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Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Launches Lagos Ride Taxi Scheme, Lists Features by spice123(m): 7:39am On Mar 24, 2022
Lanrelagboi:
UPDATE: Governor of Lagos State, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu @jidesanwoolu today officially launched the 1000 @gacmotorcig GS3 and GA4 Sport Utility Lagos Rides Vehicles with the @LagosRide Taxi Scheme.

This is in fulfillment of Mr. Governor’s announcement in March 2021, at the unveiling of the new e-hailing taxi scheme to complement the multi-modal transport network being developed in Lagos State.

An installation of security embedded dashboard cameras in each car for real-time activities monitoring with panic button connected to a control command centre that can be used by either parties inside the car in case of assault or emergency.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AOrmb7bRVE
 



#LagosRide is here … Download the App Now … ��

As at March 22, 2022:

- 5,706 drivers download on the “Drivers App Download”

- 1,786 applications already submitted by drivers

- Registration and Enrolment Fee already accepted from 359 drivers with others awaiting screening.


The process that each operator will go through for the safety and security of life  and effective operations include:
I. Verification of LASDRI ID (where available, if not Lagos Ride as partner facilitates procurement of one with LASDRI)

II. Medical history check
III. Security check
IV. Verification of LASSRA (where available, if not Lagos Ride as partner facilitates procurement of one with LASSRA)
V. NIN verification
VI. Driver’s license verification
The money used in purchasing these vehicles would have been used to build alternate routes to decongest traffic in Lagos. At least the 4th mainland bridge.
Typical Blackman mentality
Family / Re: . by spice123(m): 1:18pm On Mar 17, 2022
Gloriagee:
Awon goldigger ti de.

I am a married man and a relationship counselor. I am bigger than this so I wouldn't blame you.
Family / Re: . by spice123(m): 5:56am On Mar 17, 2022
thatthickgurl:
I was a perfect and dutiful girlfriend.

Spent all my savings on him when he was earning higher. I made him feel comfortable with me, I never requested a penny , so he doesn't think I'm materialistic

Lol. I'm such a fool
I sent you an email. Let's talk or you can chat me on 08063064569.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Never Look Down On Menial Jobs by spice123(m): 7:56pm On Mar 14, 2022
[quote author=cooltola post=111036601]A job is a job as long it is legal and honest, it should be considered a worthy job. Most of these manual jobs e,g carpentry are big outside Nigeria [/quote
It is called Menial jobs and not Manual jobs.

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Politics / Re: Is RCCG Truly Coming Into Politics For Osinbajo 2023? by spice123(m): 8:35am On Mar 11, 2022
Odin13:
Everything Yoruba is always different... from Yoruba Muslim now to yoruba Christians

Jesus run politics? As Christians are meant to be Christlike

He told them to give ceaser and give God

Told them to respect authority and obey government

Never mentioned anything about politics..

But Yoruba ..

Them Dey practice religion according to what suit their narratives.

Church wan go into politics.. Yoruba people dey support am say nothing is wrong grin

And Na dem go church and read bible pass

No wonder Fulani man no go ever visit Yoruba mosque .

Yoruba and religion.. Na who know no..
You forget what the Holy book says in Proverbs 29:2
Family / Re: Children Of Today Don't Even Know That In Our Days You Could Be Beaten by spice123(m): 7:33am On Mar 11, 2022
Rubyjade:
CHILDREN OF TODAY DON'T EVEN KNOW THAT IN OUR DAYS YOU COULD BE BEATEN FOR ANY OF THE FOLLOWING REASONS:

1. Crying too long after being beaten
2. Not crying after being beaten
3. Crying without being beaten
4. Standing where elders are sitting
5. Sitting while elders are standing
6. Walking around aimlessly where elders are seated
7. Eating food prepared for visitors
8. Refusing to eat
9. Coming back home after sunset
10. Eating at the neighbour's home
11. Generally being too moody
12. Generally being too excited
13. Losing a fight with older age mate
14. Winning a fight with your age mate
15. Eating too slowly
16. Eating too quickly
17. Eating too much
18. Not finishing your food
19. Finishing your food and scraping your plate
20. Eating and talking
21. Sleeping while the elders in the house have already woken up
22. Looking at the visitors while they are eating
23. Stumbling and falling when walking
24. Looking at an elder eye ball to eye ball
25. When an elder is talking to you and you blink
26. When an elder is talking to you and you stare and not blink
27. When you look at an elder through the corner of your eye
28. When your mates are playing street football and you join them
29. When your mates are playing and you don’t join them
30. When you don't wash your dish after eating
31. When you wash your dish improperly
32. When you almost break your dish
33. When you break your dish
34. When you bite your nails.
34.. When you don't bath�.
35. When you bath�too quickly
36. When you take too long to bath�.
37. When you’re beaten in school for misbehaving
38. When a car almost knocks you down
39. When a car knocks you down and you don’t die!
40. For not answering when spoken to
41. For answering back when spoken to.
42 Beaten for going to Church or Mosque late.
43 Beaten for borrowing shoe/wears from friends.

Some of these reasons for beating a child may appear far-fetched today but they sure did happen and they were the norm that shaped the adults of today.

Kudos to African parents. We, the generation you almost killed with beating say ....
THANK YOU
������

And if you were beaten because of any 3 of the above, please gather here for" *Survival & Thanksgiving* ��

Elders please arise and help this generation, they need us to guide them, start from your own end fast, things are gradually degenerating.
*Our culture must not die!!*
There is absolutely nothing to celebrate here other than psychological damage done to kids from 70's down wards. Check the rate and statistics of rape cases and ritualists and kidnappers. The ages of this men are from the 1970's downward. A lot of marital violence against women are also very high. If you take a closer look, mum will beat us out of frustration that she is receiving from dad or out of lack of money. Majority of us here we're beaten for no reason.

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Family / Re: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old Son? by spice123(m): 7:30am On Mar 09, 2022
Teettyllayho:

Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.

Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.

My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.

But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).

These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.

Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .

I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.

Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.

So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!

I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.

"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.

I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?

I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?

Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).

I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.

We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.

Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.

I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.

I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:

"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"

I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.

Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips?
Honestly, I'm tired!


Madam I am a teacher and also a parent. I also have a 7 year old son. Believee when I say that our upbringing and this 21st century upbringing are not the same. Children of nowadays are outspoken, easily influenced, need more attention and emphasis on behaviour. You need to do the following:
1. Be more friendly to your son to the extent that he can tell you anything. As it is, that boy can hide secrets because of the way you're handling him
2. Be responsible to check his school bag and lunch box before bringing him back from school except he is on a school bus. Children will always be children until he is up to 18 years before you consider him as an adult.
3. Always pray for your child and bless him. Do it in his presence. This is one of my secrets as a parent. A lot go on in schools and even in your child's life.
God bless you.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: * by spice123(m): 8:27am On Mar 05, 2022
To clear all doubts, please follow wakawaka doctor on Instagram or YouTube. There is a video on YouTube he shared about this teaching thing in Japan bringing up a Nigerian lady who is currently a teacher in Japan with zero experience earning big. I believe the op 100%

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Religion / Re: An Important Bible Verse Most Pastors Don't Teach In Their Churches by spice123(m): 2:29pm On Feb 27, 2022
Passionnn:

I totally understand your explanation. But, don't you think it's too shallow? Evidence abound regarding the commercialisation of the church today. Besides churches engaging in business ventures, there is high emphasis laid on financial donations to the church as a precondition for receiving God's blessings.
Pastors often preach conflicting sermons in a bid to make members donate more. Sometimes, what you see in churches is disgusting. How it worships those with money and look down on the poor greatly contradicts how Jesus commended a poor widow's offering. I attended a church service where the pastor told the congregation that you can't give one hundred naira offering and expect a blessing of one million naira.
Your last sentence is 100% correct. I know that giving is a personal understanding but let's look at it logically forget scriptures. Can N100 feed you comfortably for a day? When people give to the church/pastor they think it is magic to reap millions. You cannot plant a tuber of yam and expect to reap a barn of yams. This is simple logic. In a church for instance, the seat you sat did it appear by magic? the ceiling fan or AC in the church did it appear by magic? The titled floor you kept your feet did it appear by magic? The sound system on which you were able to hear the pastor, did it also appear by magic? People like you and I made it happen so you feel comfortable in the house of God. If you think pastors are not doing a good job, please open your own ministry and make a difference.
Religion / Re: An Important Bible Verse Most Pastors Don't Teach In Their Churches by spice123(m): 11:05am On Feb 27, 2022
Passionnn:
Matthew 21:12-13 NKJV
[12]Then Jesus went into the temple of God and drove out all those who bought and sold in the temple, and overturned the tables of the money changers and the seats of those who sold doves.
[13]And He said to them, “It is written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you have made it a ‘den of thieves.’ ”

Irrespective of how you may interpret this to suit your craving for materialistic earnings, it is clear that the emphasis of the gospel as preached by our master and saviour, Jesus Christ,never laid emphasis on earthly possession as reward for our service to God.
While it requires christians to give willingly for the promotion of the gospel, it was nevertheless not a guarantee to acquiring everlasting life.
Galatians 5:22, 23 listed the fruits of the Holy Spirit required of every believer.
Consequently, most materialistic preachers have completely ignored the verses quoted earlier as well as similar verses which teaches that the love of money is the root of all evil.
Every christian ought to read his bible to hear the voice of God directly and not over- relying on the twisted interpretations given by business men masquerading as men of God
You didn't understand what you quoted and shared. Verse 12 says "those who bought and sold in the temple". Now, how many churches have you seen buying and selling in the house of God? I mean inside the church. The bible never said those who bought and sold outside the temple.
Kindly read with understanding before you conclude.
Religion / Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by spice123(m): 9:28pm On Feb 20, 2022
LollySeaSide:

No. Apostle Paul wasn't talking about prophecy or speaking in tongues.
See how the Good News Bible puts it:

1 Corinthians 14:34
[34]the women should keep quiet in the meetings. They are not allowed to speak; as the Jewish Law says, they must not be in charge.

Now, you must know that the Bible is very unique in its contents.
If you are a Bible scholar, you should know that there were women who did great in leadership positions.
Deborah - Judges 5
Miriam - Exo. 15, Micah 6
Huldah - 2 Kings 22
Prescilla - Acts 18.
Esther - the whole book of Esther.
These are just few examples.
What then is the basis of Paul's command that women should not be allowed to speak in the church?
As far as I am concerned, those things written in the Epistles are more of advices than commands.
I am a bible scholar. Please read from 1 Corinthians 14 verse 1-34 and digest it. You see we are quick to quote verses of the bible but we fail to read on the event that presided that particular verse.

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Religion / Re: Church/pastors Closing Late almost all the time, How Do U Feel? by spice123(m): 9:22pm On Feb 20, 2022
Truvelisback:
U sound like an illiterate, even though u may think ur comment is sensible. I do not create this post because of me alone but for others as well who can relate. By the way, were u expecting me to approach the head pastor and tell him his sermon is too long and boring? Or he closes too late? It would look like a disrespect for me to do so. It's just like telling ur Boss that u are taking time too much in this meeting. How would u feel, if u are the Boss? My second reason of creating this thread is so that other pastors would learn and know the importance of time management.
It honestly baffles me too that he doesn't read posts before commenting. Totally childish.
Religion / Re: Church/pastors Closing Late almost all the time, How Do U Feel? by spice123(m): 8:58pm On Feb 20, 2022
Truvelisback:
How has my comment made me an hypocrite? I think u are the hypocrite. It's people like u that likes hiding their pains, anger with a smile instead of expressing ur feelings.
You're on point.
Religion / Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by spice123(m): 5:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:

The same verse 34 contains the word submission. What does submission mean here? Does submission mean a woman should be in charge of the congregation when there is a man in the congregation? And does your explanation of the verse mean that only men are biblically allowed to speak in tongues? How does verse 35 prove me wrong?

We are not quarreling. But you need to prove how I carved out that verse to suit myself. [b]At first, you said my comment is pointless and that I should better keep quiet. [/b]Now, you have said I skipped verse 35 to suit myself. Please, explain the submission in verse 34 and explain verse 35 to justify your claims about me.
Kindly show me where I typed the bolded in my comment.

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Religion / Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by spice123(m): 4:23pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines does not permit women (Reverend sisters) to lead the church.
You didn't study that chapter of 1 Corinthians 14 properly before concluding. Apostle Paul was talking about prophecy and speaking in tongues. You only carved that portion in verse 34 to suit yourself. Kindly go back to your Bible and read with understanding.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by spice123(m): 10:07am On Feb 14, 2022
A reputable school in Victoria Island is recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Front Desk Officer

Location: Lagos

Job Brief
• We are looking for a pleasant Front Desk Officer to undertake all receptionist and clerical duties at the desk of our main entrance. You will be the “face” of the organisation for all visitors and will be responsible for the first impression we make.
• The ideal candidate will have a friendly and easy going personality while also being very perceptive and disciplined. You should be able to deal with complaints and give accurate information. A customer-oriented approach is essential.
• The goal is to make guests and visitors feel comfortable and valued while on our premises.

Responsibilities
• Keep front desk tidy and presentable with all necessary material (pens, forms, paper etc.)
• Greet and welcome guests
• Answer questions and address complaints
• In charge of receiving, screening, redirecting and making official telephone calls
• Receiving and directing students / parents / visitors to appropriate departments after conducting preliminary interviews.
• To maintain the record of the entries in the premises
• To communicate with authorities during emergency situations.
• Confirming delivered and outgoing correspondence
• Telephone enquiries on admission and other aspects of the school
• Make appointments between school officials and parents or visitors
• Update staff and students’ contact lists in conjunction with the Admissions office and HR
• Receive letters, packages etc. and distribute them
• Take up other duties as assigned

Requirements
• Any relevant Degree and additional qualifications will be an added advantage
• Proven experience as Front Desk representative, agent or relevant position
• Knowledge of office management and basic record keeping
• Proficient in English (oral and written)
• Excellent knowledge of MS Office (especially Excel and Word)
• Strong communication and people skills
• Good organizational and multi-tasking abilities
• Problem-solving skills
• Customer service orientation.

Application Closing Date
16th February, 2022.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV's to: admin@buttercups.com.ng then copy to info@buttercups.com.ng
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by spice123(m): 10:05am On Feb 14, 2022
A reputable school in Victoria Island is recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Front Desk Officer

Location: Lagos

Job Brief
• We are looking for a pleasant Front Desk Officer to undertake all receptionist and clerical duties at the desk of our main entrance. You will be the “face” of the organisation for all visitors and will be responsible for the first impression we make.
• The ideal candidate will have a friendly and easy going personality while also being very perceptive and disciplined. You should be able to deal with complaints and give accurate information. A customer-oriented approach is essential.
• The goal is to make guests and visitors feel comfortable and valued while on our premises.
Responsibilities
• Keep front desk tidy and presentable with all necessary material (pens, forms, paper etc.)
• Greet and welcome guests
• Answer questions and address complaints
• In charge of receiving, screening, redirecting and making official telephone calls
• Receiving and directing students / parents / visitors to appropriate departments after conducting preliminary interviews.
• To maintain the record of the entries in the premises
• To communicate with authorities during emergency situations.
• Confirming delivered and outgoing correspondence
• Telephone enquiries on admission and other aspects of the school
• Make appointments between school officials and parents or visitors
• Update staff and students’ contact lists in conjunction with the Admissions office and HR
• Receive letters, packages etc. and distribute them
• Take up other duties as assigned
Requirements
• Any relevant Degree and additional qualifications will be an added advantage
• Proven experience as Front Desk representative, agent or relevant position
• Knowledge of office management and basic record keeping
• Proficient in English (oral and written)
• Excellent knowledge of MS Office (especially Excel and Word)
• Strong communication and people skills
• Good organizational and multi-tasking abilities
• Problem-solving skills
• Customer service orientation.

Application Closing Date
16th February, 2022.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV's to: admin@buttercups.com.ng then copy to info@buttercups.com.ng
Family / Re: Who Takes Over The Schooling Responsibilities When A Lady Student Gets Married? by spice123(m): 2:35pm On Feb 10, 2022
Iyaebe:
Please I would love to get a sincere and unbiased response from this question. Please who takes over the academic responsibilities(school fees,pocket money and others) when a lady still schooling decides to get married, is it the husband or the parents are to continue their responsibilities till she graduates?
This is why I always counsel young people that Marriage is not for children. It is for matured individuals in mind. When you say you want to marry a woman, It simply means: "I want all your problems, pains, struggles, sickness, failures and the likes". It also means "I want to compliment your flaws and make you a better person either physically, financially or otherwise".
I mean no disrespect OP but this is a USELESS POST

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Romance / Re: I Have 5 Girlfriends And None Is Marriageable by spice123(m): 6:53pm On Feb 02, 2022
Iamrespected1:
First is an area tout,if I put her for house me and she fit dy fight everyday
Second is very educated and dull as well,she can't seem to make decisions or even help in making decisions as well
Third can nag for Africa,always saying things I do or say wrong and never willing to help even in the most tiny of things
Fourth mind is very deep,she seem like someone that can hold a grudge even after apologizing and acting like all is cool,she be like person wey fit kill person for sleep
Last na coded olosho,truth is that na she dy satisfy me best in the other room but can she leave her olosho?
Op truth is: you are what you attract. The ladies are only reflecting you.

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Computers / Re: How Can Change I Change My Laptop From Chinese Language To English by spice123(m): 2:12pm On Feb 02, 2022
Changing the system language to English requires Windows 7 Ultimate. If you don't have Ultimate you can buy an Anytime Upgrade to Ultimate - more info below.




Install complete language with a Language Pack (LP) - MUI

Language Packs (or MUI - Multilingual User Interface) - Language packs provide a translated version of Windows dialog boxes, menu items, and help content. Switching to certain languages with a Language Pack, such as English, Spanish, French, German, Chinese, and others, requires your computer to be running Windows 7 Ultimate. You can download any of the available language packs by using Windows Update. If you don't have Ultimate you can do an Anytime Upgrade to Ultimate.

http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=125894


Anytime Upgrade to Windows 7 Ultimate

Type Anytime Upgrade in the Search programs and files box in the Start menu and click on the Windows Anytime Upgrade icon. From there, you can buy an Anytime Upgrade to Windows 7 Ultimate. Then your can enter your Anytime Upgrade product key and perform a simple upgrade to Windows 7 Ultimate so you can install a different language. All programs and files will stay on the computer. If you're unable to buy online in your area a local store may sell Anytime Upgrades, or you can buy the version of Windows 7 you want.

http://windows.microsoft.com/en-us/windows7/products/windows-anytime-upgrade


Install New Multilingual User Interface (MUI) in Windows 7 Ultimate:

1. Click Start and type Windows Update in the Search box.

2. Click Windows Update in the Programs list.

3. Click Optional Updates and go to the section Windows 7 Language Packs.

Note: If the optional update link can't be found, click Check online for updates from Microsoft Update to search the optional updates.

