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airex:
Fish head... Take corrections whenever you're corrected..

BlueAir:
Im not the one to talk about what I have even with money,are Nigerian women any better? And rigid people like u with little or no sense of positive change are the reason Nigerian political mess remains the way it is! Your wacky socio-marital mentality preceeds you! >

BlueAir:
Im not the one to talk about what I have even with money,are Nigerian women any better? And rigid people like u with little or no sense of positive change are the reason Nigerian political mess remains the way it is! Your wacky socio-marital mentality preceeds you! >

BlueAir:
Who are you deceiving or defending here? The problem is with the average Nigerian money entitlement mentality and it's Ridgid men like uthat makes it worse! Are their mates in the US not supporting their men financially and maritally without making a social mess? And I wasn't against your realistic opinion oga. I was buttering it.

BlueAir:
Just imagine. And some half wits, are talking of taking the crap

sacajawea:
Are you married to a women older than you? Not like sugar mummy or Way older, but like your wife collect 3, 4, 5 years for your hand Lol.
I know two or three acquaintances like that.
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Freestainworld:
Guys let's hear your opinion, from the story Bellow.


My name is Chidi-ebere Lewis, I have an issue on my mind which I really need your opinions and not insults. I am a teacher in one of the private schools in my area in Isefun and my wife is a Secretary/PA in a big company and her salary a month is like four times what I receive. We have a daughter of two years old and on the day of her second birthday my wife and I decided to throw her a birthday party because on her first birthday we didn’t do much, we just marked the birthday with family members only since I was not buoyant enough to throw an elaborate party for her so for some weeks my wife was very angry with me and when the issue got to my mum she was furious that she was inconsiderate and heartless.

Now the 2nd birthday was at the corner so she began the preparation without my knowledge, buying things for the celebration and keeping them in her friend’s place. Later, she came and told me our child’s birthday was just a week away what was the plan. In response, I said you know, I haven’t been paid for two months now and you have been given me transport to go to work, so, what is on your mind. She gave me a paper with a list of items needed for the party summing up to N105,000 approximately; I was alarmed. ‘Are we throwing a party for the whole community or what, where do you want me to get such an amount from?’ I yelled at her. That’s how trouble started again? I spoke to her mum about it who told her to cut her coat according to her cloth; likewise my mum was.

Unknown to me, some of the things she bought were on credit from her friend who owns a super-market in our area. After the party, some weeks later, her friend, the owner of the super-market, came to the house on a Sunday evening to ask for her money and my mum came to visit us that same day. As we were seeing my mum off, we met her friend coming in from the gate. She started shouting that we have been avoiding her and that we were not coming to her shop to buy things since then. She also said she has seen my wife go to other shops to buy. I was lost in words and I advised her to calm down so that we could talk. We all went back inside the house to listen to her. She narrated to us the whole story and I asked my wife if what she was saying was true and to my greatest surprise she confirmed. In anger, my mum stood up and slapped her and immediately she slapped my mum back and I was so disappointed with her to the extent that I threw all her belongings out and told her to leave my house without touching her. This led to me filing for divorce, ever since the incidence, I have not had peace of mind because I miss my family but if you were in my shoes; what would you do?

DuBLINGreenb:
Useless name for a beverage especially wine

Congratulations but rename it

Mide3367:
Marriage in this century is scam. Marriage as lost its relevance. In shot no man should marry because it doesn't favour men. It is Virgina people's retirement package after they might have bleeped all the dick they can at their whoring stage of their lives (15-25) then they will realise that ha no more time o. Then they will become committed to a stupid simp who will feel like wow she loves me blah blah and then marry an old cargo. Mainwhile she is already an evening newspaper age 28 years to 35 years and while she was 20 years to 25 years, she believes that she doesn't need any man in her life as she is getting attention here and there by stupid betas who think with their dick only. After is has married the man, then she will start comparing the man other room skills to the men that has bleeped in the past and still cheat on the man because he can't satisfy her. Sh starts hoarding sex from him and uses it as a bargaining chip. One day she will wake up and say she can't continue to cook, wash etc. Baby let's take an house maid. Then you will lik why did I marry you then? She will say you don't love me. He will get her the maid and she won't get to cook anymore or do other house chores. Then she nags like say tomorrow no dey. One day the man will like I will open shop for you so you can be selling provisions and so on. What will you contribute to the family. She will like your money is our money and mine is mine. You are the Head of the family so you don't expect me to bring money. Chai men don suffer. One day the kids will come and meet mom please teach me this. She will push the children to the man. Imagine. What about poisoning her children's mind that their dad is useless he doesn't love the family. Marriage is not for men because it cages men. Baby mama is the best or MGTOW. Men dey your lane but if u must marry, just don't expect much at all. For further references and to read more. Visit thread like https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

