this I'm so in the mood. I think about sex with him all day long. It's crazy.

He's not like this before. Though he's not the sex type but it has gotten so bad. I'm so frustrated with him. I don tire.

I need mature suggestions on how to go about this minus cheating. He's too good to be cheated on.

shantti:


I know of an Igbo lady who is so lazy, doesn't clean her husband's house, cooks watery food, have no job, all she does is to eat and eat and fart out loudly. So going by your logic, the husband has been defrauded, right

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LaPrimero:
My Brother got gainfully employed mid 2021 due to the efforts of my parents. He had been struggling with a 10k job since he finished service before he got this well paying job. Everything was going well as he started well at his working place and was even getting applauded by his boss and higher ranking staffs as he was taken as someone of great promise. He was also in good times with my parents.

Around November last year, he sighted this chubby fine girl and became restless. He even said "she is the one". He hustled for the girl's number and soon started something with her. She accepted his proposal the moment he asked. Our Dad told him it was too early for all that and he needed to focus on building his still budding career but he turned a deaf ear. He soon started lavishing funds on the girl to my parents consternation. He even started discussing intimate details about our family with the girl within a short frame of time. Around January this year, Matters came to a head and started being utterly disrespectful to our parents. He even cut off Everyone that tried to advice him on the folly of the "relationship". He basically became a stranger to the family and his friends all because of a girl. The girl was so demanding, Manipulative and infuriating. The worst is that the girl was a serial girlfriend, having dated at least 8 men before him. She was a so called Dj and her whole life was all about parties and fleshpots. My brother on the other hand came from a strict Christian family and abandoned all the values he identified with because of the girl. The only thing he got from the relationship was premium billing.


The Crux of the matter now is that he went bankrupt trying to fund her extravagant lifestyle and even went into debts. He borrowed money from 7 different loan apps and they have been on his neck. We have been able to handle 3 of the loans and some of the remaining loan companies are even threatening to post his photos on social media and Newspapers as a fraudster and also blacklist his bvn.

He has been getting troubling phone calls from the loan apps and is basically ruined both mentally and physically. He looks so lean this days and has become humble to my parents and even to me his younger brother. The family he rejected and refused to even give one Kobo in his heydays is now trying by all possible means to rescue him from the slump as we are his only backbone . The girl in question does not even know what he is going through.

How do we rescue the foolish young man as he still isn't ready to fully give up the girl. A friend told him he can't even help him get back on his feet because it will be like pouring water into a leaking bucket. While I was at school this dude hardly sent me or my younger ones anything but was sending a sizeable amount to the girl monthly because he was "in love". I really need helpful suggestions from the house on this matter. Mods help me get this to fp

POSmecrhant:
I'm currently working in fintech as sales person with a six digit salary.

I have won several award both regionally and nationwide in various positions held in the company. But don't know why other companies keep turning down my application, because I have a plan to switch job but not in a rush though.

Some of the HR will even chat me on LinkedIn and go incommunicado afterwards, while some will tell me the have seen a more suitable candidate.

This declining in my applications could this has to do with my course of study ?

Because I read Computer science and I'm in sales company for like 6 years now

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yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg