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Digitalfinga:
Am tired of teaching job with a peanut pay.pls if u have any good paying job pls connect me.am a graduate of agric dept.whether the job is odd or white colar job or managerial job or hotel job i will accept it because am physically strong..am currently in enugu and am ready to relocate.

Vulturereloaded:
What will be the implications if Osibanjo joins labour party as VP?

I assume he was elected, and several other elected governors have left the party they were elected in.

blessykina:
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FOJEM:
30k. Ready buyer.

Ninobraw:
I lost my dad about 8 months ago. He retired from service 2014 and has been paid his gratuity, and was receiving his pension before his death.
What entitlements is he due now after death for the next of kin to pursue, and what process would you advise to achieve it?

LoveUdie:
We've been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”

Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no sex, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No sex for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.

After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all of her rules had to do with sex. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months. What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps were due to sex and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have sex. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have sex only when she wants and since she doesn’t want sex often, we can go for several weeks without sex. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary. So, when her goodness comes and she finally opens the way for me to do it, she will tell me, “Just get on with it and leave me alone.

If I kiss her, bue! If I don’t kiss her, bue! “Don’t touch me here. Why are you going side by side, can’t you go straight? Hey…hey…hey, don’t touch my breast, it’s paining me. You’re keeping long, what medicine did you drink?”
She’ll nag throughout the action. Sometimes I don’t even cum. I’ll just get off her and have my peace of mind. It’s been like this for the past two years since we got married. I’m not complaining. Recently, she brought up the topic of childbirth and I told her, “Do you know how many times people have sex before a child can result?

You are here giving me rules and yet want to have a child?” She said, “Alice got married four months ago and she’s pregnant. How many times did they do it? We’ve been doing it for two years and nothing has happened. Go and look for medicine before I give up on you.”
Every marriage has some troubles. She’s my trouble, I understand. What I don’t understand is her attitude towards the problems she herself has caused. I was there one day when she told me, “I spoke to my doctor friend. She said we’ve been having sex unnecessarily that’s why the pregnancy is not coming so we should have sex only when I’m ovulating. From now onwards, you won’t waste your sperms on me. Store them. Grow them. Make them potent so that when you hit one, a child will come. You hear?”

Brothers and sisters, how many times do women ovulate in a month? At least once, right? So why haven’t we had sex for three months? I want an answer so I went to her, “You mean you haven’t ovulated for the past three months?” She said, “I’m tracking it with an app. So far, the app hasn’t said that I’m ovulating.” Eiii! So now it’s an app that’s going to determine when to have sex and when not to?
Dear people of God, that’s my wife for you. No husband will sit and stare while things go wrong in his marriage so I reported the issue to her parents. They called her home and talked to her extensively. Her father called to tell me, “We’ve spoken sense to her. The way I’ve bashed her, I don’t think she’ll come home and do that again.” The day she got home she said, “Shame on you. You ran to my parents and reported me to them? Are you a kid? All because of sex? I thought you are a man. A true man doesn’t need plenty of sex before pregnancy. They hit one, bam! and the child is there.

You want it every day. I can’t.”
Three months. Maybe it sounds very short so let me calculate it into days. I haven’t had sex for over ninety days! I’ve received three salaries without sex, yet she accuses me of not being potent because we haven’t had a child. I’ve reported it to her parents twice and each time, they talk to her. The last time her father told me, “If I have to come and supervise it, I will come there myself. What kind of silly attitude is that?” Even her father is angry on my behalf. At this point, I will be right to take any drastic decision that I want. One day, I will pack her things and send her to her parents. Before she comes back to the marriage, she will sign a bond of good behavior and sign to have sex four times in a week before I will take her back.
A wife doesn’t live her life just to traumatize her husband’s life. Or I should send her packing right away?

phemmyfour:
Report them to the appropriate authority

Spray:
Had job offer... But there's a part of contract that's making me so scared. It says employee should not join any other company doing similar things or selling similar products for the period of one year, after terminating his/her appointment. Is this not a modern form of slavery?

Spray:
Had job offer... But there's a part of contract that's making me so scared. It says employee should not join any other company doing similar things or selling similar products for the period of one year, after terminating his/her appointment. Is this not a modern form of slavery?

Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her

I sent you an email.

Cypress042:
That's the crucial reason you should have your pvc Mhan. We all pray for a good Nigeria and i believe we all gon make it happen.

Cook better food chop abeg, na man you be

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Convince me that he does exist..

doggedfighter:
He doesn't exist so has absolutely nothing to do with marriage.


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Jashub:
Sorry to say this, but I don't believe in that rubbish. Yes, God talks to people on a normal day, but when it comes to marriage, there's seriously no biblical evidence to support such.

And for those who claim to have heard God saying "this is my wife ", we can't really be sure if it was God speaking . After all, we've had a number of marriages that came crashing after such pronouncements were made. A great example would probably be Chris Oyakhilome

Aniluvreal:
I wanted attending my church today, but it has been raining cat and dog here since morning, thus spoiling my plan of going to my church as my church is a bit far from where I lived. So I decided to changed the plan and attend one new church like that in my street that is close to my house.

On getting there, I was welcome very well as that's the tradition of churches when they see a new comer. The usher gave me a seat and I happened to sat close to one beautiful lady. The lady was so beautiful, I must give it to her. Her shape, ebony skin color, her height and the little cleavage she showed, all these were on point.


It was time to sing the hymn, sadly, the hymn didn't go around, so you have to sharewith your neighbor , so I happened to share with this beautiful lady. The hymn conductor mentioned the hymn No, the lady opened it , I get close to her to see the wordings very well so I can as well sing it too.

Here comes the shocker. Immediately the Organist finished tuning the hymn, the congregation start singing, it was at this point the girl finished me with endless foul smell that oozed out of her mouth when she opened her mouth to sing, I try to bear it and pretend as nothing happened but I couldn't , so the best thing to do was for me to look elsewhere, even at that, the odour was still hitting me so hard and so badly. It got so bad that I developed stomach ache at the spot in the church immediately. The pains got so bad, that i couldn't concentrate again in the church, so I pretended as if I had a call, picked my Bible and headed straight to the door, when got outside I exhale the breathe of freedom and headed straight to my house.


I feel pity for her, because it's obvious she's not aware that she had bad breath, and I didn't have the gut to tell her, because I feel , she'd be so embarrassed. Poor beautiful girl.


My stomach is still paining me because of what I inhaled today in church, I pray I get well soon.

Aniluvreal:
I wanted attending my church today, but it has been raining cat and dog here since morning, thus spoiling my plan of going to my church as my church is a bit far from where I lived. So I decided to changed the plan and attend one new church like that in my street that is close to my house.

On getting there, I was welcome very well as that's the tradition of churches when they see a new comer. The usher gave me a seat and I happened to sat close to one beautiful lady. The lady was so beautiful, I must give it to her. Her shape, ebony skin color, her height and the little cleavage she showed, all these were on point.


It was time to sing the hymn, sadly, the hymn didn't go around, so you have to sharewith your neighbor , so I happened to share with this beautiful lady. The hymn conductor mentioned the hymn No, the lady opened it , I get close to her to see the wordings very well so I can as well sing it too.

Here comes the shocker. Immediately the Organist finished tuning the hymn, the congregation start singing, it was at this point the girl finished me with endless foul smell that oozed out of her mouth when she opened her mouth to sing, I try to bear it and pretend as nothing happened but I couldn't , so the best thing to do was for me to look elsewhere, even at that, the odour was still hitting me so hard and so badly. It got so bad that I developed stomach ache at the spot in the church immediately. The pains got so bad, that i couldn't concentrate again in the church, so I pretended as if I had a call, picked my Bible and headed straight to the door, when got outside I exhale the breathe of freedom and headed straight to my house.


I feel pity for her, because it's obvious she's not aware that she had bad breath, and I didn't have the gut to tell her, because I feel , she'd be so embarrassed. Poor beautiful girl.


My stomach is still paining me because of what I inhaled today in church, I pray I get well soon.

Your written English is enough mouth odour (blunder). I can relate.