EFULEFU1:
I requested for my cruch's pictures on WhatsApp today and she said. I also send her mine
And we both did

Is that a major sign of interest?

realman42:
Instead of u pipul to be thinking of the next greatest invention to help mankind and the best codes ever written by man u pipul r here discussing useless things...e.g girls r golddiggers,boys r stupid,men r goats,women r fools.
Who d Bleep do these things help?!!
Start using ur brains for better things rather Dan dumb shits!!

Cetacean419:
I am married bro just chill. A couple will not start complaining about financial issues and all you do is prayer?

Cetacean419:
I was in church on Sunday and I heard a sister had a huge quarrel with her husband. She is always having issues with her husband. What I heard the Pastor said was annoying. He said that he counselled them and they need "prayers".
I said to myself"Prayers" ? What has the prayer done? and what sort of counsel?
"Mr James listen to your wife and provide for the family. Mrs James stop pestering him about money all the time".
Most Pastors don't know how to handle couples. They just quote Bible verses to convince couples but it doesn't work all the time.
They need to handle Members as patient in dire need of both Physical,Psychological,Spiritual and Financial assistance not people. NOT ONLY SPIRITUAL.

southniyikaye:
Wetin makeup, curve and hips go cause for men hennn..
Toolz without mKeup looking like wetin dem take dey advertise poverty alleviation...

Happy birthday boy

kenzysmith:
sir na

AlexBells:
I'm Igbo, I feel and see what you feel, I'm just telling them that all the policies had given us a new push, but it too late even if they revert to regional government now, Igbos had infiltrated all the regions again but if they installed a regional government after the war, it could have been harder for we Igbos given that, we could have found it hard to rebuild the economy with 20 pounds for every one with a bank account but instead Igbos withdrew the 20 pounds used it to for transport fair to other regions, I dont think you exactly need to insult me if you understood me

AlexBells:
You are resorting to insult, which I don't really condone, if you want us to talk as Igbos then we talk first you accused me of not being Igbo, now you are talking another thing, Abu means song in Igbo, Abu m could mean my song Abum means I am, words like Anam so if you want to write Anam aga olu, So you would write as Ana m aga olu, again Igbo language is written as it sound, nobody has the sole singularity of producing central Igbo (Igbo Izugbe) most Igboids have their words in Izugbe

AlexBells:
Igbo dictionary written by who, do you know the meaning of native speaker,

AlexBells:
Lol bro you are trying but your writing Igbo is not natural,
First let me assume you want to write I bu onye Asi, Nnem si na Abum onye Igbo

You sef read my sentence and yours and see the difference, I still appreciate the fact you can write Igbo at all

AlexBells:
Lol bro you are trying but your writing Igbo is not natural,
First let me assume you want to write I bu onye Asi, Nnem si na Abum onye Igbo

You sef read my sentence and yours and see the difference, I still appreciate the fact you can write Igbo at all

AlexBells:
Lol, who is teaching you Igbo sef, I understand if you can't write Igbo, I won't even judge you but "Abum" is a word on it's own just like "Abulom" what is "Abu" in Igbo, so if you want to write "Chim" you will write "Chi m" so when you want to write "Chimaobim" you break it, lol

AlexBells:
Me Northerner, I'm a full blooded Igbo, abum nwafo

pansophist:
Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes all, congrats. You got yourself a queen.

SatisfyOG:
Considering the current rate of unemployment in the country. Can one find a purpose with MSC degree?

ttobizz:
This scrap for 1.1m
Ac needs gas indeed, with 3k you can fill gas, so please fill the gas yourself before you sell oga.

Donspicey:
Could dis be my child

josh8060:
Any solution?

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