4. Check the Language Pack you want and click OK.

5. Proceed with Install Updates.


How to change the Windows 7 Display Language:

1. Go to Start -> Control Panel -> Clock, Language, and Region / Change the display language

2. Switch the display language in the Choose a display language drop down menu.

3. Click OK

4. Restart for the changes to take effect (this will affect only the user profile under which you are currently logged on).

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Family / Re: My Marriage Is On The Verge Of Crashing. by spice123(m): 6:44pm On Jan 20, 2022
The main issue from both the old thread op posted and this one is:
1. Op has not told the whole truth here on why a married wife is starving her husband sex.
2. Op would've found out what is borthering his wife emotionally not acting from his d**k.
3. If your wife is just starving you sex for no reason, then she is getting it from someone. It's that simple.

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Health / Re: Hi by spice123(m): 5:32pm On Jan 17, 2022
Stop taking peppery food una no go gree. Peppered stew, peppered chicken, peppered ogi, very soon na peppered bread and peppered drink.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by spice123(m): 6:35am On Jan 08, 2022
Hello house,

Please can anyone help me with the National curriculum for computing pdf version.

My email is: ehirim.kingsley@yahoo.com.

Thanks in anticipation.
Business / Re: Lagos Dangote Refinery Gearing Up To Open - Lightshow by spice123(m): 6:47am On Dec 29, 2021
funshint:
Now let the soot begin grin
Lagos go hear am as P.H
Family / Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by spice123(m): 6:03pm On Dec 28, 2021
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it bact to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.
Women are wired differently from men.
Pregnancy is not an easy thing to bear my brother so you have cut her some slack. Remember it's her first pregnancy so try and pet her. As soon as she put to bed and weans the child after 3-5 months, sit her down and iron things out with her. Share the house bills with her such that if she refuses to contribute from the shop, the house will suffer. It can be electricity bill or gas bill. Make her understand that she has to take care of you as her husband by making your meals and cleaning the house otherwise, you employ someone who will do it and she pays the bill for it. She can't eat her cake and have it. That is marriage.

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Agriculture / Re: My Goat Gave Birth To Two Kids. A Male And A Female. by spice123(m): 3:05pm On Dec 24, 2021
Op when is the naming ceremony?
Properties / Re: Supreme Court Judgment: Panic, As Shangisha Landlords Take Over Highbrow Magodo by spice123(m): 5:43am On Dec 23, 2021
afroniger:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/supreme-court-judgment-panic-as-shangisha-landlords-take-over-highbrow-magodo/
This one of the reasons why I will never invest in Lagos state. Demolitions here and there. At the end, Igbos get affected the most.
Education / Re: The Funniest Nickname You Gave A Teacher Back In Secondary School. by spice123(m): 5:38am On Dec 23, 2021
We named our C.R.K teacher Nebucadnezzer simply because he has all the qualities of the man and always talked about him.

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Family / Re: Am I Overthinking This Or I Really Have A Bad Wife by spice123(m): 6:06am On Dec 10, 2021
Mille:
On what caused the resentment.

I'm sure you all remembered when MTN network was down until the next day. Well, that day I and my daughter went to bed hungry. It was the first time in my 28 years I have ever gone to bed without eating dinner.

I receive my pay in my dorm account in USD. So I have a BDC guy who I transfer dollar to whenever I need cash. I didn't know MTN will fumble that day because I splurged all my Naira earlier that day. Evening came, MTN was down. I couldn't get across to BDC and it was already too late to go to bank to withdraw. I saw this woman's bank balance that same evening but she lied she didn't have any cash. I didn't challenge her and she chose to allow everyone sleep hungry that night including our baby. Don't even ask about breast milk because the whole night, all I was hearing was her whining that she hasn't eaten and the baby shouldn't disturb her with cries for breastfeeding.

The next morning by 7AM, I was able to get across to my BDC guy and exchanged the cash. That was the first time I have ever confronted her and I lambasted her that morning.

Still it is the same. When I have to pay PHCN bills, she'll rather have us sleep in darkness if my bank has network issues than use her own account.

Now the funny thing is, she will never go out without buying something on her way for me. So I'm a bit confused and resentful.

You're going through this simply because you were blinded by love not to discuss crucial things before you guys settled down.
I have always advised young men and women who want to get married to discuss bills.... NEPA, Waste management, gas, water, house rent, school fees, lesson fee for kids and so on. Bills are very important for married couples. Mr OP, get your wife a business, wait after 6 months for her to settle in the business then you sit her down and discuss bills who should pay what every month. For example: if you give her NEPA bill and she pretends not to have money, don't buy fuel for generator let her pay the bill or use her money to buy fuel.
Family / Re: Am I Overthinking This Or I Really Have A Bad Wife by spice123(m): 6:06am On Dec 10, 2021
Mille:
On what caused the resentment.

I'm sure you all remembered when MTN network was down until the next day. Well, that day I and my daughter went to bed hungry. It was the first time in my 28 years I have ever gone to bed without eating dinner.

I receive my pay in my dorm account in USD. So I have a BDC guy who I transfer dollar to whenever I need cash. I didn't know MTN will fumble that day because I splurged all my Naira earlier that day. Evening came, MTN was down. I couldn't get across to BDC and it was already too late to go to bank to withdraw. I saw this woman's bank balance that same evening but she lied she didn't have any cash. I didn't challenge her and she chose to allow everyone sleep hungry that night including our baby. Don't even ask about breast milk because the whole night, all I was hearing was her whining that she hasn't eaten and the baby shouldn't disturb her with cries for breastfeeding.

The next morning by 7AM, I was able to get across to my BDC guy and exchanged the cash. That was the first time I have ever confronted her and I lambasted her that morning.

Still it is the same. When I have to pay PHCN bills, she'll rather have us sleep in darkness if my bank has network issues than use her own account.

Now the funny thing is, she will never go out without buying something on her way for me. So I'm a bit confused and resentful.
You're going through this simply because you were blinded by love not to discuss crucial things before you guys settled down.
I have always advised young men and women who want to get married to discuss bills.... NEPA, Waste management, gas, water, house rent, school fees, lesson fee for kids and so on. Bills are very important for married couples. Mr OP, get your wife a business, wait after 6 months for her to settle in the business then you sit her down and discuss bills who should pay what every month. For example: if you give her NEPA bill and she pretends not to have money, don't buy fuel for generator let her pay the bill or use her money to buy fuel.
Autos / Re: SOLD by spice123(m): 6:22am On Nov 24, 2021
nymphomaniac:
Personally Used as my first car - it was abused before I purchased it so I did lots of fixing particularly stated in number 2 below. REASON FOR SALE - UPGRADE!
1. Manual Transmission + Power windows
2. All engine issues fixed - engine was replaced and is perfect.
3. AC will need gas or so they say. It doesn’t cool.
4. Will need body work. It is first body though. I didn’t do the body work intentionally. Fabric seats are clean. I just covered with a car seat cover to ensure cleanliness
5. Surulere.
6. Papers intact and to expire next year.
7. Available in Surulere Lagos for 500k or best offer.

Call or whatsapp 08163388585.
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Religion / Re: Remove Tithe And Offering From The Church, What Do You Think Would Happen? by spice123(m): 6:38pm On Nov 12, 2021
philiancoop:
Why remove it?

Remove food from your life let's see what happens.... You fit live?

Remove tax and natural resources revenue from government let's see what happens... Will police, army and social amenities work?

Remove school fees from schools... School go exist?

Remove pocket money and providing for feeding money from fathers and husbands... Will women marry?

Such a foolish question though
I concur

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